>Met girl online
>Things go well
>We are planning on meeting
>Been "together" for about 8 months
>tfw she lives in a third world shithole
>tfw her parents friends want to arrange a marriage.
What do?
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>>17338763
What country? India? I think they just want to marry her to a guy in a first world country. Maybe for that green card.
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>>17338763
If it's such a shitty country that they have arranged marriages then in all honesty she's probably with you to try and get citizenship like >>17338766 said.
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Ditch, she gets citizenship and 50% of your belongings. Shes a fraud pal.
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Hey, I was circumcised as a baby and I just found out that it's very unusually to produce no precum at all when I'm fapping. I don't use lotion/lube but should I start so I don't fuck up my dick?
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I was circumcised at two years old and noticed i start producing precum when i prolong my fapping sessions. Keeping myself on the edge. Maybe you make yourself cum to fast man.
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Yeah this was the problem, I spent the last 2 hours edging and my dickhead shined like a star after an hour of it. Probably the best fap sesh ever, still feeling tinges from it.
Instead of jerking up and down I basically stroked the head and the bit of foreskin I had left, it was fantastic.
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Uncutfag here, I hardly ever produce precum while gapping, and when I do it's a very small amount, some people just come up with less than others I think
So, I hooked up with this girl a while back. She had just broken up with her boyfriend. To make it short, we talked for a month, started dating, we fucked and a week after that she was back with him. He never knew about me. She even blocked me completely. I know for a fact the condom broke and I came inside of her.
Few months later, I see this on her boyfriends Facebook, saying he's a father. The age of the baby is VERY VERY close to the day, I went through messages and checked. It was at least a month since she was with her boyfriend and her friends and myself are pretty sure she was loyal. I don't know much about baby shit. Is there a chance it's mine?
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>>17338737
Definitely a chance. Better leave it be though. You'd make both of your lives more difficult and create a definite enemy in the boyfriend. Not to mention that this scenario is quite common evolutionarily speaking, and in that sense you've gotten away with a "free lunch".
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>>17338737
Congrats, you just cucked her bf. Now he will be forced to raise your spawn and pay for all the expenses.
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>>17338737
It would fuck shit up if you said anything, but if I was him I'd want to know. If turns out it's yours he might be able to move on and find someone more honest. And, you'd have to take care of your kid if it's yours.
How to battle extrem
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So I suffer from extreme anxiety and I'm already going to start medication, but as of right now I have a case where I cannot sleep some days because of it, I don't work on things anymore because of the responsibility it bears, and I ruminate until I get headaches. My main problem though is that there are days where I cannot focus because my mind will be anxious from small things and things from the past as well as current things and for whatever reason it'll just keep happening until I pass out. Any advice and tips to deal with this? They say an idle mind is the devils workshop but right now I honestly don't have anything to do until I start my college semester.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRUGx7Tow7E
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>>17338735
Thanks jackass
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>>17338732
Keep yourself distracted consistently. Play a grindy game or do something that requires some level of concentration. Listen to calm/feel good music and drink lots of camomile tea. Escapism is your friend.
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Hey /adv/ I was thinking about enrolling in Santa Monica Community College fall of 2017. Have any of you gone to school there or known someone who has? If so, could you tell me either your or their experience?
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>>17338720
It's above average for a community college.
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>>17338756
That's what I heard, did you attend?
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>>17338720
AND I REMEMBER THE DAY
WHEN YOU LEFT FOR SANTA MONICA
I'm on 20mg Prozac and I have been for the past two months. Can I take lsd? Will it ruin my trip? What is okay to take with my medication besides weed?
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I wouldn't do it.
Especially if you have a disorder that causes derealization that the Prozac is helping you with.
Two months and you will just be getting settled on the Prozac, now is definitely not the time to go fucking around with LSD.
Don't be retarded anon.
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All you really need to know is that the LSD's effectiveness will be reduced by any SSRI medication.
Aside from that, you should still be able to trip just fine.
Refer to this chart for more info on drugs you can use with your medication. Assuming you aren't on any other medications, SSRI's generally reduce the overall effectiveness of most drugs, though there are a few fatal interactions.
Most importantly, make sure you're happy going into the trip. If you feel down for any reason on the day, I can't stress that you just save it until later. LSD is a massive emotion amplifier, and if you're depressed on the day, it'll be a disaster.
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>>17339816
To expand on this a little bit, don't increase your dosage to account for the possible reduction in effectiveness. The anon above makes a very very good point, but if you feel you are comfortable enough to trip, there's no reason you shouldn't do so. It's a very magical experience with the right set and setting.
Got myself in a shit show, how to ghost people when they know where you live/go to school? What about your online presence?
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No need to ghost. If you tell the truth and you're just talking that's your business. How other perceive it is theirs. If they don't want to talk about it, then let it go. No use of worrying about someone who obviously might not want to talk to you. If it truly bothers them they'll discuss it with the other person like an adult.
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>>17338662
>how to ghost people when they know where you live/go to school?
You don't. You can't ghost if you can't vanish.
Not that you should anyway. Ghosting is an incredibly cruel practice. But in your case, it wouldn't even work.
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Comforting words..
How much do you need to smoke in order to get withdrawals? I've been smoking 1 cigarette a day roughly for a little bit more than 1 year. I've been on and off with it though. I like it because it gives me a good base of calmness and boosts my mood and lessens social anxiety.
This past week I binged a little and was having 3-5 a day. I never done this before and I felt gross so I decided to cut it out.
2 days later I get a little bit of cravings, but right now I feel super depressed and a little anxious. Is it possible in any way that I'm facing withdrawals or are those only for the heavy smokers that smoke half a pack-full pack a day? Or am I stressed because of other external factors?
