"I want you to WANT to do _______"
What are yalls thoughts on this phrase. Is it fair to want that, or that a sign that things aren't meant to be?
>>17347522
>"I want you to WANT to do _______"
Robot here, let me put it like this.
I want some women to WANT to have sex with me.
But lifes not about what we want/need/deserve/feel as thought we've earned. We get what we get and he have to deal with the hand we've been dealt as best as we can.
"I want you to want to do ____" is just entitled as fuck. And I hate using the word 'entitled'. It's become the buzzword of the decade.
I mean, you're allowed to want shit, but jesus christ, don't go around telling people what you want them to want.
It's close to thought policing.
>>17347522
I'd say it depends on the context.
Wanting people to want something can sound cunty, but I'd say it counts as encouragement with lazy/apathetic people (motivational speeches follow this pattern, don't they?)
It depends. Sometimes you're just incompatible, sometimes you've just got a shitty attitude.
/adv/, recently I've been getting evil intentions and been wanting to steal phones out of people's hands.
It first occurred to me while walking downtown and saw several people holding out their phones as if they were taking pictures. At first I thought they were just taking pictures of the local monuments, but it looks like they were playing that new pokemon app thing. They all seemed so distracted, and they all looked like weak victims. Mostly asian manlets or some fat fucks.
I went home thinking about it and yesterday I even went out scouting to find even more people doing it. I also scouted during the nighttime to find less people. Something that really caught my eye was that so many of them were going in to a public bathroom to take pictures of the pokemons or whatever. I could totally just wait and snatch it. It'd be so easy. I'm a good runner, pretty /fit/, and know how to hide my identity pretty well. Been living in the city for a long time and know my way around if I get chased.
The best part is that all my city would do, should I get caught, is get me some small fine of about $300. I totally feel like doing it for the rush. I don't even need the phones, I'd just dump them somewhere.
How do I stop these evil tendencies?
Stop being edgy and a Junior in Highschool. That should clear up all symptoms.
>>17347496
/thread
>>17347478
I steal small shit and stuff at night to get my fix.
The thrill is in getting caught for me.
You're going to get your ass beat OP. dont get in the way of some autistic man child and their pokemon
Eurofag here, want to live in the States. What do? Buy a Greencard/SSN off some hoodrat in the Bronx?
>>17347468
Literally come here, and work under the table like every other illegal immigrant.
Why would you want to leave Europe for the States? Are you stupid?
>>17347468
if you have skills, apply. if you dont have skills just work under the table.
try to get married, and / or have a baby.
gay marriage is legal now so its a lot easier to become a citizen through marriage if you can stomach a faggot sucking ur dick
Hey /adv/. How do I stop being clingy/possessive of someone?
There is this guy I met online that I know for a couple of years now, we have some feelings towards each other and would probably be together if not for the distance.
He's a great guy and all, but I've found myself getting depressed and anxious when he's away for several days (he's rather introverted).
I know my feelings are stupid and I really shouldn't care this much about someone I only know online, so how do I stop myself from feeling so clingy/jealous?
Clingy girls are cute. Wish someone cared about me that much.
Sorry anon, it's hard to advise you. You care about him but you want to care less?
>>17347445
Go out more, find things that you enjoy doing, meet new people. You feel that way because it seems like he is what you are spending your time thinking about. If you had other things and other people to keep you occupied you wouldn't care as much.
>>17347540
>Clingy girls are cute.
Haven't dated much, have you?
OP, you just need to focus your attention elsewhere like reasonable anon >>17347545
mentioned. Clingy/possessive people lack a certain level of self-worth/self-esteem/self-confidence and are typically afraid whoever can/will easily move on.
Find things to help build you up.
Is there any reason to "come out of the closet" if you're a bi male with a preference for women?
If you are crying for attention, and want your life to have an extra complication then yes anon please do it
>>17347423
Only if you're interested in a relationship with another guy IMO. "Coming out" as bi is basically just telling all your friends and family that you're a turboslut. Not saying there's anything wrong with letting friends or a cool sibling know that but unless you plan on coming home with a guy do your parents really need to know what you fuck?
>>17347423
Eh not really, how often do you fuck dudes? Maybe if you were to get in a relationship with a guy, otherwise does anyone need to know? If it's just a sex thing, then would you go around telling everyone what your favorite positions were?
How common is it for people to be depressed? And how common is it to be thinking about suicide constantly?
Because I googled it and most sources say stuff like "everyone faces depression at least once in their life".
