My boyfriend has had 6 partners before me, most of them being

Because he wasn't raised to think having sex is something to be overly concerned about. Why complicate it?

>>17495416
>and the emotional weight of it is so strong?
it isnt for many people. if purity is so important to you maybe you arent made for one another.

You somehow think sex is a bad thing. Most people don't.

>>17495421
Isn't it, though? STDs, Aids, pregnancy and the emotional stress of it begs that it be treated with more thought and consideration than that.

>>17495424
See, this is what I hate about /adv/. No thought or actual advice given, just "if you don't X then break up". If you have nothing constructive to add or good advice to give just keep quiet.

>>17495441
Contraceptives and condoms exist for a reason. Literally everything you listed is 99.9% taken care of when you use a condom and talk to the person before you touch crotches. They're designed to prevent these things. It really sounds to me like paranoia rather than consideration.

>>17495416
Isn't that too late to worry about that? You gave your virginity to a maleslut so now you're on the same level

>>17495416
>6
>so many partners
Really?

>>17495416

I'm a guy, and I have the exact same view on this as you do. I asked the same question last night but I got attacked by half of advice.

I don't understand why it's so casual either. I don't understand how someone could be so ok with attaching themselves to the body of a person they have no emotional connection with. Or just don't know that person at all. The fact that they are sharing a incredibably intimate and personal experience with more or less, a stranger.

I've had sex twice with 2 random hook ups in the past, and honestly it is a big regret. It was awkward, uncomfortable, and I didn't even enjoy it.

>>17495452
My point is that because there are so many things to watch out for and prevent, shouldn't it be taken more seriously? You can't casually skydive, so why casually have sex?

>>17495465
Well, to someone who has had no partners before him, yes it is a lot.

>>17495465

You don't think 6 random hook ups isn't a lot?

Yes, it is normal not to feel obligated to stay a virgin. Depending on his perspective he could have seen the ONE soulmate in each of those 6 at one point, so the worries you listed would be something he would accept.
Even if it is not that way, people have natural urges, you have to accept him as he is and with the life he had before you.

>>17495473
Literally apples and oranges. You can't assume the risk of having sex, something that people have done since people existed, carries the same weight as jumping our of a plane. Because they're not related in any way.

Sex can be risky, nobody is saying it isn't. But to compare it to skydiving? I think you're just straight up paranoid.

>>17495483

>Sex can be risky, nobody is saying it isn't. But to compare it to skydiving? I think you're just straight up paranoid.

More people die from AIDS every year than people do from skydiving.

Even if the ratio was the same for number of people who skydive and the number of people who have sex. There would still be far more deaths from AIDS

>>17495472
It's all a matter of perspective. You are saying within one post that it blows your mind that people can share something so intimate with someone they're not connected to, AND that you've had two random hook ups. To some people those would be unfathomable in themselves.

It ultimately all boils down to how you look at it. Some people get along with everyone, others like barely anyone at all. You can prefer to be with someone who agrees with your personal preferences/inclinations in that regard, but it falls flat to try to argue that because another person doesn't look at it the way that you do, they must feel x and y way about it. It is pointless to try to pin that down, they are just different. I think that for many people who enjoy hook ups, it is not so much comparable to emotional sex as an altogether different experience that they also enjoy.

>>17495472
Thank you. It feels like I'm an anomaly for having this view so it's nice to know I'm not alone.

To me the connection that goes into the joining of two bodies is very important. You are literally sticking your body inside another/allowing someone inside you. These are vulnerable body parts that can create life. Doesn't that call for more consideration and thought?

>>17495481
>you have to accept him as he is and with the life he had before you
No she doesn't

>>17495472
This; sex is culturally glorified and fucking around is encouraged.

>>17495473
>>>17495452
>My point is that because there are so many things to watch out for and prevent, shouldn't it be taken more seriously? You can't casually skydive, so why casually have sex?

It's not a satanic ritual, you don't have to make an appointment for it either, your view on it is just incredibly strict. Practicing safe sex doesn't take a lot of preparation. Not every sexual intercourse is build on trust and love.

>>17495487
>people

>>17495490
I'm pretty rational/desynthetised and not at all religious, but I've to agree with you. I alwayd found sex to be something intimate, I've only had it with people I thought were the one. The lad may have thought those people were special, how old is he? How old are you?

