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no. unless you are dumb enough to fill the void with an artificial replacement and not realize what you did.

>>18607547
exactly this

Humans are just animals like any other. Our ultimate goal is to fuck and reproduce.

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>>18607540
Yes. But the sole fact you have to ask like this means you wont be able to live loners happy life.

Get a gf!

>>18607538
I'd also like to establish that pic related is not her, rereading the post made it seem confusing and I'm not a fucking degenerate.

>>18607538
Might as well try to get to know her or something, you could find something shitty about her and then move on or something

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>>18607553
yeah but that's creepy, and if I do that it might escalate into a full blown oneitis-syndrome. I need to get her out of my head, and I know that sounds schizo-y, but I feel like I wouldn't lose it if I found something shitty.

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>>18607514
Remember anon, smoking is a high source of degeneracy. You'd be much more fulfilled with Christianity over smoking

Did you have a stroke while writing this?

as a start, stop using so many points.

secondly, grow the fuck up. stop putting others in chatge of your emotions. has it ever occured to you that nobody can make you feel like shit if you don't let them? no? you should give it a try. and a SERIOUS one. not some half assed shit. make it your top priority to not let others interfer with your emotions. you are responsible for them, so donmt give that responsibility to anybody else.
it should seriously improve your whole life.

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>>18607456
>I've to suffer autistic people on my workplace that will never leave me alone...in my own (((home))) I've to suffer my family that is mostly asperger
>Nobody can understand my pain
Everyone else is retarded huh?
How do you know it's not you who's retarded?

>even my partner can't help me because we can't live together yet...
Why?

nice larp

>>18607474
I'm serious I haven't talked to a girl in a year

>>18607446
Try an online dating site? Hell, even Tinder would help maybe.

Also surround yourself with different people. We tend to mimic the people we hang out with and our environments so just try to meet people who aren't wannabe gangsters.

>Well I became black

What do you mean? What are you actually?

anon, i hate to break it to you, but i don't think she meant books about specific techniques...i think she meant something that goes a bit deeper.
if it was about technique, you could just google "tips for anal sex" and be done with it. she wants you to learn a thing or two about sexuality, not about how to keep your sphincter muscles relaxed.

>>18607448
I forgot the word anal before the first sex. It should be
"My wife wants to read some books about anal sex"

>>18607451
why does she want that?
did you try it and it was horrible?

>>18607399
Hang out more with her...
You lost interest cuz of too much thinking ... yep you are apart and you want sex, ask her aout what she thinks about this kind of far relationship

You were great with her until she moved..
> try to rekindle because she is a pair to you and a good wife material

>>18607399
You can move on
But next gf will come... and the moment when you put in and inside it feels like a long hallway
That's when you understand what you lost

>>18607391
Irregular heart beat that happens before strokes ...

Or he is expecting to have a baby ( kidding about this one )

>>18607393
So is he okay?

>>18607395
Pretty sure the dude just said that your dad was at risk for a stroke.

>>18607382
Rip out each page and scan it. Alternatively, look for a pdf version online.

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OP, try laying down a big heavy transparent surface to keep the pages flat.

I use glass when I do it, but in my case, it's because I need something heavy and transparent.

Either that, or you can try some sort of heavy, transparent glass.

>>18607368
You can't become fat without hating yourself. If you hate yourself, you can't blame others for hating you too.

Take pride in yourself, knowing that you are living the best life that you can, and people will take pride in having you as a friend.

>>18607368
We'll usually they just live the current day, online friends .. are the kind of friend that can make you feel better but they don't care as much as irl friends can

Irl friends may feel pity for you if they are good friends...

>no one talks behind the back cuz they are busy with their stuff
As long as you are funny they will think good of you .. just don't be too weird or aggressive ..

> friends come and go Internet or irl .. only true friends last for life

nothing?

you search for another woman to like

>>18607350
She either wasn't in to you, wasn't willing to wait, or wasn't loyal (hard to tell with literally a single sentence explaining the situation).

Either way, the answer is obvious: move on.

go talk with real people

>>18607317
Talk to a person that will understand you
Even mom bro , even mom

>>18607317
i feel absolutely the same. im on my summer holiday and im meant to be reading farenheit 451 but i just dont. i want but i just sit like a worn and dont read. i play games and talk on skype, i do 4chan and im quite redpilled. i know i need to get better at things, including Englisg language( im russian), but i just dont. i dont know what to do.

check out a thing called attachement styles. You might be what they call fearfull-avoidant, which means you are afraid of people and thus you avoid people. maybe you didn't feel safe at the time of your childhood
GLHF

>>18607260
This literally describes 90% of people anon. Most people go into a "honeymoon" phase when they first meet people, where everything that person does is sort of new and unique. After a month or so, this wears off since the person becomes somewhat predictable, and that interesting unpredictability is gone

>>18607260
I'm the exact same way. It's hard wanting to go out and be with your friends if they do one tiny thing that eventually makes you despise them secretly for the rest of your life.

>>18607313
Is there any way to get over this?

You need slant eyes anon.

>>18607204
you need to learn pinyin tho
i've known advanced beginner/intermediate chinese students and they can kinda guess what a new character (? dont know the terminology in english) would sound like because they recognize basic common elements in it. sometimes they bamboozle you, but it makes sense. obviously they gotta take a wild guess at tones, but if a chinese guy hears you, based in context they can probably guess what you trying to read and correct you

it makes sense if you know thousand puzzle pieces, but it makes sense most of the time. You know how the character are usually built, right? In simplified chinese at least, one element usually holds the phonetic content, and others the actual semantic. I studied chinese for a few short months and I got the gist of it, but you gotta memorize like a mother fucker

And tones and pronunciation are a fucking bitch

chinese is raw hard assfuck memorization, i think you need a lot of drive to actually get good at it. I'm learning Korean and it's not that fucking hard, not sure how japanese is with its 3 alphabets, but yeah, chinese is a bitch at all levels. Well, at least verb syntax looks kinda symplistic and lax, they let you remove a lot of stuff and still be understood, but i was a shitter so maybe idk anything about it