I've been taking online courses at my local CC, because I'm unable to drive because of a brain injury I had when I was born.
I honestly haven't been thinking about what I want to do after I finish my last class this fall. My options for colleges are probably going to be limited because I can't drive.
What do I do?
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I sold my truck when I transferred to a state school from CC. Lived on campus, used public transportation, and biked. Didn't get a car til I graduated. You don't have to drive to get through college.
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>>17340751
The bus doesn't come to where I live.
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>>17340757
can u ride a bike
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So.... What to do.
Basically, I am interested in this girl, and for some reason over the past few days, I had an immense urge to contact her. I know that nothing will come of it, but my gut is kinda saying to just do it.
I made it clear to her that I am interested.
But it obviously seems that shes not, but has not said the dreaded "But I only see you as a Friend" line.
And I have asked her to hang out in the past, and she seemed to answer positively, but had Family stuff that she can't skip out on. But no alternatives offered, but I always worded stuff as it is on a specific day, and only that day.
But the last thing I said to her was "I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but if you don't want to hang out at all just say so." folling her saying that she's busy (Sisters Graduation)
It's been just about 2 weeks since I said that.
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Anon, she doesn't want to talk to you or hang out with you. If she wanted to do either of these things then you wouldn't be posting here. Once you admitted your feelings and she said that she saw you as a friend, that was your cue to move on but you missed it.
Right now all you are doing is torturing yourself, what do you hope to accomplish by contacting her? that she will want to hang out? Then what? Are you going to blind her with your wit? Are you going to fuck her?
Move on man, hate to see you be obsessed with a bitch who couldn't give two shits about you
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>>17340683
The thing is that in reality she is quite shy in person. Only talks to one other person at length.
She did NOT say the "Only see you as a friend" or even anything alluding to it. If she did say that I would have.
And really, if she did not even want to talk, why would she carry on conversations for upto 5 hrs?
Honestly, I don't know what I would want to accomplish, I just have an urge to do so.
Also, we did "Agree" to hang out at some point when I asked the first time following class ending.
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Just follow your heart maybe and not think?
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So I have the opportunity to go on a date with a really cute Japanese girl who immigrated to my country not long ago.
We've talked online quite a bit, and she's really nice, and seems like the right kind of person for where I am in my life, but my main concern is her English - it's not that great. We've been able to maintain a conversation online (mainly basic stuff about interests/jobs/families, etc.), and I wouldn't say her language proficiency is a lot worse than some people whose first language is english, but I'm worried we won't be able to have an actual conversation in person.
I'm worried that we'll go out and just sit there, unable to actually talk to one-another, and that maybe some humour won't translate, or I'll tell an anecdote or want to discuss something, but she won't understand. Any ideas on how to make conversation easier with the language barrier if I go out with her?
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i have two japanese female friends coming in to visit next week. you're lucky she has interest in you. mostly just talk and keep it simple. if she has interest in you she'll just be constant giggles and stuff. cute stuff works best. if you're finding its going okay be more assertive and physical, you'll find out right away where you stand
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>>17340664
I've been with an Indonesian girl for 8 years. You will just have to accept that some of what you say will be lost on her and it will never change unless you are willing to learn her language. My gf has been in the country for 15 years and while she is fluent, there are cultural and country-specific items she just doesn't understand.
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You have to fuck her, anon!! Holy shit!! Fucking fuck her! Sex! Fucking!! !
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My life long dream is to work part time and live comfortably in a small house. Somewhere people wont bother me and that has cheep living. I make about $12.50 an hour. This is nowhere a good amount of money to live in my area without struggling like a cuck my whole life. My idea of being rich is having plenty of time on my hands to do what I want while living within my means. Now I don't mind working a lot at one time but the constant drive back and forth to work like a wage slave is terrible. I'd love to have a job that either has 10-12 hour days and a short work week and or work 2nd and 3rd shift to cut the traffic out of my life. If anyone can give suggestions it would be very helpful because i'm about to become homeless if I cant figure out what I can do with my life.
Any other general job and living related questions are welcome.
picture not quite related
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>>17340651
What about a job on an oil rig? Don't know how it works in the US, but certainly the blokes on the north sea platforms work 14 days in a row then go back to shore and have 14 days off, and they make tidy money too.
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>>17340672
its a possibility but I'd rather not spend my life living out at sea going back and forth from the oil rig. It would also mean living somewhere near the shore and with people everywhere. I would like to do IT work like being a data center technician as I have common sense with computers and have worked with linux and done some electrical wiring in my day. but I dont know how to get into it.
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>Decide that you don't know how to get started
>Continue working in the service industry for the next 20 years
>Decide that you're now too old to chase your dreams
>Drink yourself to death
Or you can, you know, go out there and start applying to jobs.