>>17495488

The thing is casual sex devalues meaningful sex. I'm not saying the whole "you have to be a virgin to marriage" but sex should be something you do with someone you actually care for. Not some slut or Chad that you found at the bar a few hours ago. If I have passionate, intimate sex with a girl who I've known for years, someone who I truly care for. Then a few weeks later she's getting fucked silly by a drunk Chad who picked her up at the bar. Then that makes what we had meaningless to her, because it's just "sex". If she got it from me, and then got it from some other guy a few weeks later. Who says she'll even remember what we had?

>>17495490

That's what I would think. It's memories you create with someone. Why wouldn't you want to create that with someone you care for? I don't see why people think it's so casual and normal to just go down on random girls muffs, or for a girl to swallow the load from a complete stranger. That is all extremely personal. You are literally being covered it the byproduct of another person.. I felt gross after I had sex with those 2 randoms. I really wish I would have waited

I just don't get it.

>>17495488
My boyfriend has told me that those hookups were meaningless and were mainly just to experience pleasure for a small moment because of stressful things going on in his life at the time. I can sympathize with what he's saying, and he has assured me that since being with me he has no desire to ever go back to hooking up. I guess casual sex is just what people devolve to when they can't get anything better?

>>17495493
>Not every sexual intercourse is build on trust and love.
Then what is the point?

>We live in a world where sex, something as common as breathing, scares people.

Fuck, some people are even afraid of breathing. How does one get to that point? I'm not trying to say casual sex doesn't have risks. But in this day and age what doesn't? You drive a car? That's riskier than sex any day of the week. But people do it, does that mean they're reckless?

>>17495502
He didn't. I asked him and he said they were just people he could stand at the time while he was drunk. Ultimately they don't mean anything to him. He is 26 and I am 24.

>>17495511
>Then what is the point?

There is none. This is just what western society has reduced sex to. A totally meaningless act, so you can feel good for 20 minutes and be done with it.

>>>17495493 (You)
>>Not every sexual intercourse is build on trust and love.
>Then what is the point?

Take a look at how much porn gets consumed daily in average. It objectifies sex and makes it an interest rather than a romantic thing

>>17495511
>What's the point?

There isn't one, people get horny, and when you get horny sex is likely to happen. Why does it need to have a point?

>>17495507
>The thing is casual sex devalues meaningful sex.
This is an individual case. In -your- eyes it can devalue sex with someone if they've been around and that's fair, but you can't guess at how they experience things.
Do you even experience it like that? Do you feel that sex with you is less special than if you'd never had any hook up to begin with? Or do two hook ups not count and the boundary is drawn at some undefined place that still includes you on the quality side?

>Then that makes what we had meaningless to her
This reasoning I don't understand. It is like you are saying that emotionless sex is meaningless, yet still powerful enough to wipe out the impact of sex with emotional depth. That seems counter-intuitive.

It mostly sounds to me like you're afraid to trust that someone who experiences intimacy and casual sex differently than you doesn't value you less than you value her.

>>17495513

True, but why is it deemed so casual to just swap fluids with a stranger?

If a stranger walked up to you at a bar and said "hey take a sip!" And handed you their beer glass they just drank from, you wouldn't drink it would you? Probably not because they just had their mouth on it, and you don't even know them. So why would you make out with them?

>>17495511
>I guess casual sex is just what people devolve to when they can't get anything better?

Possibly, but it's also just different. Compare it like masturbation and sex. Good sex is intimate, way more passionate and altogether a more profound and pleasurable experience than masturbation. Yet there can still be moments where you feel the need to just get yourself off quickly in a few minutes to clear your mind before you fall asleep.

Sex with emotion is better but you are also trying hard to please someone special to you and make a good impression on them. You are also very vulnerable because their judgment would hurt so much worse than any stranger's. You are also investing in a relationship that encompasses more, and more stressful components, than just your sex life.

A hook up is just that. You get off and to some people it is exciting. It is more about yourself than about sharing something.

>>17495528
Let me just put on my moth condom, which essentially eliminates the risk of me getting anything negative from drinking that beer, and I'd be totes down because beer is fun.

