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I've had two separate girlfriends who didn't know each other tell me that I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

It's been 4 years since I've heard it and it still bothers me, so I've got nothing. Sorry bro.

>>17257083
It's okay. I just hate how some girls are so quick to emasculate a guy, yet we guys don't do anything of the like.

>>17257089

I have come to believe that it's due to the perception of

"You're acting like a man"

sounding positive

and

"You're acting like a woman!"

sounding negative.

>op here
What I have written above is what i believe to be the truth. I found this out yesterday after her telling me that she doesnt feel happy and loved and she is sad and alone, which isnt all my fault but i need to help her out of it. I've done a lot of thinking and as stupid as it is i have chosen to believe her story, and move on knowing that yes, she had possibly emotionally cheated on me, however it could genuinely be because she was upset and needed a shoulder to cry on.

The problem I'm having is trust. I was planning to propose to this girl, we live together and I wanted and still want to be a family with her, but I cant stop thinking about this. Of course its early stages and it might go away, but will i ever get this trust back? How do i know this wont happen again.. even if it was because i wasnt giving her enough attention, sexually and emotionally, i will make that better. But the thought is in my head that she is the kind of girl that will do that in the future... she has promised she will talk more about how shes feeling and is distraught shes having to take time off work because shes throwing up with anxiety about me leaving her.

I have always believe that talking with either sex is natural and you always need to talk to other people but the reason we havnt done it much in the past is because of HER worries about it, and now shes gone and done it... in her eyes i would have been cheating and ive explained that too her. Even though in other relationships this wouldnt even be seen as bad.

Any questions just ask but basically:

tldr; semi-emotionally cheating girlfriend upset about talking to the other guy, wants to stay with me but not sure if i can get over the trust i have lost. what do

>>17257052
Hi Op, I have no idea.

Jesus this situation sounds hard. I would stay. But I also have trust issues with my gf, they almost never go away. It's torturous, but it's for love, because I just hope im not getting cucked. Worth imo. Go on with it but you should probably explain that she needs to earn your trust. Good luck friend!

>>17257069
Thanks
Good to hear that I'm not being an idiot by myself ... Definitely think that it's worth it and I really don't think she would do it again and I really hope she wouldn't have gone further than flirting... She has done everything to persuade me she wouldn't, and it was for a reason...

Go to gym and if you are worried do these first:https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=v80p4vSxfRI

>>17257038

I'm already in decent shape.

are you supposed to meet friends at gyms or something?

>>17257044
Well just the exercise itself will make you feel better. Then yes if you want you can make friends. Also there's a bit of socialization that happens by working out while others are doing the same.

Hello Applicant ,

How are you doing today ?It's really nice to hear from you regarding
the job listing for a cleaner. I will be moving in from Canada as soon
as the apartment is furnished. It has 2 bedroom with one master
bedroom and one standard size room, with One Living room and a kitchen
as well. I want a one time thorough cleaning for the whole apartment.
I need to know when you will be available for the cleaning next week
since I wont be moving in until it is fully furnished by my Mover. I
will make provisions for cleaning equipment and you will have to be
fast with the cleaning so my Mover can have my properties moved in to
have the apartment. fully furnished before my arrival. I can only
afford $450 for the cleaning and for your payment I can only send you
a Certified USA Check I wish I can pay you by cash, but for now am not
in town am out for a business trip due to my work, that's why my bank
said they can only mail out Via Certified USA Check, so I have to
follow my bank's procedure which I promise you all will work out fine
for both of us at the end of this transaction. Kindly bear with me,
and you are not cleaning until you get the money Okay so you can get
ready the necessary materials for the cleaning. Kindly get back to me
with this below Information's so I can issue you payment to get
started ASAP.

NAME-:
ADDRESS-: (NOT PO BOX)
CITY-:
STATE-:
ZIP CODE-:
CELL PHONE-:
HOME PHONE-:
AGE (mm/dd.yy)-:
SEX-:

The apartment's address will be disclose to you as soon as you get
back to me, and the Keys will be sent to your address by my Mover once
everything is set. Hope to read back from you soon as your quick
response will be appreciated.


Kind Regards,

This is a scam the check will bounce the bank will pay 450$ but then they will see the check is false and you will owe the bank 450$ a similar scam happened to my girlfriend don't do it

>>17256996
Looks legit to me.

"Hey anonnete, you're a really sweet girl, but I have to be honest. I'm not interested in you."

That's all that needs to be said.