Also, is it considered "good advice" to tell someone that "a lot of people go through the same thing you are going through at least once in their life" ? Because, I don't know if it's special snowflake syndrome I have or what, but when people tell me that "a lot of people go through the same" as me it makes me feel worse because it just seems like other people are dealing with the same problems I have much better than I do and it makes me feel like a bigger loser.
Yeah, I can relate. Do you go ro therapy/are you planing to? And from what I've heard not everyone faces depression sometime in their lifetime, but that everyone can experience feeling down/sad.
And the "everyone goes through it advice" is probably used so that you wont feel alone with your problems, but I agree with you...it just feel then that what's a big deal to you isnt a big deal at all. Which sucks. Oh well, that's how I feel atleast.
I really suggest you to start talking to a professionel or someone that might be able to help you, because If you feel that you cant handle it then you should definetly ask for advice or help
>>17347404
Thanks! Yes I'm planning to see a therapist.
>>17347360
>Major depression affects about 6.7% of the U.S. population over age 18, according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Overall, between 20% and 25% of adults may suffer an episode of major depression at some point during their lifetime.
It looks like 20%-25% of the population has only ONE episode of depression, but 6.7% of the population has major depressive disorder that occurs multiple times.
The bottom line is that, you shoudnt feel like you shouldnt get treatment just because you think it's very common. Treatment can always improve your life and that is what matters the most. You have the right to be happy.
Also, some people will claim that they are depressed while they actually arent. The word "depression" is used unappropriately so often that it makes people believe that it's normal to have it. Well, it's absolutely not normal.
Good luck with your therapist appointment, anon. I hope it goes well.
I'm thinking of starting something like a music blog where I write essays on things music-related (not reviews). Is this a good idea? My main goal is to improve my knowledge and ability to discuss music. Also, does anyone know a good site to do this on?
Blogspot maybe?
It is a good idea. Just make sure you focus on creating content you're proud of, not on marketing and making sure people are reading it.
Good work is its own reward.
>>17347341
I'd probably go on a blog like that
A few months ago I started to meet up with someone from /r9k/ because he lived in the same city and offered me to be my friend or atleast tries to be. He also offered me to introduce myself to his group of friends, but I'm too autistic to deal with more than 1 person. After a while I found out he was gay, but there were already signs for this before that because he was really feminine, did stuttertyping while we talked etc. We spent the weekend together and on sunday we got pretty drunk, my memory is still really blurry, but I can remember how he sucked my dick, which is still really fucking with my head. While I woke up he was also cuddling me, I don't even know anymore. I puked 4 times already and feel like I was betrayed or something. It's also like a feeling of shame and guilt, my selfloathing has also gotten much worse. I don't really know what to do from here, I'm ignoring his messages and want do be left alone, but he's also the only person I know. But when I look at his messages I'm just more and more disgusted and my mind gets worse. I feel so used, he knew that I have trouble with all this stuff and still used the moment while I was drunk. Man, I feel so dirty. What is wrong with me
YOU WERE LEGALLY RAPED. Go to the police and tell them.
Do you live in NYC?
If so I'll be your non rapey friend.
>>17347378
Is it rape even if I seem to the be guy who did the penetration thing. The other problem is that he has friends, a job etc. and I'm just an autistic neet. I'm garbage compared to him, he is atleast contributing to society and I'm not doing anythingThey will probably also make fun of me at the police station. Nobody will take someone seriously who says stuff like some other guy raped him or something. Why did this had to happen, we were okay friends I guess, I'm not sure because he is my first friend since elementary school, and now everything is over, not just over, I feel totally gross.
>>17347408
I don't live in the us, but even if, I'm a really shitty friend, atleast I realized that now, and have trouble when it comes to interacting with others, still thanks for the offer.
Depressed right now for reasons other than "hurr im a loser and ill complain on 4chan"
What can I do to make my mood up?
Learn advanced mathematics online.
The Internet is amazing, the biggest library on the world...
>>17347330
Go lift weights.
Seriously that always cheers me up.
If it's sunny and warm where you live, go outside for a walk. If you don't feel better after spending some time in the sun then you're probably not human.
>>17347330
I find that one of the best things to do when I'm feeling down is get on my bike and go for a ride, and monologue to myself. Helps me get all of my bad feelings out and straighten how I feel about things. Also if you live in the city, it's a good opportunity to see some things and people you normally wouldn't, and maybe even meet a new friend.
I'm looking for a movie to watch this night.
