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Broken heart.

Either suicide or murder look like good options.

What do?
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Easy, neither.
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>>17206278
Yeah neither, you grow up and move on like the rest of the world.
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>>17206278
another good option it's to grow some balls and continue with your life.

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I work at a lost and found office. Every 2 months we remove old items and separate their contents to either trash, charity, or auction. My co worker has been keeping lottery tickets found in such old items and i'm assuming that he's checking them to collect winnings. Today I threw out all the lottery tickets he had saved up into the shred bin.

If he finds out tomorrow and gets angry, who is in the wrong? Could I be in trouble for this? The tickets cant go to auction or charity, so they must logically go in the trash right? I was just doing the most ethical thing.
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Considering they weren't his, he can't get mad at you because he had no right to them. At the same time, you had no right to destroy them unless it counts as disposing of them after two months.
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>>17206271
They were found in the room where the items over 2 months are dismantled to the 3 categories, so yes they were 2+ months old.
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>>17206276
Then I guess you were in the right to destroy them. I mean, what's he going to do? Complain to your boss about it?

At what point should you stop dating someone if you still haven't developed feelings?
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Depends on the quality of the sex, although I have no idea why'd you go exclusive and steady with someone you don't have feelings for.
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2 dates
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Me and this girl have been together for over two years and I don't think we have true feelings for each other. We both knowingly tried seeking out new relationships for about a year and we both failed or just gravitated back together.

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I yelled at some neighborhood kids today. Just curious if you think I handled it the right way.

>live in large apartment community
>one community laundry facility with an electronic lock on the door
>about 150 yards from my apartment
>doing like 7 loads of laundry at once, so constantly walking back and forth
>after a while, a couple kids are sitting in some benches outside the door, one holding a basketball
>as I'm carrying a load back a little later and the door is slowly closing, notice out of the corner of my eye as the kids literally dart inside laundry room
>immediately stop
>say "hey, where are you going? what are you doing in there?"
>the kids pause, halfway in the door
>they sort of slink out of the room, one knows that he's in trouble, the other has more confidence
>confident one says "we're getting some water to drink"
>I say "there's no water in there. come on you don't need to be in there."
>they come back out. I wait for the door to close and walk away with my load of laundry
>when I came back to get the next load, one kid was around the other side of the building
>gave the other kid who was nearby a couple bottles of water from my apartment
>didn't see them again next time I came out

Would you have yelled at the kids too? Or would you have done something different?
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i feel like a cunt for laughing at that pic
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how old are these kids? why did you instantly jump to interrogating some kids for going inside the communal laundry room? why is "darting inside the laundry room" suspicious to you?

>they sort of slink out of the room, one knows that he's in trouble
maybe you don't realize it, but when you're a young child and an adult starts grilling you, that is instinctively the way you act regardless of anything you've done

yea i think you were being overbearing. i would have minded my own business while the neighborhood kids did something that didn't involve me in the slightest. and i think you feel the same way now and that's what brought you here to ask.
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Seems entirety reasonable to me

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Where do I find single gamer girls?
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Playing games. Try MMOs, and building a social group in there. A lot of female gamers don't advertise themselves. Many even play male characters to avoid harassment, though harassment is less bad nowadays than it was ten years ago. If you play MMOs you probably already know some and don't realize.
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"hey your voice is weird" "are you a boy?" "girls dont play this game" "are you young or a girl" "is that your real voice?" "stop using a voice changer gay man" "stop talking kid" --- all things I heard today while playing video games (literally just what people thought was important to say to me during firefights today). TLDR we are everywhere but youre an idiot
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hit up a weight watchers

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Roomate is grill btw
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gross fingernails

and thats a birth control pill
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>>17206179
Those could be anything. Even if you ask her about them, she might lie if they're meant to treat something embarrassing. I wouldn't take them.
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>>17206187

