>be loser in his late 20's living with parents still and with few friends
>driving home from work tonight
>house is on left, so do a 3-point turn and park next to the curb
>in front of me, coming from the direction I had come, there was a pick up truck moving slowly
>think they're going slow because they're waiting for me to get out, but I decide to wait to let them go first
>they're taking weirdly long, so I turn my car off, and then they drive past
>get out of car and start walking up driveway
>a few houses down the street, the truck blares its horn for like a good 5 seconds
>go up to porch, and see truck at the intersection down the road doing a U-turn
>I wait and watch it, as it passes my house it starts honking again and speeds off
I'm paranoid now, why did they do this? I don't think it was one of my few friends.
They were probably picking someone up at that house, dingus
You're gonna track that truck and put a car bomb under it so no trucks ever mess with you again
It was probably just some retarded guy showing off or trying to be hard
>>17187036
>why did they do this?
The world may never know. Maybe just to fuck with you?
got this girl a mk bracelet and earrings and gave it to her in class,asked for her number and then told her id catch her later and walked away. we didnt talk much and if we did she started them cause ima pussy. anyways i got her number 2 days ago and idk if i should start talking to her and fail or wait for a shot to talk to her again in the future when ill prob be more successful. do i take the shot and fail or do i save it and hope i get another chance to take the shot
>>17187016
This autism tho
>>17187016
What the fuck did you just post?
>>17187016
Why the fuck did you get a girl a bracelet before even talking to her. And why Michael Kors lol.
I'm gonna feel like a piece of shit for writing this, but it's getting really bad.
My friend is on the shorter side for a male standards, and he's a very husky guy. Probably like 60-70lbs overweight. Like any normal human being, he finds attractive women, well, attractive. He is too shy to ever talk to most of them, and hates on his appearance constantly. I've told him I'd help him lose the weight if he wants help, but he has no desire to lose the weight. He wouldn't be that bad looking of a guy if he was slimmer.
He'll send me screencaps of his text messages with female friends, and he will try to be subtle about liking them, but never does anything more.
>So weird thing to just ask out of nowhere but, you said you didn't have a boyfriend right?
>Not currently but I don't know what's going to happen in the next couple weeks
>Ohh? Someone catch your fancy?
>We'll see
And he ask me about it, what it means, if he has a shot, etc.
The thing is he will shit on himself for being overweight and ugly (His words). but he makes NO attempts to ever better himself. I wanna help him, but don't know how? Also, whenever he asks me about whether or not he has a shot with a girl, I always tell him that you never know until you try, even though I would be surprised if any of the women he's interested in would return the feeling. What do I do? I love the guy, but how do you break something like that to him?
>>17186949
I'm also not the only one who sees this. Everyone else, and yes I mean everyone else in our friend group has said the same thing and half of us has tried to help him with it.
>>17186949
I had a friend like this, and he still to this day refuses to admit that the problem is him and that they're changeable. he instead blamed everything on everyone else.
sometimes the best friends you have are the ones that agree differently and tell you so. it's not really helping him if you say things like 'oh it's okay man, she's just clueless/a bitch/blahblahblah', that just perpetuates the behavior and let's him think it's okay to keep acting that way.
then again most times people ask for advice like this they just want to be told things to make themselves feel better for the moment
anyways, i ended up telling another friend that he needed to quit fucking around and change himself, and surprisingly he did. sometimes people have no motivation until someone lights a fire under their ass
>>17186949
>he has no desire to lose the weight.
As a fellow shy and ugly but skinny guy, i don't understand this. I'm on the hard road to gaining decent muscle despite low testosterone, and some guys can't even put in the effort to stop eating so much? IMHO laziness is one of the worst flaws, worse than ugliness and anxiety. It's a killer.
Gotta get him to work out and eat well if you can. Share motivational shit, check /fit/. Encourage him to come run with you in the morning or whatever you do. Inviting people to /fit/ stuff like hiking can really show them how far behind they are and how much work they have to do to keep up with you.
And if you can, explain to him very clearly that most girls won't date a fat guy. That the standards for guys are different: there's no fucking "fat acceptance", no "curvy", no "full-figured", just "fat-ass."
Ask him what he thinks about fat girls, and call him out on the hypocrisy.
Is my dad being selfish or am i just unreasonable?
>am 18 high school student
>brother is 22
>brother and dad fight a lot
>brother is stuggling art student and decides to live with us to save money
>dad kicks brother out for stupid reason
>fight about to ensue and brother calls cops
>dad disowns son
>not allowed to see brother
>months pass
>about to graduate
>brother snaps and texts dad vague threats
>dad texts me this
I know my dad probably didnt want to go anyway. He never went to my last concert or award ceremony. Am i wrong for calling him pathetic? Is it wrong to think he doesnt really care about me?
Can't tell about the situation leading up to it because you've condensed the story so much, but if your brother is texting vague threats it makes sense your dad wouldn't go.
>>17186937
Nah he doesn't wanna bring more drama especially with your bro sending threats. It would be a shit show if both of them went. Parents are people to, they have to make choices, and a lot of the times there's no right choice, just a choice.
