My introduction:
Male 23 years old
Middle active style of life
Not fat and not muscle head
Weight 190 pounds
20-40 pounds of fat on me ... so I'm in the middle
Lift weights
Active sex life
No STDs , no prostate , no erectile disfunction
Have a lovely Gf
Describing problem:
I have little or non of the sensation as a male when putting penis into vagina ...
Well I do feel nice and soft walls of vagina cuz my Gf is tight ... it's not like a hotdog in a hallway cuz most of girls are like that these days ... We have sex like each day when she isn't bleeding and most of the times we don't use any condoms
She likes the job I do cuz it's usually 1 hour or 2 and I reach to the end ( you know what I mean ) and that's the place where I feel a little pleasure
she can't continue more than that 1-2 hours cuz she gets exaughsted but I'm still rocking hard cuz I came just once , rarely twice
when she gives me a BJ ,I have some sensitivity
But she needs to work very har on it like 10 min to get me to cum
I used to fap like 5 - 6 times a week from age like 13 or so ... and I still do ( who doesn't right lol)
As I think I lost sensitivity due to fapping too much.. I hope there's cure for it so I could enjoy sex.
Any advice ?
death grip
stop masturbating so often
>>18607235
Ya I guess that's the thin I have to stop...
But what can I do if I have a boner, I'm and addict I guess
It's because you masturbate too much ontop of sex. Go without orgasm for like a week or two and you should feel way more sensitive.
Predict my future:
Master's of Education
I'm going to the opposite side of the country for a job.
Gf of less than a year still has a year left on this side of the country while she finishes her degree as well.
I asked her if she would come visit me during winter break. She says that she wants but she really wants to visit her family more. Which I understand, I mean its family. Its just that she has been staying with her family all summer while I am jobsearching.
If she is this attached to family is there any hope for her to actually move across the country to live with me (which we have discussed) once she has her degree?
This all means that for at LEAST the next year we are going to be in a long distance relationship. I've never done this before. How can I make this work? Is it hopeless?
If this is in US ... boy she doesn't want ya... or expects you to come .. see reaction when you come ... but not the first reaction ( OMG when did you come )
Look for her want to hang out ... if she says .. too busy .. well I'm sorry bro
Love always has time even in most busy days
>>18607178
>If she is this attached to family is there any hope for her to actually move across the country to live with me (which we have discussed) once she has her degree?
I mean she's talking about her winter break not her whole life. If, eventually, she moves in with you she doesn't have to choose anymore, she'll be with you most of the time and then she can see family on breaks.
>How can I make this work? Is it hopeless?
Every LDR is unique, but it's not impossibile. It's definitely harder than average because you have to uphold your commitment while getting none of the perks like physical contact and intimacy. Talk a lot and find out what works together.
There's this girl at work. She has a boyfriend. I told her I like her. She flirts with me all the time. I ask her out, she says maybe. I gave other ppl attention and she asked me why I don't like her.
I think I fell for a slut. I feel bad. where can i get some water
When she breaks up with her bf how do I swoop in
>>18607196
>When
If she's willing to pull the shit she's pulling with her boyfriend, then she'd be willing to pull it with you. Avoid.
>>18607190
The sink.
My only hobbies are dnd and vidya. I realize these are shit-tier hobbies, but I legitimately can't think of anything that sounds fun and I'm painfully bored all the time. Can I get some suggestions?
Craft skills -
Woodworking is great, very tactile, you can make a variety of useful objects for a house. There are super basic things and very advanced projects, strong hobbyist community.
Soft skills - programing, photo editing, audio, etc. If you have a basic grasp on computers these are a logical next step.
Basically, take something you like and fit a craft skill around it that has some long term financial viability.
If I were you I'd look into 3d printing, you can make a variety of DnD related stuff while learning some coding that applies to fabrication. You can also use it as an excuse to document you're 'work' to practice producing digital media and communication skills.
2 cents.
Hey /adv/,
When I breathe in deeply I cough and feel a moderate urge to vomit. I guess if I kept doing it I would actually vomit. If I do any type of endurance exercise where I get out of breath I rapidly start to feel like vomiting and have to take a break every few minutes. I notice it most in the hour or two after eating, but even first thing in the morning I can still definitely feel it. The muscles in my abs are constantly trying to tense up to pull me into a hunched position and when it gets bad I can even feel the tension in my shoulders, neck, and legs. It really sucks. I've had this for years but it used to be very mild most of the time, now it seems to be getting stronger.
I went to a doctor, he said I had gastritis and gave me ranitidine, didn't help. I don't smoke, drink, or take any drugs. I do a lot of exercise (at least as much as I can with this shitty feeling of sickness) and my diet is quite good: a lot of meat, fish, fruit and vegetables. I did some blood tests and I'm waiting for the results (but I've had a couple of others in the last few years and they never showed anything up). In the mean time, any ideas?
Pic unrelated, obviously
Okay I admit I'm a bit of a fuck up.
I'm 30 and in trade school. I got okay grades.
Well I have to make payments while I'm in school and I need a job fucking fast.
I got turned down for 3 jobs today.
I put in 10 applications today with resume.
So I have basic questions.
-I got fired from a factory. Do I lie and say I left or do I be honest about it?
-Is the 3 day rule good for a call back?
-Should I apply to jobs I'm not sure i'd be good at?
-What are some tips you'd have for me.
I spent time off and on as a NEET and while I'm not a full NEET because I'm in school I want to put that shit behind me but it's haunting me and making me depressed as fuck.
>>18607045
you don't have to tell them about any previous work experiences you don't want to.
Apply to all jobs. Make a one page resume saying you're a team player and punctual and shit, say that you're in trade school on them. Don't ever mention being a neet, a little mystery can go a long way.
