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Help me pick a school 2016-07-10 20:08:23 Post No.17343991
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So I went back to college last year and it's time for me to transfer. I have two schools, school A and school B:
School A:
D1
Urban environment, in a notable college city
Like 45 mins my home (This is a bit of a negative, I want to be decently distanced from home)
New fancy journalism school I'd be a part of
I actually know the area
School B:
Will take me AP credits from high school (it's 12, so that's basically a semester)
D3 (I'm big on sports so this is a slight negative)
3 hours from my home
Notable party school in the middle of nowhere almost
Close to the beach
I can provide more info if need be. I've already been accepted to School A. School B is guaranteed to admit me but I still need to send off payments and paperwork.
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A
> I want to be decently distanced from home
What the fuck?
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>>17344148
My family sucks. I kinda wanna pick A, but I don't wanna lose a semester of work basically
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>>17344186
Then you have homework to do. A is better, because if you choose B, you will still have to be at home at you will be tired from getting 3 hours trips to "hell". Unless you sleep on a friends flat or something.
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What's the nicest way to ask my girlfriend to bike faster? We live in a collegetown, and the best way to get places is via bike. It also puts us within reasonable time of travel to some nice parks and stuff. The only issue is that she is dreadfully slow when biking. I don't expect her to go 15mph with ease like me, but to go at least 8mph would be nice. It really puts a damper on how much I want to go out, since I know that if I go alone, I'll be there in 30 minutes, but with her it'll be an hour.
The thing is, she's really touchy on being called slow, despite being slow in basically everything, like work and schoolwork. Not just to me, either. I want to get her to bike a little faster so we can enjoy a park for longer, instead of spending the limited time we have in transit.
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sorry bud, no other way but to just tell her that shes slow.
why is she slow at everything though?
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Just ride at your speed. Over time she'll learn to keep up
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Different things. With work and school, she's both insecure and a perfectionist. Her boss says she finishes far less than her coworkers, but makes the fewest, if any, mistakes. School work is the same, she overachieves to the point where professors, in an effort to make her do less, write no comments on her work.
With biking, I have no idea. I've broached the subject once, and she says she doesn't see the point in riding quickly. I tell her it's to get to the park, instead of riding through flat cornfields (yay Midwest) and she tells me to get over it.
>>17343973
I've tried that, but either I get worried that she'll be hit by a car or something actually grievous and I'll be unaware, or I shake that feeling and she gets bitchy at me, and refuses to bike for a week after.
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>Be in six year long relationship
>Cheat like a fucking whore
>Tell bf and be genuinely sorry about it
>Try to open up relationship
>Doesn't work, he mad jealous
>Break up
>Single for a year, still love him
>Still loves me, "wanna get back together?"
>His condition is that I stay completely monogamous and stop hanging out with guys he's jealous of, while he gets to fuck all the chicks he wants to, because "lol there's no way I could be monogamous, I'd just end up cheating anyway".
>Not particularly jealous, could deal with him sexing others
BUT
>He still insanely mad for the cheating I did years ago and lets me know regularly
and it kind of feels unfair? Will relationship end in horrible, inevitable doom even though we're both convinced loving anyone else than each other will never happen?
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You fucked up plain and simple. Both of you should move on
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>>17343961
Don't fucking get back with him.
Who cares if you love each other, relationship will be miserable.
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>>Cheat like a fucking whore
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Are people who complain that it's impossible to succeed as a young person just pot-smoking retards painting themselves as victims?
I feel like they have to be wrong. You have to be able to make it if you just keep your head on straight
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World doesn't work that right way. You can work your ass off all your life and still fail. You can also not do jack shit and still succeed.
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No, success isn't easy and is rarely straightforward. Not everyone achieves it so easily
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I'm a pottsmoker and a pretty good programmer, doing fine
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When will I ever learn? 2016-07-10 19:20:15 Post No.17343871
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I'm 5'8, gf is 5'11. Loves me unconditionally, I'm not whipped, we have fun together, but it stops whenever we're in public. Suddenly I become tense, stiff, awkward, she tries to be the same around me but I reel back because I can't help but feel judged/watched/laughed at.
