Hey everybody. So there is this girl who I've gone on a couple dates with (aquarium and Civil War movie) and we went together on a school field trip to Six Flags and rode on coasters and shit together.
Anyway, I asked her if she wants to come to the Renaissance Fair a week from this Monday but she didn't reply at all. Did I ask her out the wrong way or am I being abandoned since I am graduating next Saturday and she will become a high school senior? My college is only 30 minutes away though so I will still be close enough to continue dating her and we agreed to stay together but was that just a lie? Or am I freaking out too much and should I pray I see a new text message when i wake up tomorrow morning?
It's currently 12 pm and I texted her at 8 PM, she usually goes to bed at 9 and wakes up at 6. Do I send a "reminder" text or do I just wait?
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DO NOT SEND A REMINDER TEXT EVER
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>>17166200
Never a reminder text, you are freaking out to much just give her time and if she doesn't wanna go out don't push her over the idea because you will seem desperate.
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No reminder text. Try to keep the texting concise. Also, avoid seeming needy, girls can smell that shit instantly and is a huge turn off.
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>2016
>finally have confidence up
>feel like taking on world
>ask roughly 90 girls out thus far this year
>still rejected every single time
Welp, almost half way into this year and the whole "girls like confidence" and "just be yourself" moda have proven to be horse shit. How's your Friday night been?
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90 girls wow, go you! Really i mean that.
What is your approach?
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>>17166189
You're approaching it from the wrong way. What are you offering these women? Do you just walk up to random people and ask them on dates?
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>>17166189
>"girls like confidence" and "just be yourself"
If you're already physically attractive and pleasing to look at. Otherwise it's all for naught -- whatever you do.
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I'm 20, I'm ugly, dating seems hopeless. What do?
I'm not posting a picture, it's not my hair or anything superficial, my face is just a 4/10. I lift my body is good.
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>I lift my body is good
Protip: if you say that out loud, it's never true.
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>>17166174
Thanks for the advice.
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>>17166174
rude
anyways, good for you exercising. i think the most important part is staying a wonderful human being. someone will take a chance on you. just dont wholly focus on dating/love as your end-all
improve yourself
Why the fuck does this shit have to happen?
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Because kids jump on the bed, it says right in the title
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Why did something like 7000 children die today because they didn't have access to clean drinking water?
The world is a shitty, dirty, violent, awful place, you pansy-ass faggot motherfucker.
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>>17166160
if you don't want to get treated like a bitch don't jump on the bed
Okay, so I generally feel sad alot nowadays. I'm doing poorly in my major, my best friend doesn't like me the way I like her which bothers me, I don't enjoy things much anymore, I feel like i'm never good enough, and I really don't know what I want to do with my life or where I should guide myself. What is wrong with me?
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>>17166176
Not trying to sound like one, I really just feel sad all the time, and I usually just want to sleep.
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You are depressed my friend. Try taking a 10 minute walk through your neighborhood, admire the present and avoid losing yourself in the past and the future. Go to a park, exercise, run or stretch. Do some physical activity to get your blood pumping and your body warm, this will make you feel alive and good. Also, if you are masturbating a lot, I suggest you cut porn and fapping for a week and see how that makes you feel. Change takes time, so remember to not overwork yourself, if all of these things are new to you then take it slow. Hope everything turns out well for you, anon. Oh another thing, by focusing on yourself your friend will notice changes, this will make her more attracted to you since girls like a man with drive. Good luck.
How can I entertain my partners?
I've been into multiple relationships where the sex was good, but outside that, everything was really boring and bland. My ex always complained that I couldn't entertain them, that I was always too quiet, and I won't deny it. It's true that I never talk. But what can I talk about? I ask them about their day, they are like "was ok", and then... what do I do? If I talk about my interests or what I've seen or idk what, they just go like "ah", and it stops there.
