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Where do single adults go on weekends to meet other single adults dating wise? I'm 22 btw
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>>17345556

There is no place OP.
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Bars
Clubs
College
Parties
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>>17345556

speed dating.

now if you mean some place that has a pretense for soemthing else but everyones hoping to meet someone... then literally anything.

there are no busiensses (other than literal speed dating) that people flock to in order to meet other single young adults.

people go to bars because its fun to be drunk. people go to clubs cuz they like to dance. people go to board game meetups cuz they like board games. arcades cuz they like video games.

people take a hobby, an idea, or anythign fun, and externalize it. book lovers go to book clubs. anime lovers go to marathons, conventions, parties, little tokyo meet ups etc.

but there is no magical place outside of speed dating where only single peopel go with the sole intention of meeting other single people.

cuz why would they need a pretense?

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I'm from california looking to move somewhere better. I like Tennessee and Texas but that humidity is pretty brutal. Are there any areas where jobs are good and aren't so humid or am I pretty much gowing to have to sucks it up and just deal with the humidity?

Also are there any suggestions for states?

Also hehe I never realized this rock formation in az was thumbs upping
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I was under the impression Californians are only allowed to move to either Austin or Boulder due to zoning laws.
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>>17345658
We're also allowed to move to Nashville Raleigh, and Amarillo apparently

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Is there a suicidal general on here? I mean, it's a large community and fully anonymous. Be a nice place for one.
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Tends not to be sustainable...
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>>17345525

this is super humorous, but also raises a valid point.

people say 'suicidal' as if its a state of being. not realizing that the whole point is to not be in any state anymore. suicidal means wanting to kill yourself. and in any serious context, it requires immediate treatment.

if you have somehow survive years of being 'suicidal' than you arent suicidal. you are just so depressed taht you cant understand there are other valid ways to express your feelings.

but no one thinks they'll be taken seriously unless they say the y want to kil lthemselves this day.
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>>17345727
And even then, that's a waning attention-grabber, despite so many fish taking the lure.

Seriously, about 3-5 times a day does a suicidals thread come up.

A general would be neat to look at, except let's be honest, it will be raided by another board. Believe me, I've seen it happen several times.

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Home alone and bored as hell. What can I do.
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Die.
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>>17345484
OP play online if you like playing online,
go to sleep early
listen to music online
draw
go on omegle?
make a schedule for you whole week month year
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>>17345530
nothing but horny dumbshits on omegle

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If it's a handy or oral, I can keep from finishing for eternity...
But seriously just like 8 pumps in the holy of holies and she's baptised you feel me?
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Go for seconds.
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>>17345467
Oh but the humiliation ):
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>>17345473
She probably flattered, Have you talked to her about it?

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I am a 25 year old male and never had sex. I am petrified of having sex. I am scared of women getting crazy and claiming rape. I am scared of women getting pregnant. I am afraid of getting a disease. I am afraid of her coming to my job or something and blurting out weird shit.

I don't know why I am like this. I have seen so many friends ruined by women. So many friends who use to be happy, then knocked some girl up and now some of my friends are suicidal, shells of their former selves OR so unhappy that they resent their kid and the girl.

WHAT IS THIS FUCKING LIFE!? Why is sex so fucking dangerous? Like my brain is going "Sex is for FULL retards who want their fucking life to end in 9 months."

How do I get over that? Whats worse is that I have seen REAL LIFE people confirming what my mind thinks about sex. Sex can and WILL ruin your life. Am I wrong?
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Only bang pregnant women, then.
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You should actually have sex so you can experience how mediocre it is and become even more confused.
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>>17345412
Think about it. They can't get pregnant, and the guy they'll be stalking is the one who got them pregnant.

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I'm seeing a guy and known each other for roughly a month now, we've had sex (except for penetration) and we've spent time together, today he took me out to dinner and he paid (I didn't want him to) but he seems to get uncomfortable at the conversation of putting a label on us. I tried to bring that topic up and he lightly said he wanted to keep going and that he was having fun and he asked me if I was having fun too... except a few days ago he said something entirely different over text. He said he wanted to have something with me and that I should tell him if I wanted to be official. Now I'm confused as hell and I don't know what to think, and I'm scared to bring up the subject again.

I have no idea what to do, thoughts? I think I have to try talking about it because lack of communication really sparks up my anxiety.
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Communication is key
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The paying for dinner thing is culturally dependant - it would help to know where you are from (im from australia and women very rarely expect to pay or split bills here)
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>>17345404

>we've had sex (except for penetration)

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How do I politely ask my friend to join his informal soccer team? I want to get into a sport but obviously it’s his group of friends, I don’t want to put him in the position of having to shoot me down. The last thing I need is to be out playing soccer with a bunch of guys who either see me as an interloper or are way above my skill level
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Holy fuck, you are insecure. Just say, "Hey, when you guys playing again?" and just go play with them.
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>>17345380
I'm not gonna invite myself to my friend's thing. They're his old college buddies, I don't know a single one of them.
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>>17345327
>> stay together up until today where she broke up with me again after looking

"Hey bro, I'm thinking of getting into soccer, if you guys have space for one more, would it be cool if I joined?"

