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Dear guys of /adv/,
How important is it to you that your gf is attractive to your other guy friends? How important is it to you that she gets all done up with make up and all for when your friends come over?
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>>17865856
> she gets all done up when my friends come over
No , I don't care. Just don't look like a slob with your hair up. Cooking food for my friends while we drink and bullshit is the best.
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>>17865856
>op lookin to get cucked
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>How important is it to you that your gf is attractive to your other guy friends?
Not at all. But, usually, if I a girl is attractive to me my friends will find her attractive too.
>How important is it to you that she gets all done up with make up and all for when your friends come over?
I probably wouldn't even notice.
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Should I really, and when? 2016-12-17 09:44:34 Post No.17865830
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Should I really, and when?
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I matched with a girl almost 15 years younger than me.
Me: Soon 33, artist, living in my studio, looking for females for various reasons, including platonic friends, friends with benefits, romantic partners, non-social sexual partners, life models
Her: 18, looking for platonic relationships with guys, and whatever with girls
I broke through with her when i wrote that we shouldn't have any filters, and just be honest, and that I of course want to fuck her, but she has to promise me never to give in, never give me any blowjobs and absolutely never let me eat her out.
Her age limit on tinder is 18-55
She seems both polite and on top of her game for her age, in terms of values and principals. I've told her that we should get to know each other, and that I need a new muse. Tonight she said yes to share a bottle of wine in my studio one evening.
I'm primarily looking for advice from guys who know their game, and got experience, but anyone who wants to join in on the conversation, sharing stories that aren't blueballs stories, giving advice and got quality questions, are welcome
My question is how long should I realistically wait until I make sexual advances, IF I manage to befriend her, and do my best to build general attraction? Ideally, she should undress for my art before I get to this stage. I want her to be comfortable about me taking about her body, sex, the women I'm with, and overall see me as a very sexual man, without suspecting that I behave like this in order to get in her pants. I want her to beg for it, not having to say yes to it.
Give me some scenarios, fellow menfolk
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>Her: 18, looking for platonic relationships with guys
>how long should I realistically wait until I make sexual advances
Doing it wrong.
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>>17865857
Being this wrong about women.
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>>17865830
She's not retarded, she wants the dick just give it to her
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This past fall semester my girlfriend studied abroad in Korea (we're from the US.) We managed to deal with the long distance for most of the term, but last week she told me that she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I was so torn up from it. We've been together for over two years and things were very serious between us. We lived together for a good portion of the relationship.
When she comes back to school in the US, she plans on moving back in with me. We still want to remain best friends. We want to build a friendship that's stronger than our relationship. I've told her that I have a feeling we'll be back together again.
I don't want to give up on her just yet. Our conversations have been much more open since the breakup. But she doesn't think we'll be back together. I don't really know what to make of all of this. I was explaining to her that I want to wait. I feel confident in my feelings and I feel like she may have lost herself in Korea.
This breakup just seems so weird to me. Has anybody had any similar experience?
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>>17865758
In my experience, your circumstances seem to indicate that she cheated on you while in Korea, at least once. She now feels guilty about what she did and wants to forget the shame--rooted in her commitment to you.
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>>17865766
I don't think she has cheated. We held our relationship to this really high standard of honesty and trust. I know it may sound stupid, but she would have told me.
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>>17865780
I'm sorry.
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What does it say about my ex girlfriend that she is posting these pics on reddit?
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It says you need to move on, because she sure has
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She likes attention just like every woman I've ever met
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>>17865755
How do I get her back?
I'm a cunt and I deserve to be dead
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>>17865739
Ok, what'd you do friend
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>>17865742
Wore someone down emotionally, left them weak, then abandoned them.
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>>17865759
Well if you don't want to be a cunt anymore stop being a cunt. You don't have to die.
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How do I let go of a girl whos my friend, I have a crush on and connect with her so well, love talking to her anytime I can but she doesn't like me past a friend level.
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>>17865712
I do wanna stay her friend but it just burns me up when we hangout and I know one day she won't want to hangout with me anymore when she gets a boyfriend. My oneitis is getting stronger each day with her and its burning me up inside.
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>but she doesn't like me past a friend level.
how do you know?
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>>17865727
Never fully said it before but she's given hints, trust me I know 100%
> 32 years old, average looking guy.
