Kind of confused /adv/. Met a girl on the bus earlier today, told her she was pretty, exchanged numbers, and we laughed and talked nonstop till the bus stopped.
Sent her a text message. It's been like 4 hours with no reply.
I mean I thought everything went fine. Kind of confused why she would just ignore me.
First girl I've sparked with in years.
>>17168793
Holy shit dude. Maybe she's busy. Calm down stalker.
>>17168798
nope, its been 4 hours she had plenty of time to respond
sorry OP but this one ain't the one
>>17168793
She was being polite, you fucking sperglord. She doesn't like you. She doesn't want to talk to you. Nobody meets their girlfriend on the bus. She laughed and gave you a fake number because you made her feel uncomfortable and she didn't want to risk a confrontation with someone who tries to pick up chicks on the bus.
I'm in bed right now. I need some help. Anytime I'm not at work Im asleep. It feels awful. I have no drive anymore. I'm irritable, tired, I get nothing done, I don't go out anymore. It's not even a taxing job. It's just a pizza job and I'm only 18. Any thoughts?
I think that trying to be so ridiculously reductive when it comes to the complexities of the Israeli Palestinian conflict is idiotic.
You have depression. Seek therapy.
>>17168811
Man I don't wanna go to therapy. Can't I just take meds?
I just attained my first gf. Last night, I rejected the first sexual advance ever made on me.
I was never taught a lot of things, and this includes hygiene. This is why I rejected her.
1. Am I supposed to shave my asscrack/cheeks/gouch? Do I trim or shave? Do I need shaving cream?
2. Am I supposed to wash my asscrack? Rub it with something or with soap?
3. How far back is the foreskin supposed to go?
4. Are women really hairless in these places and are their assholes not brown? My only experience with this would be through porn.
>>17168764
1) Shave the gouch
2)Wash your whole body you filthy subhuman
3)(cut-bro here) I have no fucking clue
4) Expect some hair. Some girls shave everything, most dont.
Next time let her suck your dirty dick.
>>17168764
Dude fuck all that shit
In those situations you're suppose to just let go and succumb to her pusstwang.
>>17168764
1. Whatever floats your boat?
2. Isn't washing your ass part of your usual washing routine?
3. All the way until your dickbone is exposed
4. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
*ahem*
4. No.
There was a girl that I used to talk to that was from another state. She was very attractive and super kinky. (Masochism, strangulation, rape, etc)
The downside is that she seemed a little crazy. She had a different boyfriend every month and she would be flirting with me as well. She also would tell me some fucked up things about her childhood. Saying her step brothers had sex with her. And she also was a cutter and attempted suicide before.
Eventually she started sending me nudes and and hinted at us getting together. While she was doing this, she wouldn't really text me unless I texted first. It seemed a bit like mixed signals.
I ended up just telling her I couldn't talk to her anymore. I felt guilty because she obviously had some issues, I was afraid that getting involved with her was only going to fuck me over, and it just seemed to good to be true for how good she looked and how interesting she was. This was 3 months ago.
Since then I have had her on my mind. Its not logical at all, but that doesn't stop it. I feel like her fucked up mental state is like a magnet to my fucked up mental state, and it doesn't help that she is exactly what I am looking for in a woman physically.
What should I do to get her off my mind? I have gotten so close to texting her so many times, but my gut is telling me to stay the fuck away.
Pic related, she looks like this with a darker hair color.
>>17168755
I was in that situation
I wish I had been a little more reckless and opened Pandora 's box but regrettably I didn't :(
>>17168763
>>>17168755 (OP) (You)
>I was in that situation
>I wish I had been a little more reckless and opened Pandora 's box but regrettably I didn't :(
To me it seems like she has BPD traits (I've been with girls that have had BPD), and if that's the case then as soon as I would get more involved with her, I would be dropped off the face of the earth.
It also was confusing with figuring out how intrested she was with me. Like I said she sent pictures of her and would text back and talk, but I usually had to initiate it. Then one of the last times I talked to her, she said she was jealous of a girl that I had been hanging out with.
