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What's up /adv/isers,
I haven't had sex in 2 years.
The last time I had it was with my ex girlfriend. She's the only person I've ever had sex with. At the beginning of my relationship with her I had a really hard time getting an erection so we didn't have sex until about 6 months into our relationship. There was a vicious cycle of anxiety around not being able to get hard.
I think there is still a lingering anxiety about this that makes me afraid of intimacy with people. But at the same time I don't feel very attracted to many people. I'm not sure if this is just an excuse I've made for myself to validate my sexual inactivity.
Another problem is I've had a very difficult time getting over this ex. I still think about her a lot and I feel very different from other people who seem to be able to move on quickly. I still find her really attractive and masturbate to the thought of her which I think is counterproductive.
I feel like I have some kind of condition where I can't get into other girls. It's like I don't think anyone's good enough and I lose interest really quickly and only really want to have sex with my ex...
fuck. long post.
TLDR: Can't get over ex, sexually. Don't have the drive or the interest to have sex with/see other people. I have anxiety around sex.
Can someone diagnose this?
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>>18486744
As far as I can tell there is nothing special about not being over your ex.
Your erection problem is however not quite normal - maybe go see a doctor about that.
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idk I was over my ex the day after I kicked her the fuck out. helps if your ex was a massive bitch that ruined just about every facet of your life.
get over it. stop being anxious about sex. do you suck at it? what's the deal?
as for not being able to get hard idk man, I've never had that problem. I've had problems with staying hard recently cause jacking off is just like whats the fucking point anymore and I was diamonds for this one girl but that didn't pan out and now it's like my dick is depressed idfk.
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>>18486744
Focus on yourself before focusing on others. Get into porn and masturbation. Establish to yourself what you do and do not like, and go from there.
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>>18486846
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>>18486759
I don't have a problem with getting erections. I watch porn and masturbate. Into pretty vanilla shit really. I just can't ever see myself going after someone. It's like I'm not interested enough. I've considered the possibility that I'm asexual but i guess if i watch porn then no.
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