>>17257008
Yeah but then I'd be a dick, seeing as I made it look like I was interested

Take her virginty OP stop being a pussy she's offering it

it's obviously impossible to determine with this little context, man up and say you're sorry for raging and miss the times you had when they lived close to you

Doesn't seem worth it if it's long distance honestly

>>17256978
Well the longer context is that they weren't talking to me for a while. (5 Months) And I got mad and told them off. So they told me that if I was gonna be that much of an ass we shouldn't be friends.

have her buy you condoms.

or time it with her cycle so she won't get preggers

Get her to buy them

>>17256938
>or time it with her cycle so she won't get preggers
You mean she'll be less likely to get pregnant. A woman can get pregnant at any point in her cycle

Fuck her face and bum.

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make SURE you have landed a job or have a solid source of income before you move. Have you visited LA before?

You need a job/craft that you're a master at.
Whether it's music acting or waiting tables u have stiff competition there.

Try to be as independent as possible doesn't matter where you go you are never far from a leech.

>People who just want to be friends with you for no reason,
>People who will loan you a dollar and expect you pay them back $10.
>People who will use you to feed their addictions.
>People who flat out want to use you.
>People who are addicted to sympathy and consciously or unconsciously use the victim card to get stuff from you, be it your money, your time or your energy.

There are countless ways people will try to bleed you dry. Beware of them.

Source= I packed and moved to North Dakota, for nearly 3 years didn't know anyone or anything.

>>17256886
>Dear Professor SoAndSo,

I am sorry to hear that your car was rifled through, I would be happy to take the exam at your earliest convenience. Please let me know when you are available.

Sincerely,

Anon

yes, that's fine.

Because JUST your exam script was taken in the briefcase, right?

Ask her out.

>>17256882
Like on a date? Because if so, i already did that. She took her siblings and a friend.

>>17256887
Did you pay? Is your name Free Food?

Medfag here. What you're describing indicates raging autism.

Now go see a doctor.

Are you sure this isn't just a precordial catch?

>>17257017
No, as far I know PCC only lasts for half an hour at most, but this shit can go on for days at a time. I've done a bit of researching myself and it seems like it could either be a (relatively) mild case of Pulmonary Edema or Costochondritis. Of course, I'm no doctor so I don't actually fucking know and I can only guess. To elaborate on the symptoms a bit more in case there's an actual medfag here: it hurts particularly bad if I breath in very deeply and when I yawn. Laying down on my left side hurts as well, and in certain positions of sitting or laying down I'll hear this bubbling/clicking noise. Sometimes I'll even physically feel this bubbling/clicking in my chest.
>>17257004
Thanks smartass, I'm asking if it's worth it to go to an ER or just a regular doctor, not if I should see a doctor at all.

>>17256822
>I just lost 42 packages in gta v due to an npc helo
REKT

>>17256857
So beyond rekt. I left my fucking house and had to reevaluate what I value in life.

Haven't played GTA V in a while
What packages are you talking about?

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Wuts a JAPMAN

>>17256816

What would you like to know?

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Anton LaVey was essentially all about greed and excess. His version of Satanism essentially says if you want to drink, have sex, or do drugs, do it as much as you want without restraints.

Supposedly LaVey used to go to church and play the organ or sing as a choirboy and he began noticing how hypocritical many of the people were, so he went off and set up his own counter-movement.

I personally think he was a fake who created his so called religion to gain popularity and have sex with lots of women.

There is really absolutely nothing to be gained from his writings. It may have gotten him tons of sex because he led his own movement, but his writing will really just fuck up the life of the average person.

Also, you can either believe that there are such things as demons, or not. If you don't believe in spirits, then Anton LaVey was just a man who wrote some non-sense book to get some power and influence over other people.

If you do believe that demons exist, then it should be obvious to stay away from them, since they are not looking friends.

Anton's LaVey version of satanism is dangerous not because there is power in it, but because its stupid and makes people do stupid things, drinking or having sex to excess isn't really smart. Also, his philosophy will also lead people into trouble since it paints a bleak reality that isn't even true.

High school
She was funny, cute, shy but not awkward
Math class, bumped her and accidentally made her trip and dump all of her pencils on the ground and broke a toe.

I helped her out when she needed me, talked to her about my interests, became friends. 5 years later were going strong.

>>17256805

Over an online game. He was charming, witty, and wasn't the weird type that lay it on thick with the excessive winking emoticons or "r u a girl?" questions. He talked to me like a normal person, we were good friends, and eventually I confessed. From there, we met up in real life. It was costly and time consuming but worth the effort.

>>17256805
Work. She was a batista that wanted me. I just thought she was hot. We hung out. I kept a distance, I eventually realized she was the best thing for me and I was myself arounf her before I pushed her too far away by being a dick. Been together 7 years.

Do something about the unforseen consequences of immortality and the eventual psychological collapse of the individual after being deined death

human-android relationships become far more common than human-human ones and humans die out.

this was the android's plan all along.

>>17256756
A boy and his dog stumble into a the em hole to another dimension that is similar to their universe but slightly different