Hey /adv/, do guys like to be approached? I'm a girl 5/10. Asking because I've been doing a lot of waiting around lately in lines at Orlando and would like to strike up conversation to pass time and make friends. I'm scared of other girls.
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>>17306027
im a guy and i like to be approached, though if a girl approached me and started talking to me, i would assume she wants to go out with me, not just be friends.
>>17306027
Yes, guys like to be approached. It doesn't matter if you're a 5/10 or a 2/10, it's flattering, even if you're not attractive to that particular person.
>>17306027
I'm from Orlando too I can help you with that hmu
Kik: chaddywilly32
I'm going in a short trip to a cabin.
It'll be me, my best friend, his gf, her sister, my friend's colleague (guy) and around 4 or so other girls whom I don't know, all single.
How do I into sex? It'll be enough alcohol to create a second flood out of. I don't have much banter but I put my bets on getting drunk enough (both me and a girl I get comfortable with) so that personality is not a factor anymore.
But yeah, advice?
>>17305989
Do a little research into what she enjoys. Facebook, etc and use that for conversation when your both hammered. Attempt to make it seem like a coincidence.
>>17305993
I don't know any if the girls that come besides my friend's gf and her sister. The other girls are unknown to me, I don't even know their names, I don't even know how they look like.
And even if I somehow found them on Facebook, I don't have Facebook myself so yeah.
But I'm not looking to make a friend and appear charming. I wanna get drunk and fuck them. How do I talk myself into that? From the little info u got, they're all basic white girls who go clubbing and drinking.
Maybe you shouldn't have spent the last 15 years playing video games, and invested some time figuring out how to actually converse with women. I can't believe people like you actually exist.
Do the planet a favor, don't bother having sex. DNA like yours was not meant to be passed along.
Or....get drunk and be nice to the fattest ugliest girl there. When you get home and haven't gotten laid, throw your video games out, and work on your communication skills so that this doesn't happen again in 5 years.
i have a friend who uses drugs and i use drugs too, i hang out with him sometimes, he happened to be chilling with a girl who also does drugs, we somehow say hi and chat, we somehow exchange numbers, i get to know her for a month, i find out she has had 3 ex boyfriends, she told me she has had sex with them.
she is 22, i am a 26 year old hugless kissless virgin, should i settle for used goods or find a virgin qt girl?
i think i am going to stick to my robot roots and just cut her off, unfortunately for her she likes me
she had another man's dick in her mouth.... so the thought of that upsets me
>>17305964
If you're 26, kissless virgin and use drugs you're probably not exactly a great catch.
I doubt that a virgin qt girl would settle for you.
>>17305964
You should have fun with her, call it sex, call it chating with her, regardeless of what she had in her mouth.
And please, don't overvalue virginity, you'll feel the same when you don't have it.
sigh
>ex broke up with me 4 months ago
>immediately start no contact
>we have some mutual friends so it was tough but I got over it
>no contact absolutely kills her
>he periodically sends drunk texts/messages asking to be friends but always sends some kind of apology the next day
>always ignore
>always messages for pointless/dumb shit, most of which I either dismiss or ignore
>we are going to be at the same club night next weekend
>want to try again with her because I still find her attractive and the circumstances are vastly different
>also don't want to embarrass myself
have I done everything right in order to try again? or have I fucked up by ignoring her all this time? also wtf do I do now
>>17305963
Exes are that for a reason, there is a reason why you left them and if you try it again with them, it's probably going to rear its head again
Just forget about it op
But to answer your question, I can't say because you haven't given enough info. Just talk to her and be honest.
I still advise against even trying though.
>>17305963
the purpose of no contact is two fold. Leave them scratching their head as she is doing and begin the process of detachment for yourself. You have not gone fully no contact because she can still reach you and you intend to be in a place you know she will be. You are playing a game and when you make another pitch she will know this and stomp on your heart again. Foolish
What's the point of a relationship if I have to go out of my way to pretend to not care about the other person.
When I'm myself and actually care and try to make my partner feel appreciated they get bored of me and don't give a shit, but if I go out of my way to ignore her, don't reply to her messages, etc, she suddenly comes crawling back giving all the attention, but I don't want to be like this because I'm forcing myself to be someone I'm not, so what's the fucking point?
Should I just give up on relationship and convince myself I'm not fit for one?
>>17305960
Give and don't expect anything in return from anyone.
>>17305960
>my experience with one woman is indicative of all women
Date people who like YOU and not the attention they can give to them.
>don't date people who don't mesh well with your personality
>don't be needy
>don't pretend to be something you aren't
You have to find a fine balance between being self absorbed and being needy. If you keep acting like a needy faggot, you're going to irritate most women and attract shitty, needier women that you're going to either cheat on or kill yourself over.