>>17495518
Well, it's not too much for his age, depending on the country, but I do feel the same as you. I've only had one meaningful relationship and differences in our views of sex tore us apart. In the end, I'll fall for someone whose looks, brains and personality are appealing to me, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit I wish that girl had your views in this regard. It's hard to offer any solace, anon, as it's ultimately a clash between the two of you and how you view this issue.

>>17495507
This. The entire purpose of casual flings is a temporary connection that has no meaning, so what is the point? You go to a club or bar with your inhibitions already lowered, enter into an environment meant to pressure you to act out of character, meet someone who you are only attracted to out of primal instinct and surface level personality and then give into those instincts just out of animalistic need.

That is scary.

>>17495513
I wish i could breath as much as i have sex.

Imagine how cool would it be to stay underwater forever?

>>17495526

Both times I've had sex I felt pressured into doing it. I was in my early 20s and everyone that age is all about getting laid. So I felt pressured because I wasn't. So i hooked up with 2 girls. I didn't even want to do it to begin with. And wish I didn't. Looking back, it was gross that i let myself attach to someone I didn't like and didn't even really know. Just thinking about that is gross.

I'm not saying everyone has to be a virgin until getting married. Just it should be done with someone special.

>>17495542
You can apply this to anything at all. Most of your days are filled with stuff that isn't going to benefit your long term future or create a lasting memory. People are hard wired to not care about that logic and still get attached and invested in their everyday life.

What's the point in going out dancing or to the movies for a night when it doesn't establish anything? What's the point in striking up a friendship you know won't last indefinitely? What's the point of trying to have a relationship with someone you don't see marrying?
It is to keep yourself busy, to entertain yourself and satisfy short term desires, and in the process hopefully growing as a person and gaining stories and life experience.

Stuffing yourself at a banquet is giving in to an animalistic need, too. That in itself doesn't mean much, people do it all the time.

And for the record, I've had one partner very much by choice (though for different reasons), before someone starts insisting that you must either think that casual sex is inherently wrong or spend your time fucking around.

>>17495522
>>17495525
>Why does it need to have a point?
Because the act of sex has a point: procreation. I find it very sad that an act based on creating life and the joining of two bodies in passion and ecstacy has been reduced to having no point for some but to just feel good for a few moments.

>>17495416
Just stop. Sexual partners doesn't mean shit!!
i've been with 30+ while my partner have been with 15+ and we've been happy since the day we met three years ago, it doesn't matter at all. and you should get over the feeling, cause one day you'll maybe break up and you'll meet someone who is virgin and that person will feel the same way as you feel right now, which again is stupid cause just because you had sex with more persons than the other person doesn't mean you don't love them

>>17495553

The difference is you are literally attaching your naked body to another persons. And both swapping body fluids. With someone you don't know or care for...

...why?

>>17495556
So when you and your significant other have sex it's for the sole purpose of procreation? After all that's why sex exists. To have sex for any other reason is just wrong right?

>>17495518
You were a virgin at 24? Just goes to show you that if a girl is still a virgin at that age, it's because she has some serious issues.

>>17495553
The thing is that sex can feel a lot more intimate and special than those things you mentioned when done with the right person, and that doing it with random or quasi-random strangers detract from that connection. I wouldn't tell anyone my secrets, share with them what I'm writing or composing, etc. Sex is, biologcally, aimed at reproduction, which is the very reason for romantic love to even exist. It is normal to feel compelled to treat it as something special.

>>17495550
So? Maybe the girl felt pressured by Chad, guys can be pretty pushy. You say you didn't like it, so why did you do it again with someone else?

For the record I don't think it matters at all who you had or did not have sex with and I fully believe that you disliked it, I'm just trying to show you that someone's sex life isn't as opaque (not sure if you can even use this word the way I mean it but I hope you understand me anyway) as it seems. I have only ever kissed one person and I was crazy about them, and if I'd have small talk with you on a less personal level and you told me about those hook ups I would without even realizing it think that you were more laid back about the concept of casual sex than I was. What you are saying here proves the opposite.

My point is that the way people feel about sex ideologically and a track list of what they've done doesn't always line up 1:1, and whether you like it or not, you're an example of that yourself.

