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How do I get a "life" ? is that just something that comes naturally to most people but not to me? all my efforts always become trivial in the end and end up with me playing a game or sth
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If you're happy playing game and sth then that is your life and continue being happy. Normally people say "get a life" to people who're doing things that arent productive to the individual's happiness. Such as living in your mums basement, mooching off other people or providing no benefit to society.
If you don't provide benefit to society but live in one, then you should "get a life" and provide something, i.e. working to pay taxes.
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We're constantly bombarded with images of people surrounded by huge groups of friends
But that's not true. It's used to try and sell us something. The vast majority of people have very few or even no friends outside of family. Having an exciting social life is something that comes naturally to very few people
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I don't think getting a "life" is something you just do, because I believe it can be interpreted different ways. From my point of view, getting a "life" means having priorities in check. If you miss out on important or beneficial things because you're playing a game you should probably fix that.
Don't get me wrong, I play alot of games. Just giving you something to think about, if that's the case.
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ITT: Does /adv/ have experiences in life transformation? Have you been trying to develop yourself mentally? How has it been?
I'm recovering from severe depression, been down for a longer time and now i'm first time single after 10+ years of relationships. I try slowly to get my self standing again. Losing weight and trying to work on my mental well being as well.
I heard one has to learn to love himself first untill its possible to be in a new relationship and this is what i try. I'm also moving back to my home country soon after many years being abroad, im changing studies also. I watch life coach videos from youtube and really trying to change my habits, change negative mindloops and become more confident.
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Take it one step at a time. You won't be able to change into a completely new person overnight. You have to change things about yourself step by step, and in time you will reinvent yourself to be the person you want to be. Don't be impatient, don't overwhelm yourself, take it one step at a time. Stop drinking soda, stop eating fast food, take a half hour walk every evening, do little things and start developing healthy habits step by step until they become a natural part of your everyday life. Good luck OP
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yeah, it is a slow road. I think i understood something quite important recently. I started to view my situation as "i have a lot of potential" instead of "im just a piece of crap and there is so much work to do". It is easier to begin this transformation thinking that my cup is half full instead of half empty
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1. watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lp7E973zozc
2. diet
3. stop eating processed sugar
4. no porn, cut masturbation to twice a week
5. lift
6. you will find out everything else on your own from here on
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>Friend somewhat likes girl
>Girl is into me
>I would like to fuck her
What do I do /adv/
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Fuck her. Duh.
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>somewhat
Keyword
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>>17343492
If you were a true friend you'd loosen her up for him.
On a serious note you're a shit friend, fuck her so that he finds some other girl to sleep with. She's into you so you got dibs faggot.
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Hi adv I met a girl online, she's into feederism, so I became her feeder. Anyways, she's 150 and wants to gain another 150. How long do you think it'll take her to get there? Also how do I fatten her up quickly? If I get her to 300 she says I can keep feeding her. Help an anon out please.
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Liquid calories. You can always keep gaining weight with a lot of liquid calories and they literally go right through you.
I suggest bourbon or rum cokes.
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What the fuck is wrong with people now days. what mental illness do you have which makes you want someone to hop onto the fast lane to immobility, diabetes and death.
You're literally pathetic and need to rethink your priorities in life, get an attractive girlfriend.
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Make her a milkshake with chocolate milk, ice cream, whey protein, peanut butter, and Crisco.
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I despise virtual keyboards, I want a qwerty one. I looked up so many phones, but there is always something wrong (usually the fact that amazon.com doesn't deliver to UK, and amazon.co.uk is shit with phones).
I wondered if blackberry is still a good option. I like their speed and the fact that they have keyboards. Problem is - would they run whatsapp, fb messenger and slack? (Slack not essential)
Also I heard they have a different kind of network, so would it be a hassle, or not? (Got a lebara sim card, which provides internet to my xperia phone right now)
So, blackberry users and phone experts, HELP!
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Which phone(s) did you find on Amazon.com that can't be shipped to the UK?
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>>17343479
Blackberry Priv runs android and it has a qwerty keyboard, price is going down it might be your best bet
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BlackBerry is set to release three new Android handsets this (fiscal) year. At least one of them will have a keyboard. Expect mid-range specs
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I need to write an argumentative essay for my college English class and I am an autist who skipped out on high school and can't write for shit.
What should I make an argument for that would be pretty easy to source both sides of the argument?
I started writing about obesity and realized halfway through that I am not actually making an argument and just rambling through words.
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Pick anything with a strong emotional response e.g. abortion. You'll presumably have an opinion on that, and just think devil's advocate and try to come up with arguments your opponents would use.
