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I just can't fucking take it anymore.
Story: I live in a piss poor country. And our greatest contribution to humanity is a piece of media (book/movie/show/computer game/doesn't matter) and everybody loves it.
And I'm the only one who doesn't like it. To be honest, I passionately hate it. Literally every single person in this country knows this "masterpiece". Kids love it, adults love it, grandpas love it. There are fucking posters and shit like that everywhere - in the metro, on the walls, in the stores.
I so fucking hate it. I hate it because I think it's just mediocre and everybody forces me to like it. My fucking gf broke up with me because I criticized it when she started talking about how amazing it is.
Even on 4chan, on its respective board everybody loves this fucking thing. I don't understand. I don't fucking understand. Am I retarded? I never had any problems with myself except some generic highschool moodswings.
Jesus fucking christ let me out
And no, this isn't bait
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>>17161752
I would think you were talking about Japan if you didn't say poor country. Figured you were talking about anime and weaboos. Why can't you just say which country you are from?
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New Zealand isn't piss poor
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Well you've got to tell us what the thing is
I might guess The Witcher? Poland isn't that poor though is it? And has made a lot more than just one video game
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Hello.
I am embarrased by my ugly small phimosis penis. What can I do about it?
Would you recommend surgery?
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>>17161738
To cut it off or...?
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>>17161741
Phimosis surgery
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Circumcision
I had the same problem and I don't regret doing it.
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How do I enjoy life again? 2016-05-19 20:33:22 Post No.17161722
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How do I enjoy life again?
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A few years ago I had a bad breakup that fucked me up. It wasn't even that bad, just the normal shit that everyone goes through at one point or the other - she hadn't gotten over her ex, and pretended she liked me to try and get back at him. I should have brushed it off and moved on with someone else, but for some reason I couldn't. I've always been private and introverted, but I shared everything with her and trusted her completely, and was so angry with myself when I found out she was using me. I didn't tell any of my friends about it, and gradually just stopped talking to people and becoming as reclusive as I could be. People started to think I was an asshole but I didn't care, I just wanted to say a big fuck you to the world and withdraw from it as much as possible.
Now I'm not as depressed as I was then, but I've never regained that sense of actually enjoying life, I just tolerate it because the alternative is worse. I'm pretty high functioning - I set myself goals and hit all of them, but take no pleasure in any of it. I'm open to the possibility of meeting a girl, but at the same time I'm incredibly defensive and find it hard to meet anyone who fits my criteria, so I'm alone most of the time. I can still feel pleasure, but nothing I do contributes makes me feel like I'm a real, living person fulfilling his potential. The only time I've actually experienced fun in the last few years was when I was travelling, but I know I can't do that all the time. I want to learn to enjoy myself on a day-to-day basis in my normal life. But I can't imagine any future where I'm happy. I feel like that naïve part of me died when I got depressed, and the rest of me just sort of carries on without it.
So what do? Anyone have anhedonia and manage to get over it?
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Anyone?
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>>17161722
The stereotypical answer is to get involved with charity.
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>>17162175
www.givewell.org
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What do I say to start a conversation with a girl? 2016-05-19 20:24:32 Post No.17161681
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What do I say to start a conversation with a girl?
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I really like this girl, but I never know what to tell her. I have so much I could, like how I want her to cry on my shoulder if she's ever sad, but she'll be creeped out. So what about conversation starters, ice breakers, etc.?
Bonus points for something "cute".
Pic not directly related, but looks kinda similar.
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Oh, and by the way. We're friends. On pretty much "really really good friend" level.
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Forget it, anon.
She's a chadsucker.
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My dear bro, what is a chad, and why does she suck it?