>>17495563
Because sex feels good. People like feeling good. Casual sex, while risky. Can be conducted in a safe manner that both people enjoy. Do you hate enjoyment?

>>17495563
Because you enjoy it, or are curious, or feel pressured and/or like you have something to prove. To take revenge on someone or because you want the confirmation that you are attractive.

It's all subjective. Both why you would do it and how "bad" or impactful it is to have skin on skin contact. There is no objective standard for it, just opinions that don't necessarily contradict each other.

>>17495567
See
>>17495573

>>17495416
Hey, mine's a stripper and has had sex with over 50 guys. Could be worse nignog

>>17495582
>My point is that the way people feel about sex ideologically and a track list of what they've done doesn't always line up 1:1, and whether you like it or not, you're an example of that yourself.
This is true. My post is an example of that as well. I'm only trying to understand the real reason people defend casual hookups and see it as inherently ok. All the answers I've been given seem defensive so far or like there is some hidden underlying overcompensation coming out.

>>17495584
Good wine feels good, but it's better at the right temperature, with the right food and mood and in the right glass. Drinking good wine on a regular water glass with a burger will eventually make my enjoyment of an expensive wine decrease.

It's not avoiding sex or trating it as something bad, but rather something to be enjoyed in the right way, like getting those expensive headphones and flac for a good classical recording instead of listening to it while in the subway on a shitty mp3.

>>17495582
>>17495584


I did it again because my friends were pressuring me. Saying "dude it's been a year since you got laid?!! Dude you need to get some pussy" I heard it so much I felt so pressured.

What I mean tho is there are girls who think casual sex is nothing. one of my female friends (who I actually like) has casual sex a lot. She think it's the most normal thing and tells me I should be hooking up with more girls. It literally makes me sick to my stomach knowing she is out with different guys (she doesn't know this). But i just think it's gross, and still don't understand how it can be so casual to put your mouth in someone elses. Or to put your mouth on someone else's groin. How is that casual?

>>17495585
I understand that, but I truly believe most people are lying or are in denial when they say it's meaningless and they just want to feel good.

>>17495604
That's what you're not getting. Your right way and my right way conflict, but neither a wrong, why can't you see that?

>>17495609
I'm not saying your way is wrong, I'm trying to get you to understand why some people disagreeing with you is perfectly natural, and why your attitude towards it may demean you in their eyes. I loathe reggaeton despite being a positivist.

>>17495601
Because they don't put much importance on the act of sex and instead put importance on having sex.

>>17495605
Yea, societal pressure is definitely a contributing factor in the trivialization of sex and everyone has felt it at one point or another. I feel like the real meaning to casual sex is loneliness. People are lonely, feel empty and struggle to do what they can to feel some semblance of love and connection in their lives. In the absence of that deep intimate connection you are describing, this is all people have been so they will fight, defend and stand by what little happiness they have.

>>17495624
Can you elaborate further?

>>17495625
Sex is also a power dynamic and being sexually active is a display of one's popularity and attractiveness; its pure narcisisim oftentimes.

>>17495625

>I feel like the real meaning to casual sex is loneliness.

You know what... I think you're right. I think that's the reason. Because now that I think of it, my female friend sends me these pictures and demotivatonal posters that show people alone and say like "My Relationship, as alive as the dinosaurs" shit like that. but then she goes home with guys and has sex with them.

>>17495616
I don't look at you and differently for not having casual sex, so why don't I get the same treatment?

>>17495416
>the emotional weight of it is so strong
No, it's not. Sex is not something mythical, is just an act that leave you satisfied. Like eat in a good restaurant or beat a boss in Dark Souls first try. The good of relationship is the intimacy and the cute things, actually. Sex is overrated (i mean, in a relationship).

>>17495646
Because people get to decide how to think of other people based on whatever the fuck they want. You can of course start a free sex dictatorship if you manage and round up the dissenters, but I doubt that's a possibility; still people would have their own views, if concealed.

>>17495631
Let's make yet another not so good food analogy.

Some people love to go to 'all you can eat' buffets because they can get stuffed as fuck for less (they care about eating/getting full).

Some people love to go to great restaurants and even though they eat less and pay more they enjoy the experience (they care about the act of eating).

This is not a perfect analogy but i hope you get the idea.

