I smoked weed for the first time in my life a few hours ago and made super hyper my brain kept running off is this normal? Am I okay? I think I'm still kinda but not hyper but just kinda slow.
it is normal and you are ok. It will be better in a few hours. de nada.
>>17866208
Like really hyper couldn't control myself
>>17866242
You learn to control it over time, don't worry about it.
I have a selfish bipolar sister and a mother that won't understand I need space.
me and my sister have to share a room. it's really sad because she farts a lot because she is extremely fat. whenever my friends come home my mother wants her to spend time with us and I really need my space and time with my own friends away from that piece of shit that is my sister. I hate her and her mental illness, I don't blame her, but she won't even take her meds, she won't even try and lose weight. she stopped going to school, dropped it.
I don't go out a lot, only to walk my dog (which is mistreated by my sister all the time) because If I did go out I would be at ease, I'm really an introvert and don't like to go outside, I wish I could remain at home in peace but my mother is always screaming at people in the house, like my grandmother.
I want to be away from them but I don't have the money to go somewhere else, nor will I have it in the near future. they drive me crazy and Is easy to get depressed like this. I can't go a week without crying myself to sleep.
they remind me of everything I don't want to be, and since they are my family I feel like they are a part of me I don't want to be near of.
my mother says I'm mean to my sister but I just don't want anything to do with her, I just want to be left alone. no wonder my dad left.
what can I do? I'm about to go mad and depressed, the only thing I have going for is my scholarship but my grades are going down since she was diagnosed as a bipolar.
I used to really love her and now I don't even want to look at her face.
Well first, don't fuck up your scholarship. Go to a library to study or a friends house.
That is all you can do basically. Finish school, find a job and leave.
I know you said you don't like going outside but try and find a hobby so you don't have to look at your sister and have her kill your mood.
Go on long walks with the dog, take pictures, go bird watching... don't necessarily have to be with people.
Btw, how does she mistreat your dog?
Study hard and earn lots
Why don't you have a job? It sounds like you have a lot of free time
What's the quickest death-by-illness I can aquire at 22 with no prior illnesses, no allergies and no family history of health issues not related to obesity?
>>17866149
I think avian bird flu is still a thing
>>17866149
Several kinds of flus, zika, dengue, yellow fever... but poisoning is easier to do.
>>17866153
I've eaten a fuck ton of raw and old meat (including chicken) during the past 6 months and haven't gotten as much as the shits. I know salmonella doesn't kill you but desu I'm disappointed.
How do I get bird flu and how do I ensure that my family doesn't? Inconveniencing others because of this defies the whole point.
Can LSD be used to treat OCD and other anxiety disorders?
>>17866066
lsd for mental problems is like cyanide for worms in dogs
50/50 you are either fixed and revitalized or you lose your shit completely
>>17866066
Sounds risky to me anon but I'm not a doctor
Do NOT use LSD if you're not completely healthy mentally. It'll fuck you up, and possibly scar you for life (PTSD, etc)
>Converse in real life
>Say whatever comes to mind first without thinking
>People who are with me usually like me, have fun, etc.
>Converse via text
>Try to do the same thing as real life
>Second guess myself, think I sound like a fucking faggot and end up sending what are probably really boring texts
>Everything sounds sterile
Pls help me
this is me but the other way around
>>17866069
Yeah it seems like the other way around for most people.
>>17866069
>>17866921
F A M
well actually it's more like the thoughts never come because I'm too subconsciously preoccupied with appearing normal or whatever bullshit but YEAH
What's the best way to recover memories lost during a night of drinking?
I've never successfully done this but I'll bump for interest
>>17866024
>best way
>implying there's a single one
Unless one of your friends remembers something, it's all gone, like tears in rain etc.
it's impossible. You don't remember whatever happened there not because it's hidden in some part of your brain, but because it was never "recorded".
I've just fucking given up on being gay.
Where can I find a girl with low enough self-esteem that she won't mind that I don't want her and can't ever actually love her?
>>17866011
You've given up on something you can't change? Or have you given up something you weren't in the first place? Be more specific.
What's wrong with being gay
>>17866015
I've never liked women. I never had a crush growing up who wasn't another boy.
