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need help finding a gift for a girl im fucking
she likes painting
please help
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>>17867947
Does she have an Easel? Check out some water color pens. You can fill them up with any color you want and then go at it
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>>17867947
A good general-purpose art gift would be a sketchbook and some nice ink pens. Either some Japanese roller-ball pens, Pigma pens or even a portable fountain-type pen. Go to your local art store and they'll help you spend your money.
https://www.pinterest.com/explore/sketchbooks/
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Hey /adv/
Do you have any ideas/useful tips on where can I meet girls? I know, it sounds like a stupid question. However, I have kinda high standards so I'm looking for at least 8/10's. I'm studying CS and it's nearly impossible to spot a girl there.
I'll be thankful for all kind of advice apart from stuff like bars/pubs/clubs.
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>>17867908
>I have kinda high standards so I'm looking for at least 8/10's.
Haha. Use a dating site and filter them by face if that's so important to you.
People in real life don't decide to hang out based on looks as much as you do. There are not "8 or above" places where girls go.
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>>17867922
There surely are places with higher probability of meeting nice looking girls.
Looks is not the only standard for me. I enjoy spending time with not-so-good-looking girls too, but I find it difficult to feel any physical attraction towards them.
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>>17867967
>There surely are places with higher probability of meeting nice looking girls.
Why? What makes you think that place has to exist? Do you have a reason or it's just wishful thinking?
how do i get a gf? im so lonely its killing me. 21 year old virgin here. pic related is me. do i stand a chance? how to talk to women?
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>>17867757
>21 year old virgin here
lol I don't doubt it. You look kinda funny
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You're either trolling or a faggot
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How do I very very kindly reject a girl?
On thursday a girl told me she really liked me and she would want to get coffee with me some time this week. We exchanged numbers and I told her "i will definitely let you know" and now im shitting bricks because she is lovely and I dont want to hurt her and I feel like a dick because I should have told her straight up but im so shy and I couldn't.
I have to tell her today that I cant see her like that. I dont want to lead her on because then i will be even more of a dick and I feel so fucking bad.
What do I say? I am only able to text her, im too scared to call her.
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While waiting for someone better at this than me to answer
Why can't you see her like that? I'd like to know
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Grow a pair and tell her you only see her as a friend. Don't tag her along. It's not hard.
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>>17867696
You should send her a text or just call her before you meet so she doesn't have any expectations of you. You are going to hurt her either way so you may as well do it in the most polite way possible instead of giving false leads.
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I am not sure if getting a desktop computer was a good idea after all. Should I sell it or something and get a laptop? I mean, I like my desktop computer but a laptop would be much easier to move around and I could have all my important stuff with me anywhere. What should I do?
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>>17867629
Sell it. If you don't have the "muh gayman" mind, then laptop it is.
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>>17867629
Depends on your needs. If power isn't important for you, a laptop is generally not a bad idea.
I've got a 1,5k desktop setup with three 24" monitors but prefer to work on my 12" laptop that's barely faster than a phone.
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When I first got it, I did have gaming in mind, too, but now I don't use it for games much. Plus, most of the games I play on it are not that demanding, I am guessing that even a relatively good laptop could handle them. And I probably don't need that much power either.
But how do I even go about selling it? I built it about 1 and half year ago, would it still have any value at all? Should I sell it as separate parts?
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Guys, I'm in a really dark place and didn't sleep a wink last night.
So yesterday, a girl I had unprotected sex with almost three years ago got in contact with me and told me she was diagnosed HIV postive last year. Says the doctors can't say exactly when.
I have been beside myself since she told me. I got tested after having sex with her at the time (2-4 weeks after) and was given the all clear by the doctor. I never had any of the 'flu-like' symptoms you are supposed to get after being infected either. In addition, I have only been really sick once the past three years (just a flu that last about 1-2 weeks, 1.5 years after exposure).
Nonetheless, I've convinced myself I have it. About two months ago, I got blood tests back from the doctor, said that my white blood cell count was either too high or too low. I wasn't really listening because he said its an anomaly that can happen after a viral infection and told me to get another test. I never did.
So I'm getting one this week from my STI clinic. But I'm shaking with anxiety until I go get it.
