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I'm 21 and I'm just now realizing I may be schizoaffective. How does one manage it and how or what can I do to help?
Many of the symptoms seem to fall in line with a lot of what I've experienced. I never really considered the possibility until I tried some acid about a month ago. As I started peaking I began getting paranoid which quickly turned into fear and I got stuck in a bad trip. Afterwards I always felt something was off about me.
My parents exhibit some features of schizophrenia so genes might be a factor but they've never had a proper diagnosis so it's all guesswork.
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Go see a doctor
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>>17165981
This. Self diagnosing is almost always a dumb as shit thing to do. Even if you're trained to diagnosis this stuff, it's still stupid to try to diagnosis yourself.
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>>17165977
This is the first time I've heard of schizoaffective disorder and according to the symptoms it sounds a lot like me. I should see a doctor. You too, OP.
Met a new girl, been dating for a while.
I'm 26, she's 19.
How do you guys think I should go about introducing her to my kids? (2 and 5), both girls.
I'm pretty nervous about how and when I should do this,
I'd like to move her in to my place as soon as I can.
Should I introduce her, then have her move in? or just introduce her as as she moves in?
How do I introduce her? As their new mother?
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>>17165959
PS: don't know how I forgot to mention, their mother passed. That's why I am single.
That also complicated things for the older daughter
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So, she will be a kid taking care of your other kids?
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>>17165965
Why post if you're going to shitpost?
Don't worry hun, you'll find a man, just as soon as you turn 40 next year
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I have been called "unapproachable" on more than one occasion, likewise I have been told I have a aura that says " I'm better than you".
How do I fix this?
Decent looking dude.
On the thinner side, but not a stick, I have some muscle, but not even close to being jacked in any capacity.
How do I stop intimidating people? I don't want to become some punk bitch, but I don't want to needlessly drive people away.
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>>17165925
Embrace it.
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okay
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>>17165925
listen to people
don't excessively talk about yourself
smile
listen to people
be genuinely nice. you sound far too concerned with your physical appearance and seem like a very vain person
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I'm a 24 year old girl and never had a relationship
I've passed my prime now though, right? I'm depressed about that, I'll never get to experience what other girls experienced in their younger years
How do I stop feeling so depressed?
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>>17165857
Get a boyfriend.
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>>17165857
there's no such thing as "prime" you dumbo, you're a woman. You'll always be "in your prime".
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Do you believe you've passed your prime? You also shouldn't worry about what others are experiencing because regardless of what you may believe they're all different. Go after what you want, nothing is stopping you but yourself.
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How can I meet people?
I'm quite tired of being alone
Most of my interests are solo interests
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here
give me your email
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>>17165816
>Most of my interests are solo interests
join a rock band
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>>17165842
I appreciate it, but online friendships just don't make me feel any less lonely anymore.
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Girlfriend always squirts... 2016-05-21 02:00:47 Post No.17165801
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Girlfriend always squirts...
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OK, I don't know how I knew, but when I started messing around with my girlfriend, I imagined that she would squirt the first time she came. Wasn't wishful thinking or anything, just the image I had in my head.
She was very inexperienced and had never actually cum before.
So I fuck and finger her and bam, she squirts fucking buckets.
So I'm thinking "well it shouldn't happen every time, just if you get too worked up".
But no, since then I've tried fingering, fucking and a vibrator to make her cum and every time she soaks the bed.
Anybody know how to do this without making such a mess?
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I'm asking partly because it smells like cat piss. It's not her, I've noticed it with others too....
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>>17165801
a towell or dirty sheet?
im gay, and we cant have sex without lube, and lube is messy and sticky and i dont want it on my bed but its impossible just to keep it on the dick. plus sometimes the cleaning process isnt so great and a tiny bit of shit gets out, or my cum leaks out of his ass or what have you.
so we have a dirty old sheet we get out when having sex, and put it away when done.
ruins the build up to sex but eh
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>>17165810
>ruins the build up to sex but eh
This part I can relate to. I put a towel under her, doubled-up, and she soaks through it. So then I change the sheet and put a towel under it and it soaks through the new sheet...
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Give me one logically sound reason not to end my life.
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because you are seeking one.
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>>17165788
That's not a reason. Somebody considering buying a great new set of headphones might be checking out if there are any good reasons not to buy them that he hasn't thought of, that doesn't mean he won't buy them anyway.
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>>17165786
You haven't paid me the money you owe me.
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Go back to being a hermit? 2016-05-21 01:46:04 Post No.17165763
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Go back to being a hermit?
