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>>17170166
why are you depressed though, is it because you're unhappy with your life or is it a case that you should be happy but are not? i was depressed and became a neat for about a years, once i started actually doing shit with my life, i started to get happy.

>>17170166
The first thing you should understand is that your view of reality is actually distorted due to a chemical imbalance. Continue seeing a therapist and changing medications every ~3 months until one works.

>>17170170
For years I've been in this state

Hate my job, can't get a girlfriend, have no drive, every time I'm interested in something I make excuses or I just lose hope

I really do think Im in a slump I cant get out of, this really could be the end of the line.

I don't know what else to do

>Inb4 HUR git fit brah smdh tbqh :^)
>Inb4 HUR go outside more

I do, I did, it didn't help.

>>17170163
Try part time job in a shop, till work is perfect for cripples and potatoes

>>17170163
Unemployment?

>>17170176
I'll be returning to my old job once i am healed and I will have a hard time getting hired for just 2 months. Thank you though.
>>17170181
Student fag living at home here so not really eligible

Why can't you help?

OP here. Not earning money yet. Epilepsy is making unrepairable changes to her brain while CP requires expensive rehabillitation. Everyday she gets worse. I don't know if she can recognise me anymore.

This is why I support abortion.

No really as the sister of an autistic brother, like literally legitimately mentally retarded and not that high functioning, this is why I support abortion of those folks who will have a shit quality of life from the very start.

My brother has no friends whatsoever. He will never experience girls. He never gets hugged or kissed. He will never get married. He can't drive. Can't read. Can't read. Can't wipe his ass. He's adept at telling you what he wants though. Is the life you'd want to live? Fuck no.

It riles me up when my dad neglects my brother and my mom hits my brother. I hit back full force when that happens.

Sounds like one.

>>17170151
Now think real hard. The flu is caused by a virus. Penicillin kills germs.

>>17170590
Localized pain and flu symptoms are typical of infections.
OP should see a doctor.

>>17170146
I don't think rain should splash on his hair that way. Nice meme btw, OP.
(Seriously though, thanks for the motivation.)

Spoilers: take zinc.

>>17170146
you where just more energetic and therefore felt more confident lol. you can still fap and feel that way.

I wouldn't be interested, but seeing as Big Brother was huge around a decade ago, there's definitely a market for it.

However, you need to think about how to bring viewers to this. You probably want to have someone to do some edits now and then to create some sort of daily hilights, so that the more impatient vewers won't have to be sitting through an entire day of nothing to catch one minute of worthwhile entertainment.

>>17170077
Good point, I hadn't thought of that. I'm mostly worried about it not being funded, so ideas like this are great. Can I ask your opinion of who I should be advertising to? Also, I have my numbers set for how much I'm asking, but just for a sense of realism how much would you expect for a project like this to be asking for?

What exactly is your goal with this project?

I would probably not watch it as it would be as unstimulating for me as for you sitting in that room. Perhaps I'd tune in every now and then for a few minutes to see what you're up to.

30 days without stimulation is an awful long time, I don't think you really understand what you're up for. Sometimes when I miss my bus I have to wait 3 hours until the next one comes and I swear to God those 3 hours are hell even with my phone that has some music and a few games on it.

What if the guy sliding the food tray under your door also put a random item on the tray each day? A deck of cards, a pencil, just something simple.

I think it's pretty normal. My best online friend is male and our relationship is basically brother/sister. Same goes for my other female friends.
Not every opposite sex online friend has the intention of being in a LDR.

>>17170025
I can't see why it wouldn't be common. I see a lot of questions about "is it ok to have an opposite-sex friend" on here. is everybody expecting everybody else to exclude half of the species except for sex and dating or something? I've always had both girl and guy friends online. less pressure, more ability to be yourself without worrying about IRL shit getting in the way. I mean yeah there might be orbiters, but I didn't really get the sense from most of my opposite-sex friends that they were orbiting. just sharing common interests.

can be hard to meet and get together to do stuff though. but I like to take road trips, and I have occasionally taken weekend trips to neighbouring states to hang out with friends there, or planned extra time into a trip to make a detour and hang out with someone for an evening or something.

and just in case it ever comes up: if you do happen to get into an LDR, they are kinda unfulfilling on the whole and don't tend to last unless you're actively making plans to meet in person or move closer together (if it progresses that far).

>>17170034
Ah interesting. It's just that I recently searched for videos related to meeting online friends irl and almost all of them have a teenage girl meeting another girl (they meet because of common interests such as Instagram, One Direction, etc).
Just curious did you guys meet irl? I'm a girl and I feel the same way as you about how it's like a brother/sister relationship. You sure he doesn't like you back?

No one pursues a long distance relationship.

Let's say you're out traveling, you've picked a certain destination because it appeals to you. While on your journey you meet another traveler, chances are that this person is very similar to you because you're both probably out seeking the same thing. You have a great time together but eventually you have to go separate ways and that's when you realize that you're in love, you start missing the shit out of this person and in a desperate attempt to feel better and to fool yourself you both enter a long distance relationship.