Learn to be happy with yourself
Had some differences with my bf and i can't go back to our normal, loving relationship anymore. What has caused that and how can i get over it?
>we had some different opinions on how appropriate it is that he's still close friends with his ex
>differences got honestly discussed in a calm approach
>since then i feel distant and indifferent towards him
>stuff i formerly found adorable now annoys the shit out of me (mainly lovey dovey things like he telling me how much he loves me, extensive cuddling and such)
>when i get a text from him i don't even want to read it
>we still have sex, but it's abysmal (i was always very enthusiastic and horny 24/7. Now i just want it to get over with and also, i suddenly get disgusted with his "bodily fluids". I noticed that i'm even trying to avoid kissing him...)
I feel so very bad about this. Note that i don't act on those feelings. I'm still kissing him, telling him how much i love him and so on. After all, on paper, our differences got resolved. Pls help me find out what's the matter with me and how i can get our old ways back again...
are you stupid
break up
>>17305946
It's not that easy. We move in together in two weeks. I already cancelled the contract to my apartment. And also, i really want to resolve this and not just run away as soon as things get a little bumpy. Ofc it has crossed my mind...
>>17305951
DON'T move in with him it will not get better. No partner should have to have the chat about the ex. If the person you are with is so insensitive to not recognize any boundaries when they enter another relationship and commit to that person you cannot convince them of it. I understand some people may want to remain friends with an ex but the insistence that ex maintain the same place in their life is untenable. Friends/acquaintance ok, but "close" friends, no.
Do women actually like guys that are chill and easy to get along with? looking back on my relationships, women seem to get bored because im really relaxed about most things. I notice, guys that are kind of dickish but entertaining get the most girls. i dont really want to act this way because i feel like an asshole and its not me.
>Do women actually like guys that are chill and easy to get along with?
yeah, just dont be a pushover and make attempts to get them in bed
>>17305941
im not though, and i dont make attempts unless its obvious that they want it. dont know, lad. from my experience women say they like this but they get bored.
Yes they do. And contrary to memes, women don't usually like assholes either. You should not try to become an asshole. You need to become less boring instead.
Why is this board so fucking cancerous
Every board is shit, you moron.
>>17305929
We get a lot of vulnerable people here, which makes it prime breeding ground for the cancer to spread. So the containment boards -mostly /r9k/ and /v/, but sometimes /pol/ too- raid us constantly, and they're the source of the cancer you're seeing.
It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. Until the site's leaders muster the political will to hand out global-permabans to the raiders (or, better yet, shut the containment boards down entirely), it will likely continue. It is entirely possible that even that won't work; the raids will just continue from whatever hugbox sites the bitter unfuckables flee to. But it's the least we could do.
>>17306000
>to hand out global-permabans to the raiders (or, better yet, shut the containment boards down entirely)
I don't really think that will help though, since they will come shitting up other boards anyway. And from looking at the last few years it doesn't seem as if anyone tries to enforce anything anymore.
I have a muscle girl fetish. Is it possible to find a /fit/ girl who isn't a lesbian/has ridiculously high (and well warranted desu) standards?
>pic related
>am /fit/ myself
Look for them at the gym. Be aware though that most guys won't find very muscly women attractive, so most girls will want to avoid being ripped.
go to a powerlifting gym not your typical normalfag gym, the few girls in there are the real deal
>>17305937
I go to a powerlifting gym. One is a huge lesbian who hates men and the other is a muscled qt with a husband that could rek my shit.... Those are like the only two girls that lift there :(
Is there truly a "poblem" with me hating people? I absolutely do.i am not trying to be edgey.i wish i was but i am not. Every person i have ever met has ethier exploited my insecurities,insulted me to on a spiritual level,cheated on me,or has told me to throw away my dreams.it never stops with them.all i can ever think about when a persom talks to me is brutaly hurting them or killing them.the only time ive met a "good" person is when i met my grandmother.i personly dont think i should change becuase through trial and error i have learned that i can not trust them or be friends with them.not even on a vague level.i can not even force myself to lie to them.i try to lie them,but i can't.not for second can i.am i in the wong here,or do they deserve it?
>>17305916
Well i have a lovehate relationship with humans. But i don't expect all to be good, nobody's a saint including you. However there are a few that are just blatantly evil. But i try to see the good in everybody anyway, you never know what they've been through. Just like you seem to have been through a lot and that's why you're the way you are. Just keep that in mind. You're not wrong for the way you feel, just try to give everyone a chance first
>>17305949
That is indeed thing.i give everyone a chance and they end up doing something terrible with said chance.i want to think people are good but like i said it always turns out way worse than what i bargained for.it is like geting a dog and then the dog turns out to be a pedophile.
