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I recently learned my boyfriend of 3 years has an okcupid account, which he previously told me he deleted. For about a month last fall he was talking to a girl he met on okcupid and had been lying to me about it; told me multiple times he wasn't speaking to her because I requested it. He finally admitted to it but maintained that it was fully platonic. He let me read some of the texts, many if which upset me greatly, i.e. texts calling her "babydoll" and saying "your smiles make my day". I broke up with him and moved out. He spent the night pursuing me and apologizing and I did take him back (I know.) Now, I saw the other day that the app was on the phone and asked what was going on. He told me he reenabled it one day during a fight and didn't use it since. He confessed to messaging two girls, unromantically, about pets. I asked him to promise if that was all and he promised it was. I asked him to delete it and he said he would. Now, two weeks later, I ask if it's deleted while laying in bed last night. He says it's not yet. I then feel aware of a suspicion I haven't been able to shake and say I know he messaged more than two girls. He confirms this. I'm crying feeling horrible and ask if I can read the messages. He says no but that they're fine because he wasn't misbehaving. I start packing my stuff even though we live together and I have nowhere to go. When he falls asleep, I check it on his phone and see its automatically logged in. I need advice
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I'm not perfect but I do get attention from men and I don't take them up on it just because it's there. I'm working, in school, I cook, do basically anything he wants sex-wise. I feel like he's crushed my self esteem to a point where I can take infinite abuse from him and there are no boundaries because it's "his" apartment, car, pets, etc., technically.
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guy next door refused to help me, the next one aswell. What should I do? I'm serious guys.
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Wait till they leave, pull up your pants but not too far up, also leave your underwear as loose as possible but not so loose that it bunches up and touches your ass. Then carefully walk into the next stall and wipe, simple.
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>>17160899
its in mall centre, restroom is full of people all the time, I'm waiting about 10 minutes now
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>>17160899
Okay I re-read your post and now I'm confused, I assumed you were in public.
If you are at home, you have the option of kitchen roll, or any form of paper you can find, but really the best option is to get into the shower and spray the living hell out of your ass and make sure to wash your legs off properly.
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Hey adv,
24/f here.
To begin, I am NOT attracted to children physically.
Now that I got that out of the way, two of my biggest fetishes are age gap and incest. Although I do enjoy watching porn, I like reading erotica as well. But in the erotica, I quite often read about older guys raping and taking advantage of toddlers and children of nearly all ages.
Am I still considered a pedo?
Would you be creeped out as a potential boyfriend or friend if you found the material I read?
How do I stop orgasming to this? I feel a lot of shame after. Especially when the stories involve babies.
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>>17160820
So you imagine yourself to be the kid? That's kind of hot and can lead to interesting roleplay.
I wouldn't worry about it.
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>>17160827
Eh. Maybe I do. I like ageplay to an extent. And I like pretending I'm innocent as in "daddy did you leave a hard remote on your lap before I sat on it? I feel something rubbing against me"
I try not to worry, but once I have to close all of my tabs after orgasm, I feel so guilty.
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You should keep that for yourself.
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What can be a cause of pain in the lower right hand side of your abdominal?
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>>17160817
Apendix or congratulations your eggs are dropping!
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>>17160817
Almost always Apendix.
Go to the hospital. NOW. That stuff kills you when untreated.
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>>17160819
I'm a man.
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I'm insured as the second driver on the car I drive, but I'll be moving to a city that's 4 hours away soon.
What do I have to do or update exactly if I'm going to move?
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Nothing. Just keep quiet, don't change your license address, and call it good.
assuming you're under 25. otherwise, just get that shit in your name, and your own account.
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>>17160806
OK, it's just I read if I got into an accident and they found out I'm the only one driving I'd be up for criminal charges, so I should just get the car on my own account when I hit 25?
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>>17160836
Yeah. Until then, just lie. "oh, my dad drives it once in awhile, too! I was just borrowing it for this out of town trip" yadda yadda yadda
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Has your ex ever come back after no contact? 2016-05-19 14:06:11 Post No.17160777
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Has your ex ever come back after no contact?
