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Would an RCA to USB adapter work if i'm trying to export sound from a Boss SP-303?
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>>18533711
I dunno anon ask /g/
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>>18533729
fuck, I meant >>> /wsr/

My girlfriend friend has this thing called misophonia its a sensitivity to noises It apparently causes her to shake violenty cry and have suicidal thoughts/self harm i talk to her about it she says she's in the right mind when it happens though so chances of her acutaly doing are very slim i asked her if i can help in anyway at all she told there's nothing i could do she also said its been getting worse over the last 6 months I'm extremely worried we both have a history of self harm we've only be together for a month but i really care about her what
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>>18533705
Your life sounds like this month's hottest indie romantic drama starring Michael Cera and Emma Roberts. You should write a script about your life and pass it to a movie director. This won't solve your situation, but it's better to cry in a Ferrari than between those four walls, anon.
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show us the documentated diagnose
until then you are a slipper who tolerates tantrums
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Therapy. Get her to go and they will help her. Stay supportive and don't be pushy but make sure she goes. Relationship and her mental health will plummet otherwise.

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So, I don't know where else to turn. Here's a few things you need to know about me:

>18 years old
>Never shaved pubes or armpit hair up until this point
>Suddenly decide to do it today out of the blue

What do you guys think about this? Is shaving armpit hair and pubes gay for men? If you shave, how have women reacted to it? Do they like shaved pits or think it is unmanly?
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>>18533700
If you don't want it to be gay, you need to only trim pubes and shave rest of your body according to your own comfort and maybe if you have a gf, for her comfort as well.

For example, I live in a cold climate with a brief summer and 4-5 months of winter, so I don't shave often at all, but I don't know if in mediterranean/californian climate it becomes more necessary due to sweating all the time.
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>how have women reacted to it

her mouth is not getting full of hair when im shoving my dick down her throat
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It's not gay to do anything short of being attracted to the same sex. As for women, some like it, some think it's weird, and the majority doesn't really care. It depends on the girl really, just make sure if they ask why you did it say that you just felt like it because it's a funny conversation starter. Ultimately go with what feels more comfortable to you.

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I am planning to construct a platform to criticize private education institutions.
If done properly my critisim should have an impact on the number of customers private education institutions receive.
I have a school in particular I want to criticize but I am wondering if this can potentially get me into legal trouble. I there is a possibility I do not have freedom of speech rights in my country I will try to learn how to operate anonymously.
I have seen flaws in private education institutions and I want to spread my message. In a perfect society the output would meet the input but that is not the case. The quality of education is getting worse yet private insituions pay a ridiculous sum of money because they are opportunists.
If schools were built in a capitalist society competition alone would force education institutions to provide the best education.
The private insitution I want to criticize is funded by a American board which exists to push it's agenda of Christian morals and American culture.
Religion should not interfere with government or education politics.

I still have a lot to learn about this project but these are my initial thoughts.
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>>18533660
>If schools were built in a capitalist society competition alone would force education institutions to provide the best education.


Without addressing your larger issues I'll point out that that is false. In an unregulated (by standards bureaus, either from government or the education industry itself) purely capitalist context schools that offer the most ofr the least effort will thrive. In America they're called "diploma mills" - just give us lots of money and we'll mail you a degree.

My girlfriend friend has this thing called misophonia its a sensitivity to noises It apparently causes her to shake violenty cry and have suicidal thoughts/self harm i talk to her about it she says she's in the right mind when it happens though so chances of her acutaly doing are very slim i asked her if i can help in anyway at all she told there's nothing i could do she also said its been getting worse over the last 6 months I'm extremely worried we both have a history of self harm we've only be together for a month but i really care about her what should i do
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Make a playlist of all the music she likes and Duc tape some headphones to her ears.
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Didn't you just make this thread
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>>18533634
hi I have misophonia but not nearly as severe.
Buy your gf industrial quality earplugs. I use normal earplugs and they stop me from having panic attacks, so I'm sure industrial strength ones would work wonders for her.

also never force her to go to public places with a lot of noise/a lot of people it's torture for people like us. Sometimes even doing the dishes makes me want to cut my ears off.