>>17305959
Pedophile dogs...beautiful. And this has been EVERYBODY you've ever encountered?
Hey /adv/
Should I kill myself?
I'm almost thirty jobless and live with my parents. I lost the love of my life because of my drinking. I lost my car and license because of my drinking.
The only think I'm remotely good at is writing but I can't create anything other than /pol/tier short stories.
Suicide seems to be a option right now. The shame I feel is eating me up inside. It isn't subsiding it is growing and its ripping apart my guts every day.
Or....stop drinking...just a suggestion
>>17305914
alright
i was leaning no until you mentioned /pol/, go ahead
Writing my resumé, I don't speak native English as I'm from Europe
Is this correct?: "Respond to customers' queries..."
Or is it like customers's or customer's :D pls help ty
Non native speaker myself, but it's plural, so "customerS". the 's is only used as a short form of his or hers. As in grandma has a cake. So it's grandma's cake.
You're correct. But if you want to play it safe you can avoid the issue by saying "customer queries" instead, it's perfectly valid.
>>17305898
Using [customers'] implies possesion, for instance "the customers' dog pissed on the floor".
It's not incorrect to say [customers' enquireies], as the implication is that you've responed to enquiries made (and therefore possesed by) the customer, but as a native English speaker I'd say it sounds a bit clunky. I'd say "responding to customer enquiries" (which implies you've delt with a number of individual enquiries from customers) myself.
I fucked up.
I have this girlfriend who I really love, she is my first girlfriend and my first love. But since the start of the year I moved cities. And our relatonship has been declining, I still love her and she still loves me. But last saturday a girl gave me a smooch, and altough I love her, I have 18 years, I don't want to settle down. And I told her that. And she still wants to date me, I feel like a monster. What to do?
>>17305892
Where did you fuck up, exactly?
>>17305892
It's up to you, and you are who knows you gf best here but I think maybe you should talk with your girlfriend. Tell her what you feel and your situation and propose her an open relationship. You both still love each other and as long as you do, sex with other people shouldn't matter a lot. However, you have to be really careful, first of all, you should ensure that she gets it and don't think that you don't love her and, secondly, always have time for her, if you are about to fuck sb but she says she needs you, stay with her and support her.
>>17305892
Well. All I can do is give you advice that I would want to get myself in your age and situation. I don't know if it will work for you, don't know you or your girlfriend, don't know what would happen to you, and don't even know if it would make me happy because, well, I went the other way and it certainly wasn't happy for me.
Don't throw something great and special (SPECIAL) you have just for some easy pleasure and "expierience". All this experience other stuff is shit tv-tier propaganda in compramision with real understanding and companionship that your true love can give you. All the fucking around was worth nothing and all the drama made my life unpleasant. You find in the end that pleasure you derive from sex is all in your head and fucking third different girl this month is geting disgusting instead of orgasmic. I know you don't want to settle now, I understand that, you don't have to. Enjoy your great, sweet and growing relationship. Learn and teach. Get understanding. I wish I stayed with my first love, I wish I wasn't so stupid as to let other people ("but this one girl is so hot, dude!") ruin what we had. I wish I had someone who understand me and care for me just because it's me, right now in my life...
I would try to apologize her and try to get her close. No Long Distance Relationship bullshit. If you are different cities you might as well call it over now.
I am a fucking retard. Had this thing with a girl in which she did not wanted a relationship. She wanted only to fuck. So did I at first, but then i got attatched to her. Bad. 2 days ago we spoke on the phone and told her not to call me again. I felt like a mother fucking god, i felt like i have finally escaped that shit. No-no, i didnt. Yesterday i was fucked up, today I am a lot more fucked up and I feel the urge to call her. I know it cant be good since she wont change her opinions and would go back to sex and shit and me feeling worthless every time I am with her. I am nothing but a sextoy, and all that because she is taller than me (fuck me, right...its like something that I wanted).
How the fuck should i act.
>inb4 kill yourself
Already thought of that...it's not an option at the moment since I still got people in my life that care about me.
fuck a new bitch
I am so fucked up now that I couldnt even get it up for another bitch.
What the fuck is wrong with me?
PS: Forgot to mention, this whole thing was on for like 7 months or so...i think i fell for her
>>17305889
>Already thought of that...it's not an option at the moment since I still got people in my life that care about me.
Killing yourself is always an option, anon.
I wanna discuss kinks more in depth with my boyfriend.
He's a little vanilla-ish (as far as I know), and gets kind of bashful when I bring up kinks.
I don't want him to think I'm weird. Pic very much related.
Tell him you want to try new things because the sex is boring
>>17305882
Haven't had sex with him yet. We're long distance.
>>17305883
lol
might as well just email him that picture then