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>>17344562
But is it not necessarily about my opinion? Making an argument for one side and addressing the arguments of the other side using other writings as sources. I can't just write from my own thoughts, can I?
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>>17344665
yes you can, who says you can't?
And anyway there's usually two sides to an argument, and you're likely to pick one, so, there, you have the arguments for side A and do what [otheranon] said
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I despise virtual keyboards, I want a qwerty one. I looked up so many phones, but there is always something wrong (usually the fact that amazon.com doesn't deliver to UK, and amazon.co.uk is shit with phones).
I wondered if blackberry is still a good option. I like their speed and the fact that they have keyboards. Problem is - would they run whatsapp, fb messenger and slack? (Slack not essential)
Also I heard they have a different kind of network, so would it be a hassle, or not? (Got a lebara sim card, which provides internet to my xperia phone right now)
So, blackberry users and phone experts, HELP!
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>>17343478
Wut
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>>17343486
Google it
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Gf can take ages to respond a message on WhatsApp but is on Facebook every 10 minutes.
This makes me livid because in my mind she's talking to her friends there and giving me a cold shoulder.
What do?
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Stop being an insecure fucking 12 year old.
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>>17343432
I'd call it insecurity if I didn't know it was a fact that she's constantly online without replying.
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>>17343436
Maybe she doesn't want to talk to you 24/7? I don't know what your dynamic with your partner is, but you obviously haven't talked to her about it and are making assumptions based on your own insecurities instead of communicating with your SO.
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So, me and this one woman went out on a blind date a few months ago and word through the grapevine said that she had a good time and liked me. However for some reason she ignored my call for a second one, so I just moved on. Last week she started texting me again and is interested in going out on another date.
I find a lot of stuff online about second dates, but what are some good "catch-up" dates instead? The weird part is that we live 20 miles apart and she's a few years older than me (22 and 25).
Honestly I just want to get laid once before I leave for the military.
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Why the fuck are you joining the military when you havent gotten laid before? God bro, you live 20 miles apart aswell?? holy fuck dude, find a chick who is atleast within 10 miles.
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>>17343437
I'm joining for actually good reasons, not for the hell of it. And I know 20 miles is alot, but all of the women at work are taken and I have a lot in common with her. She's also like four of my fetishes
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Help: college advice UCSD or SDSU (deadline approaching) 2016-07-10 16:44:26 Post No.17343404
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Help: college advice UCSD or SDSU (deadline approaching)
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Hi /adv. I'd like to get your input on whether I should attend a: (1) somewhat prestigious yet difficult university, or (2) a much less prestigious yet easier university. I'm deciding between UC San Diego or San Diego State. I'm majoring in economics. My gpa is 3.2 and I'm transferring from a community college (I've been accepted by both schools). I'm a non-traditional student (I'm 30, use to be in the Navy). At the harder school I'll get more rigorous academic preparation, possibly network better, and the associated "prestige" of this better school. However, I'm affraid of the difficulty, and wouldn't want my gpa to drop (for grad school), or risk failure. If I choose the easier school, it would be easier: less rigorous academics, much less prestige, but a guaranteed easy time (and, thus, higher gpa for grad school purposes). Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks /adv
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I don't think you're gonna get accepted at UCSD with a 3.2. shoot for SDSU
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OP here. I got accepted to both (I couldn't believe UCSD to be honest) and submitted my intent to enroll/register to both. I have to cancel/rescind one of them. Also, I have a 3.2 because I went to college before I enlisted and did pretty bad (wasted my time); but once I got out of the military, I applied myself and got a 4.0 at the college I'm transferring (which brought my gpa up, thankfully). Thanks for the anon.
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UCSD. With a 4.0 you have your shit together to succeed at a good university
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Hey can someone recomend me films in the same mood as Akira, Ghost in the Shell, etc.
Doesnt have to be animated, but just decent cyberpunk themes.
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very helpful post was this, now show me where it says I cant post here
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Idk, blade runner?
I'm trying to choose between an archer stealth class or a spell sword, which should I do?
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flip a coin
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APPET, faggot! Have you never played Morrowind?
