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Is my texting game weak or am I read too much into this? Haven't heard back from her. Yes I do my xmas shopping early to avoid the crowds.
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>>17163048
This when I didn't hear back from hear in half hour.
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I have a cousin who texts like you, he's annoying as fuck.
>long messages/multiple messages at once that say a lot of different things are hard to respond to and also take time to respond to
If you were her, how would you respond to the text you just sent? Would you address every single different thing you just told her? I would just respond something like 'haha cool' because I have no idea what part of that message I'd respond to.
Just tell her you were Christmas shopping and leave it to her to ask why. If you have a lot of things you can tell her then you can use it to actually have a back and forth conversation with her.
Chances are she was busy when she read your message and didn't have time to write a meaningful response. Did you even consider that before you started pestering her about her not responding? At that point you just start sounding needy and if anybody were to say 'Hello anybody there!' to me they'd be lucky to get a response from me at all that isn't just me telling them to fuck off.
>tl;dr - keep your messages shorter, don't tell them too much and don't bug them too much if they don't respond
Also 30 minutes with no response really isn't that bad, you should've just waited little more.
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>>17163048
This has to be bait or the most autistic faggot in the world.
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How do I get this guy to ask me out?
>19
>totally romantically inexperienced
>work at coffee place
>not starbucks
>regular customer
>looks 25ish
>be still my heart <3
>talk a bit each day
>I'm super warm & friendly
>he is really nice too
>everyday he gives me the cutest shy smile
>interactions are limited because busy store
This has been going on for about a year. Recently I saw him at a local sushi place but I pretended I didn't see him because I didn't know if he would want to talk to me outside work.
/adv/ how do I flirt? I'm really not the flirtatious type. This guy is so kind and sometimes he comes into my work with his mum, and he is just adorable.
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Ask him yourself, silly.
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>tfw no cute coffee shop girl ever thinks of me this way
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>>17163023
I've totally thought about this, but I guess I'm traditional?
What would I say? I don't even know where we would go!
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Hey, /adv/
My dream is to be a bachelor in a big city, and just bang random chicks all the time. I'd have a decent job but it really wouldn't matter. I just love having sex with new people. I'm not an asshole or cruel or anything.
Does this make me a sociopath? Why do I feel so guilty about wanting this? Should I talk to a Therapist?
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>>17162986
>does wanting sex with different people make me a sociopath
no. cave people did not have disney movies. they fucked whoever they wanted and whoever they could.
you are already aware that the majority of men like to sleep around, so i dont know why you're even pretending with this sociopath shit.
what is your real intention for this thread?
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I think my intention is to analyze myself a bit. Does it make me a bad person if my highest aspiration is to have casual sex with a lot of people?
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>>17162986
You're like the vast majority of 20-somethings lmao. Stop worrying dude.
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It's the first time in over five years that I've attempted a suicide. Ive lost a lot of people and have gone through the grief myself, which is why I thought my wandering thoughts of suicide wouldn't ever amount to another attempt. I know that I have abandonment issues and paranoia, but part of me honestly believe that everyone I know either wants to leave me alone and doesn't because of pity, or they only care about me because of pity.
I don't talk about my desire to die because I'm worried someone I know will stop me from being able to succeed if I were able to go through with it.
Tonight, the house was quiet and my friends had allibies and I was alone. I wrote a brief letter accessable on my phone, put on my favorite dress and tried to hang myself with a thick belt wedged in my bedroom door frame.
The belt broke. I don't even know how. It's relatively new and sturdy, and I ate shit shortly before reaching unconsciousness.
I can't even kill myself whenever I have the guts to. And now that I've hit the floor (and chair I guess) I was waiting for the overwhelming feeling of "I didn't want to die" or "Maybe this is a sign". But it didn't come. All I heard was "Try harder".
I've been trying so hard to be happy. I've struggled through countless failed relationships in my family, friends and lovers. I've tried to build self esteem by continuing a career that I am good at and love doing but at the end of the day all I can think about is how to make it all end.
I looked at mental hospitals, and in my town they are all run with religious practices and some even still recommended electroshock therapy. I am too broke to afford any real help and refuse medication because of the responses I had on them before.
People will be coming home soon wondering why I am all done up and why my voice sounds weird and I can't even look them in the face and tell them why.
I just want to die. I can't even do that right.
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I wish I knew what to tell you. I don't know you but I know I don't want you to die. I feel like I've failed alot with other people but for the few who stick with me, I have to keep going. It's hard when you've got a voice in the back of your head constantly repeating all of your fears and doubts. Please keep going, OP.
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>>17162975
You've probably heard this whole thing about how you only have one life, blah blah. Well, there is only one life that's in your possession. If you can't figure out how to make it work and use it to make yourself happy, no need to let it go to waste. If you can't make yourself happy, there are plenty of people who need help and happiness. Make someone else happy before you go. Donate, help out, do some charity, something. Let someone else get some use out of that life you're about to snuff out because they need more than what they have.
If you're gonna go then you have nothing to lose, so why not?
