Can you get signed up under some sort of guardianship for mental reasons even if there's nothing physically wrong with you?
I go to work and pay my bills on time but I'm starting to get actual health problems from living in filth, eating trash and generally not being able to take care of myself in any meaningful way.
Basically my current living situation is that I haven't eaten proper people food for over a month now because all my dishware is dirty because the sink is clogged and I haven't called the landlord about it because I don't want to let anyone in here to fix it because I don't want anybody to see how trashed the house is. The entire place reeks like the sink.
I've started throwing up almost daily for some reason.
>>18526650
It's because of the filth. Clean your house, man. Buy some draino, bleach, and clean the house.
>>18526587
you can call your local doctor's office and say that you're worried about your mental health. You really need to get help.
Mostly a Neet but sometimes I Dash to make ends meet. Just noticed that they lowered base pay per delivery from 7 to 5. This alone doesn't bug me too much but there are just a fuck ton of Dashers everywhere.
Anyone have good experiences with the alternatives like Caviar, Postmates, Grubhub, etc?
I'll explain my situation in detail.
I'm 19. I don't have a job and I don't go to school or university. I also never kissed anyone and never had a relationship.
Military enlistment and voting are compulsory in my country and I didn't do it, so the gov't took away essential rights from me, like enrolling at universities and renewing my passport.
My country's economy is broken and my family doesn't have any money. Internet and food are in fact the only things I have. My clothes are old and dirty and I don't care about my appearance anymore.
Four years ago, my situation was not bad and I felt in love with a girl from my school. She was intelligent, beautiful and had a unique style. She constantly looked to me nonstop when we met in the halls. One of her friends even told me that she liked me. But since I was very shy, I never talked to her. I only talked to her via the internet, a couple of times. After a while, she seemed to not be interested anymore.
The following year, I left that school. I started to talk with her again. But I was disrespectful: I stalked her a lot and sometimes even told my fetishes to her, so she showed to despise me. We repeatedly stopped and then returned to talk to each other, with me always starting the conversations.
In the midst of all this, I got to know her better. We talked a lot about ourselves, and she seemed interested, to the point of even showing me drawings she made of what appeared to we two kissing. But she always refused to met me personally or even call me on Skype or send pics; she said she was afraid and still kind of despised me.
I stopped talking to her for one year, but in April this year I started again. I showed to her that I'm now another person; that I'm not the same maniac from before. She seemed to understand and not despise me anymore, now talking normally, but she doesn't seem as interested as before.
What should I do?
Why WOULD she be interested in you? You're a NEET who has a history of being an asshole to her.
Remember to take this as a brand new relationship. Take it slow and build slowly. The key here is patience.
>>18526559
You should stop using Skype, and start using Wire or Signal, for one. Privacy is everyone's responsibility.
TL;DR: I'm a little schoolgirl in a man's body who's worried that their current girlfriend will eventually leave them for someone a little more assertive because they're maybe too nice(?).
We're high-school sweethearts. Her being my first ever girlfriend, I was a tad clueless going in. I wasn't aware of the average procedures of dating, or how to go about it. Thankfully she led me through most of it--from handholding to kissing. I was scared of losing our relationship, even if it was possibly the first of many.
Typically, I try to be assuring, kind, and helpful. I suppose you could say I'm generally submissive. She comes from a family that fought a lot, abused her a lot, so I went about everything with some timidity--trying to be a much more positive, forgiving person for her sake.
When I asked her out on our first date, I recall her saying that the way I went about asking her, with plans already in mind and what I imagine assertion, was attractive. But honestly, I'm a very indecisive person. We always have this innocuous back-and-forth whenever one of us tries to decide what to do next on a date--a seemingly incessant trade of, "What do you want to do?"
But what I'm worried about is, am I not being assertive enough? Does my passiveness turn her off? Before I met her and still to this day, I've been a recluse; an introvert. I'm generally a man of few words, but, according to her, one with insight and unique commentary. But is that really enough to sustain her interest?
I constantly shower her with love and affection and sweet nothings, and when we're getting intimate, I'm--ironically enough--the dominate person; but what if she meets someone who's generally much more assertive?
We say we love each other every day, and we're never not showing affection, but is it too "soft"? Does my being so open about my emotions, even regarding my more depressive moods (never explicit, mind you), possibly jeopardize our relationship?
>>18526484
Feel like you're thinking about the relationship too much,but If you really love her tell you how you feel not in a breakup sense but what you're saying now.
>>18526484
Being open about your emotions isn't being soft. Asking for constant reassurance is, though. I don't mind telling someone why I'm happy/sad/mad if they ask. But I also don't go around asking, "Is it ok for me to feel this way? Am I being annoying? Do you still love me?"
You lack confidence in yourself. You're worried that you aren't acting the way you should. If that's the case, then act the way you think you should act, while remembering that while you shouldn't ASK for feedback, you should listen if she complains.