She thinks it's just because I'm a shy person but it's actually 100% to do about my insecurity about our height difference. I can never be confident enough when I'm in public with her and I'm afraid she'll leave me because of it.
Help please. Pic unrelated.
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This might help.
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>>17343871
Women do not like short guys. It sucks, but it's true.
Women are so shallow, they only want Chad Thundercock. But that's life.
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>>17343920
You didn't read OP's post at all. Fuck off
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I started dating this girl, real easy conversation and great first date, we got physical afterwards. She has canceled last minute plans twice because she was busy.
Knowing her, it's equally likely
a) she isn't interested
b) she's playing hard to get
She does this to numerous guys, from what my friends tell me. That could mean she likes playing guys, or she plays hard to get. The fact that she does it to every guy makes me feel like it's much more likely she plays hard to get than her not being interested in me.
Is it too clingy/desperate to ask to text her if she wants to do something later this week and for her to pick a day, or should I wait for her to ask me to do something?
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How the fuck would I know.
Can't you make decisions alone? Do you need an adult to tell you how to date a woman? What a dependent wuss.
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>>17343873
>what is a second opinion
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>>17343834
shes trash. ignore her for a bit and she will come running
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Halp end the suffering 2016-07-10 19:05:14 Post No.17343827
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I'm romantically inept, and cannot find something meaningful or serious for the hell of me.
>Be 6'1 College Senior
>Be living within means working three part time jobs and two volunteer ones as a first responder
>Be decently /fit/ and /k/ool and /o/utrageous
>Be 8-9/10 looking and well groomed
>Treat women like princesses
>Not a cuck or tiny wheeny
>Could score a woman for hooking up in under a day
>Be heir to vast fortunes of jewgold
But I keep meeting psychos, whores, morons and nobody that wants something committed and serious. Where do I go? Am I stuck swiping and running around till I become an old prick and I settle for some soccer mom? Where does one at this age find women who want stability?
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You are not "working three part time jobs and two volunteer ones as a first responder", so who knows what else you're lying about.
Do you just want to talk about whatever? Try IRC.
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>>17343882
Yeah, try being an EMT and Firefighter dickhead
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>Yeah, try being an EMT and Firefighter, dickhead!
Haha, that's easy. I'll do like you and pretend.
I am an EMT and firefighter, by the way, and I never heard of a fellow EMT + firefighter who also happened to be the heir to a vast fortune, and even less the "heir to vast fortunes", plural. That's hilarious.
Just where do you find dogs? I am an idiot
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>animal shelters
>dog breeders
>craigslist
>local newspaper "free" section
what kind of dog are you after? any specific breed? are you ok with a dog that might have health problems or behavioural problems? how much training are you willing to do? how much space do you have? do you live in a city, suburb, or rural area?
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>>17343806
>I am an idiot.
Haha. Yeah, you are.
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>>17343806
go to your local shelter first
bail a doggo out of jail, doggo will be forever grateful
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Is 104 lbs too low for a man? 2016-07-10 18:27:56 Post No.17343699
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Is 104 lbs too low for a man?
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Went to see doctor. He checked my weight, it was 104 lbs. Asked me if I had any heart issues or anorexia issues... I said no. wtf?
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ur height?
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>>17343699
well, you might want to stop eating two slices of white bread for dinner every day and get yourself some real food
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>>17343699
128/5'10" reporting
Yes too low. Im told everyday im too skinny and also i am virgin. Lets eat a lot and start lift famo
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Is becoming so alpha that women feel like they have to escalate actually a thing?
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Yes.
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Yes. If the women thinks that you are in high demand (many options, good catch, wavering interest in her) they will make it so subtitlely obvious that they are basically telling you they are interested in you. They will escalate their tells, attempting kino, preening in front of you. but ultimately you have to be the one to initiate.
Watch their eyes, and their hair.
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>>17343770
Virgin detected.
Using "PUA-speak", or agreeing to it, is a modern telltale sign of lack of success with women.
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How do I stop being a mean person? For years now, I have had moments where I think "oh shit" and I start to remember all the times I was rude to others, very mean.