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>>17162975
i know how you feel. i'm going through something similar.
empathy is funny. even though i don't know you, i don't want you to kill yourself--even though i really want to die.
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I'm going to be going to a local music festival tomorrow and the next day for several hours a day. I want to pick up some cute fat girls for kinky fun. Any advice? btw I'm a semi-muscular 6'2 white male. I'd probably be considered a 7-7.5
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They're fat. They'll take what they can get. Smear some mayonnaise behind your ears for that extra je ne sais quoi.
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>>17162982
kek
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>>17162982
lol savage
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How do you categorize music?
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>>17162946
I don't understand what you're asking. Are you asking how I organize it? Are you asking how I judge one song compared to others?
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>>17162984
How do you put 2000 songs into different genres and sub genres?
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>>17162998
I have on spotify playlist with all my favorite songs, genres range from gangsta rap to country music, just don't give a fuck fag
Hey 4chan how's it going? So um in the future I plan to change my sex (male to female) yeah so I know it seems odd but it's what I want ya know? Anyways I hope none of you are judgementle :D
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So what's your question?
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>>17162909
You forgot
>le ebin trol face XD
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Well my question is, do you think it would change the way people would treat me? Because I'm worried about that but I want this surgery 100% I'm not backing down
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so im pretty sure me and my girlfriend just broke up. she asked me to write a 3 page paper for her. its finalls week at her college and she said she was stressing out over everything that was due. i said it was a lot to ask since it was due in 2 days and i had no idea what i was writing about and im also in school. she said ok and then 2 days later she starts acting like i didnt help her in her time of need. and she tells me she doesnt need me and all this other bullshit. so i tell her to fuck off. havent spoken to her in 2 days now.
weve been together for nearly 3 years. was i in the wrong? are women always getting upset over things that are their fault but they cast the blame on everybody but themselves? the thing is i dont even miss her.
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>>17162905
>she asked me to write a 3 page paper for her
>acting like i didnt help her in her time of need
Good news, OP: you dodged a bullet. Walk away and never look back.
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>>17162905
She's in the wrong for having you Do her school work for her.
However, if you truly told her to fuck off, then you handled the situation poorly.
3years is a long time to just throw away, so cool down a bit and let her do the same, then talk about this. But again, you're not wrong in refusing to do her assignments. That shit should never fly.
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>>17162905
nah you don't even miss her
obviously this relationship wasn't for you
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Hypothetically speaking, let's imagine that there is such a thing as the most terrible person in the world.
This person is stupid, delusional, dumb, self centered, selfish, miserable in family, friends and finance, not to mention ugly.
Is there any future for someone like this?
This hypothetical person constantly drags down everyone arround him/her, nobody wants him/her (in fact, people hate him/her), has no qualities, is basically a weight for the rest of the world to carry.
Change is also impossible, it is a matter of nature that the life of this hypothetical character will always be like this - if not worse.
Assuming that everything I said so far is 100% true, can there be any humanity in this hypothetical character? Or should him/her consider suicide? This person would not only be doing a favor to him/herself by doing this, but also to everyone else in the world.
Keep in mind this is an hypothetical scenario, of a character written for a story, so there's no need to be supportive or whatever. Just tell me what you think would be the most logical decision to make.
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>>17162871
Why would change be impossible? If this person truly wanted their life to be different, it could be. The fact that there is an assumption that this is a permanent trait of character means that there is a lack of desire or lack of effort to change.
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>>17162881
The character has a number of outside factors that directly influentiate its life.
The subject also has mental issues.
The subject has been a weirdo since he was a very little kid, all the way to the present day in which he/she is 19 years old.
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>>17162891
So even if he genuinely makes an attemp at changing, the character ends up in failure, further contributing to the notion he is nothing but a waste of valuable oxygen.
Hey /adv/,
Currently sitting in an empty parking lot here's a little background
>be with girlfriend of ~3 years
>live together
>lately things have been shit, fighting and bickering all the time
>small argument escalates in to bigger one
>she's screaming in my face
>I hit her, tell her to gtfo I'm sick of her shit I don't deserve this anymore yadayada
>grab keys and phone and leave can't be there any longer
>never hit a woman before
>feelsbadman.png
>wat do, /adv/
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Why did you hit her, tell her to leave, and then be the one to leave yourself?
By the way, when you get back home, your clothes will be in a smoldering ash pile.
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Who cares m8. She probably liked being hit and she got wet from it after you left.
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>>17162867
My house she moved in. She was babbling about having no where to stay or go and I was in a fit of anger and wasn't really sure what I was gonna do so I just left. Probably not a good idea on my part to leave her there. At least it's raining.
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I need some opinions on something that happened a while ago thats nagging at me, I am sure I made the wrong choice
>walking home
>guy is passed out drunk
>his friend is trying to wake him
>I walk over and take a look
>he is fucked but his mates are picking him up and walking
>I leave but hang around nearby while people say bye
>something is bugging me
>Start walking home but say I want to take another look
>one of my friends starts getting angry about how its not my problem and how I should leave it because I am on a night out
>end up walking on
>its still bugging me, he was just a little too far gone for it to sit right
tl;dr:
concerned about guy, end up doing nothing cuz friend
opinions?
