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>>18528103
Get a brain scan

It's a uncommon issue for guys, especially if it's your first time. Usually goes away when you get more comfortable with her. Alternatively if that isn't the issue stop masterbating with porn and start working out.

>>18528057

how long have you been dating / how many itmes have you had sex? the more you have sex with someone the less excited you are about them.

on the flip side if its your first times trying to have sex with her, or esspecially if its your first time trying to have sex in general, its awkward, you're stressed, and you dont know what to do.

do you watch a lot of porn? porn conditions our brain to think we are having sex wtih a different woman every time, and as a result becomes more bored by the idea of sex with the same woman. you will likely get bored regardless especially as women age, but its pretty much proven science that if you only had sex with your wife you would be interested in sex with her for a much longer time. also it just takes your load out of you so if you stop watching porn and wait til you're horny you're bound to be horny for her.

maybe you are latently gay, go look at gay porn or see if you get erect by just touching a guy around the hip

>>18528040
Maybe when youre older, not too soon tho

your hairline is slowly receding, not much past mature hairline now.
Maybe talk to a doctor about fin or minoxidil, and decide if it's worth the side effects.
Also your facial hair will get WEAKER on finasteride. :^)
t. taker

help pls

I learned how in a strange way. Maybe my perspective will help.

I also used to doubt myself A LOT until something happened to me recently.
I was supposed to go out with a girl (me and that girl have many mutual friends). Apparently, when I asked her out she thought I meant in a platonic way, and she didn't have the courage to correct herself. I was sure for half a month I'm going on a date with her, but she and ALL of our mutual friends knew she didn't mean to date me.
I saw ALL the signs right away, yet instead of breaking it off I asked our mutual friends. Instead of telling me the truth, they reinforced the illusion she is interested in me. I kept asking and asking and they kept reinforcing until one day they abruptly told me to drop it and break it off. "Why?" ->"She isn't interested in you". "No shit. Since when?" -> "She just isn't.". And then the truth came out. She wasn't interested since the beginning and all of the anxiety and annoyance I felt throughout the half month of waiting were really meaningless.
I was right straight off the fucking bat.
There was no reason for me to doubt my instincts and ask other people. I was fucking right all along.

Listen to yourself more. Even if you're wrong, trust yourself. You are important. "To whom?", to yourself. Put yourself above all. You are always right, even if you aren't.

I dont know, I just knew that I was great.

How often do you fap now and to what? If it is to the tune of more than once a week and to non-normal stuff then yes it is worth a small period of it

>>18527984
If you want maximum testosterone you only fap on Friday. There was a study done where if you only fapped once every 7 days you'd be at Max test otherwise if you don't fap on that 7th day then by day 9 your test goes down dramatically

>>18527984
>Is no fap worth shit?

bunch of reddit dogma

just dont spend a shit ton of time jacking and looking at porn and ur gold

lurk and use google

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Right now we are setting another meeting, but I wonder what to do. Dating with her until I feel something for her? What if the feelings won’t develop? Make some move with her even if I don’t feel like it? What if it will make her to confess feelings for me and I would have nothing to say in return? The thing I’m really worried about is thoughts about girl A blocks me from being happy with girl B, or any other girl I will meet in my future (I will only add that I don’t think about A as often as I used to do, I can say I’m like 70% over her now, but she is still in the back of my head. Also when I am with B i never think about A).
TLDR I’ve met really cool girl that is into me, but I can’t develop feelings for her, and I’m afraid it’s because feelings for other girl that I could never possibly be with.

I think you chase after chicks you can't obtain.

And you are not interested in the girls that try to obtain you.

My advice is to try at least, maybe you can learn a thing or two and might improve your chances to get a better gal.

You're only dating bro do whatever you want.

>>18527903
Accept more of it. There's a balance you have to strike. I'm on the other side of the coin, I internalize criticism and sometimes feel like a bad person for it. I'm not good at it either, but I do think that asking questions about what you did wrong is fair. Just remember that it doesn't mean there's something wrong woth you, that you just made a very human error and it had a negative affect on this person. It's an exercize for sure.

>>18527910
Thanks, anon.

Oh, and she also put a massive crack in our cooking plate and spilt coconut oil all over her wooden floor, which has left a permanent stain.

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Plastic, cold hard plastic will make

short answer: no

long answer:
It's normal to switch back and forth between topics in a conversation. The apps are just tools that help to sort it. And you don't have to say, "oh, and one more thing regarding the pic you sent me earlier..." and stuff like that all the time
Pretty handy imo, nothing wrong with it.

Be polite, make eye contact when you're talking to them but don't stare too much. Keep your cool, don't cuss, don't be a creep.

Also give the dad a firm handshake. Belive me.

>>18527846
Her dad is dead, so at least I dont have to worry about that. Would it be too weird to hug the girl once I get there, or would that seem weird?

>>18527853
Depends on the hug. I'd go for the "just got home but I'm kinda tired" hug. Which is you lightly hug her and give her a kiss on the cheek.

Hopefully it will pass through without a problem, most objects do. Keep an eye out for it when you use the bathroom.

However, there is a larger risk than normal because the object is long and pointy. If you feel any cramping or pain or discomfort in the next 48 hours anywhere in your digestive tract, it's recommended you go to a doctor and/or the emergency room to make sure it hasn't damaged something or gotten stuck.

>>18527842
check all your stools to see if it passed. if not/ you feel more pain go to the ER

>>18527849
>>18527990
I've had one poo since and it went to the back of the pipe so I couldn't really get a look. Not that I suspect it was from today's food anyone.

What if I feel no pain but don't see it in my stool, what should I do then?

Many years ago I ate a small piece of cloth and never saw it ever again, so I'm worried about having things inside me.

Play chess.

Adopt the strategies you learn in a chess book while playing.