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I'm 18 years old, i'm a relatively happy person, my mid year exams have finished and i want to relax but my problem for a while has been i absolutely lose my cool playing video games if i 1. lose often, 2. opponent gets lucky, 3. die often. The games i play are mainly Hearthstone which is heavily rng based and overwatch, when ever some smug cunt kills me and types "lol" or something in chat it pisses me off (i still get pissed off if i die and they say nothing honestly) for some reason i can't help picture the other play as some douche whose out just to make my experience shit. Anyway, as a result of my anger issues i have hurt my hand like 3 times punching my monitor ect. I want to stop getting so angry, i want to be the person who plays games to relax and not get pissed off at them because ultimately they mean nothing but i cannot help myself. Why do i get so pissed off so easily? the fuck is wrong with me. please help any help would be appreciated

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>catfish a Instagram model
>40 matches in one day
>Say literally anything and get flirtatious responses
>Become pseudo confident and create a profile with my own pictures
>No matches

Fuck man I don't even think I'm that ugly. Yes my face is ugly and I'm a bit overweight but I have many other nice features: 6'4", some small gains, nice hair. Fuck man feels bad

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Hey /adv/, so me and this girl I really like have been going to movies together lately. And today I was invited to go with her family, it was Finding Dory btw... After movie we said goodbye, and both went home. Start texting, saying that we had a good time and all that jazz. So what I'm asking here is how do I ask her out? We've both told each other that we like each other and we pretty much talk on the phone every night, long distance kinda a bitch. Anyways despite all this, it really isn't official we are together... What should I say to make it official?

>inb4 tell her you want to fuck her

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My wife was killed back in 2010. She was leaving the store when a man approached her and forced her into the car and made her drive to a secluded wooded area. Her body was found 3 days later and he was caught a week later. She was not raped but was found nude. The guy confessed to the murder to avoid the death penalty and denied raping her. I have wanted details of what happened so I started writing him and finally got him to tell me what happened. He said that he only forced her to remove her clothes to have more control over her and had her hike up a trail. He said when she realized that he was going to kill her that she kept begging him not to and started offering sex. He said that once he told her to stop walking and get on her knees that she tried touching him but forced her on the ground and she ended up laying on her back and spread open her legs and started touching herself and asking him not to kill her and to enjoy her instead. He said he watched her play with herself for a while til she got off than shot and killed her. I only believe what he said cuz of the position she was found in matched what he said. I don't know if I'm mad at her for giving him the joy or the fact that she acted like that but it bugs me that she did that instead of fighting back. Am I wrong for feeling that way?

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Sometimes I feel like I do this for her and that I don't live for my self. Sometimes I feel relieved that I never broke up or cheated because she's the best girl for me. You ever feel like this?

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Been with a girl for 9 years. Have been making plans to move in together and spend the rest of our lives together, often initiated by her. We used to have sex frequently (1-2 times a day when together), but that number has changed drastically. We have been long distance for five years, and usually our sex lives are busy when we are together. Over the past year, she just doesn't want to have sex anymore. No matter how I approach it, she either fends off my attempts, does it but makes me feel terrible for it, or once every couple of weeks agrees to it. I'm tired of being the only one trying to keep the sex going strong. What do?

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So I'm thinking of buying related pic , since she won't tell me which ones she likes... I was thinking maybe 2 red roses and one multi colored in the middle....just 3 btw , since a dozen seems a bit much.

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I want to buy 3 books and 3 manga from a Japan located seller but the shipping would cost me about 52 dollars which is as much as the items (total is about 10,500 yen).
Any thing I can do to lower the cost?

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Hey,
So my sister is back home because she threatened to commit suicide on the phone with my mom. So now I'm stuck with her in my parents house because I stay here while I work for the summer. She has an apartment with her boyfriend/fiancé but because of the panic attack is here. She is literally tumblr shit incarnate. Inconsiderate, ugly, smelly, and overall just annoying right now. I only get one day off a week and of course she pulls this shit on that day. I love my sister and all but living with her is making me pissed/annoyed. Anyone have advice on how to deal with this?

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I have a severe phobia of EVER getting pregnant and I was wondering if people could help me figure out if I should be worried or not. It might sound overly paranoid and even downright silly but I keep nearly having panic attacks because of it and need an opinion from outside my head.