>>17186957
Here is what my brother sent my dad
My Instagram find of the day. Turtles and a pair boobs in every post. I think its cute honestly, but also ya know ;) . I want to o be that turtle.
Is it wrong to feel jealous of this turtle?
They have a video on the Instagram account of the turtle, running! to the boobs. Like a crack head to a pipe, it trys to get under the boobs.
So is bad I'm jealous? And is that legal?
Boobs though!
>>17186920
Why don't you get some beanbags and crawl between them like a turtle
>>17187464
Didn't think there was a way that OP could become an even bigger faggot, but I guess I stand corrected
I dont even remember writing this. But I just know i did. Should i follow it or past-me is trolling me? fuck
either op just watched memento or he is trolling himself into believing he actually did forget
Do it OP, post results
that's not all desu, here are more
never watched memento in my life. Probably fucking myself tho. note that this notebook is like 5-7 years ago
Red flags on this girl?
>plays Video games
>Engineering Student
>beast in bed
>likes Star wars and all the geek stuff
>not so many female friends
>had a threesome (mmf) with a guy her best female friend had a crush on
>told the threesome story to the dude she kinda knew he had a crush on her (me)
Should I run?
>pic related middle one with brown hair
>>17186910
I don't know. I doubt anything is wrong. The threesome story would be an eye opener, but not a red flag. Go for it anon. She's cute too, so don't fuck it up boy.
>>17186910
>>plays Video games
Nothing to worry about
>>Engineering Student
No problem
>>beast in bed
Not bad
>>likes Star wars and all the geek stuff
Not bad
>>not so many female friends
Orange flag
>>had a threesome (mmf) with a guy her best female friend had a crush on
Giant Red Flag
>>told the threesome story to the dude she kinda knew he had a crush on her (me)
Giant Red Flag
>>17186910
Get out before it's too late. Shes is a train wreck in slow motion
Hey so I'm currently undecided on what to do in a situation.
I recently cheated on my now ex-girlfriend when I was drunk. I told her and we broke up, The girl was a really nice girl, but I had just lost interest in her romantically and I cheated on her about a week before we broke up. It was a pretty shitty thing to do and I do feel genuinely bad about it.
I don't have any intention of getting back with her, but I know how much she liked me and I know that what I did probably really hurt her. So I was wondering, would it be best if I sent her a message just apologizing for everything that I did to her and telling her that what happened was in no way based on her, because she was a really great girl, I just didn't feel the way about her that she did about me in the end. Or would you think it best that I don't contact her at all and allow her to get over it? This isn't just some bullshit (well I just want to feel better) because I know what I did was a really scummy thing to do, I just want to do what's best for her.
>>17186887
It should also be stated that I never have to see her again, as none of my friends are friends with her friends. It was just a university relationship between us, but I do still feel like kind of a cunt for what I did.
>>17186887
yeah I'd consider that some good closure. Its best you explain that before she accidentally makes some life changes on false assumptions.
>>17186887
yeah man also remember to tell her she was the best sex you ever had, she could use some ego boost.
Works every time for me.
She's the love of my life, she laughs and jokes around like everyone else, we've been together for a while, I wouldn't describe her as "disturbed" by any means.
She left clues here and their but I ignored them out of denial.
It seems to me like it doesn't bother her that much cause it was so long ago, idk.
Basically the whole thing fucked me up and I've been through swirls of anxiety and shit, I want to throw up just thinking about it. It took so much willpower to right this subject line. Surely at least some of you might empathize how I feel.
I just... how do I come to terms with this? There's no way I'm breaking up with her before you tell me to do so. And I'm paranoid about giving away information.
Do you roleplay as the one who raped her
>>17186884
I'm in a similar boat anon, mine was and I was too (I'm a guy), it's hard for you but if you truly love her then buckle in cus it could get much worse, ptsd has a lot of lingering effects that could strain your relationship, essentially you just have to be there for her, comfort her and remind her it wasn't her fault at all if she ever starts to say things like that. If you love her you'll have more times when you're both doing great but there will also be dark times, just try to toughen up (which is a shitty term but you know what I mean) and take the storm full force, it'll get better
>>17187668
How the fuck did I remember it's name is metabee
So my past relationships have began as follows:
>meet girl
>be friendly
>hook up
>hook up and do datey things
>exclusivity talk
>relationship
How do I eliminate some of these steps with girls I see as relationship material? I feel like straight out saying I want an exclusive relationship on the first date would scare away most women.
>>17186881
>I feel like straight out saying I want an exclusive relationship on the first date would scare away most women
As it should, because you would be nuts to demand exclusivity from someone you don't even know. The point of the initial steps is getting to know the other person to see if they are "relationship material" as unless you notice immediate disqualifiers you can't judge them until you KNOW them. If you wanted, you could make it clear fairly early (date >3) that you value monogamy and would want to eventually be in an exclusive relationship, but other than that you can't really skip steps and expect to have a successful relationship.
>>17186915
It just feels weird having that point where we're dating and hooking up and she could be hooking up with other dudes. I know I could be hooking up with other girls but I usually just like one girl at a time. And it feels like I'm being manipulated a lot in that non exclusive period. Maybe I'm just dating the wrong girls. I've seen some of my friends get into relationships like a day after meeting a girl and I ask them how and they say it just happens.
