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So how long until you stop being suicidal on anti depressants and mood stabilizers? I keep getting told I have to give it time but it´s been a year already
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That's too long, should talk to them about changing meds
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Whoa. I'd say 1-3 months. Get thee back to the dr.
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>>17163738
Felt more numb at the beginning but these last few months I can´t stop dreaming and wanting suicide
He just tells me there´s nothing else he can prescribe besides Lexapro (escitalopram) and Tegretol (carbamazepine). Is he bullshitting me?
Won't even up the dose
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Today is my 24th birthday
>still in college
>moved back in with my parents
>currently working a shitty part-time retail job
>no gf
Any words of encouragement or motivation? Have any of you gone through this yourselves or something similar? I'm feeling like total shit.
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>>17163729
You have solidarity with millions of other young people in that situation
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>>17163755
Is it really that normal?
One of my best friends is just half a year older but has a great job and owns a house. I guess I measure myself to her in some ways
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OP, I wouldn't worry too much about what's going on with your friend, everyone is on their own path. After I graduated high school I basically sat around and did drugs all day while the people around me left for ivy league schools. Just about six years later and I'm graduating with my b.s. and on my way to graduate school in the ivy league.
Just worry about yourself and what you're doing. Work hard and you'll make it out and end up where you want to be. Life isn't a race to the finish.
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What are some relationship red flags, things to look out for in a partner that don't bode well for the future?
I'm looking on a larger scope than the usual red-pill sexuality/fidelity stuff: career & finance, work ethic, cleanliness, habits, ambitions, health, sex life, that sort of thing.
Particularly want to hear from people whose (long-term) relationships didn't work out and can look back and identify the early signs/omens.
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Each relationship is different, but ask yourself how you will handle selfishness, narcissism, level of cleanliness. You're looking for a person you can't live without, not someone you can bear living with. There are always going to be things to fight about, so make sure you are ready and able to put up with sharing your life. Good luck!
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>>17163710
This
Also
Lying, to themselves and to you as well
The next girl who lies to me and catches herself in her own lie I'll dump immediately
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My red flags:
Someone who doesn't know how to properly convey emotions.
Anger issues.
Unhygienic and messy.
Being very hard to talk to about any concerns or issues relating to the relationship.
Thinking that cuddling while watching tv is foreplay.
A porn/masturbation addict.
Any kind of addict.
Someone who calls sex lines.
Overly private.
Workaholics.
Poor eating habits.
Little dating/relationship experience.
Has many friends of the opposite sex. (one of the girls/guys kind of people)
Doesn't drive.
Unemployed.
Aloof.
People who dislike their parents/Mother for no valid reason ("She is annoying" type stuff) This is a big one.
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Have any of you had experience with shitty housemates?
I'm currently in a situation where my friend of many years has seemingly gone off the deep end and has physically assaulted my other housemate (dragged him around, punched him, foot on throat, all unprovoked) as well as decked me once or twice so he needs to go. We're all cosigned on the lease though. The police had words with him the other day and as of today he's been asked to leave but hasn't agreed to (he doesn't really have anywhere to go except home), his share of the bond was even going to him out of pocket. The friend who got thrown around is probably at the police station currently, exploring his options (injunction was mentioned).
He's a pretty built guy so we can't physically remove him.
It's a pretty shitty situation.
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That's beyond a shitty housemate. A shitty housemate is someone who doesn't do their dishes or tries to stuff shit into an already full garbage rather than taking the trash bag out.
You're not living with a shitty housemate, that's a criminal.
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Was best friends with my cousin, long as I can remember. We moved in together for a year. He started dating a friend of mine early on. She dominated his personality. He and I got into some major fights. I moved out. They got married. We have talked twice since then. It's been 4 years.
Everyone says, don't move in with your friend. I cannot stress this enough, it is totally 100% true.
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>>17163716
This. Eventually, one day, you WILL get annoyed about eachother and have a conflict and your friendship will be ruined.
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How do I stop being so insecure about my girlfriends vibrator?
I even was the reason she got it but now I just fell insecure since I can't compete with it in terms of stimulation. Using it on her doesn't make it better either since it still isn't me that is making her cum but the vibe. I want to get over this but I'm strugglingf to do so.
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use it
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Tie a rubber band around your erect penis and then kill yourself. Ultimate middle finger jab to her cervix.
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You'll never have a vibrating dick quit comparing yourself to a machine.
Do you feel dumb because calculators are better at math than you?
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Help me out.
>In a relationship
>this milf wants to meet tomorrow and fuck
>my sex life hasnt been the greatest lately
>kinda want to fuck het but at the same time have major doubts
Should i or should i not? Its just pussy anyway. Might as well pass am i right?
