Just wondering what race or ethnicity you guys think I could pass for..
if you want to know, i'll post the real answer later.
>>17338483
italian? :P
Jewish
South Euro / North African Arab
Happiness seems impossible. I'm 30, never been in a real relationship. In love with someone I can't have, been in love once before but it didn't work out. I hate a lot of people and the world depresses me. What I have going for me is a decent income and a few good friends.
Am I fucked? Have you ever felt like you'll never be happy? What can I do?
You sound like you are describing me, except for the
>decent income
>>17338477
I've been there wasted 6 year in my room in front of a shit laptop i guesse what saved me were the little friends i had they made me discover different drugs of which acide gave me an opportunity to see the world from an other point of view since then i have been a lot happier and motivated. I don't recommend it if you have never taken drugs but if you are really depressed and thinking of suicide why not
>>17338509
I've taken drugs in the past. Weed, pills, mushrooms, coke, ketamine. None of them really stuck, I don't feel like a drug person, especially not post 30. I'll have some coke a couple of times a year. Acid doesn't interest me. I do drink a lot though.
Are there any Francophone chansites?
Non, arrete d'etre un osti d'tapette criss d'osti calise de tabarnak
The 15-18 and 18-25 BlaBla of jeuxvideos.com are basically that I believe. They managed to outtroll us with their emoji meme at some point if my memory serves me right
>>17338413
But it's like a /b/ for newfags only
To all the anons that feel depressed, and are passing through a bad moment. You can do it.
>>17338318
Nice :)
Awww
Doesn't feel like anything new to me. But i wish people who use "a cry for help" as something derogatory would read it.
So I was hanging out with my friends at the beach. I went to the bath room alone and this one guy was walking his daughter the bathroom. I couldn't really help myself ( hormones ) and I kinda stared at her. The idiot farther flipped his shit and called me a pervert etc , making a scene out of nothing. What is up with parents?
In the back of his mind he probably wants to prevent his daughter from being a slut or getting pregnant too early. It's usually a good thing for a dad to be mindful about, although he was certainly too harsh in this situation (unless his daughter was a pre-teen or younger).
>>17338319
Well I mean his daughter was...i dont want to say her age t makes me sound bad but I still think he overeacted.
You were staring at his daughter you dumbass.
So, I think I finally reached clinical depression, and food is the only thing that brings me happiness (if you can call it that). I spend multiple hours every day just planning where I'll go to eat next, what I'll order to home, what groceries I'll buy and what food I'll make for it. It's not even just junk food, I enjoy eating fruit, vegetables, chicken breasts, plain oatmeal, rice, beans, chickpeas, just everything.
I know this is a deeper problem that needs to be solved, but I live in a socialist country with this beautiful thing called "free" healthcare, which means all psychiatrists in my area are maxed out, since why the fuck not, so it will take probably 6 months to get an appointment.
So, what I want advice for - should I go all in and just eat everything, or try to control it? I've never been thin, but I also never been fat. I have some fat all around my body, but not enough to have a big belly or something. I'm also 205cm (6' 8'') so I eat a lot (like two pizzas + big kebab + double hamburger is a not problem in a single night for me). So lately I've been thinking that I should just fuck it, be ok with being fat, and just go all in.
What do you think?
Maybe you can take a cooking class and if you get good pursue a degree and become a chef, in the worst case you might meet a nice girl in the class.
yeeeaah thats not clinical depression
>>17338303
Try Xanax and marijuana
Can someone help me find a suicide website where I can talk to someone anonymously? I don't have much luck finding them.
Thank you very much
The hotline is much better what country are you in? Google the number to the agency, they'll help you.
Right here bro.
>>17338273
I've tried here already and no luck. Instead I get insulted even more. I want to resolve my depression fast.
Has anyone here had their life ruined by other assumptions? I wanted to believe that human beings couldn't be this awful....I was terribly mistaken..Any similar experiences out there?
>>17338257
Your mistake. Any terrible thing that has ever occurred can occur to you, and it smacks of pride to think you're somehow immune to simple human occurrences like betrayal, and malice.
"Everything which occurs is as well known as the rose in spring and the fruit in summer. For such is calamity, and death, and whatever else delights fools or vexes them"
Marcus Aurelius
I know that now, TY. Its just when its done over something so trivial and petty. I forms into this giant ball of fuck that rolls around following you wherever you go. I was naïve thinking everything could be worked out so easily. I truly am an idiot
>>17338334
What the fuck is the issue to begin with. Don't speak in riddles.
There were many red flags that hint at his infatuation with the idea of a relationship, rather than actually liking me for my personality but I was always too afraid to ask what he likes about me in case he went silent for too long or just blurted out something shallow.
>wants to become exclusive really quick
before we actually got to know each other
>"when do we make this facebook official?"
(we met from tinder, no friends in common)
>never asked about my past
>meet only 1 or 2 times a week
(we lived 10 mins apart when he was going to college, 20 mins apart during the summer)
>didn't tell me what he's doing unless i asked
>got excited about something he would want to do together but then not carry on with it
>gave me oral maybe 3 times in 10 months
On the contrary, he is very understanding. When something bothered me and I told him about it he was willing to change even if I didn't ask him to. He also brought me to his friends' parties before and to dates, concerts, movies and wanted to pay for them. He noticed when I seemed frustrated or sad and asked what was wrong.