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>19
I don't know about you guys, but honestly being social has brought me nothing but trouble. I hate my job, and I'm pretty sure i failed the only community college class I was taking.
And honestly I'm lonely and want a relationship. However my coworker tells me that being Unhappy with yourself and trying to get into a relationship will end up bad, no matter the scenario.
So I'm thinking that maybe for the next few months I'll go back to being a hermit, and just do the following
>wake up
>Go to work
>Go home
>Play vidya
>Workout
>sleep
>repeat
I hate all the coworkers who aren't in my department, I'm salty as hell to everybody else but the people I work close with. And all the girls I try talking to they just leave me on seen.
So should I dedicate this summer to me and me only? Maybe hang out with a couple of friends every now and then?
And if I go back to school, continue being a hermit and just concentrate on my studies?
Part of me tells me that this is what I need.
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>>17165763
your co worker is correct.
if interacting with people brings you trouble, and NOT interacting with people makes you lonely, then the problem is YOU. you are not the kind of person you'd like to spend time with. otherwise you simply would.
hanging out with friends is a good idea if you like them and enjoy it. you should be enriching each others lives. if you arent, and you dont see it going anywhere let it fade out.
try new stuff this summer. things you think might be fun. if they arent fun, move along.
there is a native american spirit totem for the bobcat, that teaches people to be 'alone without being lonely'.
think of that as you go forward.
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>>17165800
Could you elaborate more on how I'm not the type of person I'd spend time with?
How can you tell? And is there a way to improve it?
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>>17165820
>could you elaborate more on how I'm not the type of person I'd spend time with?
>how could you tell.
you literally said so. you get lonely . and don't worry, we all do to some degree. but the way you say it and in the context of the situation, you're implying that you dont like to be alone most of the time. if you were the kidn of person you'd like to spend time with, you'd be fine spending time by yourself.
if you find yourself yearning for company most every night in a negative way, then you need to consider improving yourself and/or your life.
>is there a way to improve it
yes. mostly through self discovery. I think part of the issue here is in your OP you act as if there are only two choices
>be a social butterfly
>be a hermit
you can be both. most people dont know that the real meanins of introverted and extroverted simply means someone who recharges by being alone or being with people respectively.
an introvert can like spending MORE time with people than an extrovert, simply because he needs to recharge. people dont exhaust him.
a lot of people on /adv/ claim they are introverts, but then talk about how lonely they are, how fucked they are, how its the worst thing ever. they arent introverts. they are extroverts who just arent doing what they are supposed to. or at best, somewhere in the middle.
my point here is that you have more choices than just 'an introvert who hates people' and 'chad the extrovert who knows everyone.'
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>girl gives me her number at work
>we text for a while, go out to park to walk our dogs together
>she seems really cool, though she tells me shes celibate and super religious, im kind of put off but still interested
>also mentions previous drug history and tumultuous relationships
>go out again, hiking and then to resteraunt
>shes is really moody this time, it like comes out of nowhere
>shes talking about the end times and how shes saved but other people arent
>she keeps saying that im probably a huge slut even though Ive told her ive only been with like 6 people
>go out again, hiking, and have a REALLY great time. no awkwardness or negativity
>we're both really flirty and touchy, I feel so comfortable, and happy
>go out again today
>walking her dog at the park again cause its nice out
>things start out ok, but then get negative again
>she starts getting mad cause i keep scratching my eye
>its like really making her mad, like im doing it on purpose
>I ask her what the problem is but she says "dont play dumb, you know what you're doing"
>literally talking to herself about crazy jesus shit again
>walk her back to her car and shes just berating me at this point
>say ill see her later and leave
Im not sure if this chick is bipolar or paranoid schizo. But she seems to be a legit crazy person. I have a BA in Psych but I dont know if its worth it. It sucks cause before today I really thought she could be like my next gf.
Im a pretty patient person when it comes to relationships and am always looking to work to solve the problem, is it worth it if they're mental?
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>>17165744
>has a B.A in Psychology.
>doesn't follow rule numero uno, don't stick your dick in crazy.
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>>17165749
Ive dealt with 'crazy' chicks before but not to this extent.
I also have a tendency to get attached quickly.
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So here's the deal. I'm engaged to this guy (were in our early 30s) but,i don't know, i just don't really feel happy with him. It's complicated though because i feel like i really need to settle down before there aren't any men interested in me.
I've gotten some flirty vibes from a couple of his friends and i even had a little fling with one of them(Jamal) a couple weeks ago.