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Sort out your fucking relationship. Talk about your problems, ifn you can't come to some solution break up. Quit being a fucking pussy.
Fucking some milf will get your dick wet and fuck everything up in the long term.
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>>17163612
If you don't value your relationship and don't respect/give a shit about your partner, sure - go for it. Otherwise, pass.
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>>17163616
Weve been together for 6 years. Last three weve been having sex like once or twice a month. We have talked about this. I want sex atleast two times a day , she once a month
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Any good tips on redecorating a room for a more Gothic feel? Not necessarily Victorian, more-so modern, like a Kenzi - Lost Girl sort of deal. Tips on homemade decoration stuffs would be nice as well; I have no problem cutting things up or crafting things if need be.
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>>17163611
Bump.
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>>17163656
Just go to Hot Topics, and buy black stuff
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>>17163663
That's what I was thinking. Is there anything I could do until then? Like I was saying, homemade stuff or anything like that. I'm pretty sure I have a bunch of crap in the toolshed like cans of spraypaint.
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I've developed a very intense crush on a certain dude at college - and after years of being ignored by guys (romantically) for unknown reasons, I think I'm in with a chance.
However, I am worried that my masculine-ish nature and appearance (which I'm not willing to share) instantly send me to the bro-zone.
However immature this may be, I wonder if any of you guys out there think I may need to appear more feminine for this dude so he may find me more appealing, or just to stay me and see how it goes?
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If u like this dude and u think he likes u then he likes you as you are now
That being said maybe a new haircut or subtle change might push him over the edge and build his courage more...then again it might do the opposite...gota roll the dice on this 1 i guess
Your truely male anon
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Thanks for the tips. Just to clarify, I have very short, male-length hair. I often see him staring at all the tall blonde bombshells. And here I am, miss stubby.
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Honestly, would you instantly fall in love with someone if they changed something little about themselves?
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So... Hello there /adv.
I've never actually posted on 4chan, but I might as well do it now, since I don't know anyplace else where I can be anon and still get loads of feedback...
>Be me, fairly loner femanon.
>Meet nice guy over the net, we get along.
>Eventually develop romantic feelings with guy. Guy feels back.
>Talk and flirt and be romantic with guy over net for 2 years.
>Both agree that we should see other people until we can meet.
>Time goes by, he starts talking about eventually moving in with me, having children.
>Ohshit.jpg
>Doesn't abort, keeps going, because guy is nice.
>Has lost romantic feel for guy.
>Eventually start in new class, meet nice grill, we hit off. (Yes, go both ways.)
>Tell guy that I met nice grill.
>Guy has told before that he likes FF scenes.
>Guy gets depressed, sad, drinks alot.
>Guy cries.
>Tell guy that nothing has changed.
>Tell guy I will always love him.
>Guy recovers, becomes happy again.
>Guy professes undying love.
>Guy starts making eventual plans to move to me.
>Ohfuck.png
So, /adv. How do I let this guy off easy? How do I break off his romantic interest without him offing himself? How do I make him not depressed?
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You can't control how he reacts but
>Tell guy I will always love him.
What the fuck, seriously? You deserve to feel guilty about whatever happens.
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>>17163566
Why is everyone so fucking retarded?
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Hey /adv/. Finally decided to do something with my fat fuck self. I'm getting married next summer and I'm starting to go to the gym regularly. I'm not looking for any shortcuts, I honestly want to get healthy even if it kills my muscles trying. I would really like this sort of body type but I'm not sure which workout regimen to use. I'm literally starting from nothing. I need some advise
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Hit weights count calories.
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Read the sticky over at >>>/fit/
It explains diet and exercise in such a casual, no bullshit way that it makes it almost too easy to change your life into something healthier.
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>>17163585
Already posted to /fit/. Getting bullshit responses
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How do you not be weird?
I was talking with a friend and he told me that I am just a weird person to talk to, that a lot of the stuff I say comes out of the left field. How do I not be weird? It hurt to hear that from someone I really look up to. I had a suspicion something was wrong with me, and he telling me this makes me believe it.
How do I be normal? And interact with people on a good level?
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Do you maybe have an example of something "weird" you say? Maybe your friend is just a prude.
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I'll just say really left field stuff. Kind of like Yuko, pic related, if you've seen Nichijou.
Let's just assume he's right. How do I become more of a normal person? I'm always afraid somethign is wrong with me, that people don't like me because of the way I look and act. Just the way I am.
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Be cool being who you are, maybe further down the line you can change a thing or two about you, but don't make it your goal to suddenly change yourself just because of the opinion of others, itll fuck you up.