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>dated for 3 years
>knew her for 7
>Huge argument and we broke up. It wasn't a gradual break up, more like a giant explosion of anger
>Tried winning her back for a week
>Went NC
>Been two months, thought I'd talk to her but she has a new guy now
Idk, I kinda want her back but she jumped into a new relationship instead of working on herself. I've kinda lost respect for her.
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I found out 2 months ago that this girl i've been dating with a year slept with a former best friend 4 times
we opened up about everything, about our feelings, how things played out, etc.. leaving no stone left unturned.
dumped this girl have since and then tried to move on and had sex with 3 women multiple times off of okcupid. still currently seeing one...
anyways this girl still wants to date me and is begging me to stay. she bawls and had initially even attempted self harm (ate 30 klonpins). she's leveled out though and is in treatment.
saying i still don't have feelings for her would be a straight up lie. but my anger and resentment outweigh those.
what are your guy's general feelings on getting back with a cheating partner/ex??
would getting back with a cheating ex later after going ones separate way still make you a 'cuck'?
i've come along way but still feel angry and humiliated still.
just trying to get a general sense for personal reflection. ultimately i see no hope in this..
any experience here with cheating?
anyone take back a cheating ex??
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>>17160777
ignore her man. she doesn't sound as invested in you as you are.
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She doesn't owe you anything.
You left it 2 months to sort out? lol
Asking 4chan how to run my personal bysness is gonna kill me.
>be me
>known 9/10 girl for 14something years
>grade school poptarts n' chill
>bitch gets certified to go to int. nerd school with me because she's afraid she'll never see me again
>high school n' chill
>bitch goes to same college as me
>I fall fucking hopelessly in love
>She falls fucking hopelessly in love
>both of us don't have the guts to ask each other out for 6+ months now
How do I ask her in a non-traditional/non-casual way that won't get me a restraining order?
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just tell her you love her you queer
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Is this gonna be one of those pointless fucking shoujo animes where we have to wait 2 fucking seasons for two airheads to just SAY WHAT THEY FUCKING FEEL?
I'm not mad at all.
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>>17160760
Y'gotta do it right though.
Too mushy and one gets shot down for being a romantic
Not enough mush and you're too insincere
hOw dO?
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>eat food at bar
>get diarrhea all morning
Why does this keep happening and how do I make it stop??
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>>17160749
Hundred-year-old vaudeville joke:
PATIENT (moving arm or something): Doctor, It hurts when I do this.
DOCTOR. So don't do that!
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I enjoy the sensation of diarrhea on a quiet morning, myself
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Stop eating the food at bars you dingus. Or just eat something basic like fries or chips or whatever the fuck they serve like that.
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Is it harder for a Chinese toddler to become fluent in English or a monolingual American adult to become fluent in Spanish?
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The Chinese toddler will easily learn multiple languages. Much easier than an English speaker learning another language.
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>>17160739
Little kids are sponges for languages, the kid should pick up a new language a lot faster than an adult
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By and large, no.
Our brains are wired to learn language skills when we are kids and this diminishes as we age. That's why it is better to learn other languages from a young age.
I've been talking to this girl for a couple months and we've been on
a few dates and kissed multiple times, and we have more dates planned. She always sends me sexy pictures at night and stuff, but never nudes, and even asks me why we don't sext. Problem is, every time the conversation heads that direction she just wants to talk about how she wants to buy a vibrator. One time when we were cuddling I slipped my hand down her waistband and she told me it was too soon. Is she teasing me on purpose or am I being retarded?
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>>17160745
Yes to which one
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>>17160735
Put your hands quickly down her pants.
Once you get going, she'll instantly change her mind.
But yes OP you are retarded
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>>17160735
Respect her boundaries. Yes, you're acting retarded.
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If a member of your family dies and they don't have life insurance and your looking to cut down on costs of a funeral, when buying a coffin is there such a thing as used?
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No, but you can make it yourself.
Go with cremation though, cheaper
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>>17160714
Use coffins? You could probably dig one up from somewhere.*
To our American friends who need humour explained in advance. That was a joke, a pun, a play on the modern idiom.
I'm 20 she's 56 I want a milf do I do it? She's down for bum fun
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disgusting
But if you're into that, sure, anon, whatever floats your boat. Follow your dreams.
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I'm gonna fuck her brains out
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>>17160647
Go for it, women that age don't have time for immature bullshit and are usually more comfortable with their sexuality.