GL
>>18607045
Sell benefits not features. I have sales experience so in my resume I don't put that I have two years of sales experience, I put my numbers in and how much fucking $$$$ i earned my employers. It shows that I'm for 1 an asset and for 2 I know what employers are looking for in a resume therefore not a retard
I asked in /co/ but no response as usual
What are some good webcomics with heavy focus on characters? Idc if romance. Comedy, fantasy, furry, whatever
Just need a good set of characters following a story while having personal/romantic antics on the side. So i an immerse myself and forget about my depression
Alfie by Incase, pornographic but also nice story. Check it out at buttsmithy.com
>>18607011
It Hurts
You'll figure out pretty quick if you like it [spoiler]or if you're a pleb[/spoiler]
>>18607011
Do not read homestuck.
t. a homestuck fanatic.
This question is probably more approriate for /wsr/.
Did you get homesick when you moved to dormitory or apartment? How did you controlled yourself?
>>18606949
I don't know what kind of people you think you're are talking to but we are users of 4chan.
>>18606958
True lol
Excuse me for the wrong question
I'll be back when I fell lonely
>>18606958
Edgy as fuck coming from the same place that invented caturday.
Fuck off.
>>18606949
Depends on how far.
I did get a little homesick but good thing is I was an hour bus ride away. So I dropped by at least once a month and for special events.
If you do live far however it's a good study motivator and also a way to make friends. Fill the void. But don't be scared that you'll "replace" people in a sense. When people don't see you for a while you become the center of attention when you return and everyone is nice. Something you can get used to
Anyone know any good IPhone apps that will allow me to take screenshots of convos without the other person knowing? Need it for research purposes
what is this blue whale bullshit guys
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7haQS9vtBS0
This woman explains it best
>>18606902
suicide but with more steps
okay. so my best friend is currently in a relationship.
my best friend and i have had a relationship in the past. we never got over it.
She tried to move on. and so did i.
but recently i confessed my true feelings and so has she.
but shes actually invested in her current relationship.
her relationship is a long distance but they are both serious about it.
Guys. im completely head over heals in love with her.
what do i do?
>>18606892
By any chance did you happen to have the urge to confess these feelings when she told you about the other guy?
>>18606892
If she's not willing to break up with him, cut contact and move on.
>>18606896
shes dating a girl actually.
Yes. Every time she would mention her girlfriend i wanted to tell her.
Ok, first thing you need to know is that I have extremely low self-esteem -- I just feel as though I'm "not worth it" when it comes to a lot of things, but that's not what this is about.
I've been friends with this guy (we'll call him F) since middle school (we're both moving off to the same college (this was more or less a coincidence, neither of us followed the other) this weekend), we were basically those stereotypical inseparable best friends. We're both a bit socially awkward, though in different ways.
In our senior year of HS, F suddenly started to be a huge asshole to me and only me. Sure, he would do the "guy" thing of being a dick to our other guy friends, because that's what you do, you know? But he would intentionally try to tear me down with every success I had, every failure I had, or anything I did or said at all. On top of that, he would literally never support me or congratulate me.
Despite what I've described above, F would still treat me as a friend -- LAN parties and paintball with the lads, etc.
I've been considering just ending our friendship because of how he treats me, but I also don't want to make things awkward with our mutual friends that I still like to hang out with. Along with that, already having somebody you can call a "close friend" as a freshman in college seems like a very advantageous thing.
Should I call it quits with this dude, or am I kind of overreacting, or what? I'm not good at relationships, plz halp.
>pic unrelated
Just ask him why he's always so negative if you've been friends for so long than question like that won't end a friendship
>>18606903
forgot to mention I've already confronted him about this and he just basically ignored what I said
Ignore him to the max. When you're with him with your mutual friends, don't even acknowledge him. If he really presses you on why you're ignoring him, just say he's an asshole.
College is for new beginnings. You'll make better friends.
So I'm a little concerned about the state of my penis. I've heard that the more and more a man faps, some will become desensitized due to porn and this can lead to erectile disfunction. I've fapped for many years now, and I can consider myself an addict, but despite my seemingly incessant sex drive, and a girlfriend who's more than willing to please me any way she can, I just can't be lead to orgasm in any way that isn't self-directed; and I'm a bit concerned that this may cause my girlfriend to feel inadequate or that I'm not sexually attracted to her. Because I am, I can't keep my hands off of her, but I find it odd that despite all of my fantasies about getting my first blowjob, when my girlfriend finally surprised me with one, I honestly felt a little numb to any feeling. I got some stimulation at some points, but they're outliers. Any /adv/ice?
>>18606884
Fap less often.
I guess you were probably looking for a way around that, but I've been there, and I actually lost the gf due to escalating the kinky stupid shit I would ask for. She did like some of it though. Anyway, try not fapping for a day, fap the next day and see the difference. You'll most likely feel a lot more sensitive and you know what to do from there. (Hint: save it for your gf).
I've never called a phone sex line , should I? I'm bored / curious.
Sure, nothing wrong with trying something new. Kind of a waste of money, but if you don't mind, go for it.
>>18606854
A phone sex line? They still have those? Give it a whirl and then call Miss Cleo now for your free psychic reading.
>>18606865
I want to cry .
I think this is the right place to ask. For a while I've been wiping a bit too hard after using the toilet (blood was often there), but it was always just when I was using the toilet. It has now gotten to the point where I am in constant discomfort. What should I do to fix it?
>>18606834
Stop wiping and install a bidet or hop in the shower after you finish shitting and blast your asshole with water. You don't have to do it permanently, but you need to let your asshole heal.
and use disposable wet wipes. life saver.
also, don't take any NSAIDs while its healing.
Go to the doctor that Might be a hemmeroid