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Anxiety fag here. I used to only anxiouskt think of my family getting hurt, but it changed. For the past couple of months, when I try to fap, I anxiously think of horrifying things I don't want to fap to and thus lose my boner (i.e. fat hairy men, kids, gore). Im not into that stuff. Im Only into bbws and pregs. Perhaps it was from me exploring to many red boards here that I think of these uncomfortable images. Help?
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>>17340633
Pls help. I wanna get these images out of my head. It makes me go limp.
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>>17340633
Bump
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>>17340633
Exposure therapy anon, you need to look at nothing but gore and fat men until you get over this. Don't look at kids, that's fucked up, fucking pervert.
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How do I stop worrying over things I say in a conversation? When I was younger I said a lot of things without thinking which came back to bite me in the ass hard. Since then I've become very doubtful of myself and always overthink conversations?
For example two days ago I was talking to my boss who I am on extremely friendly terms with and we're both quite open and relatively informal. Despite reassurances in a previous conversations and after I even said what I said (I don't expect the company to keep me on after 6 months), I am now paranoid over if that may have shot me in the foot, despite all evidence, even from my boss herself, said she would love to and fight to keep me in the company if my performance continues as is.
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Anyone?
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Personally I get high at the end of the day and think about things I've said to people throughout the day and what I may regret or should have worded differently. Then the next day I do the same and see if I improved over the day before. Unless I said something really shitty I don't spend more than half an hour doing this. Confine this observation to a period in your evening. There's no point thinking about it all day.
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>>17340714
Thanks for the advice anon. Don't do drugs myself but I'll try to rationalize thinking about it less. Its just something which has been with me for many years and I get really anxious about perhaps damaging a relationship. I fear rejection so much.
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like it says on the title
>itt: cheaters and ex-cheaters
>how/why
>experiences?
> did you get found out?
>did you change and if so, how?
>emotional affairs??
> advice for other cheaters/cheatees
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>itt: cheaters and ex-cheaters
inb4 REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>17340632
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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Well fuck, guess I'll just go jump off a bridge then.
Guys, i need advice.
Im currently doing the Camino of Santiago on bicycld. I decided to do it just because i tought it would be interesting.
I started in France and im already 140km in. Crossed the pyrenees, went through roads with 40 deegres celsius on my head...
Thing is, i can make it with enough time and riding only during morning but i really want to give up. I had a heat stroke yesterday and im really shaken.
What im afraid is to have to live with this failure. To reach a moment in life where i had to rise to the challenge and chicken out.. And then i think "well, and what if i rise? 20 days of suffering for what? Just for that?"
Is it wrong to give up?
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If you think you can handle the regret you'll occasionally feel about going through so much already and then giving up, do it. You'll probably sleep much easier knowing you kept going in the face of adversity. That's what it's all about.
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>I'm ready to wake up in a hospital anyway
Might as well do it. No ragrets.
What're some successful ways you've messaged girls (or girls, been messaged) on OkCupid? I've had some success myself in the past, but I stopped using the app for a while because there weren't any girls of value.
Now, someone I'm highly interested in just signed up a few days ago. Before she starts getting swamped with messages, I want to give this my best shot.
So, stories?
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Hey baby are you an archaeologist? Cause I gotta bone for your to examine
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>>17340579
Let your ass be my gasmask, baby shake your shit machine on my face.
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>>17340579
Do you work for UPS? I could have sworn I saw you checking out my package.
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Hey I'm in the process of becoming a police officer and one of the questions asks have you ever viewed or accessed CP, im too nervous to lie about it I have viewed CP on /b/, ive never willingly pursued CP but i used to browse /b/. Even if i say yes and explain normies dont understand how 4chan works. Unsure what to do, scared about polygraph any advice?
Im under the notion that they will catch any attempt to cheat and i by no means want to cheat. But im stumped here.
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You're an idiot if you would even consider telling the truth on that and should not become a police officer.
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>>17340576
Am an ethnic minority(slav :^)) so theyll hire my dumbass but how do i even lie about such thing then?
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>>17340571
Just say you haven't, I get your thought processes but you've never once went to a website just to look at child porn so say no.
If they do polygraph you though you kinda fucked yourself by being this nervous about it, not sure how to help you with that.
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My friend was recently fired for commiting some heroic actions,that saved the possibly saved the lives of a couple of other people, and the company he worked for just brushed him aside and fired him for these actions. How do i get someone to cover this for him? cause it seems like no one cares..
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>>17340487
Could you be a bit less specific? All this useful info you're giving us is a bit too much to take in at once.
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>>17340487
We're his actions really as heroic as he said they were? Or you think they are?
Regardless of how heroic they may have seemed if he broke colony policy they can fire him.
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>>17340507
Company, not colony. Damn autocorrect
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My friend is gonna try and set up a girl for me.