I need advice :(
Why is being direct so offputting to people? How can I get better at wordplay? Specifically, I need to work on concisely expressing my thoughts instead of going overboard with verbosity. Halp
>>17168739
Hit us with a situation
>>17168744
Say a handsome guy walks in the room, introduces himself, and I break the ice with 'wow, you're attractive' just because he is and he obviously knows it and I'd be crazy if I didn't think so.
Or, not sugar-coating opinions when asked for one
I get the feeling you're just a brash asshole and don't even realize it. You can be direct and concise yet not come across as being a dick. People do it all the time.
You're probably autistic. I know the term gets thrown around here a lot but in your case it sounds like it may be true.
>verbosity
>over explains things
>gets frustrated because people don't understand
>thinks people are annoyed
>maybe people really are annoyed
>either way you are annoying and social awkward
If this is the case I'm not sure how you cure autism. I'm sure you can manage it better but you'll never be fully cured. Sorry bro.
So, I was on a date and we went back to her place and two things happened which I need help for both to understand:
>When I started fingering her, there was a weird thing inside her vagina.
Like some flesh or something that I could feel, it was really weird and as I fingered it started to bleed. She said she wasn't in pain and it could be her hymen repaired and I broke it again? Is that a thing?
>my dick would not get hard/stay hard.
I'm 19 but my dick would not get hard. I was turned on and wanted to do it, but it wouldn't work. I used to be on Prozac which causes dysfunction but that was years ago.
Help and advice for either or both would be greatly appreciated
>>17168738
Your dick was trying to prevent you from fucking her. Why was it doing that, fuck if i know.
Yeah the hymen never gets "popped" only stretched. IF a girl goes about a year without a good dicking or placing more than one finger in her vag, the hymen will go back to its normal position.
>>17168842
>your dick was trying to prevent you from fucking her
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rbBX6aEzEz8
You sure it wasn't her cervix? Never heard of one bleeding though, unless of course it's period time.
How do I become a good student? I barely graduated high school and going to community college in the fall. I don't think I'm retarded, I just don't know how to learn.
take good notes in class/actually listen to what the professor is saying (unless it's painfully fucking boring)
if you don't understand something, ASK FOR HELP. not only will asking your prof for help end up answering your questions, but it makes you look like you care, which goes miles if you need a favor later in the semester.
also always do your homework. no matter what. it's fucking annoying to do, but it'll save your grade
Read the assigned material, attend lectures, take decent notes, ask questions when you don't understand something, turn in assigned work on time.
Is this satire?
Just now, I don't know why but I got this overwhelming urge to get rid of all my porn.
I have 36.2 GB on my harddrive. Hundreds of bookmarks.
I feel like I'm wasting my time, hurting my body, and just making myself a worst for wear fapping everyday. Sifting threw files and links just to get that momentary release.
Right now I got rid of a few pictures and links but I'm still being decisive about what to toss and what to keep.
Has anyone here ever weened themselves off porn?
How do I break the habit of daily masturbation?
How do I prevent myself from collecting again?
>>17168708
Have you tried nofap?
>>17168740
No. I've used masturbation as a "stress reliever" but I know in the back of my mind that's me bullshitting myself. Also it's part of my daily regiment. I can hardly start the day without stopping and doing it.
Thinking about it now I feel a bit embarrassed that I've used it as such.
do it and stop jerking to porno just so you can know what it's like not to have a secret porno bunker. you won't be able to know what it's like on the other side without going there
So I broke up with my ex a few months ago and recently started dating.
I went out with this girl yesterday, cute and interesting and we ended up having sex and seh stayed over and it was nice.
But I still feel kind of dead and empty and like I either want to see other girls still or noone at all.
Is that a dick move? Because I feel like she wants to commit and I don't really feel up for that yet.
How do I into casually dating more than one woman?
>>17168703
The trick to casually date more than one woman is to casually date more than one woman. It's almost as if the description of the thing describes it completely.
>>17168715
/thread
>>17168715
Alright, what I meant is.
Is there any way to do it without coming off as an asshole, do I tell this girl?
Will she feel cheated if I don't?
anything I can do about my fucked up eye?
what is it? excess skin?
plastic surgery.
Someone tell me how I go about fixing my arm if my general physician isn't helping?
>>17168676
You've got really pretty eyes!