> was alone since baby. so, am alone for a very very long time.
> mid-level social anxiety
> have a nice job, earning enough to live a normal life.
> enjoying the life as much as possible.
> couple hobbies like photography, and playing electro guitar.
> no girlfriends so far.
> total 8 dates.
> sex is meh. last two weeks, two times only. for last 6 months, two times only.
> tinder; very few matches and when i say hi, unmatched quickly.
> happn; same like tinder. after hi, getting blocked.
> trying to understand what's wrong with me but couldn't find it either. i started to blame myself like i'm too ugly, loser, don't know how to talk with a girl etc.
you may heard above a lot and sorry for repeating the same things. i'm having a depression since one week, and i started to believe nothing is going to happen in my life nor will have a girlfriend. is there any fucking magic wand that will help? seriously. i feel like i stuck on a fucking coffin and can't breath anymore. why like anybody else, i cannot get a girlfriend? i really started to believe i'm too fucking ugly and wanna die.
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Never start a conversation with hi. Women on dating sites get hundred of a messages from guys even avg and lower girls get more matches and messages in a day than a guy will get in a month. You have to make yourself stand out from the crowd of millions of thirsty men trying to get their dicks wet. I usully start tinder convos by asking if the girl has instagram. This makes her check her insta as well as look at mine . Now your insta needs to a lot of top less photos of you looking ripped as hell and hanging out with friends if you have a dog get them in the shots but don't make them the focus of the pics.I hope this helps
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>>17865748
thanks man. i don't have an insta. i do have a great photography portfolio but really, insta? come on.
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>>17865707
Don't think too much of it anon the problem is not you that's how girls on those sites usually act. You have nice interests try to match with a girl who might share those so you can actually have a decent Convo. You wouldn't wanna deal with any basic bitch anyway
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Supposed to hang out with an old friend tonight (I don't live in this state anymore, just visiting) but he wants to bring his fucking girlfriend along and I know its just to show her off. How am I supposed to enjoy drinking and smoking when I know he's feeling like he's better than me because he's gonna have sex at the end of the night?
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>>17865682
This is so dumb
Just have a good time and ignore it
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Grab her by the pussy in front of him
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>>17865689
He's my ride, though
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What degrees are the best to pickup girls?
Any advice to pickup girls in college?
Where do they meet?
Going to start college soon.
Not a beta BTW.
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Woman's studies obviously.
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>>17865642
The ones sitting on the grass it's like picking flowers
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>What degrees are the best to pickup girls?
>Not a beta BTW.
right
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Lmao another relationship thread 2016-12-17 08:30:03 Post No.17865620
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Lmao another relationship thread
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My girlfriend is graduating from uni this year, and will be moving away to the other end of the country, and I will remain at my uni for another year.
We've been 'long-distance' (3hrs away by train) for 4 years, and while the first year or so of that was pretty rough, respecting each others timetables and regular skype calls or long visits when we could helped keep things strong and passionate.
However, this distance is about 6-8 hours by train; complete other end of the country, and £100+ cheapest for a return train journey. I'm moving into a more expensive place for my final year at uni, and so I wont be able to afford frequent trips or anything like that.
Not only that, but she will be starting on a graduate scheme (hence the reason for moving so far away) and it is basically a full time job.
We've dealt with uni fairly well, if not for the shakey start, but I feel like this has a real chance of killing the entire thing.
I've come to terms with the fact that this may well end up killing our relationship of what will be 5 1/2 years by that point, but I'd like some help with only two things:
1) How do people make that sort of long distance work?
2) How do you emotionally prepare yourself for a breakup in a relationship that long, if you can see it coming?
We're both willing to give it a shot and not just end things before she leaves, as 5-6 years is a long time to throw away on a 'maybe'. I just want to know you guys may approach the situation?
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Lol I didn't read that op but you're fucked if you're asking here
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there's a reason the cliche of "long distance don't work" exists
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U fucked mate
Start drinking now
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What's the best way to beat lonliness?
I started going to the gym last week, started cooking, and I'm studying a few things that really interest me. Just thinks to take my mind off being lonely, but it's difficult sometimes. The ironic thing, is that I enjoy my alone time, but I still feel lonely? If that makes any sense...
also, I should add. I'm not looking for sex, or a girlfriend.
