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I need to install Gimp in Ubuntu 16 LTS. i can't do it over synaptic or via off site. porting from debian 7 does not work either. I need ideas on how to do that or make chrome & chromium work in debian wheezy (both give me error "unable to open web page plus all ext. are blocked") appreciate your help, *nix-broz)
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>>18531646
>i can't do it over synaptic or via off site.
why?
also, >>>/g/
also, install gentoo

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Basically I have suffered from abandonment issues my whole life and nothing I do heals the giant hole in my heart where my father should be. I keep looking at older men feeling attracted to then, feeling lonely. I have a giant crush on a movie star who is older than my real father. I project my feelings on the character he plays, some times I pretend that he is with me and I can talk to him like he's my own family. I thought maybe I should settle down and start a family, but how can I be a parent when I never had an example of one in my life? I only have my tv shows and what I can learn about parental love from fiction. I would probably pay an sweet older man money just to hold me for a couple minutes and let me pretend that I have a daddy. It's too embarrassing to talk to my therapist about , I'm 26... I need to grow up and move past this. But I'm just really autistic and I want to hold hands with a fatherly figure and pretend he is mine.
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Are you a gay or a whale?
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Neither, but I am very insecure about myself. I try to accept myself through art and dancing, sometimes even then I struggle to find my confidence. I feel like if I had a father figure in my life that confidence would be there and I would not be hurting.

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I just got something to eat, one of the girls from the back took my order while I was in line, she stood extremely close while doing so. I have been there a few times and she did seem super nice to me but I just chalked it up to good customer service.

Was this a sign she wanted me to hit on her?
How do you ask for a number with other people around?
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>>18531541
Just man up and do it. If you cant do it with people around then wait until business is slow. It could be a sign it might not. You never know until you ask. Just go for it you have nothing to lose honestly.

How to feel good in a relationship while not worrying about breaking up all the time even when things are good?
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>>18531537
Concentrate on the good parts. Appreciate your partner and yourself by doing something to show your appreciation for the relationship. Take a breath occasionally, concentrate on your own individual life.

Insecurity tends to create the situations it fears, be careful.

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i have OCD, not the "neatness" shit, just compulsions and obsessing.
I have a compulsion where i look to the right and left, i obsess over it once the thought enters my brain until i do it, but people are starting to pick up on it, and i don't want it to distract me from everyday hobbies either.
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Read the book brain lock. It literally saved my life and I decided not to kill myself over my OCD.

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I'm dating a girl right now at a summer job. I normally go to school in Atlanta, and she near Albany, New York.
I really like this girl.
The distance is 14 hours by bus/car and about $250+ dollars for a flight. (Also we're poor and taking a lot of classes)
Any Ideas on how this could work out? I really don't like the idea of cutting ties.
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Bumping this just once
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>>18531463
Don't cut off ties, but also don't commit yourselves to a long distance relationship. Keep in contact with each, and see how things go. If you're both still single when you see each other again, start your relationship back up.
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>>18531392
I live near Albany ur screwed

Okay so I need help. Ive started working with a really cute girl but im not sure if she likes me or whether she's been friendly, she added me on Facebook but im not sure if I should ask her on there
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You could ask her on messanger
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I think this is impossible for you since you are already asking on 4chan, but you have to just act like a normal person and talk and get to know her. Once you've proven you are not a spaz lord and you may then ask her out on some kind of date. This should take a week or two tops.

I'd only message her if you're continuing a conversation that you had in person. Like making specific arrangements after making plans like her address if you're picking her up, where to meet, what time, if she's there yet, etc. I wouldn't try to do most of your talking on messenger or actually ask her out on there. It's very beta.

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okay /b, I need help with my penis, I'm having a serious problem.

I was fucking gf from behind, right? Then I hit her G and she tenses up, and it pinches my dick.

And like, it happens sometimes, pain wasn't too bad, so I keep going. Suddenly I'm flaccid and fall out. Still super horny, but can't get hard at all? Like I'm ready to fucking bust and blue-balling hard cause it won't get up.

So I make her cum, she goes home, I try again later.

Looking at some GR8 shit, gettin horny, dick tickles, and suddenly it gets really tense and starts shriveling up. I'm like super scared.

Anyone ever have this? Or know wtf is happening? Like did I just pinch a nerve, and will it heal shortly, or do I have to have like surgery? It's not swollen or painful it just wont get hard. Need help.
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>>18531185
you're asking for sexual medical advice on 4chan
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This has happened to me before. It's some sort of faux erection or flaccid erection or some shit. I have no idea what caused it in my case but it did go back to normal after a few days.

It could be a pinched nerve. Just leave it for a while and see what happens - go to a doctor at the first sign of trauma (bruising, bleeding, pain, etc.)

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hey /adv/, how the fuck do i control my anger problems, whenever i lose at a game or something unlucky happens i get really tilted and start getting really angry sometimes i even hit my desk(currently theres a hole in it) please help i dont know how to fix this as its only been happening recently
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Reformed
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>>18531175
One thing you need to understand, and I'm mean really get it through your head. If you're not being paid to play these games, it doesn't matter if you do badly or something unlucky occurs. Its a CHOICE to react this way, and it seems to me you haven't learned how to channel your anger. If you don't pay for your own shit, then you'll never understand why it's fucking stupid to break your shit. You need someone to bitch slap your ass every time you do something like this, or have some restraint.
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>>18531175
Take some responsibility for your actions. Don't blame it on what happened...