>>17186991
Why do you feel like you are being manipulated?
So this girl I've been seeing is into roleplay, but i can't seem to get into it without feeling weird as hell. She's freaky and I'm way into her, but i feel like if I don't start playing ball, she's going to move on. What can I do to make this work out?
>>17186817
Start dressing up as the high elf she wants you to be, Skeeter.
Her tastes are her tastes, you accept them or don't.
>>17186817
>What can I do to make this work out?
Nothing. There is nothing wrong with being sexually incompatible with someone. Sometimes you and your partner just don't click sexually, even if you like them in every other category.
Liking someone is not a guarantee that the sex is going to be a direct reflection of that. Its possible to like fucking someone you don't like and possible to not like fucking someone you do.
Either reside yourself to feeling weird every time she asks you to roleplay or break it off and find someone who you are more sexually compatible with.
>>17186841
I like having sex with her though. I like a lot about this girl. I dont want to drive her away because I have no imagination.
Is there like a book on this subject or something?
How do I overcome this fear? I want to have some bloodwork done but hypodermic needles freak me the FUCK out and apparently it's irational and impractical to request anesthetic gas to knock me out for the needle work or talk a bunch of sleeping meds before hand so I'm passed out when the doc come to draw.
Any anons overcome this fear? What did you do?
And don't tell me to just man the fuck up, that doesn't help.
man up bitch boy
Bring a friend
You basically have to man the fuck up anon. The only reason it "doesn't help" is because you're simply failing to man up. The only way to overcome a fear is to face it head on
GF has just randomly said she doesn't want to have sex anymore. Not sure how I should feel.
Any anons had a similar experience?
No, but the only solution is to leave her. Fuck that bullshit.
>>17186791
Last time I heard that it wasn't too long after that she wanted a 'break'. It's either she's seeing if you guys match on a non physical level or she's is not feeling emotionally connected for some reason.
I'm sorry to hear it, OP. My money's on the possibility that she wants you to break up with her.
>be me, 22yo
>currently unemployed and no education
>going through old stuff
>find a list of names of people I went to middle school with
>look them up on facebook
>the majority is going to college / university / got their own company
>realize I grew up to be a fucking failure
>realize more and more how dumb I am compared to the others
I honestly feel like ending it all. I think I struck a new low in my life in terms of feeling bad.
It's not just because of tonight but the past couple of months just made me realize how pathetic I am all together, and seeing the old classmates being succesfull I guess was the straw that broke the camel's back.
Never have I thought about suicide up untill this day.
The fact that I'm a virgin that never had a gf at age 22 isn't helping.
I realized I'm a fucking weirdo that has nothing to offer and I honestly think I'm not even worthy of having a wife some day.
Can anyone relate to these feels?
What the fuck do I even do from this point on?
>>17186781
Honest answer, join the Navy.
You lack direction and are going nowhere. You're lonely, no one understands you, and women don't like you for some reason. You can't get off your ass, yet you want someone to tell you to.
Seriously join the Navy. You'll find that the military is just for people like you, especially the Navy. The Army is for people that are lost totally. The Marines are for people trying to impress daddy.
The Navy is for lost souls trying to connect with others like them. Why do you think they all joined? You don't get into combat, bootcamp isn't really that hard, you meet friend from all across the world, you learn a trade and you get to travel the world.
You sign your life over for four years, true. But those four years you'll make friends and learn a trade.
>>17186821
>join the navy
the simpsons are fucking real. this murikans are delutional
>>17186781
>What the fuck do I even do...
You stop complaining and do something about it. Find one problem and fix it. Get a job, get a gf, at least try dammit.
So the other night I went to a buddy's house and brought my laptop. I was on the tumblr of a QT who's friends with a girl I knew in high school and am wanting to get to know IRL and when I went to use the bathroom, my buddy asked her an anon question and I didn't know what it was until she replied sometime later. I was irritated he did that and after I left and saw she posted a askbox game where it was "ask me anonymous question to make me blush" and I thought "girls like romantic stuff, lets suggest treating her right on a romantic date." Then later I saw what he asked her and it was some creepy shit about her being a naughty little gal for having a bunch of stuff tagged NSFW, and when I saw my ask right after that I became disgusted and afraid of her feelings, she doesn't deserve some gross creep following her so after breaking my friendship with that buddy I sent her some not-creepy asks but since my last one was about the name of her dog that she took a selfie with I think she thought that was creepy and blocked my IP which somehow blocked my own account from following her. And I guess she told the girl I know from HS too and now my account is blocked by her too. Should I try and tell both these girls the situation IRL and apologize for my ex-buddy's shithead post and my attempts to give her less creepy posts to balance it out and make her feel better that backfired thanks to my Autism (actual autism) making me not realize that I was making the situation worse? Or should I just move on?
Pic unrelated.
>>17186763
move on
>>17186763
This is not a problem. Get off tumblr and into the real world.
>>17186786
I want to be their friends exactly for that purpose though, to gradually try and ween them of that shit site and it's shit userbase.