They can work, but it's hard. Most posters on /adv/ confuse an internet crush with an actual LDR though.

>>17170001
I met a really cool girl from Australia while on an exchange, I normally wouldn't even jump on the LDR train but I've never connected on that with such a personal level. Was very sad to see here go, but I'm going to visit her and some firends over xmas so we will see what sup.

>>17169918
im in a similar situation. in my friends group i have to organize 95% of things, i always have to be the one to come up with ideas, ask people, remind people, come up with a time and day etc. however, on one offs my friends will organize something and invite me although it is incredibly rare for one of them to organize something, and when they do, its normally because they are getting something out of it.

im not exactly sure why my friends never really organize things. i think it might be because they put no thought into it and just expect me to come up with ideas. this summer for example, they all went on about how we should plan events and shit but they have barely mentioned any plans and as always happens, its left up to me to do everything.

anyway, with your situation, it might be because your friends are so used to you organizing shit and they might assume that if you dont mention wanting to do something, you dont want to do it. i feel like some people are just stupid sometimes. i hate being the one that organizes stuff but i know they wont do anything on there own.

>>17170020
cont. i also should say, the reason they always invite me to things is because in the past people in the group have done shit with a few people with out inviting everyone else and i have had words with them about it.

>>17169918
so when you asked your friends why you seem to get excluded from any get-together that you don't organise yourself, they said...?

Are you me OP?

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Do your friends go out and do stuff? Just ask to go with them. Or just say 'hey wanna go to the zoo/movies/etc with me' or play videogames with them or something.

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>>17169705

Get that bitch out of your life.

>>17169677
You dont. Simple as that. Wipe the slate clean and move on. Go out and live life. She's not waiting around for you. Don't hold onto false hope and wither away in the meantime

>>17169679

This.

Wtf OP, why do you want a woman in your life who causes you so much pain?

Turn off adblock.

>>17169993
Don't listen to him. Never turn addblock off when someone on 4chan says to.

Delete system 32, that will fix everyhting.

>>17169993
This doesn't make any sense as the extension works on every other board I browse regularly. But it did fix it.

Okay I'll tell you a story.

I've been with my gf for four years. We recently decided we both need some space. We've been talking again as of today.

A few months ago her sex drive started diminishing because she was stressed with school, her job (which she quit) and is now looking for a new job.

I have a very high sex drive. Our sex is great, but when she's stressed the sex is mediocre or we just hang out and do other shit.

I started a tinder and an okcupid account just to flirt with random girls to boost my ego.

I've met up with a few girls from online and had sex while taking a break with my gf. Today I had an epiphany.

It's a waste of fucking time and money. Sure getting laid is fun, but after I busted a load in this Asian girl's mouth today I realized that I'm just wasting time and money.

Focus your energy on your gf and you will get more sex. Anything that makes her happy is foreplay. Hold her hand, help her with the dishes, watch seinfeld repeats with her.

Learn how to give a good massage.

What you have now I like to call the "beast" or one of my coworkers I was talking to calls it "woof." A sexual desire that is trying to be quenched.

Don't feed it. It never stops, it just gets easier. First you're sexting, then you're meeting up, then you're hooking up. Before you know it, you just spent a whole week texting like a teenage girl and wasting money on gas and food.

Also stop looking at porn. Never ever fap to porn, you're basically rewiring your brain.

If you love your gf then don't be an asshole. If you have blueballs, jack off. But you really shouldn't get blueballs more than once every three-four days.

IMO you're at the starting phase of a sex addiction and you need to get control of it fast. The first thing you should do is cut porn out of your life completely. That includes 4chan threads and OP images.

>>17169652
I don't think I am addicted. I just think my sex drive is really high. I'd prefer to get off at least once a day.

I haven't been watching porn as much as I have in the past. It doesn't work for me at all. Usually what I do when I jack off is just think of different women. (Sometimes being my gf, and sometimes other girls)

>>17169609
So you get a blowjob once a week.

And what does she get?

Maybe if you thought more in terms of giving her pleasure, she might have more motivation to have good-for-both sex more often.

If it helps, he wouldn't like you either unless you were a 12-year-old boy.

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>>17169574
All men lie.
Not all men are cheaters.
Where do you live? Are you a female.

>>17169623
the us and yes

>>17169535
Why not call someone who actually knows you with the phone you can charge in your car? They can wire you money (although perhaps you need ID to pick it up?) Or come get you.

If you're actually in SF, there is a Western Union office approximately one mile due east of where that picture was taken, on Marina Blvd at Beach.

>>17169535
Cops will give you a few gallons of gas so you can get to an appropriate location or even back home.

Look up the local sheriffs office number and explain what's going on.

if you're in SF (and by the palace of fine arts) go up to Columbus street and panhandle. it's Saturday night, people are drunk and coming out of bars, you look clean. it'd take like 30 minutes to get 30 to throw into your tank.