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>tl;dr some cunt removed all the clock cards from work to mess up my pay.
Im fairly certain that a fellow employee deliberately removed the blank clock cards (shows how long you've worked) from where they're meant to be to mess with my pay, are there any legal actions I can take? Or can I only sook to the boss?
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Bring it up to a manager or other higher-up, and if that doesn't fix it seek legal action

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Hey guys so I have a fairly successful business, even before I was always taking initiative in college so I was so used to people following me. I didnt notice it at first until people told me. But It got to the point where I could tell people what to do and they would do it. Even defending my honor through fighting.If I asked for it. I've had friends girlfriends try to sleep with me,( I always told on them). But now that I have my business, I bumped into an old girl I use to like/had a fling iwth before I got with my current 10 year gf. She was interested in what I was doing and wanted to learn so I asked my gf and after seeing it was okay I've been tutoring her/teaching her. The catch is that the girl always meets up with me with boot shorts and with her cleavage out. One of my clients is going to throw a party for our product and I asked if she was going, and she said " of course do you want me to dress like a skank right?". This is bad in two ways, because 1) Theres no way I can benefit this without cheating (which I wont ), unless I give her to my business partner. 2 ) I feel like a total scumbag even though I didnt ask for her to do this. Because I just met her boyfriend the other day. Really nice guy, with alot of money as well. The idea of power over people is interesting as I try not to push for more but it comes naturally. I could potentially get this girl to suck off the entire company just for some placement.

Now I hit this dilemma, seeing how much of a scumbag she is. The question is do I expose her to her boyfriend who houses her or do I play her game and have my partners benefit ?
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larp.txt

what career should i get into today that isn't repetitive and has to good pay?

Me: Took the year off to decide
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What's a good way to get up on time in the morning? I often wake up to late, because I don't hear my alarm. It is already really loud, and my mom wakes up. I can't go any louder because of our neighbors. I have tried morning and sleep rituals, tried those sleeping time apps, removing all electronics from my bed, 3 different alarms across the room, nothing worked.

I thought about some alarms for deaf people, where the matress vibrates. Or some light alarms, but I can sleep at any light condition.

Any tips on that topic?
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When I take melatonin I wake before my alarm. I think it helps with quality of sleep so I wake well rested. It's worth a shot.
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Go to bed earlier and wake up naturally
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>>18533500
Hm, in Germany that's kind of hard to get by. But I'll talk about it with my doc.

>>18533513
Falling asleep is also very hard. I tried meditation, workout, taking a walk, weird binaural audio, other rituals, without success. I can't fall asleep.

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If I delete a sent email that was unread can the person still read it? I know its a stupid question
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Yes they can.
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>>18533456

yup. too late now
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>>18533456
Certain services allow this, but they are exceedingly rare, and require both people to use the same service. I believe aol.com offered this, once upon a time.

Of course, if you're using a service like that, you know that you're sending a post card, anyways. Literally anyone can read it. Being smart, and using an encrypted service like Protonmail and Tutanota, means that it would be literally impossible to do so.

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Help I'm joining the Navy and I can't swim.

I don't know if I can pass the swimming test :(((

How fucked am I?
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>>18533412

unless your test is tomorrow, just go get someone and ask them to teach you how to swim. then spend the rest of your time utnil the test practicing.
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Have you tried just hopping in water and figuring it out anon? Not too deep that you can't stand obviously, but enough to attempt floating..

I was legitimately taught as a child by being thrown in water and told to figure it out.. Worked surprisingly well.
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Jump off the deep end of a swimming pool and come back to me.

What university should I get into? Got accepted to the following 3
>Virginia Tech
>Texas A&M
>Rutgers
I want to major in physics,also these are all out of state so I'm basically going to pay the same for all of them.
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>>18533405
Consider various factors:
1) amount of financial aid you'll be getting
2) requirements for the degree and how many years it will take (check that on their respective websites)
3) the kinds of physics courses the university offers
4) what resources are provided by the universities
5) what the town the universities are situated are like
6) will you plan to continue into doing a phd? if so, are there opportunities the university provides in getting graduate credit as an undergrad?
7) cost of travel from the university and your home
8) do research on other sites and see what students attending those universities have to say
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>>18533405
Why those three in particular?