Hes talked a bit with her, at least more than i have, and he immediately said that id be a good fit for her. Ive talked to her a little bit too and from what i can tell shes great, but my friend has a lot more opprotunity to talk to her. He said hes going to "work his magic" and get me set up.
Is this ever a good idea? I want to ask her out myself but i have little opprotunity to do so. I could go out of my way but it might seem desperate.so i guess i dont see a huge issue with my friend setting me up.
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Bamp again
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Well if you have trouble just contacting her and talking to her now, do you expect that to change after you go out? Because if you still don't talk to her afterwards, it'll never go anywhere. Either way eventually you won't have your friend arranging this sort of thing for you, so maybe you might as well start doing it yourself from the get go.
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>>17341014
Its difficult for me to do that, though. I have little opprotunity whereas my friend has none
How does /adv/ get over post-rejection depression? It's only been a day and I feel like shit.
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>>17340398
I usually just an hero.
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>>17340429
What? What does that mean? Like, suck it up and be a hero or something?
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>>17340439
>https://encyclopediadramatica.se/An_hero
My best friend cheated on my other best friend last night and she doesn't know. What do
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Tell the cheater they must come clean or you will.
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That's a tough situation... Let's look at this situation from what could happen. Well. If you tell her, you'd be ruining your relationship with your other best friend and well it's none of your business but then again, she deserves to know and chances are he'll probably do it again if she never knows. I know most will say to stay out of it, but she deserves to know. Place yourself in her shoes. That's what I would do.
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I've been in that situation before. I caught one of my best friends fucking my other best friend's gf (who also happened to be his own gf's best friend). I told him he had to come clean or I would have no choice but to tell them.
His gf has since forgiven him, he lost an extremely good friend and he and his gf who he fucked ended up breaking up. But I still hang out with the guy and he understands the ultimatum I gave him and actually thanked me for giving him the opportunity to do it.
>one chance at life
>probably have to plead guilty to DUI 1st offense, it can never be expunged
FUUUUUUUUUUCK
>get pulled over for speeding but otherwise driving fine, no accident, swerving, etc
>but I've had a six pack over the course of a few hours and someone spilled an almost full beer on my shirt, making me reek of beer
>cop at the checkpoint says I smell like alcohol
>ace the field sobriety tests but arrested anyway due to suspicious odor and red eyes
>refuse the chemical test
>every lawyer I talk to says I'll get it reduced since the evidence is minimal and I don't look impaired on the arrest video
>I had 2 17 year old kids with me in the car at the time, I am 19
>Tennessee law states that if anyone under 18 is in the car the driver can be charged with a higher degree of DUI with mandatory 30 DAYS MINIMUM jail time
>lawyers originally tell me I won't get charged with that and I got lucky
>during negotiations with prosecutor prosecutor opens to attorney by smugly declaring I was "undercharged" and there's no deal to be made since I've already been granted leniency
>no deal, plead guilty to DUI or we'll charge you with the endangering a minor charge and you'll have to win at trial to avoid a month in jail
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I mean for fucks fucking sake how are 2 fucking 17 year olds children they were with me in the fucking car because they were taking me to a drug dealers house to buy weed, they aren't fucking innocent 12 year old babes
Every other sane and reasonable state has the age for minor in these type cases as less than 16, 15, or 14 often with the requirement the driver be over 21 to be charged
This is bullshit and I want to kill the prosecutor. I want to splatter his daughters guts all over my windshield to show his ugly, dead end career neckbeard ass the real meaning of ENDANGERING A CHILD. I hope every one of his children and grandchildren get raped and slowly tortured to death for his conflating my crime with the endangerment of children.
Fuck MADD. Fuck puritanical DUI laws. Fuck this state and this whole country.
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>>17340323
The prosecutor is using a scare tactic on you, that's all. If you passed the field sobriety test, but refused a chemical test, then the most that would come from this is license suspension in the state of Tennessee.
If the only evidence is circumstantial, and there is no actual proof of you being intoxicated beyond the limit set for drivers under the age of 21 in your area, then I think you're fine. The prosecuting attorney has circumstantial evidence (officer testimony), but you have evidence debunking his OPINION because you passed a field sobriety test.
As a former Tennessee resident and current Law student, I would personally fight this charge. DUI laws in your area are an overreach.
Checkpoints are a violation of your right to free travel under the U.S. constitution. Never go beyond providing license/registration information when you are illegally stopped. Never say a single word, never roll down your window (this can give probably cause due to odors), and never do any chemical/blow/blood testing (they are voluntary). You have a legal right to "refuse" anything voluntary.
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>>17340323
If I were you I wouldn't plead guilty to the DUI charge. They want to charge you for it but don't have enough evidence, so they're turning to threatening. Without the DUI charge they don't have shit.