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>>17164404
you should tell him, even if he claims to not believe you, he will at least take in into consideration and be on the look out.

>>17164404
Why not?

>>17164427
I don't know his wife, that's why I'm not sure if I should do it. Some may say it's none of my business..

>>17164403
There's something called an abortion..

>>17164418
well yeah, but we're still really early in and we just want to see if there's any cheap methods besides he abortion clinic, if all else fails then yes to standard abortion but for now we just wanted to see if there are any other methods.

Like i tell everyone else that post stuff like this, its not the childs fault that you two dumb fucks didnt use some kind of protection/caution. I hope you both feel so depressed from now on after this.

>>17164377
Most girls have heaps of hookups the first few years of college. Get the fuck over it

>>17164377
you are mistaken OP. your gf does like all this shit just not when you do it

>>17164377
start selling her ass

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>>17164367
Looks Hazel


I always must ask for opinions on mine when an Eye thread pops up.

>>17164367
Looks like that eye that appears at the end of the x files theme

>>17164371
Your eye color is: punchable.

>>17164341
Everything you mentioned in physical. That is your problem. Your personality probably blows dicks. Girls care far more about how you speak to them than what you look like. The sooner you stop thinking girls are like you, and are looking for similar traits that men look for in women, the sooner you can start to realize the things they want out of a guy.

>>1716435
So girls are after intelligence over looks? Like I'm pretty retarded but no go fuck you're self.

Also I keep hearing my personality sucks from people here so let me elaborate, I usually let people walk all over me and am not a yes man but keep my mouth shut and try to see other peoples point of views, now I don't think Im entitled to anything for being a straight edge cunt and being positive to everyone around me, I believe I should atleast beable to pick and choose when it comes to the other gender to a degree, but its getting thrown out the door because im becoming desperate. And you cant just switch that off. Is there anything I should change about my personality?

>>17164375
Nope not intelligence you god damn fool. about charisma, personality confidence security etc~

>>17164327
Your left arm under her or the pillow. Comfy as fuck.

>>17164327
That's good for a few minutes of cuddling, then it's get the hell off of me, you sex octopus, roll onto my stomach, and sleep.

It hurts to sleep with your arm just above her head? Is that normal? I always sleep like that...

>>17164311
Who is sending who the lewds? You lost me.

>>17164319
A girl on an art site sent my S.O. a nude pic for site currency.

>>17164351
He paid a girl for nudes when he has you for that? That's shady to me, regardless of how "professional" it was. Porn is free, and he should be coming to you with his urges anyway.

>>17164268
You ask them out.
If she rejects you, she doesn't like you.

>>17164274
What does asking out means? We go together every day to our favorite place just two of us...

>>17164274
Pretty much this OP
I'm in the same situation but even worse (she has a bf) so making the first move is even more difficult
If you don't know what to say, just tell you have feelings for her (regarding the countless hours you spent together) and see how she reacts
If yes you're in
If no then you can move on
If she doesn't know at least she knows you're an option
So stop acting like you have something to lose ! Go for it OP

>>17164200
Do you watch porn a lot?

Try to love someone before having sex with them, it wont feel creepy or forced. If a girl loves you or even just wants to have sex with you, she will let you know and you will feel welcomed.

>>17164225
I do watch a staggering amount of porn. Like a lot...

I try to lay off it but can't because naked females sooth my mind.

I just hate how telling a woman she is pretty could make you seem hella creepy. No body takes compliments anymore. I don't think any woman has liked me more than a friend. What a weird feeling.

Really interesting problem you got there. As that guy said, watch less porn. I also think that spending times with females you don't want to fuck might help you, for some reason.

Something porn might have taught you is that sexuality is often "serious". Most of my sexual relationships (which means like 3 different girls, I'm not the best guy here) were full of laugther, fun, and awkwardness, and it was perfectly okay. You have to let yourself go and have respect for your partner, I guess.

Also, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but maybe a therapist might help you with that or something.

>>17164189
Usually it's a certain type of shipping that's free, just message the seller and see what's up with it.

>>17164232
I did,and this was his response

>>17164244
Yeah I wouldn't pay and just find another seller to get it from. Demand a refund if you have paid them anything.

