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possible girlfriend is sceptical about relationship 2017-07-18 12:30:12 Post No.18530588
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sup /adv/
i need some help with this girl i like and i'd like to say i'm pretty close to being in a relationship with her, but she's been in some shitty relationships and none of her family members are in relationships like her Mum/Dad, Nan/Pop etc haven't been together since she was a kid and her previous boyfriend cheated on her on more than one occasion and now she's worried that i might cheat on her if we get too close and she understandably has some trust issues with that kinda stuff.
i haven't had a girlfriend before but I've had crushes and stuff on girls in the past that never went anywhere because all of them were pretty one sided and most of these were on the height of my depression(mid teens) so i'd ask them out after maybe 4-5 weeks and because of that she's nervous that if i talk to other women that i'll fall for them and cheat/leave her for them.
i need some help (or if you would /adv/ice in) convincing her that i won't do this but of course she wont believe me because of all that I've mentioned above. she's just worried and i'm not sure what i should say to help prove that 'm good for her and wont hurt her.
I'm planing on calling her tomorrow or the day after and talking about it because actually hearing my voice instead of reading shit on a screen shows more emotion that wouldn't be translated through text.
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>>18530588
I would just go with what you have already planned
I've been in a similar situation and what probably ruined it was that I just kept texting, meeting up in person is a lot more meaningful than just messaging
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>>18530588
I wouldn't talk about it very much, if you can avoid it. You can't convince her with words, and it will very likely just bring up her doubts again. Give it time, trust can grow. Be patient with her, don't try to force the relationship to be the way you want it to be. And don't talk about other girls.
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Just found out my insurance was canceled in April and had no idea, my mom is the primary card holder and was never notified. I called to make an important doctors important and was told that my insurance was rejected, I have no idea what to do I need to get back under my moms plans ASAP
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Where is the line drawn between flirting with a girl and harassing her?
It used to clear but the line is getting more and more blurred with every year
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>>18530452
No its not. When she doesn't reciprocate it has crossed the line. Always been that way
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You should be able to read a person.
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I'm fucked but willing to fix my life
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2017-07-18 11:34:01
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Guys I need some help.
Currently manic phase so trying to do 10 things while at best 2-3 possible.
In slight debt, no stable job and got chased by loan sharks by my bank. Nothing serious, just "hey, we are on behalf of your bank, you need to pay so contact us".
Feels like shit.
Recently found sweet girl but she's out of town for next week.
No one to loan money from and money will come in month or so.
Kinda panicking and thinking myself into get-rich-fast idiocy because of it.
There's upcoming short story contest with pretty good money to win and want to participate because didn't do anything artsy or so for far too long but stressed to the point I can't focus.
Can someone point things for this idiot of me what do?
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Ur fucked. Just like the rest of us
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>19 years old, living out of home
>I bought a shitty car for $600
>Most money I've had in my whole life, had to pay it off over a month
>I don't have a license
>Plan is to get license, learn in the car and get my Ps in 12 months
>This was 12 months ago (July 2016)
>Bought the car with one month rego left
>Sister said she would register it in her name for me because I don't have a license and she is a pensioner and gets free rego
>Okily dokily
>Have to move elsewhere to study, can't get license because no proof of residence and way more expensive there
>Come back after studying (April 2017)
>Been asking sister for rego papers so I could lend the car to my mate since December 2016
>She tells me that she finally did and the car ran out of rego in January because she only put 6 months on instead of 12 even though I asked her a million times if she put 12 months on and she said 'yes' every time
>Car has been sitting in one spot the whole time because she lost the fucking rego papers
>Doesn't start anymore
>$600 down the drain because of this bitch
>Different sister tells me we can't register it to sell it because we won't make our money back
>Pretty much only option is to take it to the wreckers
>I ask that retard sister buys me out $600 and she can keep what the wreckers money since this is entirely her fault
Is this a fair solution?
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>>18530412
>sisters the problem
Your a lazy piece of shit.
Your lucky to have a sister that cares for your worthless entitled ass. Die.
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>>18530438
she literally did nothing
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>>18530638
>Sister registered it in her name
You're worthless.
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Recently bought a cheap, prefilled cbd vape pen to see if it would help my anxiety. It really does, so I guess now the thing to do is invest in a good vape pen (I don't want anything huge) so I don't have to use this shitty thing. Cbd gummies and syrups are too expensive, unless I'm looking in the wrong place. I'm not sure. That's why I'm here. Any suggestions? Thanks.
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Bump bc I'm clueless
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>>18530371
Seek psychological help
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I've been dating a man who is a bit older than me for a little over 7 months now. I met him at work and for some reason agreed to give him my number. He would incessantly ask me out on dates until I finally agreed to meet up with him at a bar. We touched on all the basic talking topics and he mentioned that he had been single for a couple years now. We had a great time until he asked me to be his girlfriend at the end of the night. I said no and instead suggested we get to know each other better. So we did and a couple months later we were officially dating.
I never had a reason to suspect anything of him and I am not the kind to snoop around on the internet. However, about 5 months in, I decided to Google him. I didn't find much but I did find a profile of what appears to be his wife or ex-wife. There were no recent photos of them together. I confronted him about it and he said that she was part of his past but did not provide many details.
I've been snooping around carefully trying to find more clues. All the while, he is spending more time with me and keeps talking about moving in together. At this point, I don't know whether I should just trust him or risk losing his trust by going through his phone and finding out the truth.
And what would I do if it were true? Take advantage of the relationship and screw him over? Or expose him in the shittiest way possible?
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>>18530360
Why in holy hell would you consider moving in with a man you do not know and is purposefully vague about himself? Have you even inquired about the guy at your workplace?
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Should I force my chubby jap to lose weight? how do I go about making her lose weight?
