I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend. He's done nothing wrong and we both love each other, God, I love him so much, and it scares me, but I think that it's what's best for both of us. We're in a situation in which no one, our friends, our family, no one, would accept us together, so no one knows, and it's because of me. I don't want to hold him back from anything or make him hide himself because of me.i know it will hurt both of us, but I think it may end better in the long run, and I don't want him to lose people because of me. Does anyone have any relationship advice, I don't know what to do.
>>17341946
Can you give us a little more context? Unless you're a Jew, he's a Nazi and this is 1940s Germany, I don't see any circumstance in which you two should feel the need to hide this. If you break up, you're both going to be absolutely miserable. If he's hiding this from controlling parents, or something along those lines, then he clearly loves you more than you seem to realize. Don't hurt him by playing the martyr.
>>17341946
Talk to HIM about it and not some shitbags on the internet who're just gonna tell you to dump him for a carpenter.
>>17341959
He is a lot older than me, almost 10 years. We work really well together, but my parent won't approve, our friends will find it weird. I know this doesn't sound like such a big problem, but even though I'm an adult, I'm the youngest out of 6, in the baby of the family. He is friends with my mothers best friend, and I know it will ruin his relationship with them, and they're the closest thing he's had to a family ever. I don't want him to ruin his relationship with them because of me.
Im 20/m and im starting to get sexually confused. Which is wierd since iv lived a pretty normal and straight sex life. But now instead of looking at a girls ass i catch myself looking at dudes.
Is this just a phase or should i talk to someone about it?
>>17341942
>Is this just a phase
Yes. If you don't give in it should be gone in a while.
Same happened to me, i got interested into having more skinship with guys and watching gay porn, but i held my ground and after some months i became 100% straight again.
>looking at dudes
well they're around, so...
>(am I gay)
do you want to have sex with men?
>should I talk to someone?
about your fear of becoming gay?
>>17341990
Sometimes yeah ill have the thought
And yes to the last question
I've been attempting to experience a prostate orgasm, or at the very least, figure what prostate stimulation feels like. But I can't seem to even find the damn thing.
I tried using my finger. Thought maybe it was too deep to reach, constructed something out of a rubber glove and a sharpie padded with toilet paper. But to no avail, my endeavor remained fruitless and I found noting that felt like anything novel. I can't find any "walnut sized" whatever x inches. I've touched something bump like that feels different, but can't reliably find it. And even if it makes me feel something, it never really peaks nor even plateaus.
I just don't understand. Is this some grand myth? Is it anatomically possible the prostate just isn't accessible? At best it's a tiring and a bit uncomfortable, at worst it's time consuming and ambiguous enough to be an eventual orgasm ruiner; I become bored and distracted. Going to stop trying if I don't manage to achieve any different / higher pleasure.
What is the deal here?
Shameless self bump. It seems strange I can't find something that's otherwise so clearly described.
Another bump.
>>17341936
I've actually had a similar experience to yours when it comes to using my finger. It just doesn't do shit.
I had a prostate orgasm ONCE but it took using a masturbatory aide (hilariously a curved handle on a pair of pliers) and being really really high to accomplish it. But goddamn it felt good. I had to involuntarily cry out, and not even my most intense "regular" orgasms could make me do that. Next time I have money to burn I'm gonna buy an Aneros or some similar massager, and some decent lube. This seems to be the consensus of people online. A relaxed state of mind and the right tool are necessary to get you there.
So I'm gonna get condoms tomorrow which one should I buy?
get magnums then post a pic of it on social media so everyone knows you have a big dick
>>17341875
Durex > Trojan > Lifetsyles
You want the "ultra thin" kind or whatever. Trust me, sex with a condom sucks and the less condom you feel the better.
How stop feeling uncomfortable in white people homes?
> go to visit cousins and grandparents
>they all live in nice homes
>they have fucking attics and basements and shit
>they have carpeted floors and floor to ceiling windows
>all have new cars
>kids have new cars, some even sports cars
>i grew up poor and have to pay for everything myself either through hard work and grants (student) or a job
>have a 20 year old car
>their homes all smell like white people
>the ceilings aren't flat, they arch up a little bit ( what the fuck)
>white people collect all these horrid knick knacks that genuinely spook me when i was a kid or have to walk around in the dark
>they have a big healthy dog
>all this fucking space in the back
>basement has a bunch of hobby stuff
what the fuck man
>>17341873
nice b8 m8 I'll bite
Reveal your discomfort with the achievements of their kind by shitting on the carpet.
You get to release your discomfort and they get to learn a lesson.
sorry what?
>>17341882
What
Maybe someone can tell me wtf my deal is, or give me advice on getting past it?
>finally get a bf
>been together 2 years
>he is perfect -- we were best friends for years before getting together
>like being cuddly with him, smooches and going on dates
but
>extremely uncomfortable when he tries to make out with me or tries to be sexual with me
i feel completely off-put by the idea of him touching me sexually. i don't like it at all. how can i love someone so much but hate the idea of him having sex with me?
I assume if his balls stay blue for much longer, he is going to leave me, but i really just DONT to..... i dont even know why,
Looooooooooool
>>17341862
>I assume if his balls stay blue for much longer, he is going to leave me
Do him a favor and let him go. You just like him or may love him, but seems just as a friend. You are only using him for emotional fulfillment.
Do you like girls perhaps? Or is there any sort of fetish that arouses you?
Does anyone know how much utilities should be for a 1 bed- 1 bath apartment?
Im a fall college freshman and fucked up signing up for dorms and have to rent an apartment. Rent is $600-700 for an apartment with no utilities included. My dad told me it'll be a couple hundred dollars and I should probably expect monthly rent to come to $1000. That seems a little ridiculous. Is that really how much it should be?