>>17495638

That shit pisses me off. I haven't had sex in 5 years, by choice. And I can tell people pitty me. I take care of myself, I have a simple, but decent haircut, dress right, I have a fulltime job, and in working on pursing a passion of mine. But because I don't go out and hook up with girls, people either thing I'm a faggot or that I just can't get girls. It's frustrating that it's literally a status symbol. And the thing is, I don't even talk about it. But casually people ask "hey how was your weekend?" I'll say whatver I did, and they always say "man, you need to go out and find a girlfriend. Or hit up the bar or something dude?" Almost every week I hear that from people.

>>17495660
Stop giving a fuck, you also look down on other people for your own reasons. >>17495654 goes both ways.

>>17495638
I agree, but even that goes back to loneliness. A need to be accepted by others, and sexual prowess is manifested proof of that acceptance. That's why people defend it so vehemently. Long lasting, emotionally fulfilling relationships have always been hard to come by, so people who can't invest the time and emotional vulnerability choose to casually hookup as it places them in situations where you can get quick relief and satisfaction of desirability.

>>17495666

The difference is I don't voice it to them, and I don't treat them different. I've never told my female friend that I think it's disgusting that she has sex a lot. I'll never tell her that. My other friend who hook up with girls a lot. I have never told them that either. Yeah it bothers me, but I'm not going to tell them that.

>>17495673
Well, tell them that you don't want to do something if you don't, find new friends or suck it up. Have a spine but do not do something rash. That's life in almost every regard.

>>17495672
It's an ego boost, some people need those more than others or use them as a substitute for meaningful relationships, some people just enjoy them.

>>17495649
It is one of the biggest ways we communicate with others aside from talking, so no it is a big deal emotionally, especially in relationships. You are getting naked and exposing yourself to another and allowing them to join with your body. That is important and special

>>17495601
I'm the poster that you were replying to. Obviously I can't speak for everyone but I don't feel like there's necessarily one right way to deal with sex. I think there are wrong ways, like having sex to feel like an okay human being, or trying to force love this way. But I think the right way depends from person to person.

Again, people experience things differently, have different social needs, different sex drives, a different way of relating to the world around them. It seems completely artificial that there would be a singular way of enjoying sex that works optimally for all those different people.

For me it's not about arguing that it's inherently good (what is?) but that it's not inherently bad. And that having had bad meaningless sex isn't the end of the world and doesn't ruin a person.

>>17495684
Let me guess, you are a girl, right? Only them try to romanticize and elevate something natural like sex. There are people that fuck with others without even ask for their name. You not allow them "to join with your body", you agree to let them pleasure you, while you pleasure him. So it's a give and take, you don't allow shit.

>>17495710
>Only them try to romanticize and elevate something natural like sex.
Uhh... might want to head over to /r9k/ some time soon, so you can see that this is patently false.

>>17495710
I've been making most of the posts defending that stance and my schlong is larger than your tv remote. Do not project.

>>17495706
Thank you, anon. You put this topic in a perspective I can understand.

>>17495722
No problem!

For the record I realized I hadn't yet mentioned it, but I do absolutely think that hook ups are glorified in popular culture. But sex in general is used in a very weird and detached (from real life) sense there. To be fair I only know about three people in real life who have really been around (10-20 partners), at least that I knew of and felt comfortable enough with to ask them questions about it, and no one I ever met experienced it remotely in that hyped up way. It is virtually always bittersweet, if not within one and the same hook up then at least between hook ups.

Human sex is a complex series of acts and plays a critical role in group and relationship dynamics. Procreation is just a part of it.
It is perfectly, biologically normal "idealizing" sex. Busting a nut and striving to find a meaning behind things both define us as humans.

Casual sex nowadays is just hygienic and safe enough for people to develop different ideologies and beliefs.

>>17495447
>"if you don't X then break up".

That is actual advice. You can't change people. You can't make people like what they hate for the same reasons people can't just make you like what you hate.

Too many people spend their time in shitty relationships with people because of sunk costs and the foolish belief they're the one special person who's going to change the kind of person their partner has been most of their life.

But lots of people don't think or want to hear that. They want to hear, "Do X and the person will go against their nature and do what you want."