I'm looking for a movie that describes WWII through a point of view of a nazist family, if possible, I would like to listen some old german songs into it, like lili marleen, and to hear about hitler politic movements
Lore
Just watch The Greatest Story Never Told, if you haven't already. Education is superior to entertainment.
>>17347464
This
Hello. What's a quick way to die besides gun? Or alternatively something painless. I can't spend any money really as my girlfriend and son will need all of it.
You are a puss puss.
>>17347269
Why? Because he doesn't like black people?
>>17347261
If you don't want to screw your girlfriend and son over irreperably, man up and get to work to provide for them. Create a life for your son, don't fuck over a kid because of your emotional problems FFS.
he gets mad at me for no reason but he is a different person like the next day until he gets tilted in something he lets his anger out on me here is an example of unedited chat messages with me and him:[2:08:37 PM] Him: fuck off
[2:08:59 PM] Him: 'oh you fuckin tilted uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh'
[2:09:03 PM] Him: fucking moron
[2:09:10 PM] Him: I know what I did
[2:09:14 PM] Him: fuck you
[2:09:25 PM] Him: seriously
[2:09:40 PM] Him: you have to be one of the dumbest people ever
[2:09:49 PM] Him: I'm not joking
[2:09:52 PM] Me: ok
[2:10:08 PM] Him: sure I'm guessing youll span 'ok'
[2:10:23 PM] Him: like a fucking retard
[2:10:32 PM] Me: im sure your are going to insult me for no reason
[2:10:32 PM] Him: I'm sure it's the only word you know
[2:11:10 PM] Him: you fucking deserve to b in a special ed class you you fucking idiot
[2:11:23 PM] Him: it's not even worth playing with you
[2:11:28 PM] Him: don't know why I do
[2:11:41 PM] Him: you fucking make every situation worse
[2:11:48 PM] Him: you useless piece of shit
[2:12:12 PM] Him: why'd you turn dnd on?
[2:12:17 PM] Him: you idiot
[2:12:24 PM] Him: worthless
[2:12:27 PM] Him: peice
[2:12:28 PM] Him: of
[2:12:31 PM] Him: shit
[2:12:55 PM] Him: you literally arethe definition of retarded
Drop that cunt immediately.
>>17347211
sounds like a dick. dont let him treat you like that, thats fucked up and bad for youre emotional wellbeing
Bruh what were you guys doing that set I'm off haha, how old are you guys?
Quick question.
Ive never had sex without a condom. Fair possibility that will no longer be the case soon.
Where do i blow my load? Obviously im going to want to fill that p to the brim but generally when i have sex i cum first but stay hard, or worst case scenario get half-chub for a minute before getting back at it. In the past ive always just popped on another condom and kept plowing away.
Is hitting your own sloppy seconds messy as fuck or is it alright? Should i blow on her stomach/ass/ect and wipe it off? Or just berry my dik so far in her etc etc??
>Unusual sex question thread
If she's on BC and you don't mind splashing around in your own juices, burry that dick in her. Otherwise blast all over her back, stomach, face, whatever. If she's down, have her start sucking you right when you're about to blow and have her swallow that shit.
I prefer my women much older than me: 40 to 48. Until recently i've always been using condoms, but my new partner wants me to go in raw.
What are the chances of women getting pregnant past 40?
>>17347201
If I don't cum balls deep, it is only masturbation, or practice.
So, i have a long time friend who recently started injecting steroids, he seems absolutely convinced that it is safe, ive tried to convince him and show him that it really is not, but he wont listen.
this is in its early stages but i just dont know what to do, he seems to have swallowed so much pseudo-science and "studies" he probably got from the people selling it to him/encouraging him.
i feel ive tried everything i can do, i dont know how to handle this, i cant have people doing that kind of stuff in my life. its mind altering, hugely unhealthy and potentially fatal.
what the hell do i do?
>>17347194
>i cant have people doing that kind of stuff in my life
You sound like a little bitch
Let him get jacked, man.
He could live his whole life with a side effect of fat and lazy, or he could live his life with a mild side effect of backne and smaller nuts while he's juicing
Let him do what the fuck he wants.
Hoy goys, there's a public pool close to me, and I want to watch girls swimming there. But the thing is, I'm really self conscious, so if they yell "Pervert! Why are you staring at us?" or something like that, what do I do? Should I put in some headphones and pretend I can't hear them?
There's a road right next to there too, what if someone comes up and asks me what I'm doing? Should I just play it cool and say I'm interested in swimming or some shit so I'm just watching for fun?
go swimming as well
wear sunglasses, pretend you're working on your tan, always be "looking" at your smart phone.
Sunglasses and headphones.