Forgiv me senpai i am not acquainted with these nu wordz
So, my girlfriend made a new male friend. He's a new volunteer at community center she regularly volunteers at. Now, my girlfriend has male friends. But these guys she's known for years, back from high school and some even from middle school, and its never been a problem for me. But this new friend. I don't know how I feel about him. They volunteer together on Saturdays, and they exchanged numbers and they text all day, everyday. To be somewhat fair though, my girlfriend texts a lot of people all day long, she's social af and always on her phone. But still. I've read their chat logs, and didn't find anything suspicious, some lame attempts at flirting that my girlfriend probably didn't pick up, but he makes her laugh all the fucking time. Sometimes she just bursts out laughing when she's texting this dude. Other than that they just talk about their day or their fucking cats or whatever. I thought this dude might've been gay at first, but I found him on my girlfriend's Facebook friend list and he still has photos on there with his ex girlfriends. Makes me feel a little insecure because this dude is actually pretty attractive, tall, drives a nice car, dresses well, and I'm the opposite of all that. This is the first time I've felt scared of being cucked, and I can't stop thinking about it.
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There's a decent chance you'll get cucked, judging from this evidence 2bh. Adult men and women aren't meant to be friends, no matter how much people pretend it's fine. There will always be some attraction, unless they grew up together and see eachother as family, or keep enough distance and are just 'couples' friends that you meet with your partner now and then.
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>>17161651
Honestly this is a very touchy situation.
If you confront her about him you might make her feel like you don't trust her.
I say wait until you have something incriminating about their relationship first before you panic. However, you could ask her about him... You know to pick her brain about him..
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>>17161651
Why does she need to have his number?
Why does she need another male friend?
Respect yourself more OP, You are the last male friend she needs OP. You can work without people without being their text buddy. Confront her on this OP.
Hey adv. 21 F here,
I just made myself throw up for the first time. I've always had a problem with my weight. Sometimes when I eat I feel like crying and I feel really guilty. Sometimes I'll starve myself on purpose as a form of self harm.
I looked up some symptoms and apparently I'm at risk for bulimia nervosa. I just want to be skinny and happy but I honestly see know results when I eat right and exercise. Throwing up made me feel better but I know it's not the way. I'm afraid that this'll get out of hand.
I'll ask two questions, for those who like to see people suffer and those who wanna help.
Helpers: What should I do? I know it was my first time doing it but I want to do it again. It made me feel better.
Non-helpers: For those who have or had bulimia, how long til I see results? How do you keep it secret?
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>>17161639
if calories out>calories in
you will lose weight. that is all there is to it
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>>17161639
Seek. Professional. Help.
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>>17161639
The fact that you are asking for help either way makes me believe this is some sort of research exercise for varying opinions on eating disorders, that or a troll.
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pls help
what do i tell someone who doesn't have a will to live and doesn't want to keep living
don't tell me those stupid normie bullshit advice
"THINK ABOUT YOUR FAMILY DON'T BE SELFISH "
"IT'S NOT WORTH IT"
pls help me
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id simply call the cops and get them to their address.
then distract them til the cops got there.
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Tell them you love them and they're important to you.
If you care enough, that should be true too. Whether it's family or romantic or platonic friend. Get them professional help.
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make them go to places and do things that are worthwHile and bring back the spark of life in them
i guess its not the words but the actions and intentions behind them that matters most
don't be sucked in the frame
also professionnal help for sure
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My boyfriend is super shy, so I want to use sexual conditioning to get him out of his shell, are there any guides on how to do this? Do you have tips?
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pull his pants down and suck his dick
seriously, not that hard
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>>17161601
>sexual conditioning to get him out of his shell
What does that mean? What would "improvement" in him look like?
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>>17161622
>suck his dick
>not that hard
That might be the problem.
Here's the back story
> Meet girl
>My first hug
> First holding hands
> First kiss
Pretty much first everything but here's the thing I'm none of those things to her.
The only time I thought I could have my first is through sex but now she's saying she doesn't want to have sex until she goes and finishes university.
She will probably end up loosing it there to some random fuckig guy.
What do I do /adv/ please help me
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>>17161597
move on.
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>>17161597
Forogt to mention she's my girlfriend
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>>17161615
move on.
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I'm uninsured, had to go to the emergency room, and now I cannot pay the bill. It's well over 2k. and I can barely afford to buy cigarettes let alone pay that!
I have no credit due to being a NEET. Can I ignore the bill or will this hurt me in some way? I have nothing to my name. I don't even know what credit is or if I have it. Can this effect future credit? Can they take jail me?