Just some words of advice or support would be great. I currently feel that if I got it I would have to anhero. Telling my family, friends, girlfriend, ex-girlfriends, work. It would just be too much.
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Tl;Dr: Think I dun got the AIDS, halp
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Get tested and get piece of mind. There are many treatments these days that help make AIDS/HIV sufferers lead relatively normal lives.
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>>17867579
Thanks, I've got my test arranged. I think I can handle having to take the medication. It's more the social stigma around it. Having to tell loved ones. My girlfriend might leave me over it. It's just too much.
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>>17867563
Hey man, I get hypochondria too. Is other stuff happening in your life to make you stressed? Often it's related. Just rest, try to distract yourself and try to relax. If it was 3 years ago, and you've had no symptoms AND had a test already, it's probably okay.
And whatever you do, don't google.
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Something on the side. Yes or No? 2016-12-18 09:17:55 Post No.17867458
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Something on the side. Yes or No?
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So one of my female students have been coming on to me pretty aggressively these past couple of months. Constantly finding excuses to visit me during office hours in low cut tops and short skirts. Trying to establish eye contact for prolonged periods of time. Asking me to do calculations in her notebook and finding excuses to touch my shoulder, arm and hands.
I am twice her age. Married with child and living in a decent relationship.
But this young women can really get me hot and bothered. Oh the fantasies I could fulfil with access to such a lovely and energetic partner.
But apart from these midlife crisis urges my life is pretty good overall. I have a loving family and a decent enough vocation.
A fling would jeopardize a fair few things for me and i am not sure it is worth it.
What to do?
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>>17867458
Don't. Duh. You said it yourself.
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>>17867458
one big thing to think about is the well-being of your family. If you decide to cheat on your wife and she somehow finds out the kids will be on her side no matter what you do, and you will be looked at as scum. These are things to consider.
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>>17867458
Hm, this is a difficult question. Lets make a list of pros and cons.
>Pros
You potentially get some sweet young pussy
>Cons
You'll potentially lose your job
You'll potentially lose your wife
You'll potentially lose custody of your kids
You'll potentially lose the respect and/or love of your children
You'll potentially lose half your shit
You'll potentially have to give up half your paycheck at whatever job you get afterwards
You'll potentially die alone and unloved
There's also the possibility that you're reading way too much into it or that she decides to back out and rat on you for whatever fucking reason so you don't even get the pussy
Look up some loli porn to fulfill your fetishes because the fact that you need to come here and ask this means you're probably too retarded to teach anything more than a middle school class.
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In a three-way relationship 2016-12-18 08:12:39 Post No.17867360
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In a three-way relationship
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I am in a threeway realtionship which has been working out so far. There isn't any jealousy anymore or fighting over who gets to spend more time with who. This relationship consists of two girls and a guy, I am one of the girls. We are in a our late 20s, if that matters at all, and we just moved to a new state together.
I'll try not to get into too much detail, but forgive me if I ramble. Me and the other girl are different personalities, obviously, and he treats us based on those personalities. However I have been feeling like things are unfair. He says she is a cuddle-type person and likes to be more affectionate towards her. He views me as someone that's more of a friend and he gets that affection by having logical and random conversation with me. Also, our sex is more erotic and hardcore while there's is more affectionate. I love the sex we have, but I also want to have that loveable type sex too. I want affection that she gets (hugs, cuddles, random kisses). I always feel like the third wheel when I am around them when they're being like this. When I brought this up to them they told me that if I want it that much I should go get a boyfriend because he's not a knight in shining armor who will give me that affection. Pretty much saying that I'm not going to get the affection I want from him the way I want it, that he portrays his type of affectoin to me in other ways.
For example: They always sleep together at night. I've been wanting to spend the night with him so many times, but he chooses not to or she ends up crawling next to us in bed and falling asleep. Tonight he mentioned to me that he was going to sleep in my bed, okay fine. I was going to sleep with him, but she ends up cuddling with us and they fall asleep. First off I can't do three to a bed, it gets hot and I always get little room. Second they always cuddle with each other and he never cuddles me. So I feel so left out.
I don't know how to get over this.
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>>17867360
It doesn't sound like your needs are being met, and it doesn't sound like he/they are willing to meet them. This is a pure mismatch in expectations and needs, and since your words have failed you, you really don't have much choice but to move on.