I am far more self aware now, so I don't have those "oh shit" moments anymore, because I basically realize consciously, admittedly, that I am a mean person. So there is no need for sudden epiphanies anymore. I admit and accept who I am, with no hesitation.
But, I don't want to be like this. How do I change?
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Experimental personality transplants.
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>>17343854
I wish it were that easy.
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Examples
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So I went to bed around 8 pm because I had a long day of work. During that time, I was having a nightmare, I guess. I can't remember what the hell it was about, but I was telling myself to wake up. Mind you, I felt like I was walking around in the dream, but I had full control of it. So a feeling came upon me that I was controlling two versions of myself at the same time. (The one inside the dream who had full control and the one who was dreaming) I then tried to wake up, but as I did this, I felt as if I now had full control over my real self along with the dream me. I tried to sit up, while still in the dream, so I could wake up. As I did this, I felt as if I was pulling myself from my own body. My head began to rattle furiously from side to side, and I began to freak out as it started to cause pain. I eventually woke up from the pulling and found myself back in my room. Is there some sort of explanation of this? Im honestly afraid that something like that will happen again. Sorry if it was too long, but I didn't want to leave out any detail.
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Sleep paralysis
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Sounds like either a lucid dream or an astral trip. a Sleep paralysis too, like >>17343654 said.
Read about those three and find out which one was
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>>17343660
Seems like is called "astral projection"
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How do I prepare for sex? 2016-07-10 18:00:01 Post No.17343621
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How do I prepare for sex?
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I'm visiting a qt I've been trying for for too long and we fuckin. I know this in advance, so what can I do in this week to make it the best she's ever had? Do I nofap? Do I masturbate more than usual? Do I quit smoking? Do I start running?
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Stick your dick in a blender
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>don't fap for a week
>cum in your pants as soon as her hand barely grazes your boner
don't do this dummy
I don't think that preparation is really possible or necessary for good sex, after all it's what human beings have evolved to do for millions of years. The best thing you can do is relax. If you are relaxed and confident, you'll perform well. Also, be communicative and attentive to her, eat her out, etc. Think outside the penis-in-vagina box. uhhh and tons of foreplay obviously
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Oh yeah I got the foreplay and confidence and stuff down; I'm not asking what makes the difference between good and not good, but what I can do to make this something she'd want to tell her children about.
Any recommendable positions?
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Girlfriends male university work mate say this on their 4 person chat
> Gf and one of the girls on chat talking about their mate
>saying how this guy said to their mate 'we either have sex or were nothing, i dont wana be just mates
>Gf reaction is like wtf he's so weird
>the guy in the group chat says 'wait... so none of you three going to have sex with me?'
>Gf replys 'hahaha', 'good one jack'
>they keep talking and Gf says they have to make this project 'werk'
>Guy replys 'make it 'twerk'
He seems sketchy and im not sure if he meant make my gf twerk
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>>17343617
sounds like your gf encouraged him by acknowledging his sexual comment and the guy is trying real hard. Perhaps the other girls will get tied of his sexual comments and shut him out but he's now on your gf.
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Don't worry about it, it sounds like they see him as an autist. If you try to tell him off, he'll think he's important and that he has a chance. If you're worried, though, try planting some social mines to fuck him up.
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>>17343617
It's obvious that they don't take him seriously if they responded to him like that when he told her to have sex with him.
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I blush whenever sexual topics come up in conversation.
I am afraid people will make judgements on me based on this.
For example, one time I was in a group of people who were discussing recent pedophilia scandals and I began blushing heavily.
After every occasion like this I worry that people will assume something about me, like that I'm a pervert or something.
I am on medication for social anxiety, but this is something that has never subsided. What can I do?
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welp, i'm glad i'm not the only one. it's very embarassing though. i wish i could stop it. i also have no idea where this is coming from. i don't have a problem with sex in general.
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>>17343635
OP here. Me too. I am indifferent to sex when I'm alone. I am not actually prudish at all.
I think it's the fear of blushing that causes me to blush.
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>>17343638
>I think it's the fear of blushing that causes me to blush.
i'm not even sure if it's that in my case. i sometimes even forget that i blush easily. and then it catches me like a hot wave. i also blush when the topic isn't even about me. what medication do you have?