Don't be so insecure bro. Most people would love to have more people to play with, hell, most people like to teach and train new people, too.

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>cheated on my girlfriend awhile back
>she found out a couple weeks ago
>break up and fight and end up staying together
> stay together up until today where she broke up with me again after looking through some of my old search history
Is there anyway for me to get her back? I've genuinely been trying to change myself as a person by going cold turkey on porn and by talking to her more. We were supposed to move in next year and I really want us to stay together.
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>>17345309

>is there a way to get her back

possibly. but why woudl we know it? girls arent robots all running the same script. they arent mortal kombats where pressing the right kind of buttons will lead to a fatality.

they are human. if theres a way to get her back, you are perhaps the only person who would have any inkling of it.

have you tried a really big romantic guesture?

i dont recommend quitting porn though its hte only way to get your urges for other women out.
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>>17345309
If she were to get back with you AGAIN, she'd be literally retarded.

You were lucky enough to have another chance after cheating. Did you really need pussy so bad as to compromise everything you had? You disgust me.

Leave this poor girl alone to fall in love with somebody who isnt a shitlord to her.
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>>17345309
Bad thumbnail
Leave her alone

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What do I say now?
I'm usually okay with this stuff but I haven't been with a girl in a long time. I don't know where to take this conversation.
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>>17345305
I'm yellow btw
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Ask her if she is into butt stuff.
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>>17345305
Cocktease and a slut drop her
>sorry i only like nice girls

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I'm burnt out from Pokemon, 4chan, and Smash Bros 4, and I need a way to pass the time. I'm 20 years old, and a full time college student.

What is something else I can do in my spare time? Also please nothing that would involve a lot of other people.

I thought about reading novels, swimming, hiking, and geocaching. Are those sustainable hobbies?
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Go to the fucking gym
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>>17345299
Buy an 80s/90s sports car/coupe from craigslist and drive/restore it.
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>>17345310
That has people fucking everywhere. Maybe working out at home I guess would be good.

>>17345332
That'd be fun! Though I was looking for more of an everyday kind of hobby

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Ok, will be to the point without details.
It seems to my boyfriend doesn care about me/doesn't pay attention. He just looks for me (most of the time) for sex, and the rest doesn't talk too much and he doesn't answer my messajes often.
But then, when he knows to I'm sick or something bad happend, he is there for me.

I just wonder what the fuck.
Makes me feel sad to he just worry about me when he wants sex or I'm sick/injured.
(Never self harmed for his attention, but lied one or two times about a cold or little fever)

And sorry for bad english, not my native lenguage. Actually is swedish.
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Okay, so he's not a clingy loser who needs to spend every waking minute with you or wants to attend your every whim. Yet he's there for you and obviously cares about you.

Back in the day, we called this being a real man. Nowadays I guess you have to drag him onto a daytime television show and complain about how he don't treat you right.
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>>17345291
Does he take you out to dinner? Do you do things together besides stay in?

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Dear menfolk of /adv/, I have a question
Would get together with an older girl? Like 4 to 7 years older than you?
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Fucking duh.
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>>17345288

yes. i do date my age, but im very open to women in their thirties. why? well i dont like bars and clubs much. once every few months is fine, but nah.

most women in their thirties want to go out to eat, or stay home and watch netflix. they dont even mind just doing their stuff while you play video games or other.

they also dont mind paying for meals. not just at restaurants but... i mean i was 19 and apoor as fuck, my girlfriend was 30. she'd buy us steaks every fucking week. was amazing. woudl take me out for breakfast, etc.
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>>17345288

If we get along and like each other enough, i can't find a reason not to.

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For some reason I can get super hard by myself but sometimes I don't having sex. Some of the time I lose my shit just switching positions but if I'm alone I can stay hard for minutes without even visual aid.
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High temperatures are bad for hardons.
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>>17345292
I've tried in winter and summer and with the Ac on
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>>17345295
Do you masturbate a lot? Do you ejaculate a lot? Look at porn a lot?

I've gotten to the point where I don't look at porn or only one day a week at most. Then when I make out with a woman I'm hard as fuck. Maybe lay off the porn and sexy chick pics and see what that does?

>met this girl on my leadership class in my univ
>We already know each other for 4 months now
>she is cute, funny and silly but I like the way she is silly, great gal
>In this short period of time we had become good friends
>but she´s taken
>I´ve grown feeling for her this last month
>what should I do?
>She is 18, I am 20 and she is with this 18 dude she knew from her school and shite
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>>17345274
Accept the fact that she is taken and move on you fag.
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>>17345283
Fuck that shit. OP show her you can be a better man than her man. That is if you really want her. If you don't then move on.
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I want to do that, but at the same time she is not with that much with the idea of weed and such since I smoke lol

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