Aside from that, how did you come to be in this situation?
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Where do these ultrachads find these crazy girls willing to fight over him?
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>>17867369
That's what I'm thinking too. I do have a tendency to get mad at random shit that makes no sense which throws them on edge. Honestly I've been trying to hard to change myself and be a better person but when I do something wrong I get a lecture. When she does something wrong she doesn't and they claim it's because her problems are more about her confidence while mine is about my social acceptance of myself. I'm trying not to be jealous, I don't get jealous with sex or anything physical. I really just want to have some of that cheesy affection sometimes. I told him this, but he said since the time we have met, I've always been that friend-type. I just accepted it but deep down I still feel the same and I feel like shit not being able to get over it.
I met him through a dating site. They met through work. We all Moved to new state summer 15' and pretty much just been a team ever since.
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My boyfriend said single mom's are shit at raising kids. Didn't even mention single dads. I think he might be sexist. He also told me he right way to discipline a kid is to yell and insult them. Should I be afraid?
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>>17867303
He sounds like he just discovered /pol/ tooo beee honest. I wouldn't be afraid but you need to tell him to not have a stick up his ass
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>>17867303
He's right about single mums but wrong about disciplining kids. Single mums are awful people.
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>>17867330
>Single mums are awful people.
shame on women for their husbands dying
>>17867303
yes. run before he hits you.
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Are there any jobs where I can use my phone at work while working at the same time? And if not, are there any drugs that can either motivate me at work or control my perception of time at work?
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>>17867221
meth
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>>17867226
Shit it's that easy? How much should I take? I wanna keep my teeth while I'm currently working at ups
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>>17867221
Literally any salaries job, right?
They don't care what you do, so long as you get your work done.
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how the fuck do you get tons of pussy? how do chads do it? is there a gene that makes you good with the opposite sex? do you need to do all that pua shit? HOW THE FUCK DO YOU DO IT?
I JUST WANNA FUCK GIRLS LIKE PIC RELATED WHY IS IT SO HARD
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You're retarded, that's why.
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>>17867167
why
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You are a fail on 4chan that is why. Go look in the mirror that will tell you why you aint getting her pussy
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Save Me 4Chan, You're my Only Hope 2016-12-18 06:18:08 Post No.17867130
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Save Me 4Chan, You're my Only Hope
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I stumbled into hell (see; http://www.landoverbaptist.net/showthread.php?t=47551 ) and can't escape, please 4chan, save me from this hell that I can never forget, this hell that I fell into in a search for starcraft 2 porn.
I feel like I am going to throw up. These people, I think they are real and it scares me.
You all, redeem humanity, save me from this hell, and please bring a few barf bags, and maybe some bleach and cleaning supplies as I will probably have thrown up by the time you find me.
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It is real. You're going to hell, slut. Get raped.
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*hugs anon*
it'll all be over soon enuff
and what the fuck is wrong with you man get the fuck off that fucking site
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>>17867130
you are as bad as them lol
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Don't know how I feel about this 2016-12-18 05:23:48 Post No.17867009
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Don't know how I feel about this
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Im in a relationship with a girl with many problems. She is raped, mistreated by family, and cuts. She has mental issues and have breakdowns most of the time.
Me being a healthy guy with nothing happening in my life, I just want her to be happy. I love her with all my heart and I truly do.
But just recently, we just have been settling off. She spends more time doing things with her friends rather then spend time with me. When I text her doing class (which we usually do) she doesn't text back but instead texts another person.
When I hang around her, she mostly hangs around her friends. When I attempt to make her laugh, she simply doesn't like the jokes. Like I'm not in that domain to do anything.
She mostly interacts with other people then me. Not only that, she messges other boys as well, but her reasoning are "guy" friends.
But she wants to run off to this "guy" friend and actually live with him. I didn't question her seeing that it will be a problem if I do. She does what she does and thats what makes feel all weird.
I love her and trust her but i'm beginning to feel distanced more like. She enjoys her friends rather then me, like im in her way.
Thats been my red flag for relationship. Seeing in the future if we actually settled down, we won't spend time with each other rather then be distanced. She will most likely talk to other people then me.
Maybe Im too boring for her.
