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Due to shit going on in my family home, I'll probably be thrown out on the street pretty soon. Won't happen before Monday, so I have a bit to prepare.

I'm here to ask about what anyone who was homeless himself might have to offer me in terms of advice on how to survive being homeless, in general, but especially in the winter season. It's winter here in the Balkans, and winters here can get pretty rough and it's only just starting. The average outside temperature is -5 degrees, Celsius, and a few above 0 when it's warmer during the day.

For those who want to ask about why I'm going to become homeless, it's because I had a pretty rough fight with my older sister where she attacked me pretty severely: grabbed me by the hair, tried to kick me in the balls, clawed at my arm with her fingernails so I had to clean that out with alcohol. She was needling me all day long and then started taunted me and when I responded back she spat on me. More stuff happened, but that doesn't matter.

No, my parents won't look kindly on this because my sister has their only grandchild to bargain with so I'm pretty much out by default simply because of this. No, I'm not a complete NEET laying about the house, doing nothing, I have a job, but I don't think that will last for much longer when I can no longer shower or wash my hair or lack clothes that don't smell.

And no, I have no family that will take me in. What few friends I have moved cities away, some even to foreign countries, and the only way we keep in touch is by online communication and the odd phone call here and there. So I'm on my own for this.
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Rent a place if you have a job that can finance housing. Or rent a hostel room. They are cheap and at least will delay your inevitable rape by gypsies.
Side note avoid pissing off gypsies. One or two kids might not seem like an issue but they tend to zerg rush you really fast. Hide all valuables asap. Begging is an organized crime. Having said that the police wont bother you but somebody will kick your shit in. Trash cans are a decent place to get food, some restaurants and bakeries give discounts or free food after they close for the night, it might be hard snooping them out at first. Carry blankets, two or three if possible. Building staircases are your friend but try not to stick to one place for too long, and avoid being see as tenants might call the cops on you.
Hygiene is going to take a hit so try to get a place where you can clean up, say a rented hostel room. Buying a car would be my first choice if possible. It gives you a place to stay, and if you're skilled enough you could use it as a source of income. And buying a beater for 400ish euros could save your life in the bitter cold.
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Also since you're a victim of family violence consider a safe house for a while, and talking to a social worker. Its a bigger deal these days than it was, so it might help out. Don't expect a miracle thought
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>>17865179
Get a gym membership fast(shower/bathroom), vandwell(live in car) for a bit till you can get a permaresident/rent from craigslist/etc.

Look at local public shower resources (maybe parks).

>I'm 25, met a 16 year old girl (legal here, if you think it's wrong that's up to you) online
>Spent a few months chatting every now and then, met irl about 9 months ago, she lost her virginity with me
>She wants a committed monogamous relationship even though we can't meet much until she moves out in a year or two, I'm okay with that
>She keeps talking about how she's young and horny and wants to sleep with this and that guy
>I call her out on it, she says she doesn't feel like being exclusive with one person so early in her life is a good idea
>I explain that means I'll also have sex with other people, and possibly get a girlfriend who actually wants to be monogamous
>She feels really bad and wants to be with me
>She proceeds to keep talking about all the people she wants to fuck anyway

So...how do I deal with girls like this? I'm not all that invested so I don't mind "breaking up", she claims to have strong feelings for me which I doubt, considering she's so opposed to sticking with me and only me.

I respect myself too much to promise faithfulness to someone who can't stop talking about all these guys she wants to fuck, but except that fact she's a cool person (cute, intelligent, has plans for the future etc.). It would feel like a waste to just tell her "Alright, I don't want to have anything to do with you if you're going to be like this" so for now I'm just telling her "Go ahead, fuck other people if you want to, but know that if you do you can't come back to me, and unless you want to stick with me, I'll keep my eyes open and possibly dump you for someone else".
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>>17865170
Dude honestly you need to forget about her, she needs to go out and satisfy these urges or she'll do it when your with her, she'll probably get loved up at first cus she's young but it won't last bro, I know this sounds gay but it'll only end with hurt
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>>17865170
At least you're dating at your maturity level

She told you she doesn't feel like being exclusive, stop trying to force her to be and just leave

Don't make her feel bad about it either, she's 16 and seemingly more wise than you
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>>17865170
keep cruising the playground, maybe you find little Ms Right

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What jobs can I get with a BSc in Mathematics where someone with a more specialized degree won't be hired over me?
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>>17865162
Did your degree have a focus? Did you do a capstone? Also, are you any good at programming?