Now, OP wasn't asking what she should do, but *if* Purity is that important to her, there's not much any random person is going to do/say to convince her that a guy with 6 prior sexual partners is pure.

>>17495416
>6 partners
>so many
oh sweet, innocent child
you will find that this is the lower end of that spectrum. guys with a body count lower than that will be either very rare, or very undesirable. the past is the past. maybe hes given up his whorish ways for you. maybe hes seen the reason that some people take sex a little more seriously. regardless of the reason, hes with you now. you can either accept his past or leave him because of it. neither of these things are wrong, but you must choose. if you do not, you will wallow in doubt and frustration until he leaves you over it. my advice is to leave the past in the past, while keeping a sharp eye out for inappropriate behavior for the first stretch of the relationship. we all deserve a chance to start over.

t. former manwhore trying to clean up his act

>had casual sex

huge red flag
you bf is most likely a millennial liberal
abort immediately

>>17495416
I've taken girls virginities before and I've had 50 partners

You'll be fine

>>17495825
Can't wait till the boomers start dying of cancer

>>17495416
stay away from him unless you want him to use you like a cheap whore and toss you away like a cum rag like he did to the rest of the girls.

You blue pillsd idiots fail to comprehend that men are literally built to spread their seed and fuck as many different women as possible while women can only birth one child at a time.

With a woman you know for SURE that the kid is hers. As a man? You have no fucking clue. It's your imperative to spread your seed.

Pair-bonding ability is negatively affected by sexual encounters, but it has waaaaaaaaay more severe consequences on women's psyches than it does on men. Estrogen ain't nothin to fuck with.

Good key works on many locks
Bad locks open for any key.

OP Be lucky this guy gives you ANY of his time at all and shut your whore mouth

>>17495845
>hurr we men need to fuck around it's our birth right
>but women who spread are trash

Good luck figuring this out for yourself.

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>>17495416
> My boyfriend
You had sex before marriage?
Slut.

Enjoy being spoiled, worthless goods when he dumps you for fuck #8.

Maybe next life you'll listen when your mother tells you No fling without the ring.

>>17495815
Thank you for the advice. We have been speaking on it and he says that it never meant anything to him and he loves what we have now/won't go back because of how special it is with me. I am working on accepting his past because as time has gone on I realize he is a good person, I just needed advice on how people get to the point of having sex with random people so casually.

>>17495856
Women are universally regarded as property and are quite literally inferior to men in every way shape or form.

It must suck being a sexless beta

>>17495868
It's called having an erection you fucking religious nut job

>>17495872
Not as much as it sucks to look forward to having relationships with people you loathe.

>>17495880
You mean manipulating stupid sluts to drink my cum? It's great

>>17495845
nah casual sex is both very damaging for both sexes. men have to risk false rape charges and the government punishes male sexuality by making them pay child support.the government will stick their hands on any assets you have to make you pay child support and rape the shit out of your paycheck. If you don't want to pay then you can enjoy prison time with bubba. also did you forget STDs are on the rise because of casual sex.

>>17495893
>men have to risk false rape charges and the government punishes male sexuality by making them pay child support.t

This only happens if you don't make your bitch orgasm

Learn to fuck nerd

>>17495891
For now perhaps... sex and love are easy to come by when young. It's the second half of life you should be worried about.

>>17495902
Men age like wine women age like milk

Maybe you did life wrong and chugged beer and Mountain Dew into your 30s and became the Dad Bod in which case I've got some sad news for you

>>17495908
That means that women socially hit their prime around twenty-twenty five and men around thirty-thirty five. It doesn't mean that cute girls think that your average fifty year old man is hot shit, don't delude yourself.

>>17495916
Take my argument and stretch it until it becomes ridiculous. Cute.

>>17495872
Wow, you have sex with different women, everyone is so proud of you. kek
Love when "alphas" think that having sex is something to brag about even if you are not a teenager anymore.

>>17495927
Did you miss my second half of life comment? A couple of decades is a long time to be on your own and try to get laid every once in a while. By the time you're middle aged no doubt life expectancy for men is at least around eighty five.

Whatever suits you but I'm happy I don't have to come along for that ride.

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>>17495872
>Women are universally regarded as property and are quite literally inferior to men in every way shape or form.