>>18526502
That's moreso my girlfriend's general disposition. Funnily enough, we're both nervous wrecks about the relationship. Even her, and it's not her first; but it is her longest relationship so far.
exam in a couple of days what do
>>18526463
Study.
>>18526495
either that or do what I did, quit studying all together and get a job
might not have been the smartest move though, so start studying
>>18526463
Relax and do what you can. That's enough
I work at a fast food reasturant, and my crush does too. I'm always giving her free food, and now when I go to her place I get free drinks most of the time, even when she's not there. Am I just wishful thinking or is this just being nice?
>>18526461
The only way to answer this question for certain is to ask her.
Why are so many people on this board terrified of rejection? Are you not proud of who you are? If you're proud of yourself, then rejection is nothing more than a chick not realizing how awesome you are, which is her loss and another chick's gain.
>>18526461
Don't give free shit, that just sements you as a beta provider
Ask her out and that's that.
>>18526467
this is a really nice comment anon
every time I click on an image it opens it in a new tab (I am using chrome) HELP!
>>18526452
why not firefox, anon ? :^)
>>18526452
You've got bigger problems than images.
Privacytools.io
Hey /adv/,
anyone here who has experiences with both Adderall and Meth/Cocaine?
I have extreme problem with focusing on things, I tried every advice in the book for the last five years, and I just can't help it. I was even diagnosed with ADHD, but they don't give Ritalin to adults in my country (and we don't have Adderall at all). When I was in the US, I got a pill of Adderall once, and it worked like magic.
So, basically, it's easier, cheaper, and safer for me to get meth/cocaine than Adderall. So I thought I would buy empty pill capsules, and fill them with meth/cocaine/whatever else.
Will it work as well as Adderall? Any big differences? Any tips (what drug to use etc.)?
Thanks.
Meth will help you focus, but it fries dopamine receptors in your brain. You will be depressed as fuck when you can't get it.
I used to binge on it every weekend for about three months. Dont think ive felt the same since. Time goes by almost too quickly. You're beyond focused; you're obsessed. If you're the type to get addicted then it will certainly steal your soul. Don't risk it man.
Can you get Vyvanse?
>>18526459
This, I'm already addicted with weed so I take adderall very sparingly. The last thing I need is to get hooked off pills. I will say this though, you feel like a fucking God on addy. Like your mind is so open and focused and nothing on this damn planet can stop you in that moment.
What's up /adv/
tl;dr advice on head injury
>be me a week ago
>fall and smash head against brick wall
>goose egg swelling, major headache, neck pain
>obviously whiplash and mild concussion
I have been to the doc, and nothing is cracked or broken. The goose egg swelling has come down somewhat, and a scab has formed, itching and all.
However, every night, my pillow is covered in blood. Contact blood, not flowing out kinda blood. I presume it's because the scab keeps being disturbed (I have long hair).
What am I supposed to do? Will I just intermittently bleed for the rest of my life, or will it eventually toughen up and heal all the way? The headaches are manageable now, but the actual would is a real, uh, pain in the head. What do?
Have a cool wallpaper in the meantime.
Hello /adv/.
A lot of this post has whinning, I feel like in order to understand where I am right now I have to explain why. I will try to make this brief and short.
>Have a past of bullying throughout my school for eight years
>Was nearly assaulted by father when he was drunk when I was like thirteen, was threatened to be killed by him.
>End up in an abusive relationship for five years.
>Had always conversation issues with parents, poor communication.
>In fifteen I am diagnosed with literal high-functioning autism
>Start losing weight, improving myself. Let go of my shitty relationship
>Sucesfully graduate
>I am twenty now.
>Start realizing how utterly bad I am at normal situations in life and how incompentent I am.
>Start feeling like a waste of space like I always have, assumed that getting better looks and graduating would improve my own self-image a little bit.
>Only getting worse in-fact, I feel like my autism symptoms somehow are getting worse too.
>Apathy intensifies, depression has grown to the point I cannot force to care much about things
>Start hating my own gender I was born in, I thought I was done with that too.
>Depression and anxiety grows, been making suicide plan every day.
I don't even know /adv/ I don't even know why I am posting here, I think that desperation has grown a lot and I feel like this is the place of peace I can turn to as I am annonymous here and that calms me down, many times I've tried to come clean with my issues to people around me, yet I never really was properly listened to, maybe I just can't express myself properly.
I just do not know how to be content with myself and try to be happy. I work out daily but I feel like an utter failure for my parents anyway. I absolutely despise my autism. I would have been a much better person without it, not sure if I can honestly live with it.
Sorry for whinning so much for this post.
>>18526330
Why are you living for the approval of other people? Live for yourself man. Do things that YOU would be proud of. Fuck the rest of the world.
