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Who knows? You're still young. Literally anything can happen within the next 1, 5, 10 or even 20 years

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>>17266546
Everyone is going to lose a parent at some point. Sad fact of life and sadder still in your case that it happened at such a young age. No point dwelling on the fact that it happened and how negatively it may have affected you. It has already happened and now you adjust your course moving forward.

>>17266546
I grew up with a shitty dad. I'm 23 and he and my mom split up when I was 17. I had issues for 3 or 4 years but I'm all good now.

It's normal to have issues for a little while.

I am sorry for your impending loss.

>>17266521
>When they die will I be responsible for the bills?
You speak of SSDI and Medicare, so I assume you're in the US. In that case, no: there ARE parts of the world where debt can be inherited, but the US is not one of them. The only debts you can be held responsible for are ones with your name on them (for example, if you co-signed for a loan or something).

That said, you won't be responsible for the bills, but your parent's estate will be. Before inheritance can be settled, the estate must first pay any taxes it owes, followed by any debts that it owes. If it can't finish this, then the government/creditors have to eat the difference -they cannot go after the heirs- but there is nothing left for the heirs to inherit.

Now, all of this said, be careful not to put your name on your parent's loans or bills if you can possibly avoid it. Some unscrupulous folks might try to trick or force you into doing so, but don't do it unless absolutely necessary. This would also be a good time to get your name taken off of your parent's credit cards, if it is on them.

Your picture is pretty cool opie. Why does the fish in sushi have to be raw? Is it always raw? How come I don't hear about people being poisoned from it?

Your picture bothers me. Half of the the "rules" are "EAT IT A CERTAIN WAY EVEN IF YOU PREFER IT ANOTHER"

Like why the fuck does the amount of soy sauce or what touches your tongue first matter

>>17266511
asking myself the same thing tbhbbq

bump of shame

>>17266511
bumperino

Oh I've been here waiting for an hour and a half, I've already started eating and I drank a beer already

You're already her bitch, waiting for her for 90 minutes.

You should have left after 15 mins. She knows she can trample all over you now and you'll never get her respect again.

Yeah you should just leave and forget about her. Better luck next time. What restaurant you at by the way?

>>17266467
She sounds like she has a lot on her mind

You are in the wrong. You had your time wasted for four hours, she broke down completely. She has a worse night I guarantee

Neither of you are in the wrong, you just have different views on what happened.

I wouldn’t give it too much thought, she sounds like a headcase

>>17266429
I think you were right to leave, a stupid partner isn't someone you want to be working with when dealing with anything illegal (and just in general.)

>>17266429
Haven't you watched Breaking Bad?

>>17266429
Hes goin to llse a lot of money and learn the hard wY.
I backed a boyfriends DREAM and he pulle what your fried did ad it all felll apat an cost a lot.

I would sell them or give them
To someone who will enjou them

>>17266394
Your kid comes before your hobbies. You obviously have doubts about this hobby because of your kid so you should drop it.

You'll not even miss your figurines once you give birth anyway.

How do I get my Japanese wife into liking anime girls? She only seems to like anime guys. Weird that

chill love hes just taking a shit

>>17266386
If this was one instance, I wouldn't worry (but don't ignore it). Sometimes shit happens or maybe he didn't see it and doesn't check it.

If this happens a lot then you need to flat out ask him and get a straight answer.

>>17266386
I'm so close to double texting him.. someone stop me please

>>17266322
And why's that?

>>17266324
I like to have more sensual lovemaking and he has always liked it hard and rough.

I feel he cannot be sensual because he lacks physical attraction to me.

Any advice?

>>17266319
>wants to have this "soulmate" type connection with me

What's that supposed to mean? That she wants you to be a mind reader instead of having to communicate?

You can talk to her about reality, but if she has unrealistic expectations you should bail. This is not heading toward a happy, stable relationship.

Also are you actually interested in her as a person, or do you "like" her because she's willing to give kisses and cuddles?

There's a difference. Me, I like kissing and cuddling, but literally anyone can provide that. The important part is finding someone you actually like and enjoy being around even when there's nothing physical going on.

>>17266319
She's literally saying that she wants you to stick around until she finds something better.

>>17266309
She probably knows but she likes having you arohnd

This is a very simple problem with a very simple solution.

That's not to say it's easy, emotionally speaking, but it's not complicated.

1. Stop initiating contact with her (it seems to make you feel miserable).
2. If the next time she speaks to you is because she has a problem, let her know that it bothers you because it seems like she's only interested in using you for advice or support and not being an actual friend.

Don't be an asshole about it.

>>17266350

I guess I already knew the answer, just not what I wanted.

>>17266328

Probably, only makes it worse though.

I've been having to do this recently. Me and my roommate have been getting up at 6:30 AM to go to the gym to lift every morning.

Its fucking rough for the first few weeks, but once you get into the groove its fine.

>>17266279
go to bed earlier, set 10+ alarms about 2 minutes apart from one another, if your window faces east leave the curtain open overnight so you get sun in the morning, don't eat cheese before bed because a good dream makes it so much harder to get up

>>17266279

stop sleeping in on weekends. ive read it takes about 8 days in order to create your sleep cycle. the problem is after five days we ruin it by staying up late, sleeping in, and then just start over again on monday.

you gotta remember evolution had no ewekend. cave people did not take saturday and sunday to sleep in. if you want consistency, you ahve to be consistent.

also consider drinking water as soon as you wake up. immediately. then eat immediately. the reason breakfast iis called breakfast is because you are 'breaking' a 'fast' (which just to clarify is when you dont eat for a prolonged period of time.

night is the longest amount of time you go without eating. your whole body shuts down when you sleep. putting something in your stomach forces your body to wake up. thats also why its hard to sleep when you've eaten something complex like protiens. its harder to digest and takes more time, keeping you up.

consider buying sour candy, or even a little thing of lemon juice by your bed, and as soon as you wake up, put it in your mouth. it is a 'shock' but not as unpleasant as say, your father pouring water on you.

>>17266237

the world isn't divided into normies and weirdos.

some people want to be normal cuz they are horribly disfigured. others just arent what others might call 'mainstream' or just have peculiar interests. the definition of normal is weird. you might actually be normal but not feel it cuz the way you experience everyone else is through their facebook posts, giving you this sense that they only experience what they post.


its hard to say. the best way to let go is to simply embrace who you are. whichever way you have to.

>>17266261
I can actually pretty confidently say I can't really relate to 90-95% of the world population and they can't relate with me. People have started fights trying to politely ask me to explain my existence to them.

It's cold, dark and bleak and embracing it feels roughly like hugging a snowman buck naked.

>>17266275

maybe you're being edgy. but maybe you are not. can you please explain what it is about you that makes people insist you explain your existence?

Fuck her. In my experience those chicks are great, cute but no self confidence and a really wanting to please.

And you really like and her and want something long term, you can get her /fit/. Girls get addicted to being /fit/.
It like fixing up an old house.

>>17266177
Breed her and hope the good genes are passed on.

>>17266177
the face is most important to me. Nice bodies are only nice for banging before 35 years old.

>>17266131
Why would he invite you then?

>>17266136
We spoke a lot in one of our classes, I guess you could say we were friends in a vague sense, but I never saw him outside the classroom.

>>17266144
Ahh I see. Well I honestly think you shouldn't go, I know that it might be good to socialize but it might end bad (Nobody talks to you, your just bored and awkward there) Do you still have no friends?