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Bad idea. Before you even think about asking her out, you should probably consider reconciling with the older sister AKA your former friend.

What happened?

>>17222365
It's....pretty complicated. Trying to avoid the wall of text. In short, I got sick of pining for her attention, so I just decided not to text her first anymore. Then she never texted me again. Then she got married to some white trash piece of shit.

She's the black sheep of sorts, though. Little sister is an angel.

>>17222388
Is that really a huge fight? So passive-aggressive lol.

Anyway, if the older sister lives far and far away then whatever. Expect her to be very weirded out since it's been so long.

If you do initiate this, how do you plan on approaching her?

permavirgin here

ive had the opportunity to have sex though

never took it though

>>17222331
I've never had nor will I have that
What happened ? And why didn't you take it ?
Do you regret it ?

You mean like wizard chan? Doubtful about any real life places

How do you know he's cheated on his wife?

>>17222318
very close with members of staff in my school who know all about it.

Well, you likely see the man every day. Depending on the type of person he is, you may be able to entice him with nothing more than the concept of a taboo act.

Attempting to connect with him on a personal level may be a lost cause, as most teachers put up mental walls when dealing with their students.

So, I'd say get him interested by showing interest in him and acting flirty. That will either lead to something, or weaken his walls enough to allow for a more personal connection with him.

The likelihood of anything happening while you are still a student of the school is unlikely though, with not only the threat of never being able to work in education again and possibly jail time depending on the circumstances.

Not saying you can't try though.


Out of curiosity, why is it that you are so attracted to your biology teacher? You're still so young, I'd be willing to bet there are plenty of others that may be better suited for you.

Holy shit, are you me?

Especially lately, it's really grating on me. She re-injured herself doing something stupid, so for the past two months I've been essentially doing everything for her from cooking meals, rotating her in bed, changing out ice and heat packs, clothing her, helping her use the washroom, ect. I wake up, and it's just like I'm immediately bombarded with problems. If not physical needs, she's throwing emotional issues and conflicts between her and her mother at me. A lot of the time, I don't even get a good morning.

I suppose it's no wonder my sleeping schedule is so screwed up. Just so I can actually get some time while she's sleeping.

>>17222308

At first I hated how needy she was and how much bs she put on me. I felt like she was a burden and an emotional vampire constantly feeling drained. Then I grew to like taking care of her, I grew to enjoy our relationship but now I'm wondering if this is healthy? I mean I'm happy but...I don't know.

Our relationship is very unequal in that most of my time is spent making sure she's okay and taking care of her. My life is much more in a better place than her.

The good things are she's very thankful, she's very loyal, she truly in her heart loves me like no other women I've met before. She's my only friend and we spend 24/7 together basically.

>>17222314

Holy fuck this is so close to me right down to the issues with parents.

How did you get into your relationship?

Basically I went on a date with her when everything was normal and I felt too bad to leave her. Then we hung out a few more times and she clung to me. I went along with it because I was lonely. Then I was too scared to leave or break up with her because I'm too nice and didn't want to hurt her feelings. Started feeling very trapped in the relationship and hated myself. Always felt drained from her problems. Slowly all those bad feelinfs dissipated.

Now it's been around 2 years and I've just come to accept taking care of her and I actually like it? I feel warm and fuzzy and We both love each other. When she's not in pain we're always laughing or joking.

But we can't go out much or do anything normal people my age do due to her anxiety and physical issues and it sucks because I'm too young to be cooped up in a house all day.

Thing is I have no other friends.

But I wonder if this is hindering my growth as a person. Maybe I'd get more shit done if my life didn't revolve around her.

I need to stop being a mayrter for others but I don't know how?

This all comes from insecurity and a lack of confidence

>>17222250
Be attractive, be interesting, don't be desperate. You may come off as wanting him too much and that will make anyone feel slightly less interested. Stop coming off as so easy.

Id advise you to not put on too much of a character because you'd have to always act like that if you two start dating.

>text

if you really want him to go crazy for you, do it in person.

