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>>17342869
And this is how the 15/hr compaign started. People making dumb decisions and wanting others to fix it for them.

Of course it's fucking not enough, what happens when there are bad days? You're never gonna make enough money for when bad situations come up.

>>17342869
I doubt it, but then I live in London. Even the shitty estates are expensive to live in.

>>17342879
Then how do people with minimum wage jobs manage to move out?

Anyone? Got any sort of tips for getting council house?

Come on anons, it's not a "no gf" thread.

I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting, but most of us here don't know the ins and outs of the UK's disability welfare system (which I'm assuming is the one you're talking about, given the terms you used). There are places where severe depression may count, but we just don't know if the UK is one of them.

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>>17342838
But it's so cute.

Yes. Why not? It's just a manifestation of your fantasy of a pure and innocent gf. Sounds pretty straight and normal to me

>>17342841
Lmao, nevermind

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>>17342790
This just reminded me I need to buy bananas for my breakfast shake.

The 2nd part is the most important one.
Cheers to op for sharing

>>17342790
I don't really disagree with the idea. It's unfortunate though that if you know yourself and your worth, people give you shit for being arrogant or whatever.

>>17342779
How old are you op?
Are you an Amerifat?

Instead of going to an university to study something you may not like, why not try going the skilled trades way?

>>17342779
The question is : Do you want to do it ? Have you looked over the courses you will have to attend?
At my uni the industrials have hard life as i have heard. Europe point of view here.

>>17342779
I'm finishing my BaSc in industrial engineering right now (thesis is done any time now). I didn't know what I wanted either, I did half a year of mechanical engineering before I started this study because friends did that, my dad done it, and I guess it seemed the most interesting of all. After that I still didn't know so I picked "Industrial engineering & management" (I live in The Netherlands).

The study is ok if you don't know what you want to do I guess, since it's a bit of everything. Jobs are also not hard to find if you are done with it; here in NL it is one of the best paying bachelor degrees on average. And since it's so diverse, you can still steer your career towards a direction somewhat.

Did I like it? Not really, but I doubt I would like anything that isn't some fake liberal study.

>>17342766
Not really. People perceive outgoing people as more "easy" to get, he just told you the truth. Being friendly and nice to everyone is often perceived as being flirty to everyone.

Do you fuck around? Does he think you're a slut?

>>17342767
I get that, but talking to people and fucking them is an entirely separate thing. I don't sleep around at all, and clearly he does because he flat out said it.

>>17342766
>I have the right to be mad, yeah?

You don't have to ask for permission.

OK.

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>>17342764
27 years old, currently having my first ever normal job. In the last 5 years I acquired two worthless degrees and lived from my moms and my grannys money + some scholarship. Basically I had done everything for half a decade to avoid working.
And of course, now that I work, suddenly everything in my life became even more harder.

>>17342896
That just means you're seriously autistic, this is not the norm,

>>17342683
Well they're right on the quitting thing, why are you keeping studying that of you won't work on that field? Better change now.

University teachers aren't just random people, they have careers on their jobs most of the time, and on top of working there they also teach. Or that's how it works here at least.

Why did you go into Dentistry if you didn't want a career in it?

Depending on what D's are for you (Distinction, or D= 1 grade higher than F). You either did very very well (Dentistry is a hard course), or did horribly. If you did well, I can understand why your parents are disappointed, as you're wasting your talents.

Teaching is such a shitty mediocre job man. You're not going to get payed anything worth your while if you don't have a degree in a field, that you're then teaching in. What a waste of time.

Did your parents pay for your Uni? I'd be pretty pissed off if my investment decided they couldn't be fucked doing Dentistry anymore.

>>17342713
>my investment

eugh.

>>17342551
the guy she says is her bf for 6 months is not your best friend and you owe him nothing. No brocode exist between you and him. What you should worry about is she still being in a relationship with him and acting like a gf to you. That's not on you and not on him. She's with both of you and when she see's him next she will fuck him.

>>17342551
If she cheats on him she'll cheat on you. Also yes, you ARE an asshole. Get over it and have some fucci fucci while you can because it's only going to go downhill from here.

>>17342551
I did the same thing. Its a really shitty thing to do and I never told the guy. I broke things off and she told him later and they eventually worked it out and they stayed together, but I dropped out of both their lives.

Don't really have any advice, its a pretty big fuck up. I was just lucky that it sort of worked out in the end for me.

>>17342474
How do you not know the full name and age of someone you were supposedly close to?

>>17342478
Long distance relationship, also I've never been good with names.
I also don't know how to access 6 year old yahoo chat logs.

>>17342478
I know that I sound pathetic, but this is something extremely important to me.

How are we supposed to help you ?
Put in some effort yourself man. At least by googling your issue or by asking a specialist.

Its up to you wether you actually want to change Your habits.

>>17342369
don't you get embarrassed ordering food? I don't buy fast food because I feel pathetic asking someone else to make my food.
Maybe just think about what a pathetic piece of shit you are when you order it.

>>17342369
Jeez bro, you're useless. Why pay money to someone to tell you what you already know. You're a lazy sack of shit who knows you can be better but don't give a fuck about yourself enough to change.

You're literally a waste of space, you either fix your self or enjoy being a virgin fat loser who contributes nothing to your existence.

Focus on college.

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>>17342363
Stay single for a while.
Get over your ex gf.
Focus on college like this anon suggested >>17342797
Get fit if you aren't, use your college gym facilities and work out, lift, etc. It will help you build confidence, strength of mind and body and will relieve your stress.
Also this is the most important thing, try eating healthy and get plenty of rest.
Drink plenty of water or sports drinks if you sweat a lot.

Hang in there Op

You dont need a gf to be happy. I agree with focusing on college

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Be yourself OP.

>>17342353
take this to /pol/ they know how to handle it and give good adv about this

lol but op is a sperg and ill be having anxiety attacks everywhere

Why do you want to understand love?

>>17342268
Baby don't hurt me.

Okay now you can call me a summerfsg. I couldn't resist.

>>17342280
Because it genuinely confuses me. I hear people talking about it, and today my girlfriend asked me about it. It seems like everyone has some affliction called "love" where they're concerned about the people they "love," and I don't understand how they feel what they describe themselves as feeling, or even what it is specifically they feel at all. I don't understand or have any experience with it.

Is it like a kind of caring, like when a friend borrows something from you and you want it back in good condition so it'll be okay for you to use it?

>>17342267
If a girl can be stolen she can also be stolen from you. Unless you plan to pump and dump, never EVER steal a girl.

>>17342290
I believe we have way more in common. I really think I could help her with her disorders. I don't mean to sound self centered but I'm the best thing for her.

>>17342303
Oh boy.