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Chinese? They tend to stick together, mostly because they don't speak English that well or because of cultural values (they think everyone is a slut). Do what you want, no reason you can't have both Asians and Arab friends

just hangout with whoever befriends you or whoever you befriend. Sounds dumb but being friends sorta transcends identity politics.

>>17339969
I'm an international student studying in the UK, and the best advice I can give you is to meet as many people as you can, no matter if there locals of from somewhere else but make sure to diversify who you're hanging out with.
I'm assuming you're going to uni there, and people at university tend to be really open once they find that you have similar interests so clubs and societies are probably a good shot too.
Can I ask where you're going to study?

>>17339904
When does muscle twitching become worrying?
Some of my muscles twitch when moving up or down; the most noticeable is my arm when i move my forearm down.
I also have random muscle pulsing but that's just stress i think.

>>17339910
Muscle twitching is pretty common.

I'd say I'd be worried if it was progressive, associated with weakness, loss of coordination, sensory disturbance, muscle wasting or hyper/hyporeflexia. Or if it was associated with prolonged diarrhoea or vomiting.

So, when I'm playing sport or doing physical activity occasionally I'll get this sudden extreme pain in the back of my neck feeling like a vein has burst. That's the only way I can describe it. Pain lasts for 10-15 seconds decreasing over that time. The pain is unbearable at first. You have any idea what it could be?

Accept that maybe he got cheated on in the past or for some reason changed because overall those experiences led to negative endings

As an example i put my ex on a pedestal, was extremely attentive and loving with her, ended up getting cheated on. I will never make that mistake again

>>17339382
How would you say accepting, or attempting to accept, this fact would affect the relationship?

>>17339377
I was much more romantic when I was younger.

Hormones balance out. Men become less affectionate. It happens.

It's dick cancer, seek a medical professional

Im feeling the same way, all thought when im around with girls, my gf, i dont really feel horny and no interest fucking, i have now quit porn and seeing if theres any improvement

I wish it was possible to know who your girlfriends/wives are. It's gotta be real easy to cuck someone these days.

>>17338705
If it's not monogamy she's not a gf, she's a fuck buddy. So to answer your question, no, it's not possible.

>>17338705
>monogamy
anyone that practices this isnt intelligent

Make sure they don't have a ring on their finger.

It's kind of tough if you also want to be her boyfriend and have sex with her.

>>17342961

I love a good challenge however. You say it's "tough" but not "impossible" ergo an unlikely possibility.

I aim to maximize the chance of ending up as both her boyfriend and a guidance figure to her.

>>17342970
Usually you have to see the other person as a person not some self-confidence boost tool.

Stop referring to people as 'normies'.
Drop anything and everything you learned in /r9k/. It will only hinder you.

Dancing, drinking, and socializing with large groups of extraverted people.

There's poor normies, rich normies, weird normies, normal normies, etc. but they all share these things in common.

>>17342944
be funny

Literally not possible. Better weebs have tried and failed.

>>17342911
Yeah, since I kind of already knew that I should've focused the thread more on an actual irl like cut. What would you do in my case? Anything idea not too edgy or not too short would be appreciated.

>>17342854
Depends.
If you're going with her, no. If you're not going, yeah.

alone? how long? what destination?

Nothing is okay about your woman doing things without being told.

if you used your car she can trace you from the plate... gg you're screwed.

Given your description of your behavior, one can surmise that you have deeper psychological problems.

You're going to follow that pattern, and you're going to keep getting into trouble in the future; very screwed, eventually.

>>17342840
Exactly lol

i say don't worry about her, and start thinking more on your own life decisions lol

I don't know. You're screwed.

>>17342815
Very insightful post, Anon

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>>17342780
You can always give blowjobs... or offer your dick to fags so they can pay you to give you a bj. Win/win?

But seriously who the hell fires someone in just 2 weeks? Where did you get fired from? Golden arches?

>>17342763
Nah.
I care about them, sometimes I want to know how they're doing, and miss them a bit (more the friendship than the relationship).
I don't want them back. I wouldn't dump my SO for my ex for any reason.

Yes.
As long as you are keeping the old, you're never opening yourself fully for something new.

>>17342765
I have a problem with my bf looking at pics of his ex. This happened a year ago, he did it for six months. They had been broken up for two years. He just googled her name and looked at pics maybe once a week and that's it. He also looked at pics of couple of his coworkers but still I am scared he has feelings for her but he says he doesn't, they had a shitty relationship and he wasn't that interested but why look at the pics then? He didn't even do it because he masturbated to them and he had no interest knowing how she was doing. He had depression and anxiety while he was doing it but still..
Also once when we weren't a couple yet, he texted her that she had been on his mind and she said okay and that's it.
This is our problem and he knows that it would be easiest just to admit he missed her so I could just accept it and forget about it but he says he did it because it made him feel better when he was feeling like shit and had nothing to do, so he googled these three girls, one being an ex.
It's such a minor thing but it bothers me.. Everyone says that if you look up your ex, you miss them or want them back.

You should follow what you think is best for you.

>>17342628
Suppose the future were not an issue. What would you want to do?

(The future is NOT an issue at your age. Even if you wasted a few years on the wrong path it would mean little in the long run. And in the modern economy there is no such thing as a "stable" job.

>>17342647
Bullshit

>>17342628
What you need to consider OP, is what YOU prefer. If you have a well paid job, odds are you will get to travel. Sure you might travel a lot with your shittier job, but when you come back home and see your shitty car, just remember, "I could be driving a Benz.

Believe me, I'm doing my second year in med school, and I have heard legends of surgeons retiring at 30, and buying houses in south east Asia, fucking women ever day. Sure it's hell, but if even half what I've heard is true, hell yeah.

>>17342624
What do you mean by
>you'd do everything the same

You're overthinking this.

>>17342632
literally what i said. it wouldn't be an open marriage type of situation on the off days. you'd just spend them apart, and on the next day you can fuck each other and have interesting things to say to each other, rather than getting sick of the sight of each other after a few years.

>>17342554
I think that if you frame it as a confrontation you've already put a foot wrong

You are 2 different people, with different wants and needs. Neither you nor her has done anything wrong by being who you are. It is probably a good idea to talk to her about this sometime.

My gf is the opposite of yours so this may not work, but be hungry, be alpha, make your desires clear. Make her feel sexy basically. Hard flirting with a lot of complementing, touching softly etc. Just make her feel loved and make it clear physically that you want her body. Girls cant resist it really, you browse 4chan so you obviously know that all women are sluts deep down, play on this.

As well as this, all women have the dream of the perfect boyfriend who spends cash on them. Posh dinner dates, holidays, day trips, candlelit dinners, all that shit. Dont give off the impression that you pay her for sex. But invest time, money and thought into her and make her feel like the girl in one of those sad gay romantic movies that girls like. She'll be on her knees, promise.

Youve basically got to balance bwing an alpha with being entirely devoted to her. Im balancing it fairly well rn and my gf is obsessed with me and my cock which is cool

>>17342583
Problem with that is, because she also browses 4chan, she knows all this too. She knows my side of the game too well and doesn't respond to it