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2deep4me

Why again in short would you kill yourself because you don't like your job and morality is objective?

I think I'm missing something.

Don't worry OP, a lot of people go through this in their early 20s. Current media like movies and songs have conditioned "younger" generations (post baby boomer) that it's okay to feel this way and speak out. We see a thread like yours on a daily basis, for example.

I can only share with you my own way of coping with that feeling. I don't believe there's purpose in life, other than the one we give it ourselves. To me, life is about experiences, and in the end all you have are your stories.

So why shouldn't you kill yourself? Aside from upsetting those close to you (who cares, you're dead anyway, so you won't experience that guilt), there's the whole
>you haven't experienced everything life has to offer

If your job is no longer fulfilling, then quit. Apply for something else. You say you are trained and already working in the medical field at 22, so I'm guessing you're not a physician or a nurse, but paramedics, med techs, etc are always in demand in the best countries, so go find a job somewhere new you'd like to explore. Or just change the field all together and travel for a bit, see what's good. Maybe during your travels you'll find something or someone that can give purpose to your life.

Otherwise then you could kill yourself, once you feel you've had enough.

You videotape her ass being a drunken fucktard and show it to her when she's sober.

>>17207695

What was on the list?

If I were you, I would give her an ultimatum. Either she quits drinking or you leave her. Let her know that you're absolutely serious and that it's her last chance. Meanwhile prepare to leave her because she probably won't stop drinking. It will suck at first and she will most likely clean up her act for a few weeks in an attempt to get you back. But your life will be better off without her in the end.

>>17207717
good idea
>>17207727
my list was pretty much all alcohol and what stems from it. her list was, in my opinion, things that stem from and were created by HER alcoholism. but she doesn't get it. I'm packing my bags as i post this. i don't believe she's sincere. she's a good person, but she's just lost in booze. last night she wants me to leave, today she wants me to stay. i can't fucking live my life like this.

>>17207687
Shameless self bump to get things to get things moving.

>>17207687
Plz /adv/

Not leaving til I have at least one decent reply.

>>17207601
You blew her off for video games. You can do what you want. But its her call to decide if you arent providing her with enough attention. Seriously, who picks videogames over a gf.
Im not saying you cant play, but if you know she wants to talk and you only save 5mins for her you are a piece of shit for spending more time on video games.

>>17207601
Do you understand that the problem is not you playing games, but the fact that you're not giving her attentions and taking her for granted?

Relationships require effort. If you don't want to put effort into being with her, dump her and play as much as you want.

>>17207609
I do give her attention. I message her asking how her day is going when shes at work. No need to be a cunt about it.
I was tired thats why it was only 5 mins.
>>17207609
I am putting effort in. I flew down to see her for her birthday.

>>17207544

Not giving you clicks you idiot.

Not Your Personal Focus Group

>>17207544
I am not an engineer, so you may have thought of these things already. but I will say them anyway, just in case.

the pitch video is pretty good, and the concept has a lot going for it. I am a bit worried about the units structurally though. maybe you should offer bracers to give support to the larger configurations.

will the boards have holes for hardware to be inserted? in the one part of the video, it looked like someone was installing holes. if it is snap-together, that the metal bars may not be enough to hold the boards together when weight is placed on them or something is leaned against the unit.

I like the idea of using boards instead of particle board. but I will say this: although the lumber industry makes standard sizes of boards, they sometimes use loose tolerances compared to most manufacturing. the difference is not as noticeable if building a house, but when assembling small things like furniture, a few mm or cm can stack up quickly. if the board is supposed to fit snug into the channel, you may have problems with fit. and even a small amount of warping can throw everything off. if you haven't already accounted for this in your design, you should do so. carpenters deal with it by measuring a lot and planing or adding shims where needed. your end users will not be carpenters. so you will have to find a different answer.

again, I am not an engineer, so some of this may already be obvious to you.

overall, it is an exciting idea, and I think you should continue developing it. I really like the idea of it, and I hope you can make it into something successful. good luck OP!

>>17207663
I agree this is not the correct board for a request like this. maybe /diy/, but I don't know if they'd be ok with you promoting a kickstarter. /wsr/ might have been a better choice. but the concept intrigued me so I peeked.

>>17207544

maybe /biz/ but even then using 4chan to make money for you = your shit is gonna get fucked up.

kill yourself

let your son be who he wants to be

>>17207412
>sexuality is unchangeable
I dunno anon, do you find traps attractive or maybe that homeless man on the street. What exactly is your type that gets you off and can you change that to that of a dirty filthy homeless man

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Shit tier bait. Can't believe there are people here who fall for this.

>>17207373

Might want to go to a doctor.

It's called menopause, dear. Just go on a binge for the next five years and you'll be fine.

>>17207373
Congrats, you have diabetes.

I called him many times, he had blocked me from whatsapp, then i sent a lot of sms and he blocked my sms as well

>>17207349
Fuck that guy if he is such a pussy that h gets scared of your ex why the fuck do you want him?

>>17207354
I just still want him! oh shit

What's wrong with it exactly? You look normal.

>>17207350
Thanks man, but these red dots and big pores make me look like lindsay lohan. It sucks.

You could sand it off

>>17207324
bump

>>17207324
I was brought up in the midlands, my school was catchment for council estates and had the same educational experience as you did probably - the majority of the class is spent telling people to shut up than learning.