The same is happening in my current relationship, and this is really stressing the fuck out of me. I'm considering breaking up with him because we never talk and I always feel horrible about it, but the thought of it makes me feel bad because I know this is my fault. If I don't learn how to entertain a relationship, I will never get into one that will last. Now, the main reason why I broke up with my ex was because they never were supportive of me, they always told me that what I did was pointless and useless, and my current boyfriend encourages me in what I do, but... still, if I talk about myself, "ah", and if I ask about him, "eh". So... how do I make conversation? How do I entertain him? He keeps complaining that I never talk to him... Just now, I told him that I saw some crazy thing on a website and he told me "nah I don't want to see it", and now, well... I just have no fucking clue what to do...
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You gay nigga?
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>>17166132
This. You've got to clear that shit up, because if you're entertaining a man or women the game changes entirely.
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I'm a straight woman.
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Hey, /adv/; how can I make my very reserved and private boyfriend more comfortable and open with me?
We have great communication when it comes to our relationship and other important things, but I want to get to know him better without feeling like I'm bombarding him with questions.
So, reserved /adv/isors, what makes you feel more open/comfortable to talk to someone? Or for other anons with private partners, how do/did you get to know your partner better?
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Play drinking games. Or just sit around and get plain old drunk with each other.
Alcohol: Bringing people together since forever.
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>>17166152
Personally I'm not much of a drinker, but sure, I could give that a shot! (ba dum tss.)
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>>17166123
i have no advice for you that doesnt involve some variety of intoxication, but i kek'd audibly at your image. so thanks for that.
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>23 year old gril
>Dating (dated) 31 year old man for 2 months
>Broke up 3 days ago
>Get drunk 1-2 days a week
>Will have a beer or two a few other times a week
>Guy doesn't drink much
>Says he doesn't trust drugs and alcohol
>Says he's been cheated on in the past
>Asked me to cut back drinking to one day a week
>Broke up with me when I refused
I'm not really sure what to do, I don't really feel like I should give up having fun when I'm at a time in my life where I have so much going on and few responsibilities. I care about this guy a lot but don't feel like he should be trying to control me and I haven't done anything wrong for him not to trust me.
Anyone been in my position? Advice?
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>>17166099
Why you dranking so much?
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You ever consider that maybe he's not trying to be controlling - you two are just incompatible?
He's not only at a different stage in his life (quite the age gap), he wants a different lifestyle altogether. If it's only been a couple months with him, as you said, I would let it go.
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>>17166103
I like beer - it's not like I'm getting trashed more than once or twice a week
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How do you lose cheek fat for that sexy James franco smile?
I'm down nearly 100 pounds but my cheeks are still thick as fuck
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lose more weight. There's no tried and proven way to only lose weight in certain spots.
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>>17166048
What exactly are you talking about?
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>>17166057
This.
Lose more weight but focus on losing fat and gaining muscle. You can't just "exercise your face" or some other bullshit like that. You might find that you have a fat face or oddly shaped cheek bones. Shitty genetics, but that's your hand. Play it as well as you can.
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How do I politely tell guys I'm talking to that I'm a lesbian?
I'm not out-and-proud, and I guess I pass as a straight girl. I don't get too much attention from guys, but when I do, it's really hard for me to tell if they're interested in me, or if they just want to be friends.
I don't know how to mention I'm a lesbian without making it all about me or attention seeking. But because I always just hope the guy isn't interested in me, I've "led on" several guys, and a creepy boss, who I guess assumed I was interested because I never gave enough indication of the contrary. It's really not fun and stressful. Any advice?
On my Facebook it says "interested in women," but I don't know if people actually check that section on a person's profile. I don't really post LGBTQ+ statuses or anything.
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I just tell them when it comes up (that is, a guy is asking me out).
Some guys pick it up when I comment on cute girls or they see my phone background idk
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>>17166042
>comment on cute girls
I like this one. Thanks!
My problem is that, alas, most of the guys I attract are not macho men, but more sensitive be-friends-first types. They're great to talk to, not so much to fend off. Like, with one, I thought we were friends up to the point that he kissed me. And with my creepy boss, I thought he saw himself as like my uncle until his hands were all over my hips.