Looks to me like oculomotor n paralysis, levator palpebrae not opening.
Or it could be Horners syndrome if you have lack of sweat, flushing, and pupil constriction on that side of your face.
But don't take it seriously, ask an actual doc
>>17168676
Man I woodland even worry about that.0
How do you find a gay guy who isn't a libtard? Do they even exist or am I doomed to be alone?
>>17168652
Those dudes are so deep in the closet they're finding Christmas presents!
I'm not gay, but it kind of seems to be in the interest of such easily put-into-campable minorities such as yours or women or ethnic peoples to err on the "libtard" side of things.
>>17168652
Either in the closet or attached to whoever got them out of it
hey so i've talked about this several times. here's the summary:
>Older adult brother is an abusive pos
>Walks all over the parents.
>Gave me bruised ribs
>Fist fights with dad
>Let out several cats on purpose to be eaten by coyotes just cuz he was angry.
>Now be me for a second
>Became Neet mid college because of severe GAD
>Keeping the house together at least.
>Now going to therapy, and it's going great.
>Life's getting better. going back to school. learning how to drive.
>In the meantime, lightly pester people about the things they leave out, like you'd expect from the maid.
>Brother is the worst offender. gets annoyed because of it.
>Brother starts bullying me more severely.
>Leaving really awful notes, physically pushing me, ect.
>Would have called the cops but parents discouraged it.
>Really trying his hardest to tear me down.
>Still, no one is on his side.
>Big family fight
>Brother lost
>Now he hhhaaaaates me. Can't even stand my voice.
>A month later am trying to be cordial with him.
>AKA if this doesn't stop, at least I'll be the better person.
>He won't budge. ho'kay then
Okay, so about a month ago the parent's managed to get him to pay rent. Awesome! However that was one time, and they'll likely forget. I want them to keep it up, but I also feel bad about bringing it up because I don't want it to seem like I'm too focused on him. He just gets away with this crap far too easily.
Yes, to some degree, I do hate him. He needs to learn to respect the parents, and with this behavior that's not happening. Also if he thinks it's okay to do those things, you bet your ass I'll revel in making his life harder than he wants it to be.
TL;DR Brother's an abusive asshole. He needs to pay rent again. How do I bring it up to the parents without it seeming like I care too much about him?
>>17168637
Stop being a fucking beta and get the cops involved. If he's willing to kill cats, it's only a matter of time before he moves up to people.
>>17168637
Dude where do you live?
I'll beat your bro's ass
>>17168637
I was in the same situation except with a sister, I was only able to solve my problem with the help of the police. You mention you're going to therapy, have you tried talking to your therapist about it? They will likely have a lot of resources and be much more informative/helpful in this situation than we can be.
At some point in my life, I stopped feeling like the main character of my own story.
How do I get back to that?
Are you saying you lack in narcissism?
>>17168617
I'm pretty narcissistic, but maybe everyone around me is more narcissistic? Or maybe they just block out my narcissism?
>>17168628
Are you sure you know what the word means?
Gonna be rushing when the semester starts
>>17168578
be willing to pay for friends and be a general douche
>>17168584
Ignore him, he is jelly because he didn't get a bid.
>>17168578
Their literally is no tip to get into a fraternity. Go rush, have fun, and be the person you are when no one is watching.
Every house is different, fine the one that you feel will develop you the best for the real world.
If you are a freshman, trust me we expect you to be a bit off. Kinda like clay, we don't expect you to be perfectly sculpted. We just need to be sure that you are willing and able to trust us to mold you into something spectacular.
>>17168794
>trust us to change you as a person
OP don't, take your own path
I think yes. For example: a man who is
out of shape but not drastically
overweight can not succeed
in the hip-hop community.
Wrong board
This is an interesting topic. We say you can't judge the book by its cover, and it's true.
BUT
If a guy has dirty clothes, green mohawk and piercings all over his face, it doesn't mean he breaks store windows in his pastimes. But it means he will attract the kind of people with dirty clothes, mohawk, piercings, etc. that DO break windows in their pastimes, willingly or not. And if he lets these people into his life, it is likely he'll start breaking shit up too.
>>17168547
>body type
Dirty clothes is not a body type. Now go do your laundry, son.