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>Has a chubby Japanese girl
>Wants to ruin her
The internet is filled with perverts who would pay to watch her eat a whole sheet cake.
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1. You should be /fit/ yourself. Nothing shittier than a guy spending all day on the couch yet demanding his gf lose weight.
2. For the same reason you should also be eating healthy. You can cook together with her, insisting on cooking healthy stuff. Leads to her eating well. No sweets, man.
3. Consider finding a kinda casual sports for the two of you to do together. Like table tennis or badminton or frisbee even. Go on bike tours together. 2-3 times a week any of this.
4. The best way to lose weight is probably regular running. Sadly running together with you will probably not comfortable for her unless you're fat. So maybe you run alone, encouraging her to also try it to get fit and all. Maybe she'll do it.
t. sweet chubby gf haver
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>>18530403
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCtn4Ap8kDM
>>18530341
start doing a casual diet (drop the crisps for an apple, eat fast food once a week and no more, eat vegetarian 2/3 meals of the day etc.) and when she takes notice ask her to join
if you're in the state that dieting could kill you bring it up as a health concern (maby take a BMI test if it's bad)
you'll seem like you're doing it for her in both cases
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>tfw spend whole day on 4chan
I want to do nothing and feel impotent. I think this situation will never change.
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>>18530189
>I want rewards without effort.
Yeah. That's never going to happen.
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Hey there, to jump right into it my girlfriend and I are worried she might be pregnant. She has missed her last period by 3 or 4 days now. I just wanted to know if anyone could offer us any knowledge? Could it just be from stress or from birth control?
We have sex often, i always use a condom and always pull out. She is on birth control and very rarely is even late taking the pill. She has been very stressed out over this recently.
The condom broke once but we noticed instantly. No nut ever went inside her. Any thoughts? do you guys think we are safe?
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>>18530170
take a pregnancy test.
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>>18530170
>Could it just be from stress or from birth control?
Yes, and yes.
You're PROBABLY safe. That said, pregnancy tests are cheap. Like 3-4 dollars per test kind of cheap. And if she's late on her period and pregnant, then the test would reflect if she's pregnant or not.
Spending the couple of bucks on a test will do way more for your peace of mind than anything that anyone says on here can do for you.
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>>18530170
https://www.walmart.com/ip/First-Signal-One-Step-Pregnancy-Test-1ct/17283605
Here's a $0.98 pregnancy test. Available at Walmart. Got a Walmart in the area? Go pick one up.
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I'm looking to improve my writing skills but don't really know where to start.
Any and all advice on how to write a good story would be helpful, i'm just looking for different perspectives.
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>>18530157
You already made a thread.
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>>18530157
Learn French and read Antoine Albalat's works.
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>>18530157
aside from taking a class, read books about writing. get at least two friends who can critique your works, one who is on your level, and one who you find to be far ahead of you.
when you have people examine your works, ask them not to focus on how 'interesting' the plot is or isn't, but rather the writing its self (an experienced writer will already be doing this when critiquing your work).
start reading anything in the genre that interests you and when you get done ask your self, aside from the actual plot, what did you enjoy?
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I have a pretty good life at the moment. Junior in highschool, just had a first date with a girl that I really like, lots of friends, 3.9 GPA 1200 SAT score, but i can't ever shake this horrible feeling of depression when im alone. I feel that like when im with my friends, or my girlfriend im pretty happy, but when im alone, i just can't seem to feel happy. As a result I haven't been able to fall asleep until like 4 or 5 in the morning, and feel very unmotivated to try and make plans with my friends. Is there something wrong with me? Has anybody else experienced this feeling?
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>>18530117
You're young. You're probably still figuring out who you are. That's entirely normal (and you likely won't actually become confident in who you are until around age 25, when your brain stops developing).
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>>18530117
>1200 SAT score
did they change the scoring metrics again or are you stupid enough to think that's a good score?
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>>18530203
According so a quick search, it's the 70th percentile. Better than average, not extraordinary.
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what do i do if i cant fucking stop smoking pot and chasing the dragon? I think the habbit is fine and okay to smoke just a little bit and have a few times here and there when you smoke put when i start im just chasing a really big high and if i dont get it i freak out and have anxiety and cant stop chasing the dragon. I really dont give a shit if i smoke a lot of pot but it costs so fucking much. I tried growing but i live in a rural area and its like trudding through muddy shit you cant even dig in and 4 foot high grass with bugs and shit and i never know if someone owns the long stretches of empty land or not because almost everyone does
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It's a gateway drug
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Sort yourself out, quit smoking and say goodbye to your enabling pothead "friends"
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my semen doesn't have a color 2017-07-18 08:02:48 Post No.18530087
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my semen doesn't have a color
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2017-07-18 08:02:48
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can i still make children?
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Yes, but they'll unfortunately be just as autistic as you.
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>>18530087
blue semen master-race reporting in:
no
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>>18530087
Are you 11 years old?
It gets whiter as you get older kid
You need to be 18 or older to post here
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I fell in love with a girl online. She cheated on me and we stopped talking but i can't get over her. I've blocked her on all social media so i could avoid thinking about her but i still do anyways.
I've recently lost a lot of weight and im now trying online dating apps like tinder to try and meet girls but most of the girls i talk to are thots. It's extremely rare to find a nice quality person who isn't just looking to get dicked.
What other ways could i meet girls who have interests in nerdy things? Is finding another girl going to help me get over the one i lost?
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>>18530017
I'm in the same boat... It's pretty hard when ur use to online shit.... And socially awkward.
Bump
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>>18530022
You should withhold judgement on whether you would be compatible until you get to know each other on a date. I would avoid dating apps. It's filled with women who are damaged goods.
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>>18530028
What if I'm also a damaged good ?