Back in March or April I fucked some idiot and when he pulled out the condom stayed in and shit got everywhere. At the time (and still now) I was taking birth control pills for hormonal imbalance, but I hadn't been taking them at the same time each day, which basically makes them useless as contraceptives from what I've read. I can't remember exactly but I might've missed a pill or two (not consecutively) not long before that.

I'm wondering how likely it might be that I got pregnant.

Like a few weeks ago I was experiencing severe nausea and since then I've been getting lightheaded really easily and at times very fatigued, which might point towards anemia (I was also very pale but that might just be natural). Apparently pregnancy can induce anemia.

I've also been shedding a lot of hair which also seems to be a symptom of pregnancy, but a website said that shedding around a golf ball's size of hair when rolled up is normal, and that's about as much as I shed, but basically any time I run my fingers through my hair some strands will come out.

On the other hand, I'm still getting my periods every month, but I've heard that women can still get their periods while pregnant if on birth control.
I also took a home pregnancy test and it came out negative but I'm worried if it might be a false negative or something.

Any further examination is unavailable, by the way. I can't get to a doctor's office test until late August due to travel. I'm like panicking that by the time I'd be able to get an abortion in a worst case scenario, it'll be too late to get done.

The anxiety is fucking killing me and it's making it literally difficult to breathe.

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I have a problem /adv/.

When I am with my boyfriend of 4 years, I feel like the ugliest piece of shit that ever walked the Earth. I also feel and act like a huge bitch because of my insecurity around him.

When I am with my friend, I feel like the most beautiful person, inside and out.

I am wondering how and why this is happening, and what I can do to transfer some of the confidence and security I have with my friend to my boyfriend.

I want to be a better person for him, but I feel like shit around him a lot. I just don't know how to be 'pretty' around him. In return, we are losing attraction to one another and I feel like we've been growing apart.

Some mature insight would be great.

Ages
Him: 28
Me: 26
Friend: 24

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Am I a poser for having a double life?

By day I'm pretty much a corporate dude, preppy, high paying office job and all that jazz.

But by night + weekends, I go full punk/skater/hipster mode. That's the scene that I feel the most comfortable in. Tight pants, flannel, local metal shows, PBR, hipster blue collar/unemployed dive bars, and overall "alternative" shit. However I can't relate closely to people in either scene... I kind of drift between two entirely different worlds... And I don't think it's the optimal way to live my life.

How do I truly live in conjunction with all of my personal values?

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Is it possible for me to sue this guy for what he did to me in the video?

Thanks any advice helps!

This Cis Gendered moron is mocking LGBT in this video as well as oppressing.

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I'm a NEET with ADD working with a therapist. He had me and my parents make a "contract" to keep me accountable.

>Contract:
The hardest parts for me have been being ready by 9am, filling out job applications instead of just looking at them, and cleaning my bedroom.
I have fulfilled some parts of the contract better than others. I'm still a little annoyed with my parents for not enforcing the contract properly, and screaming at me for either minor infractions or for things that haven't even been specified.
Last Saturday, my mother came into my room and yelled at me for not doing my laundry. The contract Says I'm supposed to do laundry on Sunday. In fairness, I was supposed to clean my room that day and didn't do a very good job, and the time was never specified - it just says Saturday. I interpreted the contract to mean that the daily schedule was for weekdays and that weekends are unstructured.
There have been times where they have accused me of being "rigid," and "not really trying", I say it's a written agreement that needs to be followed and understood accurately in order to mean anything at all. I'm doing the best I can and I'm anxious to see if they follow through on their end to give me back my privileges. In the past, there have been times where they back out on promises because something came up or there is some curve-ball, and there is nothing I can do about it, and then I feel cheated.
Moods:
I woke up this morning feeling really depressed, so depressed that I didn't want to start the day and had some suicidal thoughts. I felt better after I took a shower and got my vyvanse pill. I first resisted and my parents had to yell at me to get out of bed and do my morning routine. The more they get angry with me, the worse I feel about myself and about them. I don't know why I have such a strong urge to resist orders so that it frustrates other people. I get so ashamed that they have to reprimand me in the first place that I can't suck it up and just do it.

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So I'm living I'm San Francisco for a while. And I also love to hike from 1hour to about 3 or 4 hours. My foot size is about 9&half to 10. I have flat feet. I can't figure what boots are right for me especially since I have no experience with boots. I'm also rucking with about 30-40lbs in my pack to prep for the marines (have a few years for that) and I need boots that could help form my feet or help them get used to being in boots for the military. I don't know if that made sense but any help would be appreciated!