How can I entertain my partners? I've been into multiple

You gay nigga?

>>17166132
This. You've got to clear that shit up, because if you're entertaining a man or women the game changes entirely.

I'm a straight woman.

>>17166151
What's one of the top complaints by men about their women? They constantly fill up empty days meant for lazing around doing nothing with random shit to do.
Take them to markets, go running, do things you want to do. If they don't want to tag along, then fuck 'em .

If they sit around bored all day waiting for you to entertain them, then stop dating faggy boys. Men don't have time to wait for women to entertain them.

Have you tried going for a guy with a similar personality as your own? "Talks less publicly, but would rather go into actual conversation than bullshit" is the vibe I'm getting.

There's a lot of people who either don't understand or don't want to, and it takes a lot of time sifting through the sand to find something of value.

Not to sound sexist, but at least as a woman, you have a choice. By this, I mean you can go from bad boyfriend from the next, with ease, because everyone's looking for a good girlfriend, not a good boyfriend. A lot of girls just end up thinking they can fix up whatever they can get into a "good guy" by fucking them, and then it turns out a whole bunch of jerks who think they have any game because one hot chick gave them a dog's chance.

I believe that's the main reason for the obvious disease that is American dating. By products of impatience, from both side. So eager to find a gem in the jungle, we end up turning to things that seem good on the outside instead of brushing off the dirty nugget. Then we start spraying poop chrome and call it "sexy". :/

My point is sometimes you have to step out of your safety zone in order to grow. Maybe whatever common trait between these guys that you're attracted to is actually the problem.

>>17166191
Well to be honest our personality is pretty similar... I'd say it's the interests that aren't similar. I'm kinda thinking this is the main issue, because the ex that I shared the most interests with was my longest and happiest relationship until he became a faggot over his mother dating a new man after his father's death. My current relationship is very recent, but it seems like we share no common interest, therefore the communication problem. He's supportive of what I do, but it feels like whatever I talk about, it's w/e, and he never tells me anything. Then he's like "oh you're mad at me you don't talk to me" but... what am I supposed to say?

I guess this would also be good general advice, because I don't really have friends. I never know what to talk about whenever there's people around. And since I got dysphasia, it's always hard for me to join a group, but even on one to one, I don't know what to talk about. My interests don't interest anyone, and they never want to tell me anything. What to do past the "how's your day?" step? Am I supposed to ask questions like if I'm doing an interrogation, to try and pull any sort of information from them to spark some sort of dialogue?

Date someone that you can have a comfortable silence with. The worst thing in a relationship is feeling pressured to entertain or fill a silence with conversation, I think. Find someone you can just relax and say/do nothing with and be content doing it.

>>17166231
>dysphasia
Didn't know that was a thing, now I do. Thanks. You make me wonder if I have that from multiple head wounds over the years, now.

>am I supposed to interrogate
This I understand as well, it takes a lot of time to figure out how to pry properly. If its someone like yourself, yes. At least a little, because you already know its not something that you want to discuss openly. At risk of being ostracized, guys HAVE to repress. The ones who -are- open about themselves are seen as "bitches", aka complainers or in the closet. So ask how you would like to be asked about certain things: delicately.

I'm jealous at the same time, saying all of this. Supreme pussy envy for the fact that I can share this type of advice online, but when its revealed in real life, everyone wants to treat me like shit because of it. Like breaking life's fourth wall.