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tl;dr
>gf has problems
>she hangs out with others rather then me
>I want to do more things with her
>she does other things with friends
>I feel distanced
>I just dont know how I feel about this whole thing
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>>17867013
>she wants to run off and live with a 'guy friend' who is not you
>you didn't question her, saying that it will be a problem if you do
So what i'm reading between the lines is that you're afraid of your gf. You're so afraid of her getting upset that you'll let her make you a cuck.
Bro what is up with this dysfunctional and abusive relationship? You say you love and trust her but what has she done to earn that love and trust? Ditch you to go with her friends? Because nothing you're saying would make me trust her at all.
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>>17867031
She been talking to the guy for years and she says this guy is asexual. The guy has no itent of being in a relationship. They been best buds and she wants to go see him.
I don't want to overwhelm her now and make her have a breakdown, seeing we are fresh in this relatiomship, and she has problems in her hands right now. My plan is to tell her how I feel about it later down the road.
How I gain her trust is her actually being there for me. Not only that, her past relationships where abusive and her being cheated on multiple times. She has my trust, But seeing her true self, Im beginning to think so other wise.
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This year, I got a decent job that I like, that I have a future in, rather than a McJob...and they are teaching me skills I can carry to other jobs should I need to leave. I had quite a bit saved up (5 grand), and I bought a $10,000 house the next town over (fixer upper. 4 bed, 2 bath, 3 car garage, only 5 minutes from work rather than 20 minutes where I am renting, built in 1928)....and my mom is saying I should not have bought it. Now she won't talk to me, won't return my calls or answer the door when I come over citing that I must hate her for buying the house.
How can I convince her otherwise?
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>>17867004
your mom is probably salty that her bby is growing up.
just stay determined, fix it up, and prove her wrong.
she'll come around. you're her son after all.
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>>17867004
Your mom is probably just mad that you bought something she thinks is financially stupid. Just keep the house maintained and fix it up. Dont rub it in her face that she was wrong and she'll come back.
If she denounces you then she might be a narcissist. But I seriously doubt that's the case
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>>17867011
I've already started fixing it. I spent all day doing plaster work. I feel this was a good purchase. I'll only have 3 utilities to pay aside from garbage pickup. It's already a nice house despite the issues.
I'd just like her to see it my way
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IS THERE ANY WAY FOR LEGIT RAPID WEIGHT LOSS??? 2016-12-18 04:13:34 Post No.17866869
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IS THERE ANY WAY FOR LEGIT RAPID WEIGHT LOSS???
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So fucking sick of being fat
Been fat all my life, keep trying this shitty (eat 500 calories less than your daily maintenance) meme, have a cheat day, undo all my work. FUUUUUUUUUUCK. Is there any legitimate (or not so legitimate but might work) way to rapidly accelerate weight loss?
I have tried low carb and while it works i have to have god-like willpower to do it and I don't have that.
Tried no food (fasting/juice fating) but it tastes like shit and i hate it but im seriously considering just doing it for like a week and seeing if I can keep it up (maybe up to a couple months like that guy did on fat sick & nearly dead).
My maintenance is like 3300 (im really fat, 340 LBS) so im eating 2,800 which is still a huge amount but I've gotten used to eating so much that its normal for me - and i always feel like im not getting enough done.
I also walk 2 miles every other day and do a light workout regiment, but i havn't lost any weight due to my excessive eating.
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>>17866869
Try running 5+ miles a day if you have the time for it. Or you could try lowering your calorie intake by 100 or so every week.
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low carb is the easiest way by far. if you don't have the willpower for that, then you're not gonna lose weight m8.
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>>17866869
You eat because you are bored.
Start learning skills, and your hunger/appetites are out of whack.
Start drinking water constantly. Dude as big as you needs a lot of it. it will reduce the snacking cravings you have (your snacking is a habit, not because you are hungry).
Secondly, if you do snack, use low calorie, highly filling foods.
Baby carrots, Broccoli, peppers, etc. Don't coat it in syrup or ranch or other crap.
Secondly, religiously keep meal times. at least three a day, 7:30, 1:00, 7:00 for example. If you keep a clockwork schedule like this, you will begin to feel hungry +/- 15 minutes of your scheduled eating time.
Plan out your meals.