I know I bite like hell

And it's not birth control you fucking tard

Kissless virgin detected

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On defense trying to defend the extinction of species during deforestation, I know my team has practically lost if the prosecution has done their research but what points/ideas can I bring up to put up a fight. SOS
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If the other side can do their own research, why can't you?
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>>17206152
If your best defense comes from an imageboard you're fucked anyway. Go do your job and do the research on your own.
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>>17206157
>>17206176
We have and are pleading insanity and negligence, other than disconnection from nature and a bit of "affluenza" theres not much that may be able to push people to our side

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Hey /adv/.
This is a long story and a hell of a mess, so here goes. Really looking for help or someone to talk to. I know that I'm shitty. So, don't bother with telling me. I know.
Some background information about me- I have long term depression 10+ years, moderate social anxiety and PTSD from physical and emotional abuse growing up. Dropped out of university around 2 and a half years ago.
So, I moved to a big city from my home town with a girl that I'm madly in love with around 2-3 years ago.
We've had our problems, but we've always worked things out until recently when she had an abortion and shit sort of built up and hit the fan. I had been out of work for a number of months due to my mental health conditions- I was on assistance but it was a really big stressor on our relationship.
We had a big fight, I broke up with her in the heat of the moment and she told me to move out. Been living in a house with strangers for a month.
During this time, me and my ex had been intimate and we talked every day because we're still in love with each other.
We had been making a lot of progress and I've been taking steps to find work and get my life together and fix the problems with us.
However in this time she has been meeting other people and hooking up to my knowledge.
We were hanging out tonight, went for dinner and just generally having a good time, until I noticed a set of keys that belong to some guy I know she's been seeing- so I lost it and tossed them as hard as I could into the street. She was mad as fuck and drove me home- on the way, there was a CD playing in the car of a band that this fucking guy is in so I tossed it out the window along with the case. She peeled the fuck out and told me to get out. So, I walked home and tried to message her but she blocked me.
I feel totally fucking garbage right now, and I know that what I did was jealous and immature but I'm not some cuck.
Really don't know what to do with myself, kind of want to kill myself.
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>>17206144
Retarded to go back to an ex, what's the point
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Some more context: We had a d/s relationship- collared and everything. So, it's hard for me not to be possessive of her. Collaring is the equivalent to marriage in the kink community. Like, I told her that I'd literally do anything in my power to make things right with us and she agreed.
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>>17206160
Because she means the world to me and I love her more than I've ever loved anyone. This is coming from someone that's had around 4 long term relationships. I haven't connected with anyone as much as I do with her.

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Did we consummate our marriage if I didn't cum? (He did)

>waffle unrelated
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>>17206089
Yes, you fucking whore.
We all know you're looking for a way to make it acceptable to divorce your husband.
Don't be a fucking cunt, that man has probably done everything for you.
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What?
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It'd still count even if neither of you came. It'd just be more disappointing I guess.

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i'm currently in my first serious relationship. my gf and i have been together for nearly 1.5 years. i didn't have much experience with relationships prior to this one and limited experience with women in a romantic sense.

she is taking summer classes to catch up on her academics. i'm awaiting my program to start in the coming fall. i've been interning at a local hospital for the past couple of months and may be securing employment with them shortly. prior to the internship i had a lot of time on my hands and spent a great deal of it with her. this is the first period of our relationship where she and i are on rigid schedules and don't have time to see each other as often as we would like.

in the past week since she started classes she has started doing something strange: she texts me about her male classmates. here are a few examples:

>wow, my lab table is three beefy bro dudes. send help
>oh, i met a really interesting guy in class today
>jake seems like a nice guy
>that guy from chem asked me to go to the library with him tomorrow to study and i'm going since i don't understand anything

she has done these sorts of things before but it was usually with some disdain (like mentioning a guy flirted with her and she just wanted to get away from him or how these guys were trying to talk to her and her not being eager to chat, some guy trying to get her attention while at a stop light, etc).

i feel like the tone changed with these guys. she's complimenting them and opting to spend time with them. what really got me was her comment about the one guy from class being "interesting."