Don't know what to get GF for christmas.. I gave her some cash but feel like I should still get something..
I fucking hate the holidays man why does everyone expect presents..
I stopped cashing out for Christ Mass twelve years ago. The rate we consume the world is destroying the planet. Deal with it, dear friends, family and girlfriends. I present you the gift of my pleasant company.
>>17865978
Don't be a Christian and you won't have this retarded problem religion is a choice anon
>>17865997
You sound like a lot of fun
what's the best way to spend my holidays?
i'm an engineering student btw.
I like to spend my holidays balls deep in a real doll
As an engineer you should try making one
>>17865968
Engineering is a stupid career.
With loved ones...
Haha, OK but seriously do whatever you like doing. If you're an engineering guy try giving yourself a weird building project like make a robot out of a microwave or some shit.
So, I see hookers, but I realllly would like to stop, as it costs money and I have been scammed a few times.
But then sometimes the urge comes over me :( Like I just had to see one today, of course now I feel like why did I do it. (I always use a condom btw) Any tips?
Get a girlfriend
>>17865966
I also see hookers, but I don't get addicted.
How many times per month do you do it?
I see them once, maybe twice a month.
I've been wanting to do this for a while. Antidepressants have been shown to cause more long-term damage than they cause, (even placebos do better than antidepressants at treating depression) plus I don't think I even had depression in the first place.
I could go on, but that's not what I'm here for.
I want to get off my antidepressants NOW, and I want some advice on coping with the withdrawal effects if anyone here has had a similar experience.
I'm taking Venlafaxine (Effexor), and It's one of the hardest medications to get off of due to the hellish withdrawal symptoms:
>brain zaps (exploding head syndrome)
>nausea
>shakiness
>increased anxiety
>dizziness
>disorientation
>profuse sweating
>vivid/disturbing nightmares
>heavy mental fog
>Extreme nausea and vomiting
...just to name a few
I've experienced these symptoms from running out of meds in the past, and it's fucking horrible. I'm NEET, so I don't have to worry about missing job/school, thankfully.
If anyone on /adv/ has any tips on coming out of this alive, I'd GREATLY appreciate it.
I'm determined to do this once and for all.
You talk to your ear/nose/throat doctor or your pharmacist about safely reducing your dosage to the point of where you can fully stop using them.
If that is specifically your request, that is the information that they will give you. You're worried about side effects, you have a good enough reason to stop, but you're looking for guidance on how to stop. They will provide this.
>Cold-Turkey
Don't mess around when it comes to brain medicine, sudden stops are fucking stupid. Ween off.
Do you have the possibility to get off progressively ? Like take half a dose/day or a dose every 2 days etc etc and change the dose to a smaller one every 2/3 weeks. Even a small dose change can diminish the side effects so you'll start feelings effects before the end of the withdrawal. But I don't know your situation so maybe you can't do that.
Currently withdrawing off Zoloft, Mitrazpine and Olanzpine. Your going to feel like shit for at least two weeks. I'm only a week in. Fuck antidepressants as you said placebo even work better.
I... almost hanged myself the other day...
I'm a basically friendless kissless virgin. I only have a real life friend and we dont' really connect on a emotional level, only on a "same hobbies" level.
On the other hand, I have a netfriend... This might sound stupid, but he's been always my best friend and a brother to me... we connected back when we were teens on the halcyon days of the internet... When I was in a foreign place (studying) and I didnt knew anyone and my computer broke down, he gave me one of his laptops via mail, we sent each other christmas gifts and... Yeah...
But the past 2 years he changed a lot... he's always angry, he no longer trusts me, he sees me more as an annoyance, every time I tried to cheer him up, he no longer was affable, but saying I say the dumbest things... And then he got a girlfriend who absolutely despises me. I... told him that I would change him or any other friend for a girl but he told me "If you'd choose a netfriend over a girlfriend, you're more ignorant than I thought"...
That broke something on me... I've had depression the past 2 years after troubles began, I always felt happy despite being a lonely fella knowing I had someone who trusted me and I could trust but now... I'm a jobless NEET, I studied a career with ZERO demand, I basically live day by day doing small odd-jobs... I really wanted to do it but I couldnt at the very last second and I've been breaking down in tears since.