Without knowing anything else:

- insurance actuary.

- Potentially risk or process analyst if you have any private sector experience in any field other than your degree.

- If you're good at programming, and studied statistics in depth esp. path integrals, finance-related positions especially pertaining to High Frequency Trading.
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>>17865575
To get a job in those popular applied math topics actually require taking some courses in statistics, stochastic and financial mathematics, and since we are talking about a guy get paid to do math they usually hire an expert with at least a MSc. I think with a BSc OP's best bet is to learn programming, he should already know some. Depends on how "less specialized" he is in comparison to others.
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>>17865696
>>17865575

How do I self-teach myself programming? Also, what are some good grad degrees after I get my BSc in Mathematics that also pay well?

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Im a 19 yo male who's 6.2ft and I have an annoying child like voice. What can I do to fix this? Would getting my tonsils removed be the trick?
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Love yourself, keep the voice. I would kill to have a high voice. Can you sing at all?
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>>17865165
No, I was in choir my senior year of highschool wasn't any good
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>>17865161
Become a comedian

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Ive been in a relationship with my gf for 5 years now. After years has passed we have been slowly drifting away from each other. We live together under a same roof and our lifes seems to be a burden to each other. We cant speak to each other anymore.

I love her so much. I've been thinking going to relationship therapy. I want to fix our relationship like it was in the beginning. Yet again im too afraid to raise the topic. Does someone has any good advices how to fix the situation. Thanks in advance
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I understand what you trying to say, bro. It's hard to speak truly with another because there's a bunch of deep emotions inside of you and in her.

Perhaps the answer can be found in relationship therapy which might cost a lot.

There's no easy way to fix this. I believe that you can handle it out if you find the way to speak to each other. Otherwise, the relationship is totally ruined as it almost is or you can try a relationship therapy applications example http://www.wediditmethod.com/
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>>17865099
>>17865144
Or just slip her a molly, cheaper and easier
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>>17865169
I bet it would be much funnier also

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So I got a call Thursday morning for an interview on a job offer I really want. They scheduled me for 11am on Monday, but didn't give me the location. I was told they would call back and give me the address.

It's now Saturday morning with no call back.

What is the ideal time to call back and find out where it is? Now, tomorrow, or early Monday?

I know this question might seem ridiculous, but this is a dream job position and I really want to do everything as perfect as possible.
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>>17865066
where is the place you will be working ? surely you know this yes ? maybe the interview will be there ?

otherwise your best bet is to not call them until Monday afternoon.....
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>>17865113
The interview location is unknown to me.
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what's the job?
who told you they would call you back?
if it's a large company you might have spoken to some clueless temp receptionist or something.
honestly you need to give more info if you want help, i dont want to list 5 possible scenarios just because you didnt want to be specific about your problem.

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This truly is a horrible existence
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But it *is* existence.
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I feel the same way anon. Currently looking for answers
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>>17865046
Eh could be worse

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Why don't women ever text first? I have dated a few women over the last couple months. None of them would initiate contact first like "hey what are you up to?" I would have to text them first to set plans and shit.

It really makes me feel like they do not like me. Women do shit to avoid hurting feelings too. Like going out with you even though they don't want too.

What gives? Can any women here elaborate on why women don't text first very often?
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It has been like that forever, and those selfish wastes of human skin are way too much comfortable with they not having to show interest first. In a way, that improves their ego towards men.

It's not that they don't like you, though. They just keep on benefiting from that social standard.
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>>17865004
Its not a women issue but a societal issue.

Men are expected to take the lead/charge, women are supposed to respond in kind. Very rarely do women make initiate with you unless they're hooked on you like a drug
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>>17865015
That's bull shit. Taking charge all the time is useless because you just end up a tyrant. I wish women would just speak up more. I don't mind leasing but I need input from whoever I am leading. A lot of women have this weird habit of going along with shit even if they hate it.

