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Girls rationalize a ton. If a girl doesn't find you attractive, she will rationalize that an awkward silence means you don't have anything in common, and she will end it. If she does find you attractive, she'll rationalize your silence as dark and mysterious and will just take the initiative to talk (like a normal human being). Since she hasn't dumped you, she probably finds you attractive.

From my experience, I've dated girls where I'm really interested in getting to know them, but when I'm with them I just draw a blank. It happens.

(OP here)
>Since she hasn't dumped you, she probably finds you attractive.

I' think so since she agreed to go out in the next days.

>when I'm with them I just draw a blank

That's just my problem. I'm really interested in her but sometimes I can't find anything to talk about

Just wanted to know if it is a common thing or if it's a problem i shouldn't ignore

>>17267741
When my gf are out driving around or just doing whatever we'll sometimes be quiet for a while. It's not often, but it's nice. We do that more when we're just chillin at home with one sitting in the other's lap.

I talk a shit ton though so we normally are talking about something.

Been going out for a while though.

Part of bravery is doing something despite the fear. If you know this is what you want, and it in the long run is the healthiest and more honest way than use that as the crutch you need to enact these changes.

you are already having an emotional affair with this other guy, and are wronging your bf. It is best to either fix what is broken with your bf or move on with your single life.

Your fear most likely stems from the unknown waiting on the other end and knowing that there is a good chance you'll be discovered as sharing intimate feelings with someone else.

Fuck all that. Time to write the next chapter of your life and turn the page girl.

I really want to make things right and move on with life... but god I don't have the heart to hurt anyone's feelings. It feels so easy in my head but I know that when I'm with either of them I won't be able to do it.

>>17267943
"Shit or get off the pot."

>>17267628
you could download the music from youtube using one of those flash to mp3 convertor softwares or sites. i dont know any legit ones, but i hear people do that.

>>17267644
The only problem with that is that every mp3 comes out individually, and they never fit together in album lists on phones and mp3 players. And you don't get the cover art

>>17267628
USE
A
VPN
YOU
NIGGER

>>17267096
Get crossfaded and bust a nut.

Holy fuck.

>>17267096
>How do I stop being paranoid about this? At home I sometimes even feel like my parents are reading my thoughts so I try to think about something random to throw them off. There's no secret mind reading ability you unlock when you reach 30, right?

Why are you so afraid of your parents, specifically, spying on you? Have they ever betrayed your trust in a way that would lead you to this conclusion? Do they regularly go through your things? Because if they don't, you sound mentally ill.

>>17267096
No you faggot there isnt.

And unless your folks are technowizards, there's no spy app on your phone. Chances are, most of what your say is unimpressive and unimportant to them. They have other shit to worry about than your think out loud moments

>>17267079
you won't pay shit in taxes, yes they'll take a small percentage but you'll get 95% of it back in april

>>17267079
What state do you live in? Also with this information go on Google and look up your state's tax info

Sennheiser headphones are pretty good look into them or if you have the money astros

>>17267111
Would 250 be a good estimate for a 30 hr week? I live in FL

If it helps at all, she liked me for almost a year but I only reacted recently. She also never knew my economic state until a week ago.

>>17266907
If you actually liked and cared for this girl, this would not be a problem for you.

There is no need to worry, or hide it, who gives a SHIT what your parents or friends think. Tell her about this, tell her about how your parents feel but don't make it seem like she has to make any sort of choice because of it. If you like her enough, let her know how you feel about it and what you're going to do about it.

This isn't West Side Story. Unless you're parents are starting to directly impact how your life functions because of it, screw them.