I got AAB at A levels off my own arse by studying the syllabus and being somewhat smart to start off with (I'm not super smart just enough that I don't need help with reading or writing). I graduated with a 2.1 from a redbrick university. (moved cities for this).

My parents felt immense guilt sending me to a shit school. They tried to send me somewhere better but I was denied due to the catchment area. We couldn't afford private education so I did the best I could in a shit situation. You can't blame your parents, I'm sure they would have moved you if they knew how to or could afford to. Don't lean on others for explanations or answers, when you come from shit like we do you gotta pull it our your own arse and do the best you can do.

Chavs are good at one thing: solidarity. I hate chavs for their shitty attitude and low standards but you gotta admit they do stick up for each other and are there for each other. Learn that from them - how to be a proper mate and proper family values.

You sound like you're embarrassed of your upbringing. I know that shame but it is just your shame. If someone is being a snob then understand they they don't know any better. We're unlucky mugs you and me, we don't and never will gave daddies money to dig us out of a hole and it sucks. You're young enough to start again. The good thing is there's loads of bursaries out there for us poor kids. Search for them and apply for them. As a student there's loads of subsidised clubs for things you never would have been able to do before. When talking to new people don't talk about home and your past just talk about what you're into and what you want to do. If anyone asks just say 'it's boring, what about your past?'

>>17207380
thanks for reply. i appreciate it.

i wouldent really say im embarrassed of my upbringing, more annoyed that i had less opportunities than other people, and meaningless shit was advocated to me. i understand with my parents, they probably didnt have much of a choice, and didnt take into consideration how much it would impact me, i think they are the only reason i didnt become a "scally" - its just, at the back of my mind, i partially blame them, though, i probably shouldent.

I done terrible at highschool due to influence of people, and yeah the majority of my class was the same as yours. I became secluded and didnt do much but play video games to escape from it all. at about 18, i got into working out and reading and i have been trying to turn my life around. im still finding it a bit of a struggle, people in my university still dont care about getting good grades, all they do care about is drinking, at least they are not telling me to shut up and shit like that though.

Chavs definitely are good at solidarity. i was kind of a chav when i was highschool but it was only really to fit in because anyone that didnt follow their culture was bullied. a few of my acquaintances are chavs. One positive thing i will say about chavs is that they are not plastic, they are normally straightforward, loyal, and true with what they say. i probably prefer chavs to edgy people like metal heads. my problems with chavs is that i cant have a conversation with them, and they are incredibly uneducated about basically everything. they often think they are intimidating for example but very rarely know anything about fighting.

Its not even lack of more that i talking about in regards to less opportunities, its not be able to talk and interact with decent people who i can learn from, and who will influence me to improve myself. over all, i should be ok. i just want to vent because its all really annoying me.

Are there no musicians on 4chan?

>>17207319

Make sure you get a full-sized, 88 key keyboard. Not absolutely necessary but try to get one with hammer touch if possible. It will feel closer to a real piano. Yamaha's have a nice grand piano sound imo. Look for one on craigslist and kijiji. People constantly buy pianos and never end up using them.

>>17207357
Thankyou anon.

>>17207309
That's nasty and gross man does she even keep the figures clean?

>>17207325
Oh ya and hoarding is an emotional and form of OCD, the emotional part is she's filling a void that's there so she's lonely? You tell her not to do one thing and she does it, why? For your attention. This is where the mild OCD comes into play.

>>17207325
You know what. She does not. Never thought about it.

>>17207331
She does have OCD but I didn't know hoarding WAS part of it. It explains a lot. She is pretty lonely aside from me and a couple of friends she has (tho she usually prefers to be alone herself)

Accept it and move on. Not very sexual position is comfortable, and you can't ask someone to enjoy something potentially painful.

>>17207300
You move on and try fucking someone who like the position your pitching .

Shit it's like she's the only pussy out there.

My gf dont wanna take up my dick >:'( ON a romantic getaway even!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so confused 4 chan....... halp..

You're both just growing up and growing apart. It happens to everyone. You're frustrated because you feel like you're putting in more energy to the relationship than she is. You may find if you stick at it eventually the friendship will get back to being close again. Alternatively it could just keep drifting apart, people change as they get older and sometimes relationships fail too because of that. Put yourself in her shoes - she's in a new country with new friends and loads of new things to do. She's obviously excited and loving it. Nothing has changed for you really and you're still talking about the same old things. I suggest you go and visit her so you can experience some of things she does.

>>17207407
I know that she wants to move on from high school as she said it herself. She didn't like some girls from high school.
I have no interest to visit that country and I will not fly there just to meet a friend.

>>17207285
It is normal to grow apart when you grow up.
She is excited about her new life and she talks a lot about it. Everyone does.
If you don't think she's being a good friend, just let her go.

You're not "uncool" because you don't party or you don't have a boyfriend, but you seem like a passive and whiny girl, which is definitely uncool.

social media

Generally I try to go for the Duke immediately, but I don't block Foreign Aid or even take taxes. I let things through for a round or two, taking Income, and only then start doing Duke-y things. This always baits someone into calling on me -it never fails, seriously, even with people who've seen me do this dozens of times- and that takes out a few of their cards.

Then, if I can get my hands on a Captain, I start stealing. Same strategy as before: make people think I don't have it. It helps that I have less than no poker face, so I can always look like I'm lying even when I'm not.

And then, when I have seven coins, I coup. Simple as that.

Oh, wait...

just be yourself