i feel like she's just casually dropping these interactions with guys in her class as a means to get a reaction out of me? i never ask her about her classmates, just about how class is going. she has been doing this repeatedly now and it's striking me as odd.
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>>17206084
>what really got me was her comment about the one guy from class being "interesting."
What was the rest of the conversation about this guy?
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>>17206084
So she's an attention whoring cunt. Shocking. This is what's going to happen: she's going to keep hanging out with these guys and telling you about it because if I, who have never met you, know that you're too much of a lonely loser bets bitch to sack up and drop her, she damn sure figured it out a long time ago. So she'll keep flirting with them, and she'll keep playing innocent with you. Maybe she'll fuck one, maybe she won't. If she doesn't, you can bet she's at least considered it; if she does, so what? You won't leave her. A few crocodile tears and empty promises is the most it will take to keep you under her thumb.
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>>17206094
i don't acknowledge her comments about these guys so i don't ask any follow up questions. i think she mentioned it had something to do with his upbringing or that he's an immigrant. something along those lines.

she texted me earlier today about how she and her classmate were going to be studying tomorrow. i didn't say a thing about it. i don't understand what she expects me to say or if she's just choosing to be transparent/honest?

"oh cool. i'm really enjoying the idea of you and some dude studying together. thanks babe."

it's a lose-lose situation. either i react in a negative way and i come out looking shit or i promote the behavior when it's clearly not something i would want her to do.

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I'm envious of cute girls. I think about how they get everything in life so easily and can't help but feel depressed. How do I man up and feel less depressed?

I considered sex change but I like women and I don't think I'd make a cute girl. Also I think not a lot of people are interested in transgenders anyway.
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the grass is always greener on the other side but that's only because you can't see the down sides, remember that
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>>17206062
I can't think of any downsides, that is the problem. Otherwise I would've comforted myself with the downsides.
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Periods. You don't want them.

I want to major at biology, having a career in research in mind.
However, I live in Brazil. Even our best university (Universidade de São Paulo) can't provide me a good structure.
To make things better, majoring biology here = teaching; that means having shitty salaries and an awful profession (no disrespect for the teachers, but this is my country's reality).

My two options are either choosing another course or studying outside Brazil. So I ask you: is the latter worth it?
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Stay in your own shithole country, we don't need more brownskins coming in and getting preferential treatment in the hiring and enrollment process.
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>>17206061

I am talking about being a scientist and a biologist.
It's not like I'm stealing jobs and causing unemployment.

I thought about this already nigger.

1st: Most unemployment is caused by immigrants who take jobs that require no high levels of education.
2nd: On the "high education" careers, the stealing of job offers happens on areas where there is more labour offer than demand (like architecture, where you have 10% unemployment). This, however, isn't the case in science and research.
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>>17206197
>Most unemployment is caused by immigrants who take jobs that require no high levels of education.
This is so wrong this is really really wrong

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How do I stop crushing on someone /adv/?
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>>17206022
Find flaws in them
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Sit in the bathroom while they are taking a shit after eating 3 day old panda express
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>crush

Lolgay

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I have huge communication problems with my parents, last year they cause something that destructed and ruined my daily life then i started to not call them and kept communication low, also they do not even cared about what happened me.they act like nothing had happened... I rarely visit them and call them at the moment, but whenever i visit or talk with them i feel enourmous pain, can not even sleep after get in touch them also the last time visit them, i felt stange pain in my chest that did not let me to sleep in my bad, i just waited it to be eased

So what is happening to me and my body, i still try to mercy them in my mind and trying to play good son, but my body and mind telling different, this so strange for me also i am crying witout any reason for 1 years 2-3 times a week

So help me what is happening to me?
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You're sad.

That's all the insight that I can offer on your vague-as-fuck post.
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It's very common for parents to use their children, because most parents are really shitty. I bet they had you when they were really young right?

They are probably immature and don't really care about you, so don't care about them until they respect and treat you as an adult.
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>>17206003
My english can be broken but it can not be that hard

I need more insight?

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Is it sad that I got more pussy in primary school than I did in highschool?
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everyone peaks at different times in their life

I peaked in middleschool too, I got more as in 8th grade then I did my whole life
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The fact that you had sex in primary school is pretty sad.
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>>17205971
So it'd be even sadder that I didn't get any in highschool?

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