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Stealth archery
Someone should post the pic talking about which races make the best stealth archers
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my friends host a party in which a bunch of various people get together, hang out, play board games, play video games, do karaoke, that whole shebang. Well everyone is super chill and super nice, except one of the guy's got a new girlfriend... she wears all this obvious costume jewelry, always bright pink, bleaches her hair blond, wears a lot of make up, and wears clothes that are revealing and suggestive. Shes really opened my eyes on how men work... the other women hate her with a passion, she sets women's rights back faaaarr, shes ditzy, listens to her boyfriend (my friend who used to be very respectful toward women) as if he were her master, he tells her to get him a beer, she does it, get him a plate, she'll actually plate his food for him, I've seen her literally get in the kitchen and make him a sandwhich. He pats her ass as if its a reward, and she goes along with it, hes even made her do a turn to show off her body, and hes smacked her ass in front of the other guys, who despite the fact shes overweight and two of the guys in our group are notorious for not liking women of size, all were gawking...
Are all men like this? is this what men want? just a ditzy bimbo with huge floppy breasts who dresses like a gaudy trailer park hooker?
honestly, the men in our groups identify as feminists, but here they are treating the new girl as if she is this great and wonderful thing... Even my boyfriend was drooling over her like a dog... its horrifying...
Is this just how it is? secretly men want women like her?
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Her and her boyfriend probably have a dynamic that they both enjoy, regardless of how you see it from the outside.
Let her but, its not a big deal as you are making it. Just don't associate with her and ignore her if it really bothers you this much.
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>Is this just how it is? secretly men want women like her?
yes.
to you it seems like she is "seting womans rights back faaaarr". but as you can see here
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guys just want something in a big, fluffy dress
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>>17343372
>Her and her boyfriend probably have a dynamic that they both enjoy
This. Who are you to judge her that she's "setting women's rights back"? Is she saying the women don't deserve to vote or that they shouldn't be equal? If not, then from what you've said she's just having fun with her boyfriend.
They sound like confident, fun people, and you honestly sound pretty insecure.
For the record, there is no single type that all men want. But people in general are attracted to confidence and people who like to have a good time. It has very little to do with breasts or clothing size.
Can we get a feels thread going?
>Be me, 21
>Had my first gf for 3 years now
>We have major differences in political beliefs/upbringing but we managed it thus far
>Parents used to like her now their attitude towards her has soured
>Constantly getting into arguments with my parents and gf over what the other thinks of our relationship
>I want to find someone with more similar views to me, but I also don't want to hurt my gf
>From the start she's made it abundantly clear that she loves me
>I still like/respect her as a person but I feel sad when I'm with her because I know it'll only end badly sooner or later
>I can't bring myself to break her heart, yet I feel like I'd have a better chance with a girl more similar to myself
Goddamnit, I was prepared to have my heart broken, but not to break that poor girl's heart. She's a sweetheart and all I want is for her to be happy. What do I fucking do /adv/?
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Sorry ignore the top, it should say "can I get some advice on my situation"
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>>17343312
Except for the parents part, this is me right now OP. FeelsBadMan
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>>17343317
Fucking Hell, man. I know your pain. Stay strong for me, brother.
Hey, /adv/, I went on a date last night and managed to do pretty well for myself. We both got pretty drunk, kept up good conversation the entire night and things were going pretty well. There was a brief period where she took me to meet her friends, but I managed to hit it off with them as well. Long story short, we were both dead tired by 2 am, and hitched a cab back to our neighborhood. she walked with me to my apartment, and when we said goodnight, she kissed me on the cheek. Being still drunk and horny, I turned her head and started kissing her. We stopped (she went in on it too, I'll add) and when she turned to leave, I went full retard and said "I'm sorry" then told her that I felt obligated to do it. To my surprise, she came right back up to me and we kissed again, before she left and we told each other that we'd talk soon. Well, now it's the next morning and after nursing a massive hangover and cringing over the dumb shit I said, I'm kind of wondering what to do next.
What/when should I text her? I don't want to look like some fuckboy, but I'm not going to be in town for the next month and I want to try to square things away in terms of where we're at and I'm worried that im overthinking my dumb comment.
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Your comment last night was fine, you didn't say anything retarded really. Relax.
Text her and tell her that you really enjoyed last night, you hope she has an amazing day, give her a compliment about something that happened last night.
I assume you've already talked to her about leaving town for a month? If you have, then after she responds just reiterate to her that you'd really like to see her again and hang out / you'll miss her etc.
Don't be afraid of seeming like a fuckboy, all the women I've dated love this kind of shit
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>>17343253
"I'm sorry I just HAD to kiss you because you looked SO pretty..."
Girl melts...
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>>17343414
Never say sorry unless you actually did something wrong, idiot.
OP stop second guessing and be yourself, you kissed her because you wanted to so don't be a little wimp saying "sorry" or w/e. Just do what you want.