My friend has been super creeping me out lately
So lke a while ago we lost touch because we were fighting and she was bejng really selfish and I'm pretty sure she stole money from me though I'm not positive, and she was super ungrateful for tons of things I would do for it just be rude/stomp on me to get in places in her life.
-a few months later we made up and since then she's been like reeally weeird. I guess Inn the time we didn't talk, one of her friends she was close with for a while committed suicide and she found out a guy she dated a year(?) ago also killed himself last summer .
When we first started hanging out again she was really fun to be around but then after a couple
Times she stArrd being rlly weird (maybe she was like this but covered it up upon us making up as friends) but she spends times at ponds in the middle of the night and one night I guess she was there with a bottle of wine and Xanax nd I went there and brought her home and that's when she told me everytnknf and I've
Honestly been scarred to be around her..
I researched why the guy killed himself Bc I was curious and I met him for like a couple seconds once when I dropped her off to hangout w him, and he killed himself after being drunk and killing his next door neighbor. Idk the whole story. The other grl killed herself "with a needl" whatver that means.
My friend told me she felt guilty Bc she said she's been mean to them, and also she said she lost all her friends Bc she did mean things to them they won't forgive.
Before that night I found all this out
Also, her mom texted me on FB Bc she didn't come home that night and she was asking me if I knew where she was (I didn't) and now imm like grtting freaked out feeling like I'm respible for her.
Sometimes she's normal but
Other times I get wicked creeped out. Tonight we were talking and she doesn't remember what happened after that night and also she thinks I'm secretly fucking the guy she's been seeing when I neve met him
>>18526321
And she's been really clingy and stuff with me and I kinda think it's Bc she thinks I'm seeing this dude Bc she keeps saying it and she finally stopped affter I got Mad and told Her I don't wanna constantly defend myself and I think it's because she legit thinks I'm with him and am dating him liek it's insane.
I'm honestly scared she's going to
Do soemrjinf to me or try to ruin me or something and I also feel responsible for her and then feel like she needs a friend to and I'm really scared that anytning I do is going to cause problems
I'm legit scared of her.. Tonight in the car she spent an hour trying to remember stuff and like almost made it seem like she thought I was making stuff up
About what happened saying she was confused as to why she deleted stuff in her phone like thinking I did stuff
Legit don't knkw what to do like contemplating telling her I'm moving away or something
I've been in a relationship for around a month i really like the person and care about them alot but when ever i talk about our relationship she says she does want to be in it and she feels the same way about me but she acts as if she doesn't in multiple ways actions speak louder than words i guess should i end our relationship any advice would help
>>18526305
Why exactly does she not want to be in one?
She does things like tell people where just friends and just little things
Are you sure you're in a relationship?
>she says she does want to be in it
>tell people we are just friends
I've never seen any good come from a relationship where one partner is afraid to tell others of the status of the relationship.
Will working night shifts effect me cognitively. I mean i'll be able to get adequate sleep after my shift is over but will this fuck me up in a neurological sense in the long run.
>>18526295
Not really. I work 3rd shift. It only became a problem around the time I hit 30, as, even with blackout curtains and a speaker playing thunderstorm noises, I have trouble falling asleep during the day. Sleep like a rock during my 4 day weekends though (10 days on, 4 days off), when I sleep at night.
>>18526295
No, as long as you can get the adequate sleep and maybe black out your room. Used to work 10-12 hour shifts on a warehouse at night, fucked me up for a bit but I was fine once I covered my windows from the sun and got enough sleep
>>18526303
Thanks for the reply
So who I thought was my best friend just stopped talking to me all of a sudden. I've been friends with him since 3rd grade. I'm 22 now.
I used to be roommates with a mutual friend and it ended terribly where the mutual friend convinced himself I owed him money (like $240 total) a month after I moved out. I'm assuming that the mutual friend lied to my best friend about the circumstances.
I have a good job, I make good money, I bought a house recently, and I have a girlfriend.
Why do I feel like such a failure? I had a felling this was going to happen when I decided not to pay the crazy asshole. Should I have just paid him to preserve my friendship with my best friend? Should I pay him now?
pls help.
>>18526290
if your best friend beleived him over you and didn't talk with you about it he isn't your friend, get over it and live your life as per usual. it'll feel much better after a while
Best places to meet the truly kinkiest most deviant women out there?
Fetlife me thinks.
>>18526289
>fetlife
Depends what you want. Hardcore bdsm communities, like fetlife, have very strict approach towards new memners. If you're looking for a casual flick with someone without understanding of the theories, mindset, and feelings behind trust-based bdsm, you'll get btfo'd hard.
If you're not up for that, go for craigslist or tinder, harder to find someone kinky, but there's no risk of burning yoirself or anyone else.
Stop watching porn and getting into these Jewish fetishes