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Smoke more than 1 at once and you should be good.
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>>17338675
This is some pretty opposite advice
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>>17338658
Have fun with that cancer
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When is the best age to have kids, /adv/ ? What are some factors to determine if you are ready to have kids?
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25 is the ideal age, by then you should be married, established in your career, and own a house. After age 30 your child WILL have birth defects.
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>>17338646
during your 20's. around 30's thats when most women biological clock starts ticking
>What are some factors to determine if you are ready to have kids?
have a good paying job, money and a partner you can trust
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>>17338651
Would you say early 20s or late 20s? Is this from experience?
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I am sad, depressed, and lonely. Make me feel better, /adv/
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>>17338589
I masturbate to Holo from Spice and Wolf
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>>17338589
same
why do you feel this way OP?
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trump for president
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Got pic related prescribed for my depression/OCD/6billion different kinds of anxiety, I've started yesterday, and tonight I had such a hard time cumming while fapping, it lasted more than 2h (my dick fucking hurts), is it the loss of libido side effect ? if yes is it normal that it starts so early ? my therapist said that the effect would kick in in about 20 days
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Yes they are a side effect. I don't know how early they can kick in.
if the side effect is troublesome to you, talk to your psychiatrist and see if you can try another medication
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>>17338559
Yeah, ask your doctor about NDRI treatment as an alternative if libido loss bothers you.
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Also have OCD and SSRIs fuck with my libido badly. Like its caused relationship issues in the past. Also weird weight gain. Fucking hate SSRIs - not even as useful as CB therapy.
Also, unless they are controlled release, they will start to fail you. Generics are almost never CR and namenrand CR formulas are expensive.
Probably not what you wanted to hear but oh well.
.t. OCD bro who has been off and on SSRIs for years.
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So a little background about me, 22 year old lady. I've had a lot of sex, between being in multiple months-years long relationships. Always wear a condom and on the pill so I've never been preggers, no STD's, all that. But I have a problem committing and I hadn't found a guy that I felt was truly compatible with me.
I've started dating this guy, 22 year old dude I met online, lives nearby and we've been on about 3 dates. However he's never had a girlfriend (he says that he hadn't found anyone compatible either), and I'm 99% sure he's a virgin. I don't know, but I doubt he's even had a woman touch his dick at all. But he's cute, funny, and most importantly I feel compatible as friends, which is something that I've been lacking with dudes.
So we had our first kiss yesterday and it was obvious he had no idea what he was doing. And he knew it. So I told him that it was fine (I don't really care, I'm sure he'll get better over time) but now I'm wondering how I should handle the fact that he's inexperienced.
I don't 100% know for sure he's a virgin (it said so on his dating profile but who knows how long ago he answered that) but I'm pretty positive he is one. He's physically hesitant since he's inexperienced and I'm physically hesitant because I tend to rush too quickly into sex.
So TLDR; How should I pace things with a virgin boyfriend? Should I ask him if he's a virgin if we've only been on 3 dates? Should I wait for him to make the first move as far as making out/etc goes? Any advice? I just don't want to be patronizing or emasculating
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pls help
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I met up a couple times with this Okcupid chick. Aside from being batshit crazy, she asked me straight up if I'd had any relationships before. When I said I hadn't, she went something along the lines of 'Really? But you're so handsome, how can you not have had dates or relationships before?'
Even though it was meant to be a compliment I assume, it still hurt. My advice is to not mention it.
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What exactly about that hurt you though? Like that she was saying that your looks were all there was to you or..? Just trying to understand better.
And I just don't want him to be nervous or anything, and I want to let him know that I like.. support him, if that makes sense. I don't want him to feel pressured one way or the other, but should I just let him come to me about it?
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My life is worthless and I want to die. Any tips for how I can make things better?
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have you tried embracing despair to ensure the continued survival of the universe?
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>>17338428
You can stop making this thread
OK so I feel like this is a stupid question, but I can't find the answer anywhere. I need to make lots of permanent emails relatively easily, but every website I find either requires a phone number, stops working after I make a few emails, or it doesn't work at all.
tl;dr
How do I make lots of email addresses quickly and easily
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Which website is it?
You can usually get away with throwing a period in
[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]
Or, if it's a gmail account, you can use + to differentiate emails. And everything will be sent to your inbox. Plus (hehe), you get to see who sold your email.
[email protected]
[email protected]
[email protected]
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>>17338329
Get a real job you waste of space, instead of trying to scam people on the internet.
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>>17338368
I'm not sure what you mean. I've been making the emails like
[email protected]
[email protected]
Etc
Every service that I've made a few emails with just stops working after I've made a few emails. It's very frustrating.
>>17338371
I'm not trying to scam anyone, I am trying to sell accounts that need emails to be created. I'm just providing a service, I would never scam people.
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Hear my story /b/tards:
>Be me
>Girl next door
>Awkward and a little crazy
>Try to get with her
>Friendzoned
>Two years go by without being her friend
>I change as a person
>Get more mature
>I really want to date her/ fuck her hard
>I get weird signals from her that I might be able to make a move
>Her best friend dates my brother
>Don't know if I have a chance
>Don't know if I am just the thirsty guy
>Don't know if I could get out of the friend zone
>She knows so much about me
>Idk if I have any chance with her
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Whats this post about?
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What are you even asking
You can do one of two things
1. Go for it and realize that the worst thing that can happen is you getting turned down.
2. Be too scared of the possible consequences and live with the "what if" for the rest of your life.
Don't be a bitch OP. Pick #1.
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>>17338308
this isn't /b/ summerfag