Why not your own state university?

Of the three, Rutgers has the best overall reputation.

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I have both depression and social anxiety...

To elaborate further, I think this began around 6 years ago when I was 13/14 years old. Back then I had assumed it was puberty and teenage angst, I assumed it was just a faze that would pass by. So, I waited. Days turned into weeks... Which turned into months... Then years. Every year I would do worse and worse in school, my final year I actually failed a course because I would skip school and just not do homework or study. I guess I just slowly lost motivation and just didn't really care after so much turmoil.

I could go on and on about random shit like my childhood, family, school etc. to no avail. I'm just so sick of living like this, I feel like I'm trapped, I wish it would just end, I would walk through 100 miles of glass just to have these feelings go away.

You may be wondering, "well, just get some help, what are you retarded?". And to that, I say yes, yes I am... Aaaand, also, there's one huge ass problem, that just drives me insane... I think it's the combination of both illnesses mixed with some learned behavior from childhood, but I just feel like I can't tell anyone. I feel like these are things that men aren't supposed to talk about. During my upbringing my dad was practically non-existent (alcoholic), I have all female siblings and my mother, and it felt like when I was
very young (and still to this day) they had no regard for my emotions, so I felt it was futile to even talk about my emotional being. I've only told one of my friends most of my problems, but I was drunk asf and nothing really came of it, he gave me the "oh, I care about you, blah blah" bit, and nothing really happened afterward. So, to me, it seems like friends and family are out of the picture, I can't even bring myself to say anything to them anyway.

I honestly have no clue as to what to do, any suggestions /adv/? Hell, I feel so empty right now that I can't even remember anything that I wrote, I hope it isn't long and dull...
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As someone who's largely gone through the same thing: get your shit together. It's as simple as that, make a decision to get better and try harder. There's no magical treatment for anxiety that I am aware of, but facing your social difficulties makes the anxiety less severe and manageable. It's hard, but it's the only thing you can do besides getitng drugged out that will make your life better.

I used to have panic attacks due to social anxiety almost each time I tried to talk to someone. In the evening, I'd go through ~2 hours of panic attacks, preventing me from socializing like a normal human being. Eventually I decided I was either going to die or fix myself, because life wasn't worth living this way. For a year, it was very hard; while mindfulness helped, 99% of the effort was sheer willpower. But I did it. So can you.
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what the first guy said; here's a MIndfulness audio course that should help you some. Plus another pack of affirmations to listen to before sleeping. I hope this helps.
http://www.mediafire.com/file/stl5ctg1ptogszt/MWTD.zip
http://www.mediafire.com/file/686p3ey8rl47lxc/Up_From_Depression.zip
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>>18533357
I mean, I guess it could never hurt to just try again, but I have no idea where to start with fixing myself up... I guess I should just pick a few random things that are a bit easier and just work my way up... I'm just afraid if I fail I might he absolute rock bottom (at least in my mind). I just hope I can persevere through the years of damage I have caused myself.

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I have a meeting with my advisor tomorrow, and I've essentially accomplished nothing since I last saw him two weeks ago. I'm not sure what to say. I'm basically done with the project, but there's one last thing I need to do. And this was supposed to be the easy part, but two weeks of work and I've gotten nowhere, it's been an absolute nightmare.

Advice?
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Hey, /adv/. I need traveling advice.

tl;dr: Japan: how tô

I'm brazilian and if all goes well I'll start earning good money starting january next year. So I wanna save cash and visit Japan in september.

Anyone who has been there before:
1) how long should I stay to enjoy it to the max?
2) how much money should I save to eat in nice in places and buy cool stuff? (I'll be probably paying for two though, I want to take my gf and she's not really rich)
3) are japanese homophobes? Cause Im gay and I want to know if it will be weird to, like, rent a couple's hotel room or do romantic dykey stuff around the japs
4) what are the must-do-things in japan?
5) which cities should I visit?

Any information is welcome, thanks in advance!
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I forgot to add: is it possible to communicate with english and (very) basic japanese? Or should I hire an enterpreter? I'm up to studying more the language if its needed

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