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This is going to be a long story
So my whole life has been shit full of fucked up problems caused by my dad
i was born in france , i grew up with an abusive alchoholic, paranoid father , my mother commited suicide when i was 5 years old so looking back at it , i don't really care as i didnt knew her that much
When i was 6 my father met this woman online who was from the u.s.a
A couple months later my dad sold all his belongings and we ended up moving there for a better new life
The first 2 years were the happiest years of my life , i had learned to speak english , my step-mom was amazing and i made alot of friends overall life was just good .
ffw a year later my paranoid dad would beat me for hours over the stupidest shit and would threatened to kill my step-mom
My step-mom issued a restraining order against my dad and i was in my step-mom's custody
3 months later My dad got supervised visitation, until Christmas when the Judge made an awful mistake and allowed him to have me for the holiday.
And this is where it all went downhill , my dad bought plane tickets and abducted me to a 3rd world country to live with my family members ( i could've refused to go with him but i was only 9 and scared he'd beat me if i told my mom )
So I'll be 18 in a month and i've been dealing with depression ever since i came here , i just hate myself for not telling my step-mom what my dad was planning to do.
This muslim country is full of close minded retards , basically no future and i've decided that suicide might probably be the best way out .

A couple days ago after doing some research i've found my step-mom's fb and after 7 years she still posts about me which made me cry

Now guys i want to contact my step-mom and gtfo of this place but at the same time i feel really bad for leaving my family behind .

What should i do ?
Thanks in advance
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Gtfo with your step mother anon I'm with you
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>>17865002
Would i need a visa and a passport ?
Or since i'm missing and A felony warrant for abduction was issued to my dad i'd just be in interpol's hands?
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>>17865009
Get your passport ready and your visa ready.

GTFO from the shithole. Before that, plan with your stepmom so she can come pick you up/etc.

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>not happy by myself
>not happy with others

wat do
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If you're not totally fed up with life, then I would suggest going to a therapist as that might be the starting point of a much more several depression.
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>>17864992
KILL THEM ALL
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>>17865017
It's been a long time since i'm like that, i'd say 10 years

i'm not totally fed up with life but i tried therapy and i don't believe in this anymore. I don't trust psychiatrists or psychatry itself.

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i took 10mg of xanax trying to od and it dind't di shit
i just woke up 20 hours later feeling down

recommend me better drugs that are possible to get through a psychiatrist
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>>17864963
>down
*numb
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what do you mean by od? to die?
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>>17864963
Tall bridge or building

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>Grow up in Saudi Arabia
>Haven't seen other human females outside of my family
>Study abroad
>Can't hold a conversation with girls
>A girl tried to be my friend but then i spurged out of control and fucked it up

What do?
Am i fucked for life?
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>>17864939
just become gay then. Problem solved.
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Who fucking cares what you say to stupid bitches? If you make enough money, you can buy yourself a wife that doesn't even speak English. Literally just fuck the rest because that's all they're good for. Maybe, MAYBE when women start becoming the breadwinner/ car owner/ defender in relationships, we should begin to give a fuck what they want. Until then, remain subservient.
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stick to your kind arabian skunk, marry a cockroach

I'm starting to suspect girls also have shitty lives and are amenable to accepting food and shelter in exchange for being qt shut-in maids that take dick periodically. Fact or fiction?
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>>17864933
fact but do not fall for them and know they won't leave till they are good and ready
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>>17864933
>being qt shut-in maids that take dick periodically
isnt that just a wife
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>>17864951

I want to trick girls into being my wives yes.

I'm crazy attracted by the girl that talked to me 2-3 weeks ago and we kissed and shit. The problem is that she wants to be just friends since all of her teenage life and a bit of adult one was in a relationship...

She told me that she wants to be alone and focus on her life for a while but I'm too much of an immature/selfish faggot to acknowledge that. What's the best way to turn her around/rape her and wear her face?
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bump
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>>17865129

This album rules, underrated in the SP catalogue. Fools.

You're awful though haha. I think you should begin to distance yourself from the girl. She's trying to grow up and isn't that interested in you. There's no jedi mind tricks, there's no self-improving to be done. I know she kissed you, hard truth that she was horny but wasn't really digging you. Girls do stupid shit like that.

Trust me though there are plenty of other fish out there, now come in for a hug bro
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>>17865133
Mighty dubs cannot lie. I'm going to fish in another pond and maybe you're right.

I just hope she realizes that she's being dumb.

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Is sexting just as bad as cheating?
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>>17864865
id say yes and dump any girl that did that immediately but the "is ____ as bad as cheating" question can easily be solved by asking your SO. they give pretty good answers
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Sexting IS cheating.
Protip: if it involves intimacy another person and you are considering not telling your partner about it, it's cheating
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>>17864865
yes. sexting is a prelude to the real in and out

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