>more I text him the less he cares about me
nah, try to think of it from his perspective. You're running out of things to talk about

You're better off doing it to his face

>>17222248
contd.
>for some odd reason I actually hand her the flowers and tell her I've been think about her for awhile and hand her the flowers
>can see how red she is and looks surprised, takes them and I chat with her more and I introduce myself to her
>eventually my friends drove back up and apparently texted one of the that she was so happy and that was the sweetest thing anyone has ever done
>know now that I have to give her my number now
>next day
>she sends them a text saying she still didn't get my number
>out of nowhere my friend sends me a screenshot of him giving her my number
>start panicking because I've never texted a girl before and I get a text from her
>in my head I'm thinking all sorts of stuff, I'm furious for letting my friend make me do all of this and me not thinking sent out another text saying i didn't expect my friend to give out the number
>out of panic and me not thinking straight I sent her another text saying this probably won't work and give a weird excuse saying I like her but I didn't know how to approach you properly and that I jumped the gun with the flowers (even though that was all my fiends idea) they told her that was all me
>my friends suddenly text me that they are furious I didn't give her a shot, because she told them everything
>feel like shit the whole day because I gave her flowers then I pussied out literally the next day
>She then replies with I guess
>I reply saying I feel terrible for everything that happened and I apologize
> she says it's fine no worries
>now my "friends" are this whole time they were trying to prop us together and I ruined it

Currently I feel miserable and I can't stop thinking about it, I was thinking about text her back and saying I changed my mind but at the same time at the moment I'm trying to sort things out and get myself situated before I can star dating

bumping cuz interested

>>17222253
I'm afraid the damage is already done and now she probably hates my guts now which suck because I still have feelings for her and I felt like I ruined my only chance of a relationship but I didn't feel ready at the moment, so /adv/ should I text her back and say I changed my mind or should I just leave things be?

If you're close, it's fine to do it often.

>>17222228
Depends on the guy. Nice guys won't really give a shit or enjoy it. Chads might get annoyed if the view you as unattractive. It helps to be hot.

Girls love the attention. So even if you're clingy, they love it. It doesn't mean they'll fuck you though. You have to find the sweet spot of texting enough that she knows you exist, but not too much so that you can keep her waiting a bit. It's an odd game to play if you're new to it or autistic, but it's necessary if you don't want to come off as desperate.

>>17222211
bumping because why not

>>17222211
You won't get sympathy points for being a lazy worker; take your bosses advice and do your job.

>>17222227
im not, i always tried to do my best, do as much work as possible, and do it as quick as possible,i was always praised,and even the manager told me i could one day be the manager, if i keep it up, yet i was let go

Might be worth trying, to get some experience. If it isn't right for you, then you can just go back to not dating.

Don't think of it as "missing out." If you want to date, do it. If you don't, don't.

Just don't waste other people's time if your heart's not in it.

>Should I pursue a relationship through actively playing the field

end me pls

Maybe you just want to wait for the right girl, that is really for you, not just random bitch. If it's true i can say that this is pretty normal?

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>>17222158
Just be patient nobody really cares about your reputation if we talk about love,they care about what you.

Btw ignore those people,trust me you wont regret it.

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>>17222187
They didnt say that to bully me or something, they honestly thought that I was gay lol, more in a accepting way.

>>17222109
Tattoo it for sure faggot. Get anything, a Greek god. Maybe atlas holding the world, or Sisyphus pushing his rock up the hill. Bitches love that.

>>17222149
Nice b8, m8.

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I always loved these, that would fit you almost perfectly I reckon.

>>17222076
See if someone can take the lease. Ask her respectfully to be fucking cool for 3 months or maybe go to his place if they fuck.

You sound extremely insecure OP, and with lots of low self confidence. Try exercise

>>17222076
WOW nice job u fag now u gotta listen 2 some guy fuck your girl in the same house i pay rent for

Yes you can move out. And you must move out. If you don't you're just clinging to the ghost of the relationship. Get a roommate and move the fuck out.

>>17221999
>I feel females are much easier to raise

Already failing

>Pretty much just teach them to not be sluts
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

> to not marry a shitskin
I'll give you that, most girls are not attracted to niggers or Arabs anyways even they themselves don't atract themselves not that they can compare themselves to Northern and Medeteranian Europeans


Yeah it's weird
I want to teach my son how to hunt and make him grow up to be Chad.

Don't be such a fagg OP

>>17221999
>Is it weird for a guy to prefer having a daughter over a son?
No.

Its also not weird for a mother to prefer a son to a daughter.

>>17222004
>Teach him to be like Chad
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At least, I hope you aren't.

>>17221999
Did you honestly feel the need to make a thread asking for advice over this? Stop worrying about whether you're weird or not you absolute pig disgrace. I hope your future son brings home a black boyfriend.

>>17221983
>whole room smells like piss now
You're right on track at being a successful NEET

>>17221983
You could always give up your life

>>17221983
On your way! Try pooping in it next.

I think everyone is like this. You need positive reinforcement in order to keep going, which can be hard to get obtain if you're in a bad place in your life.

>>17221970
>I think everyone is like this

Cool to know.

>>17222007
>>17221970
Also

> You need positive reinforcement in order to keep going

Me, Myself and I

> which can be hard to get obtain if you're in a bad place in your life.

Meh