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>>17266053
Meet up with them more often so you don't have to tell them that you miss them every time you're not together?

Is he/she always like that?

If you haven't seen each other it may be some sort of "that's normal, we haven't been able to be together..." but it's weird that he/she doen't say me too.

Lol Hahahaha I am going to use that one.

>>17266042
It all go downhill from here.

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>>17266042
I turned 18 six months ago, and I've never had a girlfriend either. Sometimes it bothers me, yeah, but at the same time I've never really tried getting one. I kinda just expected everything to come to me, which was a pretty stupid way of thinking. Either way, I've never met a girl I genuinely liked past looks. Starting college soon so maybe it'll happen.

>>17266042
Make a change could be hard at that point of your life, but in other hand you will experiment many new experience since now, and meet some new people, I'm 21 and i had no gf 6 years ago, i do my best but it is too hard to me trying to be happy and show my self happy because I'm not I'm getting psycho by the fact of being alone and no one want a sad boi, a sad girl has to many opportunities to get a boy to care for her... I really love girls who are in the edge of the abyss

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>>17266012
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First thing's first: Unless you are objectively 8+/10 in terms of facial aesthetics and over 6 feet tall, you can give up the idea of taking bar girls home with you. Bar girls are literally kids in a candy store. Why go home with a stick of Double Bubble when you're surrounded by all different kinds of free Toblerone bars that you can take your pick from? In bars, women will choose the most immediately large, handsome, and masculine man they can find because it's a bar. You can't hear shit and everyone's drunk, so it's not like you have a chance to present your personality or humor or intelligence or whatever. It's all just based on heat-of-the-moment visual decisions and body language. Also bar girls are mostly just young skanks who want to get plowed by a big dude who reminds them of their dad. You might be able to pull it off, but it's not something you want to make a habit of anyways. The appeal of bar girls wears thin very quickly.

So what does that leave you? Happenstance one-night-stands and relationships. We're going to cover relationships, because trust me, they're usually easier to initiate, and lead to a steady supply of sex, so even if you don't plan on making the relationship a long-term deal, you can at least get some good sexual experience without having to find a new girl every time. And trust me, you'll want the experience for when you DO meet the kind of girl you want, especially if you plan on living the one-night-stand kind of life. And don't worry too much about looks. You know those ugly, out-of-shape motherfuckers you see walking around with 7/10 women? They don't have the looks, but they have the confidence and personality to be appealing.

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>>17266015
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So where to start? We start with self-confidence. Center yourself around this fact: You can do it if you try. When all things are falling apart, your attempts are failing (and yes, attempts will fail. Trial and error is essential in gaining self-confidence in social situations), and it feels hopeless, remember: As long as you keep trying, as long as you keep getting practice and learning, as long as you make some kind of effort at all, you can do it. ("WE'RE ALL GONNA MAKE IT BRO" etc.) It's a process and it takes perseverence. Rome wasn't built in a day, but you better believe everyone was working at it around the clock. You are going to be Rome. Time to get building.

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>>17266020
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Building Rome: Let's start with self-awareness. You need to take a look at what you've got in order to know where to start developing. How old are you? Do you have a job? Are you a student? Do you have a vehicle? Do you have your own living situation (apartment, house, etc.)? What are your allergies? What are your hobbies? What are your talents? What are your tastes? What are your fears? Know all your negatives and positives. Be realistic about it, but don't be too hard on yourself. Determining all these things paints a picture of yourself, but more importantly: it paints a picture of what kind of girl you should be looking for. If you're 41, 5'2", unemployed, uneducated, live with your parents, can't drive, collect animu figurines, listen to K-pop, and are allergic to oxygen, then YES, you CAN get a girl to touch your penis! Willingly! BUT- you're not going to get a 23-year-old, 5'9", fit + thick, intelligent, sociable girl with a pretty face, big round tits, and a shapely ass. It's not impossible to get a girl like that, but don't hold your breath. You'll have to start small. You should be looking for girls who have similar (if not the same) kinds of hobbies and tastes, are at least an inch shorter than you, are slightly less in-shape than you (sorry, it's just a fact that girls don't really have to be in shape to get guys, and if they're in shape they expect to get guys who are in extra good shape), and most of all, girls who are okay with who you are. NOT who you are pretending to be in order to win their favor. That brings us to our next point:

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>>17265958
Self control starts at home.
All we can give you is moral support.

>Remember you don't need to.
>You only want to because of conditioning.

>>17266008
That is actually some great advice. I don't need to, I have just conditioned myself to thinking that the evening needs this occasion. Yes!

Thank you, morally supportive stranger on a Greek financial forum. Thank you.

Checkout nofap on reddit they have a whole community for not fapping.
I've been going strong 4.5 years
Couldn't even go past a few days prior to nofap community.

>>17265912
Just hit him up and be direct about how you're feelin' anon.