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>>17865585
Get a social hobby. Or what helps me is going somewhere to be alone where other people are present, like library, coffee shops, malls or the movie theatre. It's more difficult to feel lonely when among other people.
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>>17865585
WE ARE YOUR FRIENDS
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>>17865594
I can't really think of any social hobbies that i could see myself doing. But your other suggestion is interesting. Maybe I could just go out to eat more, and sit inside instead of speeding through a drive thru
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Selling a car and someone wants to use PayPal to pay for it and I've never used PayPal before. How much info is too much?
He asked for this
PayPal e-Mail Address
Paypal Full name
Price and a phone number
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>>17865572
What the fuck OP
You're going to get scammed big time. You can't do this over fucking PayPal that's ridiculous. You have to do a bank transfer
He can dispute PayPal and get his money back easy, it's not hard for people to SE those retarded phone operators
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Why would you use Paypal for this? Not only will they be able to claim money back if they want to scam you, but you'll also have to pay fees to get your money. Though they DO say that a fool and his money are easily parted
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>>17865749
Thanks for the info, I was wondering if it was scam. Some boobs for your help
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My flight departs in a few hours and I'm scared. I'm not just scared of dying, I'm scared of having a panic attack on the plane too. Which seems likely. What should I do to calm myself? Also, should I spend the next few hours writing my will? I don't have one yet.
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>>17865548
Tell doctor, get xanax
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>>17865591
Too late for that
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>>17865548
Dude what no don't write a will that'll only stress you out in stead think about that fact thousands of flights happen every day and less than an 1/8th of a percent have any issues and even less have fatal issues >>17865591
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How to break up with my GF? 2016-12-17 08:08:47 Post No.17865543
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How to break up with my GF?
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My gf and I have been dating for almost a year now come 2017. Shes completely fucking infatuated with me. I love her too ofc but not to the extent she does me. The past couple months i've been having weird dreams of me with other girls and sometimes cheating on her. Just last night i had a dream where i was at a pool party with some girl that looked familiar. She asked me if i loved her. I said yeah kinda reluctantly. I dunno dreams like that. Also when i'm out with friends i'll have girls flirtling with me. (Chick i was talking to about the last of us wrote her number on a pokemon card she found in the theater when i saw rogue one last night lmao) I'm not scared of myself cheating now as much as i am when i leave for college come next year. I wont be seeing her very often (I'm a senior she's a junior) and i'll be a three hours drive away. I've been doing a lot of thinking and come to the decision to break up with her. It just seems like the best think to do, seeings as i'll be gone. I wanna wait until after i graduate before i do. We have the same 4th period and god knows how fucking aweful thatd be if i broke up with her and still had to see her everyday. Not cuz i dont care but because i'd just feel like shit. Also she's a main part of my little group of friends. Does this sound like a good idea to yall? Do i have good reasoning to break up with her?
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>>17865543
Yea you have good reasoning
Thinking forward is a sign of maturity
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yes you're okay. just hold on for these months you fuckhead
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Dreams are your subconscious telling you messages, and your subconscious brain is like the deeper part of the iceberg.
Always trust your gut feeling. Tell her how you feel about all of this, you've got nothing to lose.
If your friends shame you for this, well, they're not good friends.
>>17865555
Checkem
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>Depressed for over 2 years now
>Got Wellbutrin, doesn't really do anything much
>Rarely socializing with friends, don't feel like it, but I feel better when I actually do it
>Constantly fighting urge to act on various dopamine junkie-habits, most prominently porn/sexting, sugar, gaming and random internet browsing. I don't actually enjoy any of these things, just crave them
>Started reading and doing pushups, trying to do both at least once a day. Still haven't changed eating habits
>Graduated high school with shit grades five years ago, took some courses this fall, almost failed because of lack of motivation
I'm trying to get back on my feet, to get my life in order. I used to blame brain chemistry, after all, not having enough dopamine literally means you can't do things. But I've realized I can only control that by creating healthy habits. So I know what I have to do, I'm just having a really hard time actually progressing.
Anyone been there? Any tips?
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I feel you OP
Wish I knew how to get out of this rut
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yes i'm there
honestly i made the decision to give up and kill myself
i lost the battle, tried everything including professional help and staying in psychiatric hospitals but nothing helped
hope you win
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>>17865583
I love you, i cant stop you. But im sorry