>500-600 sq foot
>will use/need
>wifi
>water
>electricity
>heating
>trash pick up
>insurance?
>not using cable cause no tv
>not using gas cause eating on campus
>1 person
>washer and dryer free to use on campus
Become a Carpenter
>>17341846
solid advice my dude
Around $1000 sounds about right but probably more if you include food, phone bill and other misallnious expenses. So it would be safe to assume if you make around $1000 or so a month you can make it in a $600-700 rent apartment but you'd have to budget well and struggle at times.
hey /adv/, anon here
so i was storing my LSD tabs side a folded up post it note, and decided to move them to foil. i decided to then lick the post it note where the acid was sitting. do you guys think it would transfer and should i expect a trip or anything
Become a Carpenter
>>17341825
underrated post
>>17341808
A small amount of acid may have leached into the Post-It; whatever effect it has, if any, will likely be negligible. You should know by now if it's going to do anything.
>I once attended a party where the hosts had thrown a handful of stale tabs of blotter into a carafe of some kind of tea. Drank quite a bit of the stuff, along with a bit of alcohol, and smoked some marijuana. Did not feel like I was tripping at all, but got home and found myself up all night, jittery/speedy.
Anyone can be a carpenter.
What the fuck is this shit today?
Lurk moar
Lrn 2 meme
>>17341796
I'd call you a newfag, but that wouldn't be helpful advice. I'd recommend learning a trade, something that'll give you some self-confidence and make others respect you, like carpentry.
Love you carpenter bro
I need fucking help, now. This is the most delicate part of my fucking life and I'm fucking love sick. I can write about my feelings all day. Asked her out 6 months ago asking if she'd like to do something sometime. She said sorry I currently have a boyfriend. I said oh alright bummer and she probably fucking forgot about it 2 days later or so I bet. I denied all emotions and denied all premise of her popping up in my friend group, so as to not suspect I'm still attracted to her. I'm fucking torturing myself everyday, and I don't know how to stop. I've tried meditation, eating healthy, hanging out with friends, hanging out with family, doing work, doing my hobby, playing video games (recently beat Undertale in one setting because fuck all), writing down my feelings in a journal, and posting in the fucking advice threads. The only person that knows what I'm feeling is my brother, except I told him I'm over it like a week ago (not because I didn't want his help, because I actually thought I was over it).
TL;DR, I'm 18 years old, fell in love with someone in which I don't even fucking know them to fall in love with, and started this negative spiral of emotions in which I feel trapped and cannot get out of.
What do I do? I feel utterly trapped. I feel no motivation, I feel no passion in my hobby anymore, I feel terrified of the future, and I feel terrified at what would happen if I were to add her on facebook..
Become a carpenter
I'm literally dying
Fuck guys what do I do
How do I, as a young male, stop getting so nervous around women?
It's not actually because I worship them or idolize them or anything like that. It's because women are more extroverted than men, and they are very good at being dynamic in social situations. So I need advice on how to remain calm, and remain grounded but be confident when I have to face them.
>>17341750
>How do I, as a young male, stop getting so nervous around women?
Become a carpenter.
>>17341752
You keep saying this in numerous threads, what does it mean? Faggot.
>>17341766
Clearly he thinks carpentry is the answer to all
Should I major in applied math? What kind of jobs would be available to me with a math bachelors? I'm kinda debating between math and comp sci but i don't really like programming that much. What do you think /adv/
Math applied to carpentry.
>>17341724
It's comments like this that move me towards comp sci for that reliable job outlook
Seeing as "applied math" is basically all engineering is...
Recently broke up with my girlfriend. After the break up I realized that I don't actually love anyone in this world. My mom is a bitch, my dad was locked up for the first half of my life, my step-dad is borderline abusive, my grandma is abusive, and my grandpa I have only ever met 4 times. The only person who I ever actually loved was my other grandpa, but he died a few years ago. I haven't tried to look for another girlfriend because I'm scared I won't be able to love her either. Can I fix this? (Never really loved girlfriend either, been like this sinice my grandpa died.)
>>17341715
>Can I fix this?
Become a carpenter.
>>17341721
>>17341715
You're just very full of hate at the moment, take it easy for a while and you'll mellow out and realize you were just upset
I want to make everyone who loves me hate my guts so i can kill myself w/ relatively good conscious.
My BF especially will be devastated. How can i get someone head over heals in love w/ me to hate me?
What do?
Become a carpenter.
>>17341708
why a carpenter? Why will everyone hate me for that?
>>17341711
Just do it, you will get the results you want.
Fatcow here, Lately I've been losing weight and it's a bit concerning. So far it's nearly 15 pounds in about 2 weeks. Not that I mind but when I worked out I did not lose anything.
>Losing interest in food Except for random cravings
>No longer able to finish plates like I have before
>I stress ate constantly when living with my parents didnt change when moving with the hubby.
>I'm still stressed and have been severely depressed for about 3 months
>Meals are the same size as what I ate at my parents.
>Active as normal
Literally nothing has changed other than a decline in appetite and I am still losing weight. Should I be worried or is it just stress?
>>17341700
15 pounds in 2 weeks is too fast even if you're trying to lose weight, I really think you should go see a doctor
the lack of appetite is concerning as well
>>17341703
This.
>>17341703
I was considering it because I know it isn't normal. However I was waiting for my insurance to get approved (Paperwork was sent and we were told they would get back to us in 10 days). to add to the mess I have had a constant bout of Nausea (Checked guys, not pregnant.) with it. Wake up feeling sick and carry about my day with it.
I also tend to worry about the worse which is why I have stayed away from looking up what might be wrong. But essentially I am waiting for the Insurance to clear to be checked out.