>>17266907

She has been your girlfriend for one day. Just take some time and ENJOY IT before you start spoiling it with stuff like this. Your parents should not be part of your relationship at this point. Don't stress about it. Just focus on her, get to know each other, see how it's like with just the two of you. You know, give it some time to make sure it's real and worth fighting for, BEFORE you start a fight over it

I'm not a dindu so what do I do

>>17266814
what are you good at and how old are you

>>17267009
18 currently

>>17266755
you are just jelly, I feel the same I noticed that's why I care. It's like each male has his own race to mate with, which is fair, it's their women. When I see an interracial couple that means they are dipping into my pool, which isn't fair, however I AM free to dip in their pool cause fuck them

Just mind your own business. It's fine if you feel that way as long as you're not using it as an excuse to pester people

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>>17266755

It never used to bother me, but I used to not "get" it. Like I couldn't understand being attracted to someone of a different race. But then I went to high school and left my sheltered upbringing to actually get to know people of different races, and then I understood that people aren't attracted to a race, they're attracted to a person.

Then I want to college and got yellow fever and learned that no, you can totally be attracted to a race. Now I have a Chinese wife.

Beware my tale, young racist anon! If you don't hold fast to your vague racially-motivated insecurities, you, too, might become a race traitor!

Seriously, though. Asian chicks are the fucking best.

>>17266479
She only rated that 3/5?

Tinder
A bar

>>17266484
3 feet out of a possible 5.

I thought twitch was just for vidya???

>>17266438
It's just a word used to describe a certain type of female who streams on Twitch, someone like LegendaryLea.

Can I get money from girls as a guy camwhore?

The more you're worried about it the gayer you are!

>>17266066
>Not interest in sex
>Worried about sexuality.

Fuck off with your non problems.

>>17266078
I just want to marry some girl and be done with it. I'm tired of things being weird.

>>17265446
>Only a few of the ugliest ones match...
That's what's in your league. If you don't like this, you're going to have to step it up. Sorry, dude, but that's how it works.

>>17265446
piece of advice bro.

Woman use dating sites/apps to feel desirable. That is pretty much it.

have u seen a girl using tinder? they swipe left in a matter of 3 seconds. your profile pics are EVERYTHING

>>17265444
lmao, your girl is an idiot.

I wouldn't say she deserved it but damn, she should've thought that one through a little bit more.

Just go back and apologize to her for hitting her. It's better to just keep the peace. Explain to her that her prank was a little out of line and that you really didn't mean to hurt her.

Maybe you'll look back and laugh on it later on. To an outsider, that's actually pretty funny.

>>17265444

My advice is to punch her again. Only this time, when she goes down, kick her in the face.

What a terrible "prank".

>>17265444
She had it coming. Even the threat of a weapon is considered offensive. That shit ain't funny.

Make sure she remembers that guns are not toys. Had it been someone else, she would be dead.

I fantasize about having more girlfriends.

I don't feel any pleasure from being around other guys either. Never felt any kind of bond. My wife is my best friend.

I know that feel. I have always been at the fringe of social circles. Right now I have no friends, even after trying to make friends at work. I have come to terms with the fact that I may be autistic. This isn't a "oh Fuck making friends is too much effort ill just write this off" kind of deal. My half sisters who share my mother are normal well adjusted people but my full sis who shares my dad is insane. Psychotic. My father is also....not normal and has talked to a doctor any was diagnosed. Point is, now that I know what to look poi it for I can deal with being a social outcast better. I find comfort in being who I am and now have more confidence when I go out. I ended up buying a motorcycle and making.a trip to New york. Find your malfunction, fix it or deal with it and learn to progress from there. It would be easier if you can find someome like yourself you can talk to on how to cope. Give yourself the help you deserve, look into your family like I did for clues or talk to a professional.

>>17263951
This too, once I found what was broken in me, I ended up being more confident. I'm still socially distant but I managed to get a girlfriend. She's my best friend and I don't need anyone else.

Are there any girls on here that have farted in a guys face?

>>17263615
hahaha mate that's fucking gross !

Girls : will you fancy me if i'm speaking with a french accent ? (it's a native accent ofc) assuming that i'm a nice guy, ofc

girls why are you such a waste of time.