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Nobody answered you, fuck people.

I'm younger than you so I might not have a lot of answers for you. I can think of one thing that one of my best friend told me, that became kind of my "motto" in life: At some point, the fun stops coming for you. You have to go for it, sometimes create it artificially. It's weird, but that's how it is. Start to read philosophy, get a really great body, go vegan, star in shitty commercials.

About your love life, I feel a bit close to what you're feeling. As cliche as it sounds, I think people are right when they say that it just comes. It doesn't mean that you should stay passive and, as you say, "quit trying". I also think that if you do what I said above, you will meet girls. If your problem is the dating and seduction itself, then it's another problem, and an easier one, desu.

I hope it helped a bit. I don't think anyone here can actually help anyone who has the kind of problems you have, but I did what I could. Hang on friend.

>>17164180
Thanks for responding. I really appreciate it!

What I mean by staying optimistic is exactly that I do things still. I am eating healthy, read a shit ton of literature, exercise, play classical piano at least 1-3 hours a day, work on research even though I didnt get in to grad school, keep my apartment as clean as fuck, I go outside a lot, all in all I stay busy.

But it's starting to feel repetitive without someone to share with. I'm living in a foreign city, and though I speak the language, even locals find it hard to make acquaintances here. Like I said, all my friends, also foreigners, ended up going back home. Literally all of them.

Of course a part of me is thirsty, but I want to have some success with a girl; one night stand, or dating. At least that way I'd have someone to share things with, and/or feel like not a failure as a man.

I'm starting to wonder why I eat healthy, exercise, keep my apartment clean, etc. It passes the time, but the meaning is starting to feel artificial, like I do it just because I think that's how it should be.

Sorry for the vent, btw

>>17164247
I see. By reading your message I felt like the love life was not the main problem: it seems like it is.

Well, I always thought that being a foreigner was the best way to meet people, especially girls. Almost anything you do in that city will be new for you, that's an opportunity for new experiences. It's a bit sad that your friends left. Maybe you should just hang on to the few friend still here and meet their friends, who will introduce you to their friends, etc. Or you could get a hobby that introduces you to new people.

I understand what you're feeling. I guess it might feel better if you find a nice girl, but man, keeping yourself healthy and clever should be good enough itself. You're just living a better life than the one you would have if you were fat and dumb. But yeah, I admit, finding a girl will probably make all of this feel like a success, like it was really worth something. I don't really have a thousand clues: you just keep being a great man, meet people, and you will probably find someone.

No problem, this is what we're here for. :^)

>>17164079
Grow up and deal with it. Why aren't you up and starting your day by then?

>>17164079
>10am
Wake up earlier you goddamned lazy piece of shit. That's an entirely acceptable time for outdoor work - even late by most measures.

>>17164079
Check noise bylaws in your area.

>>17164054
here are some options that i can think of
- working out/martial arts
- reading and writing
- sports, i would say football but i have no idea what country you are from
- cycling
- woodwork
i dont know if this will help at all. my main hobbies are reading, and working out/boxing.

>>17164054
Those are both things you can improve with a silly little thing called practice, for one.

Secondly, start looking up things related to the media you consume. You likely enjoy things related to the things common there, as there's a reason you consume them.

Start practicing. Nomatter what you start on, you will suck at first. Accept it and improve.

>>17164069
yeah this is true. >>17164067 < this is me and i was shit at boxing first. you need to stick at something to get good at it.

She is crying because you left her, not because of what she did yo you. She had no remorse, you should have told her what you know.

>>17164053
Thanks anon that helps a little. I dont feel like I should tell her what I know or really explain anything because I feel like shes not worth the explanation. She doesnt deserve it

>>17164063
Umm, do it for yerself, not for her? Shit aint that hard. And make sure you let her know it was said for your convenience, not hers. You obviously need this as some form of closure

No matter what anyone says. You defended yourself, win, or lose. You stood up for yourself and your inner man won.

Behave like a child and you will feel like a child.

dude, who fucking cares that you got beat up?
like, why does it matter other than the fact that you're injured?

who gives a shit about what assholes around you have to say, you defended yourself! don't be upset with yourself op. it's ok.