But because of the rarity of long, in-depth conversations - unless I initiated - (current events or thoughts on hypothetical situations, things from the past) I feel like he thinks I'm too dumb for intellectual conversation. He was always in the top few in his classes, is very driven, well-read and wrote lyrics and poems sometimes. Meanwhile English is not my first language (people can't understand my accent sometimes) and I laugh easily (out of nervousness) which I think makes me look dumb and I have/had a few childish hobbies.
I think he is only with me to be with somebody and because he is attracted to me physically and I am very giving in bed with a high sex drive. We have similar taste in music, have similar sense of humor and we bought struggled with anxiety disorders and lived in crappy boring small towns as kids with inbred classmates. BUT I don't feel as if that was enough.
>what do?
>meet only 1 or 2 times a week
he was not working at the time
Also could be important:
we are 18 and 19 years old.
he lost his virginity to me.
he had more gfs than i bfs.
Aside from the fact that he only sees you once or twice a week, he actually sounds like a pretty good guy.
*both struggled
He has a blog that is mostly reblogged pictures and texts, but sometimes his own thoughts as well. I was curious so I looked through it and it was full of romanticly sad desperate things from the times he was dating his ex girlfriends. Pictures of the girl he loved, how much he misses x, what he would do to/with x, how beautiful x is, how x makes him feel etc. maybe some platonic love or a relationship that didn't work out. He even wrote a poem. But he haven't done that when dating me.
That is part of where my insecurity comes from.
Hello fellow anons.
There's a girl that I have feelings for online yet I don't really know her nor does she know me. I've seen her post some of her interests and I like what I see. I feel like if I never message her I will deeply regret it. The problem is that I'm not very good with girls (very shy and low confidence). How would I introduce myself to her online without sounding like a total stranger or complete idiot?
Please help me guys.
Mention something about one of your common interests maybe?
>Oh did you see the new episode of X last night?
>Dude how awesome is that band Y?
But I mean if you haven't even talked to her I'd say your feelings are pretty.. fickle at this point lol. Worst thing that could happen is A) You talk to her, it doesn't pan out, you move on or B) You don't talk to her, you wonder for a bit, and you move on. Don't stress bruh
Just straight up introduce yourself, just like how you're able to post right now! The worst that can happen is that she doesn't respond. A lot of good relationships have started with just a simple introduction! :3 hope that helps good luck!!
What can I do to feel more inclined to study?
I'm pretty lethargic about it but I'm lethargic about a lot of things, I don't exercise or eat well or have a real routine, it's all based on my energy and whether I'm essentially forced to do it (e.g. working)
>>17338237
study group but if you cant study alone you will likely get distracted. still its better spent barely studying with friends than definitely not studying alone.
>>17338242
I don't have friends but I could try asking this lady in my class who partners up with me if she wants to do that even though the semester's 2/3rd's over.
What if she thinks I'm creepy and says no though?
> studying something you're not even interested in
I like making music and programming. Career wise, I would not mind if any of these were my primary professions and at the moment my Software Engineering career has seen more success because of my music. Mostly because I had to stop making music to concentrate on school.
I am 25 now and I just got back into making music and I am afraid I am too old. Do you think I should just concentrate on my software career?
>>17338222
in my opinion you can easily make software your career, but music your fun option. then if it takes off, great. if not, you can do it your whole life for fun. many people do.
>>17338246
this is correct. i think most people compose better when they proceed at a leisurely pace anyway. dont give up music, op. just dont put pressure on it either. and youre never too old.
>>17338283
this.
and if you live in socal, let me make the music video for you
How do I find out how good looking I am?
I'm too chickenshit to ask girls out.
post pic
>>17338203
What the fuck are you thinking? I'm not posting a picture of my face on 4chan. All my friends browse.
You could try this i guess
http://www.anaface.com/
What would ensure i have the best possible time in college. I am going to attend class for the first time what is some good advice on meeting people, making friends and not making myself look like a total ass or come off as weird~
thanks a freshman at college
Always, always attend class.
Talk to everybody.
Always attend class.
Sit down with some random people when you're getting food.
Talk to everybody in your dorm, all the time
Always attend class
Man, this shit ain't hard. Just don't sperg out.
“The greatest gift you ever give is your honest self.” - Mr. Rogers
>>17338184
"Hello my name is Anon, my hobbies include ancient chinese literature, archery, masturbating to wolf girls, and writing! I also believe that the Zionist scum in Hollywood and Washington are using divide and conquer tactics by introducing racial narratives into the media!"
So I was making this big ass party for my birthday and 1 month before the party I told my friends about it. I invited 38 peeps out of which on the 10th of June only 14 are gonna come. Fuck me right ?
That's still a lot of people.
Quit being a fucking baby.
I know I'd be lucky to get maybe 2 people to show up to a party I made, 14 would be unthinkable for me.
Just saying, it could be a lot worse.
don't fucking plan the party for a ton of people. know everyone coming and adjust accordingly. fuck off with this shit man you planned it 30 days ahead. at the most you should have done it two weeks ahead. you live here you should know that american millenials don't hold plans for shit and have an ADHD type of mentality within their lifestyles shoved down their throats through media sources.