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Go back now or don't do anything and never hear about it again or call 911 and get him a ticket. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
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>>17162855
I am sure he is fine, he had 3 drunk friends trying to get him a taxi home
its more my friends reaction to my concern with hostility
I have heard about it happening but it was startling to deal with it myself
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>>17162868
Sounds like a dick. Intuition says drop him but you may not be able to afford to drop him because he's you're only friend or you work with him. Think about your future. If he, his pros and his cons are in your future. Then act.
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Porn addiction, I guess... 2016-05-20 03:03:41 Post No.17162841
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Porn addiction, I guess...
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Hello /adv/, I reckon that I have a porn addiction, or maybe rather I got used to fast change of arousing visuals (sometimes I don't even need to see nudes). Honestly I enjoy fapping, but the thing is - when I get back from work, I spend the WHOLE evening surfing porn - until I find the "right one" or simply reach the edge. I don't get to prepare a decent dinner, my room is a mess, etc and etc. How do struggle this?
>I actually tried the NoFap thing, but it didn't really work for me. Their emergency button is cringy, and the whole community is like a sect of something - everybody keep repeating same things.
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>>17162841
Slowly but surly try to rid yourself of the habit. Do it as much as you can hold it and try to increase the no fap increments. Reward yourself when you beat your previous record (not with more fapping of course)
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>>17162930
I should have mentioned - I spend my spare time with PC a lot, and it's hard not to just open a new tab and open a porntube or whatever. This makes it challenging as fuck.
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>>17162944
try to block it using external programs or try to increase your self control. That is the only way for you to fully overcome this "addiction"
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Hey /adv/,
I have turned into a night owl since last year and have thus formed giant black bags under my eyes. The devilishly handsome me is gone and I now look like a heroine addict.
I've gotten so self conscious about the bags under my eyes that I resorted to getting glasses (Well I kind of needed them anyway) to hide the bags. I can't take off my glasses without thinking everyone is staring at me and getting repulsed at the giant black rings under my eyes.
I want them gone, does /adv/ have any tips on getting rid of them?
Thanks.
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Rub coffee grounds on them and let them sit for a minute or two. Then wash your face. The caffeine helps your skin temporarily.
Long term, blackout curtains and sleep.
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make up or glasses. Or sleep
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>>17162858
How much sleep gets rid of them? I sleep 12 hours a day and it doesn't seem to help.
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i tried this on /g/ too but i know i won't get much before the thread is derailed or deleted, so if any of you guys have PC knowledge i'd really love some help:
i built my PC about 2 years ago and everything was working fine until february. it has started crashing literally like 3+ times a day, and if it doesn't crash, the sound completely stops and is replaced by an endless beeping noise. there's 3 main types of reoccuring issues
>screen freezes, endless loud beep noise until hard reset
>screen freezes, no beep noise, just silence
>sound goes away and replaced by endless beep, i am able to mute it by muting in the sound options. the volume bar still shows it's playing music, or videos or whatever i had going. (also worth noting, if i put my PC into sleep mode and then wake it up the problem goes away for a while)
someone on tomshardware told me to try setting the HDD to never turn off, and that actually did somehow seem to make the crashes go away for like 3 days. no clue if that was coincidental or not.
i have an i5 4690k, 8gb ram, 800w psu, 1TB WD Blue and a gtx970 if that helps. let me know if you need any other info
please just give me some leads or info on what to check or how to find the problem, i've lost so much work to these crashes already, i can't take much more. thanks
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Does it freeze when being used only or does it freeze when idling? Is it under high loads whe it freezes?
Hard to pin point it. Did you do any updates around the time it started crashing?
Does it blue screen at all? Or just freeze.
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>>17162848
doesn't freeze when idling as far as i can tell but i don't leave it idle long. usually if i leave the house or am not on it i put it in sleep or turn it off.
it's not. i played crysis 3 for 3 hours last night with no problems and then crashed twice while browsing the internet / listening to music
is there a way to check that? it automatically updates sometimes, i dont keep track of it.
no it doesn't. same type of crash every time, solid freeze.
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>>17162865
try memtest first. Did you install anything new? Software conflicts are what I'd assume first when a pc starts crashing randomly. After that, check your components. Ram first, then possibly gpu next, mobo, processor, psu, etc.
Hey guys need some serious college help.
My parents are illegal immigrants and only my father works. My father gets paid under the table, pretty much untaxed cash but the college I got into requires my father to file taxes and attach his W-2s. Neither parent has any form of documentation or SSN. Would the college understand my situation? I was born in the U.S.
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OP here! I forgot to mention that I included every low income verification requested from the school. They still tell my father needs to file taxes even though he makes $38,00.
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* 38,000
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Unfortunately you may not be able to go to college without having your parents getting sent back. not sure how you can work around it
I know I'm no help but best of luck to you