My fiance is a nice guy and all and not that bad looking its just he's kind of a man child. He pretty much bends to my will about anything, always asks me how to do the most menial of tasks, etc etc. I feel like I'm living with a teenager.
Anyway so he's kind of a trump supporter (in guessing compensating for his insecurities) so today I have him an ultimatum. I said he has to vote for Hilary or I'll leave him. Politics is something hes really adamant about so I'm hoping he'll keep his dignity and end or relationship.
I know this is the wrong way to go about it but I wanted him to be the one that decides to break it off (that way it's his fault).
What do you think? Did I do the right thing?
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>jamal
bait
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Haha get outta here with that cuck bait shit
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>>17165735
for shame anon, you didn't even try with this bait.
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I have a junk car. It runs nice and I'm completely fine with it. I don't care what others think about it because it gets me where I want so I have 0 complaints.
So today my mom says if I want a new cheap car since I've had that car for a year now.
Is it wrong for me to not be excited? I mean I didn't really care because I don't care for these kinds of things and she got mad for not really caring.
To be honest, I'd rather have the money instead of getting a new car. I drive a 01 chevy prizm. Windows aren't even automatic.
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Nothing wrong with it, your mom's being weird for getting mad for you not wanting a new car.
In my opinion being frugal like that is definitely good
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>>17165715
If it ain't broke, it doesn't need to be fixed
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>>17165715
What would you use the money for instead? Maybe she's upset because you're not like a normal dude who wants a sports car, loves sports, and dates stacies. Maybe she's upset because you didn't show enough gratitude? Maybe she's menopausal? Who knows?
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So, I slept with a co-worker two nights ago. This girl is the girl of my DREAMS. She's giving me some mixed signals if she wants a relationship. Dunno what to do.
Last night I stayed the night at her place. We kissed and fell asleep next to eachother (like pretzel mode type cuddling). There's so much more to this story, but I'll keep it brief.
Today we were texting. I told her how meaningful that night was to me. She didn't really reciprocate any feelings, now I'm over thinking it. Should I just lay off and let her figure things out herself?
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>>17165702
Back off for now. There's nothing that can make it worse than smothering her.
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Don't push it on her. But give her time to think about it and if she continues sleeping with you and not reciprocating any emotions then youre just fwb and you should move on and keep looking. If she does come around then grest job much spagett to you. But seriously don't push your own emotions on her.
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So, did I fuck up by telling her my feelings? I wanted to make it clear that it wasn't really a "hit it and quit it" type of night.
I'll back off. Sounds like a good idea.
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So I've been on Wellbutrin (Bupropion, 300mg XL) and Paxil (Peroxetine 20mg) for roughly 12-13 months.
Now, I've begun the process of tapering off of this shit, basically because I don't want to take this stuff anymore. So far, my doctor has prescribed me with less Wellbutrin (150mg X) and completely stopped the Paxil. It's only day 4 so far, and I'm still feeling generally miserable, nauseous, tired, and weird.
How long do these withdrawal symptoms generally last for the average person? Anybody have similar experiences and stories?
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a...a-anybody?
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>>17165687
cannabis may help. do some googling, read up a bit on this. not trolling, not dudeweedlmaoing. check local laws and ordinances for legal status.
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Shit, you're trying to be naturally happy?
I would say give it at least a week. That's how long I was grumpy for when I took a break off bud.
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For Australians. What's the best way to get rid of HECS? Is there anyway to reduce it or workarounds?
Thinking of joining navy (seems easiest of three) and getting tax free dollars to pay it off.
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>>17165683
It's called getting a job, grafting your arse off and earning money son. That's literally all there is to it.
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>>17165683
mfw they took away the ability to remove it by moving to another country a few months ago
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>is there anyway to reduce it?
Yeah...by earning enough to pay it off. Sorry you chose an arts degree.
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>like girl at work
>we talk a lot and she laughs at the shit I say
>tell her I'm going to play Pokemon cards at an event a couple weeks ago
>she wants to come with and watch me
>we have a nice time
>we do it last weekend too and even grab food afterward
>she acts weird this week, kinda cold and dismissive
>still wants to go with me this weekend
What the fuck should I do? I feel like I did something wrong.
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>>17165665
Ask her simply if you did something wrong
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>>17165668
I guess I can do that. I think I got too overeager and may have fucked things up. She's really introverted. She told me that she really likes her alone time, but that she still likes hanging out with me. I don't know what to do.
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>>17165679
If she already told you that, she's probably more of an upfront person. Just be honest with her and keep it easy. Don't talk too much or backtrack, think before you talk, y'know ?