I will try to make this short.
I have been with this girl for a very long time and we were absolutely astonishingly perfect for each other. Genuinely astounding. After two months I decided to do what I desire in a relationship, and make her my slave. Make her worship me, I would dominate her in every aspect, always, control, and I would make her love it. Our relationship took on the dynamic aspects of a Master/slave relationship. It was amazing, truly, it was perfect for the both of us, not ever had we been so happy in our lives.
This is hard to explain but I will make this especially short but if unclear i can clarify: after four months or so from the beginning, she started to drop, i did not understand why, and apparently weeks later I come to find out it is because I lied to her a lot, (in her mind she thinks it is, but genuinely it isn't, i won't go there, just trust me) but to an extent i agree with her on it all, and I have changed immensely. The problem now, 5 months after this dropping, more and more shit, piling onto each other, she drops all the time, leaves me almost every day, things get chaotic, she becomes extremely suicidal, depressed, etc.
That is a huge concern but the point of this post is she is no longer willing to be my slave. She does not want me to dominate her anymore, because she lost respect for me, and I understand her and how it is not possible to be a slave to he whom you cannot respect; yet I have changed but no matter how much I show it she remains unwilling.
At that, when I try to dominate, she does not take it, she gets mad, annoyed, bothered, angry, she rages, she goes fucking crazy, its bananas at that point.
What do I do? Seriously how can I somehow make her submit for once and control everything? I need this back because it is the only way to be able to completely be in control and if conscious enough be able to always manage a relationship and all aspects of it.
I hope this was understandable.
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>I will try to make this short.
Liar.
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Sounds like she's not as perfect as you think. Let her be the master once. Maybe not even sexually. Do stuff for her. Relationships are a two way street
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You can't do shit anon, you broke it. I don't know how, since you weren't specific, but you can't salvage it now. Find yourself another slave.
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How can I sleep better? 2016-05-19 11:37:19 Post No.17160593
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I'm in the middle of my final exams for A level and the stress is getting too much for me. I find myself unable to sleep at night. The night before my first maths exam, I couldn't fall asleep until 2am, and had to get up promptly at 7.
This is really impacting my performance, so I ask you, how can I sleep better?
I don't care if it's placebo, just give me what works for you.
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I used to take a short walk (around 30 min) before going to bed when I was stressed and couldn't sleep. It helped me calm down and I could sleep a little better. The fact that almost no one except for some cars now and then was out at that time was really therapeutic for me.
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>complaining about getting "only" 5 hours of sleep a night
fucking casual
Also
>I got in a bath with a cute anime girl and promptly beat the shit out of her
Does anyone knows where this is from? I can recognize most of the other "quotes", so I'm guessing this one is from some game or VN too.
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>>17160621
Sorry dude, that's one of the ones I don't get either. I just love that image for the SS13 line.
That sounds good, I love a good walk. I will try that tonight. Thanks, anon.
>fucking casual
C'mon man I'm a horny teenager 99% of my energy at any time has been expended on masturbation
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The three biggest things:
1) No caffeine 6 hours before bed.
2) No exercise 3 hours before bed (but it's good to get exercise earlier in the day).
3) No screens -specifically, no screens with a built-in backlight ot frontlight- 1 hour before bed. E-ink is OK. Transflective screens (like the old GBA) are OK, but good luck finding them. The problem is blasting your eyes with high-color-temperature light, like the Sun or like most screens that have built-in lighting.
Point 3 can be the hardest. You can try using a color temperature adjuster like f.lux to make things a little better -I'm currently trying that myself- but the benefits of this are still unproven.
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I just finished 5 cycles of chemotherapy and in few weeks i'm going to start radiotherapy (26 an with cancer is quite fucked up isn't it?), I'm devastated both mentally and physically. Any suggestion on what to do to recover some energy? Doctor suggested a prevalently vegetarian diet. Anything else? A bit of work out maybe?
Also: is radiotherapy a pain in the ass as well?
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Fuck cancer that's all.
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I found my mood/energy increased dramatically when I worked out regularly.
Good luck anon cancer is a cunt
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>>17160592
Fuck anon, I'm sorry :( what kind of cancer do you have? Juicing is supposed to be good.