Often, when something like that happens, I feel so stupid and guilty for not letting them know sooner that I was a lesbian, that I just play along for a while and then GTFO as soon as I can and cut contact. I guess, like you>>17166042, I need to find better ways to work in liking girls into my daily life so that I don't have to explain myself to every male friend I make.
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ow do you know if someone is lesbian? dont worry they will tell you
I want sex, but every time there's a chance to get some I get scared that I'll change my mind at the last second and the guy will flip his shit, and the thought puts me off so much that I don't want it anymore. And yet I keep wanting sex.
How do I make it stop?
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just go have sex
then you'll be over your stupid worries
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>>17166037
I can vividly remember just how bad it feels to be pushed in dry. I still get a little phantom pain about the sensation and it's been years since I've been fucked last.
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>>17166044
Don't fuck dry.>>17166044
Hi /adv/. Here's my problem.
I'm about to turn 26 and I feel unfulfilled.
I work a lot, and got nothing in return.
I love a lot, and got nothing in return
Also, as a male, the lack of a proper sexual life drives me insane. It makes me want to kill myself but in a literal way. It makes me feel like a loser, like I'm way less than the others. It makes me feel like I'm missing out of the best feeling there is (in fact, I'm sure this is the best feeling there is because I'm not a virgin)
I have this feeling like I'm going absolutely crazy. I want to stop feeling desperate. I don't want to grow old empty and alone, but it seems that's the way its going to be.
I was even thinking on becoming a full Buddhist and leaving my city forever (you can't meditate here), but that also sounds batshit insane, I would probably suffer anyway and even starve.
I need some advice or anything. This is not going to end well for me if I don't make a decision.
This is too much for me to handle, I seriously want this to stop
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bump ;_;
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what is your job?
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How do I deal with a video game addiction?
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I've been addicted to video games since 2014, is there any way I can get over this addiction without giving up on video games forever?
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>addicted
>video games
dude you need to just go outside.
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I've been playing games since 1990. I'd say I got addicted around 2000 with Counterstrike and Diablo 2. If I had to guess I put thousands of hours into each game, literally thousands.
I've had a pretty normal life otherwise. Been working for 15 years. Went to college. Been in 7 relationships. 3 of which lasted 1-2 years. Have a social life. Point is you can play a ton of games and have a normal life still.
I don't play as much anymore just because I can't find games I enjoy anymore. I did sink a couple hundred hours into each of the Dark Souls games the last few years.
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It's also a problem when you can't stop thinking about them and you dont see your friends often.
What are some fashion tricks to hide your ugliness?
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>>17165999
wear a niqab
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man or woman?
Actually, it doesn't matter. guys can use makeup to great effect, too. Also, another piece of universal advice is to dress your age and wear clothes that fit.
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>>17165999
Get ripped, lurk fashion forums.
Look at casey neistat, ugly ass 5'9" goblin looking motherfucker, and he could probably still fuck all the pussy he wanted
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A chick just recently moved out of the house I'm also renting, and she hasn't returned to clean her room or the bathroom she used, I've got my own shower and toilet and don't share the one that she used. The carpet needs vacuuming and the shelves could do with a dust, there's also shower scum on the shower doors, the landlord lives away and wants me to organize another person to move in. We were both house sharing and there's no lease that we signed.
It's not my responsibility to clean her room, should I just text her to ask if she's coming back to clean the rooms she used?
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Is it just those few things you've mentioned? Would probably be faster for you just to do it yourself than to even contact the girl and sort out her coming back to do it. Do you like your landlord? Then maybe just do them a solid. Might help down the line if you miss rent one month or something like that.
On the flip side, no, doubt you're obligated in any way to clean her part if you really don't want to.
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>>17165986
How about a mexican clean lady? I swear to God my appartment has never been cleaner.
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>>17166149
I looked at the bathroom and I can see marks where she's tried cleaning the mirror and shower doors so I won't need to bother really, it's just a sharehouse, not like it's getting put on the market.