>every woman in every relationship: "Why doesn't he want to talk to me sometimes?"
>every man in every relationship: "Why does she want to talk ALL THE TIME?"

>>17265921
Not sure about this
>>17265912
I think you'd honestly seem desperate or clingy. You checked up on him to see if he was on IG and he was. Maybe he got up to shit and was on his phone and passed out. Maybe he didn't think the two of you had enough time to hang out. Maybe he had a headache. It could be anything really. Talking everyday might not be what his idea of a relationship is, and he won't know thats how you feel unless you say so. Personally talking everyday can be a bit clingy but I've been pretty independent since my last relationship.

>>17265886
Hang out with her more and text her less. Only text her to hang out. Could be she's shy, could be she's a bad texted, could be she's uninterested. Instead of pulling your teeth texting, invest in the actual aspects of her that you're getting some return on.

>>17265886
She likes physical male attention, you ask her out if she says yes she likes you as a potential partner otherwise you are just orbiting and need to move on

>>17265905
Ill try this, it is summer now so more free time.

You should not wait until "next time." You should be the one to make "next time" happen. Man up, or she'll move on.

>and thank her

Run. She is a succubus and only wants your soul.

frankly I've felt that way since I was 15
(25 now)
i just force myself to enjoy SOME thing - one hour at a time and honestly it works - my gf and roommate both struggle with the same kinda deal and we just keep ourselves occupied - indulge in the bad vibes sometimes but otherwise it's all about productive distractions

Yes (a lot).

Do something with yourself. Exercise helps a lot...a LOT.

Make a goal for yourself. Make sure it's something you can accomplish in a day. Fulfill it. Make more goals. Repeat.

Meditate. Explore philosophy.

As one of my therapists once said, "Do things that are self-validating."


Prove to yourself that you're not just another shitbag taking up space on this planet.

>>17265884
>I just force myself to enjoy SOME thing - one hour at a time and honestly it works
What do you mean by this?

>>17265837
Remove the saftey blanket and support structures that make you lazy.

Start by getting rid of the majority of your video games. Not all of them. Just the ones that are a horrible time sink

Fixing eating poorly will assist in fixing acne , flabby body and some of the social issues. There's no excuse to get healthy fresh food at the grocery store.

>>17265850
Saddest thing is I mostly play the "skill" based vidya which as we all know is the biggest time consumer and I dont want to quit because of the time I put in that to develop my so called "skills".

>>17265868
You don't have skills. If you did, you'd have sponsors and be a part of esports. Skill games are pointless.

You're just giving excuses.

Stop.

does anyone ave any experience in this?.. casting spells and doing telepathy on an ex lover, and sending out positive energy into the universe? you get results, however it's not exactly from who you were intending upon.

>>17265807
Take your roleplaying/mental illness to >>>/x/

>>17265807
>randomly sent me a text
>not a coincidence.

That is the very definition of a coincidence

oh shit are you me? I'm 24, live with my parents, and I'm really lonely

Can't offer any advice but it fucking hurts

>>17265815
>>17265799
me too and the loneliness fucking hurts

>>17265799
Get a job, you bums!

>>17265692
Lay out what you exactly said here. Your family has no right to meddle in how you choose to live your life. You seem to be making positive choices.

They're up their own asses. You're doing the best you can and in fact are doing so much better than some. You are living by doing what you enjoy, that's amazing i'm honestly really happy for you.
Maybe they're just worried that when/if the payout money stops coming you'll be suddenly in financial trouble so they want to help but maybe not I don't know those details. All in all you're fine, it's not like you're living off welfare and intentionally doing nothing.
I want to live like you one day.

>>17265726
Side note. Is your payout in any way shape or form controlled by any of these people?

How are you crippled?

>>17265674
Isnt the sunlight beautiful?

>>17265674
we all go trough ups and down man,
just work on improving yourself,
It's hard.
Maybe things will get better.
you are not alone.

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>>17265632
Fellow students - example.

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Who is calling you a pervert?

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>>17265632
my collection - example 2

>>17265599
Sounds like it could be an orgasm but honestly it is weird for her to not know if she is having one or not. It is a very obvious and unique sensation. Have you been focusing on her clit?

>>17265607
Yup. I've tried to use all the advice I've been given. Building her up, I've had her literally squirming to the touch by the time I go down on her. I'm at my wits end on how i could make it better other than just more tongue endurance, but even then I've gone for like half an hour before and she's had like 4 of these maybe orgasms?

I think maybe she just expected it to be something its not?

Sometimes after we have sex she'll say she feels stupid and woozy and almost fell over once cuz her legs were weak.

But like it's fucking with my head. It's partly and ego thing on my part but its also because I just want to please her as best I can. I want her to be as satisfied as I can make her.

>>17265599
If it's a good one, she'll scratch and bite. Also, look for sudden tightening of the muscles, my GF always stretches her legs as if trying to get up and I have to hold her down. She just giggles with pleasure.