I'll put it to you in a way a very talented poet once said; Life is 10% what happens to you, the other 90% is your attitude. You have 100% control over yourself unless you want to be labeled mentally ill. You need to take responsibility for everything you do.

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I don't consider myself particularly great looking, but this girl was.

Basically, I was out having some drinks and I went out front for a cigarette by myself. I see this girl walking up to the bar entrance with her friends. Next thing I know, she's stood in front of me, asking me for a lighter, even though her friends are all smoking. So I give her a light.

Next thing I know, she's firing all kinds of questions at me. If I'm having a good night, if this bar is any good, what my job is, what I study at university, and telling me a bit about herself. Now, whenever a stranger strikes up a conversation with me my guard's usually up a bit, and as a guy who isn't particularly confident, especially so around an attractive woman. All the time I'm being "cool" and not appearing too keen (inside I'm nervous as fuck!) but she's chatting away at me, touching me on the arm, looking me in the eye. The conversation ends when we both finish our cigarettes and I make a quick getaway.

Thoughts? Was she into me, or just being drunkenly friendly?
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>clubbing woman
>actually making conversation
>IQ above 60

pasta detected

In all seriousness, if you didn't take all those things as clear hints you're an idiot.

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Me. Rented a house for 3 yrs.

New job. New place. New baby.

Handed keys to landlord and he sent me a pic of deposit going to my account

Overseas move so boarded plane with wife and baby

15 hour flight. Can't fly back and sue because of said wife and baby

Landlord called bank while I was on said plane. Told bank wrong account and reversed funds

Deposit gone

I have his personal details and some of his family details

What can I do to get back at him remotely?
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My family and friends constantly call me weird. It's sort of joke in my social circles that I'm weird. They ask me why I look like I'm so unhappy all the time and why I'm even there if I don't want to be.

But the truth is I love hanging out with people, I just have no idea how to convey enjoyment in my body or face. I constantly have the same face and pose and monotone voice and if I try and change it, it seems weird.

I guess I'm asking how can I look like I belong naturally?
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You just need to be more comfortable, telling them to fuck off with the "jesus, you weird mother fucker" might help.
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>>18531073
>You will immediately cease and not continue to access the site if you are under the age of 18.
>>>/global/rules/2
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>>18531451
I'm in my 20s. I can't spend time with my family as an adult?

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I've got thicc leghair, cutting makes it look wierd and not that much better. But shaving it completely clean looks feminine to me.

Is there a way to make leghair just (look) thinner and less monkey-like while not getting rid of it completely.
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Long time lurker, first time poster - I'm desperate. I'll try to keep this as short as possible.

I (mid 30's, healthy, rarely a masturbator but will on occasion) met, fell in love with, and married the woman of my dreams (mid 20's, absolute knockout sex vixen). We are the literal interpretation of that sickeningly lovey couple who is always heart eyes and touchy-feely that makes everyone gag. She is absolutely gorgeous - tattoos, long dark (and colorful) hair, medium brown eyes that I find myself getting lost in, and her body deserves a sculpture to commemorate what she has going on. She is such a loving and caring person, funny too. Her family loves me and my family loves her. She is so smart. Everything is soooo perfect, except for one thing...

About 4 weeks ago I have started having a problem staying erect. We will start getting into things and I will get hard, and then it just goes away.

She and I had a streak of *the* best sex ever. It was the best time of our lives, then this problem happened literally almost overnight.

Now, we CAN have sex. And it's not a problem once we are actually having sex - in fact, I can go all night once we start, and she often complains that it lasts too long. But the problem is that I just lose the erection before sex sometimes and I don't have any clue why.

It has ruined her self image because she thinks it's her and it's soooo not. It has ruined my self esteem and confidence. I am terrified to even try to start anything because I'm afraid it's going to happen again.

I'm begging ANON, please help me out. Suggestions? Concerns?
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Tell your doctor your peepee doesn't work and they'll give you either viagra or cialis, it's very easy

In my experience, Cialis is way better as you take one pill and you'll have no trouble with erections for the rest of the day and even the next day, while viagra you have to take before sex and it doesn't last as long.

The problem could also be completely psychological, as it was for me. When I first tried to have sex as a teenager I was too nervous to get a full erections, and from then on I was too scared that I wouldn't be able to get hard, so I wasn't able to get hard. Boner pills got my confidence back up.
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>>18531056
There are all sorts of innocent physical causes, so have a complete physical to see if anything is amiss. If it's not physical, it's mental. Stress at work? Problems at home? Sex too predictable?
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First of all, the both of you need to stop making it personal as if either of your bear some kind of responsibility.

From the way you're describing it, MAYBE it has something to do with what you're doing (diet, stress, something psychological, dunno) but it's more likely that there's a medical reason.

You're also 30, so in a sense it's also more natural for your libido to fall a bit. During my early to mid/late 20's I could get horny at the drop of a hat. Now it's something that I kind of have to get into the mood for - it's not difficult, per se, but there are more specific triggers and such.

As another anon said, just go consult a doctor and get a professional opinion. And for fuck's sake, talk to your wife about it too.

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How many of you studied or are currently studying a business related major? I'm going to be majoring in finance next year so I'm looking for your insights to mentally prepare myself. Thanks.
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>>18531037
take the money your borrowing for school and invest in a small business your self... you will learn tons more and may actually make a living
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>>18531052
I'm not borrowing any money for school and I absolutely have to go to college. It's not a matter of personal choice.

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