I didn't even want to go, but the assholes took me there. This is making super anxious! What do /adv/?
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Aaaaah, America. Gotta love it.
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>>17161571
>can they take my to jail
no. if that was the case half of america would be in jail.
it will effect your credit. your credit is essnetially a number that indicates to companies whether or not they can trust you.
for instance, if you want to buy a car, you dont pay for it all at once. you make small monthly payments. but if you cannot pay back your hospital bill, then that means you cannot be trusted to pay your car bill, and it would NOT be in their interest to give you this car.
same logic applied to a house or credit card. you are in the beginning stages of figuring out adult life so for now, you cant really do anything but wait. ask if you can set up a payment plan. then just ignore it. pay ltitle bit when you can.
eventually you will (hopefully) Get a real job with real money and slowly start fixing your debts.
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>>17161571
It shitty that you're in this situation.
>Can I ignore this bill
Doing so will destroy your credit, but if you can't pay you can work out a payment plan with hospital/caregivers. They'll do anything to avoid sending it to collections or writing it off.
There are also regulations that limit the interest on medical bills, so don't be in a hurry to pay them off.
I think 4chan has ruined my ability to get a job and integrate with society.
What do?
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Don't blame a website for your personal shortcomings
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>>17161549
It's the websites fucking fault
If this place wasn't so fucking despicable and amoral I wouldn't be in this position
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>>17161566
You sound like the kind of person who would sue Mcdonalds for making you fat.
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Hi /adv/. I have an obsessive and perfectionist personality. When I was a baby, my parents say I'd watch the washing machine, play with water all day, shit like that. I had many friends growing up (even though I sucked with girls), I was smart and I had an overall good life. There were times I was a shut-in faggot and there were times I was outgoing, funny and charming. And usually I'm kinda awkward and I fuck shit up, spilling spaghettis. I still can't overlook the fact that I was displaying the signs of autism when I was little. How do I know if I have the autismo or not, /adv/? If I have, what to do about it?
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Seek professional help.
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>>17161544
I had a therapist but she never mentioned it. She would if I had it, right?
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>>17161537
I don't understand why this would matter to you. It's not like it's going to change who you are in any way. Seems like a waste of time to me.
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Its my money and I need it now 2016-05-19 19:48:26 Post No.17161531
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Its my money and I need it now
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I paid for my prom and luncheon but since I didn't do enough service learning hours by yesterday they're taking it away. They say there's no refunds for the tickets. Any way I can force them to give me back my money?
I'm 18 btw.....
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Haha teenager problems
You should have done the shit you were supposed to do. Take this as a lesson for the rest of your life.
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>>17161543
How about help me out anon instead of acting like you're over the age of 20
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Tell your parents.
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Am I an asshole if I think birthday parties for babies are pointless and a waste of money?
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No, you're right. But early on they're more to help the parents than anything. So they don't have to spend as much on toys/clothes. It's for their benefit but you can do without really
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>>17161514
Depends on who the party is for. Up until a certain age you should throw them a party or you're an asshole. Afterward, no one cares.
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>>17161525
This is the opposite of true what
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Hi /adv/. For a couple of months now I've wanting to get a new style. right now it just kind of long and shaggy (just below my chin). I want something like pic related but I get really nervous over shit like this, my appearance. I worry about what other people will say or think about how i look.
A part of me knows this will look decent on me because i have a similar face shape (minus the cheek bones) and near enough the same hair type. However, another part can't stop thinking about what happens if it looks crap.
What can i do to get over this anxiety and just get the fucking haircut?
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heres another pic
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and another. all are the same guy
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>>17161506
Go to your barber (I always use a barber rather than a hairdresser, but whatever floats your boat) and tell him what you just told us. He'll know straight away what the best thing to do is.
Even if you do get the cut then decide you don't like it that's not the end of the world. You could get it cut again in to a different shorter style, you could shave it off (assuming you have a reasonable head shape of course), you could wear a hat, or you could just wait a few weeks and let it grow out.