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I'm really bad at math, and I want to know: If I have an 80% chance of getting x, and there were 84 unique instances of x, how many times would I have to try for x to get all 84? The way I did it was:
84*1.8 = 151.2 tries
Is this right?
I'll add that this isn't homework... I'm trying to determine how long it's going to take to get the rest of the common reqs in Halo 5 from bronze packs. I already know I can make ~10000 req points an hour, and each bronze pack is 1000 req points. There seems to be roughly an 80% chance of getting a common from a bronze pack, and with 84 commons left, I'm just wondering how many packs I have to open. If I did the math right, it would take just over 15 hours. I'm likely wrong though because as I said, I suck at math... can anyone point me in the right direction, or at least to the appropriate formula for this kind of problem?
And yes, I know all of this is a waste of time, but I'm not doing anything else between sleep and work, so yeah...
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more clarification: I got 15+ hours from 151.2 tries * 1000 req points / the 10000 req points per hour
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I can't be fucked explaining it to you so I'm just going to give you the answer. It's 105, assuming you don't get repeats.
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>>17163498
Assuming that it's impossible to get duplicates, it's actually only around 105 tries.
If you can get duplicates, then you're in for the fucking long haul, buddy.
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I was at the bar tonight. This girl just broke up a few days ago with her boyfriend, and we talked for an hour and a half.
We started getting more handsy, and eventually she said I could drive her home, and then we were leaving and she was saying goodbye to some people and I went ahead, so one old guy was like "ill drive you home" so they went out and he told me hes driving her home to protect her, and she said I could follow in my car.
So then I got in my car, and they'd already driven off cause the old guy drove.
What should I do next time so this kind of shit doesn't happen? It feels like you can't say anything when a cockblocker guy says he's protecting a girl, so I felt uncomfortable telling him to get lost.
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She got fucked deep by the old goat. Great job!
How about next time you question his real intents, tell him to fuck off and tell the girl to come. If she doesn't and chooses the old fucker, fuck that. Either way, you don't come off as a loser cuck which you did now.
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>>17163512
That old guy needs a lesson.
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>>17163497
God that's a fucking brutal way to go.
Anyways, if you think the price of being uncomfortable while telling somebody to fuck off is worth the better chance of getting it in, then just tell them to fuck off.
I guess if you want to avoid the situation entirely, try to seal the deal before she looks / actually is drunk enough for white knights to feel the need to step in
I'm a senior that just graduated high school, on the last day of school my parents found out I sold weed, drank alcohol, and frequently ha sex with my girlfriend. They were horrified at what I had on my phone and how I talked. I have never shown this type of behavior to my parents before and they are severely dissapointed in me. I have lied again and again to my parents, i search for the easy way out of everything and its only getjng worse. My parents weren't proud of me when I walked the line. My girlfriend was very supportive an helped me through most of this. As 2 weeks passed I started to regain their trust, however being the fucking idiot I am my best friend and I decided to get wasted and tried to sneak out at 4am where my mom caught us. We were going to a party but I told them we were just going to help a friend get home. They were else weepy upset because after all of the apologizing I still managed to lie again to them and break their hearts. I'm back to square one again. I also lied to my girlfriend and told her we were going to help a friend but later today she asked me if that was the truth and I couldn't bring myself to continue lying to her so I ended telling her I was trying to sneak out to a party. She is really hurt now and I hate myself so much. I have no reason to lie to her, she's helped me through everything and I dot know why I do the things I do. I'm so sad and depressed that I can't even cry, I'm emotionless and I can't even think. What do I do? How do I fix this? I'm hurting the people I lie most in my life, I'm so selfish and careless, I have very thing a kid could ask for so why am I so stupid and taking it for granted? What do I tell my parents? How can I talk to my girlfriend? She won't even talk to me right now and she said she doesn't want to be together anymore. I'm so upset that I can't even think, I just wanna cry for hours but I can't. Please help me.
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I've never felt this feeling before and it makes me want to die
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Um get help dumbass
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How old are you?
If your gf wants to break up the whole thing over a petty lie without even discussing it, let her.
First of all, stop being a lying little shit. Second, call your parents, tell them you wanna have a family meeting and pour your heart out. Don't make them yell it all out from you, you make the first step and say sorry.
Then again, stop being a little shit and stop lying. It's not that hard unless you have mental problems.
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I turn 26 next month, and I too old for qt girls?
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Your stupid
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I'm turning 25 and have a fuck buddy whose 33.
Just groom yourself and take care of your body somewhat, you'll be fine.
There's some people that still look hot into their fifties.
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>and I too old for qt girls?
No, you're too stupid to reproduce