>>17495929
Having sex is nothing to brag about but being a white knight and sexless is something to be ashamed of. This is what you are doing. Tip that fedora harder

>>17495932
>LOOK AT THIS GREEN TEXT AND IMAGE I POSTED LOOK I DID IT AGAIN GUYS

>>17495940

>I did it again

Just got into this thread bud. How many katanas do you own?

>>17495868
you are welcome. remember the relativity of it all, it will help. you may be put off by a man that has had 6 partners, but this is really nothing in comparison to most other (desirable) guys out there at that age. for instance, if i told you my own body count you would probably vomit immediately. that being said, many people are aware of this, and i am still pursued regularly. what i mean by this is that a promiscuous past doesnt necessarily indicate poor character (but being realistic, often does). keep your wits about you, and avoid wearing rose colored glasses- people that do not mean well are perceptive of this, and will use it to exploit you. do your best to remain objective. giving him a chance is kind of you, but do not let kindness become naiveté.

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>>17495901
>he think being good in bed will protect him from a false rape and child support

I bet you think this applies to them staying loyal to you

>>17495416
Now you know how /r9k/ feels

>>17495966
What is your body count, anon and what makes you want to change your manwhore ways?

>>17495971
Lol hoes are never loyal. But they're less likely to fuck you over if you fuck them properly

>>17495959
You're dad watches niggers fuck your mom

In my experience, promiscuity stems from a place of insecurity or unresolved issues. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to anchor down with someone who is promiscuous, on the flip side of things, if someone is treating you well and you find out they had a promiscuous past, dumping them is not usually the best move cause then that's what drives them back to being promiscuous, cause they think there's no point in settling down with someone cause they might leave them anyway.

>>17496194

Quit projecting what happens in your trailer park onto me little guy.

>>17496197
In my experience, a male having sex with multiple women usually indicates superior genetics

A woman having sex with multiple men indicates daddy issues

And your posts indicates that you're a bloody faggot

>>17496217
>a male having sex with multiple women usually indicates superior genetics

Wow so you must increasingly inferior then.

>>17496225
L2grammar nigger

>>17496217

Only a truly insecure jaded sheltered locked out individual thinks that having sex with multiple women indicates superiority.

Having a good paying career indicates superiority. Starting a successful company indicates superiority. Sticking your penis into multiple vaginas doesn't you squiggling little squid. Back to /r9k/ and this time stay there.

>>17496234
Lol no matter how many beta bux you accumulate Chad(me) will always be there to skullfuck your wife and make you watch

>>17496241

>I stuck my penis into a trailer trash vagina therefore I'm much better than you

>>17496197
This. Most people who sleep around or have sex casually are trying to fill a void in their life that other interests can't compare to. Once they actually find that anchor (an emotionally/physically fulfilling relationship) they usually stop whoring around.

>>17496251
Too bad monogamy is a recent phenomenon in the scope of human history. Tell that shit to Muslims who have multiple wives or even further back into hunter gatherer societies where harems for alpha males were common

Keep believing in the relationship/marriage meme while Abdul fucks your wife, you stupid cuck

>>17496241
>>17496266

Imagine spending so much time on 4chins, you unironically develop a cuckolding fetish.

Such a weak minded """individual"""

>>17496015
no accurate figures are available. i lost count long ago, and i maintain a strict "dont ask, dont tell" policy when it comes to that topic. as for why i decided to get away from all that, lets just say im getting old. i love sex, but the few times ive actually been with a girl that i was interested in for more than her body felt much better than fucking whatever comes my way. add to that, that a recent god-awful experience really put into perspective how risky that behavior is. i ended up gf'ing this girl that i shouldnt have, tried to be a decent guy for once and give the relationship thing a serious effort. long story short, i almost had a kid with a batshit insane girl, she broke and/or stole a bunch of my stuff (including my house. dont ask), "tried" to get physically violent with me, sent my social life spiraling into the shitter, tried to have me incarcerated, and by the end of it all i was flat broke. that story is very long and convoluted, but i have no desire to go into further detail. suffice to say it is one of my biggest regrets. i figure by being more selective, it will increase my odds of avoiding such a situation in the future. and i am now noticing a distinct lack of compatible women, which kind of sucks.