I wish I hope one day he's not angry and he can be the cool fella I once knew... He painted me as an annoying friend and a "stereotypical millenial" suddenly this year... I'm not even into SJW-ing or neon color hairdyes, I just want to stop feeling like this, like shit.
Sounds like your net friend is being influenced by his new gf. There are plenty of other people out there that you can befriend tho try joining a group or club. That'll help you meet people with common interests.
>>17865932
Don't bother with him anymore, people have to willingly spend time with you (quality time preferably).
You can find a new netfriend, there are plenty of sites around, but you should really try to find a person in real life, that you can connect to (at least to a greater extent than the previous ones). Internet friends can be great, but you're still talking in front of your computer screen, instead to a human being.
And don't do anything stupid anon, keep trying, there must be a better day coming up for you.
>>17865940
>Sounds like your net friend is being influenced by his new gf.
No, he began getting pretty offensive torwards me since before he met her...
I just always felt a very special bond between us, and see it break like that, just...
I wish I just dissapeared, anon...
Hi /adv/ ! nice to see you again.
My girl complains time to time about her body (she is curvy/chubby) and decides to do exercises and diet. I support her and even try to do the same diet and exercises.
But little by little she stops doing exercises and stops the diet.
after a while she is not doing neither exercises nor diet.
This has happened like 3 times, now she wants to do exercises and diet again and I'm afraid she will again fail to stick to it.
What can I do to help her not to stop doing it? For now I will do 100% the same she does, and if she stops doing something i'll do it anyway and invite her to join me with the diet or whatever.
Diet is 80% of weight loss.
>>17865902
Both of you should install MyFitnessPal set your goals and follow each other there. Make a bet on who'd lose 2kg first etc. But seriously man count calories and eat at a deficit I've lost 12kg it's not as hard as you think
YOU have to diet too. I don't mean this because you're fat or because you need to "suffer" with her, but women in relationships often get fat because they're eating the same kinds of food and portion sizes as their male counterparts. The males burn through more energy just by having male bodies.
When you "go on a diet", you generally relapse because it's supposed to be temporary. You need to "change your diet" together. Learn how to source good vegetables and fish from the stores in your area, and start figuring out the way to make them taste good and be the main part of how you eat.
If you're used to the modern way of eating, maybe this stuff will seem unappealing, but after about a month you'll pick up on the perceptions on what you need to bring out in the cooking to make it more for you.
How do you get rid of that vague and ambiguous Need when you already have everything that you want?
You man up and tell yourself that you don't need it. Then move on from that context.
>>17865895
I have. It's like deciding that I don't have a left arm anymore. It's still there.
>>17865889
Have you considered getting things you don't want?
Hi /adv/, my problem isn't the usual "gf doesent like when I masturbate" issue you would expect from subject.
I'll make it short: I don't usually masturbate at all (I used to do it a ton 3 years ago before I found my gf), but in these past 6 months with her, we've been having a lot less sex than we used to and I find myself needing release sometimes. Point is: whenever I masturbate (maybe one time a month) we will have a HUGE nearly relationship ending argument afterwards.
It's not that she catche's me or anything, I just seem to attract big fucking arguments after I jerk off. it's like my whole attitude changes or something. I've tested it several times, I go 2-3 weeks without flapping, no arguments. I jerk off and THE NEXT DAY we're having a relationship ending argument without fail everytime. I even NOTICE that I'm different when I argue after but its like I can't help it
tldr: I think masturbation is altering my mood and causing me to fight with my gf...I'm fucking sick of it
>>17865878
What do you fight with her about? I can't imagine fapping is making you angrier or more confrontational, so It makes me assume she's the one starting the fights and not you.
Does she get mad that you won't have sex with her? Does she get mad that you're a lazy piece of shit?
You're gonna have to elaborate a little more, OP.
This is because after you blue fapped that pent up sexual stress is released and you are not trying to get laid this makes you see all the flaws you noreally would completely ignore. It's kind of like having a sober moment. It happens to everyone.
>>17865892
the fights are about the tiniest shit that just escalates. I mean LITERALLY it will just be nothing and escalate to full scale shouting. I'm so much more irritable after fapping. she won't start the fights but she'll say stuff that will piss me off so easily