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I have an abundance of used panties and socks that I want to sell to fetishists. Has anyone here done this before? What are some common pitfalls and how do I stay safe? Whats the best place to sell?

I have a fetlife account, so I was thinking of advertising there, but I don't know a good website that will allow selling sexy items. I know Ebay and Paypall has rules against it. Also, how do I keep my address and name hidden when shipping these items?
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I once saw short documentary about this, since then I was also interested...
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>>18605179
>I have an abundance of used panties and socks that I want to sell to fetishists
you're disgusting

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Anyone here sell on ebay?

Heres my situation

>guy from singapore buys something from me
>singapore post doesn't accept his address
>it gets sent back to me
>he asks for free shipping with the same address but slightly more details


what do i do in this situation? Should i offer free reship? or should i just block this fucker
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>>18605114
"I apologize but because the address you initially provided was not sufficient to complete delivery, you would have to pay for postage for me to ship this item."

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I'm 18, employed part time while attending university to study Pharmacy, I have money saved up but not enough to move out. I'm actually pretty responsible not wasting all of my wages and saved up 2 years to afford driving lessons and eventually a car and insurance. I have never ran out of or borrowed any money because I work my ass off each summer doing overtime when I can.

My parents are giving my room away to my degenerate brother without my consent because he got his GF pregnant but doesn't have money to move out, he always smokes weed and barely works. So I get the tiny box room. It's so small I can no longer fit my PC in there, its dingy as fuck and the bed in there is like sleeping on some fucking cardboard.

I know this sounds so petty but I'm a sad fuck who doesn't go out other than to the gym to get /fit/ my PC is all I use when I'm in the house, no TV. I'm so pissed off by it all but I don't know what to do. Give me advice, do I just give up and start acting like a fucking degenerate so I get everything handed to me?
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>>18605110
rejoice in the fact that his life is so shitty that your parents have to treat him better whereas you're working hard for your goals and you're going to make something of yourself.

If you add up your expenses at home like rent and bills you pay for your parents how much does it equal? In a lot of america you can rent a room in someones house for ~400-650 per month with a private bedroom/bathroom and access to all of the common areas.
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>>18605119
I buy my own food, and pay a keep so spend around £150 a month on those. But then on top of that is like my gym membership, petrol and phone bills. Things like that are more the reason I can't move out, also I'm from the UK.

should I be a good little sister and help big sis with her relationship or not? Sometimes I get to be involved even if I dont want to so what should I do? Sorry in advance for long post

Problem: we live together and her bf moved in. Later in winter or spring they will move to his flat (now under reconstruction). There hasnt been a day that they wouldnt fight... She comes home tired mentally/emotionaly stressed, he comes not so tired but his work invlolves physical strenght, so he cant understand why she comes home so tired... Another thing is money: he gets almost twice as her, but spends most for his flat reconstruction... There seems to be tension about money issue... Also dividing home tasks: she makes food and other chores, he washes dishes only...
There is clear unequality between how they manage their everyday issues, but most important thing is that they dont want to let go of their hurt pride? Like even though some things are to be forgotten but they both bring them up again... And they BOTH do this...
My sis doesnt listen to me sometimes and I'm not that close to her bf to give him advice, they are also 27 and 28, while me is 23 single...
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>>18605086
You get points for being caring and careful.
General principle is to not mess in other people's relationships. What you can do is provide support - listen to her, hug her, share her pain. She will be stronger and more able to cope through that.
If she asks you for help, tell her what you think. If she doesn't ask you - shaddup.

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How do I stop getting pissed off at everything?

I work a lot, but still have some free time to do stuff I want so I don't FEEL stressed out. Many of the friends I still care to hang out with are without a job because they're either still in school or their parents pay for everything for them still. Whenever I try and make plans to do something with them they always have no regard for time because to them every day is a weekend.

Example... Trying to plan a hunting/fishing trip to a cabin. My goal was to have everything packed and ready to go so we can leave as soon as I'm done working on a Friday that way Saturday is not wasted. My vacation time is limited throughout the year, I try and optimize this shit. Their plan is to fuck around for most of the day on Friday and then go get food/other supplies when we get to the cabin, wasting at least half the next day because we didn't even get to the cabin before midnight.

I also have road rage and people driving 10mph under the speed limit piss me off.

Little things like this piss me off and I don't want them to. plz help. i dont want to be the guy who shows up to work on a monday shooting up the place. is it stress even if i don't feel stressed?
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Sometimes all you need is some seclusion from people.
I have had quite a similar phase and it really depressed me out. I felt like I had been hanging out with quite a boring ones and wasted quite a lot of time on then.
I turned my cell phone off (literally off) deactivated all social media accounts for I did not want to talk to anyone. Believe me mate, those 4 weeks weren't easy but now I feel contented
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It seems like you want to have everything under control. You must let go of those feelings. If you feel like you're starting to rage, go somewhere alone, breathe and relax. Is the reason you're raging logical? Does it truly affect you somehow? Does it hurt you?
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The road rage thing takes practice. I used to get angry at the littlest thing. I've decided that other people's stupidities aren't worth making my heart race and adding all sorts of stress to my life. The car is the only time I get to myself. I can sing, listen to my audiobooks, talk to myself etc.

It took some discipline but now when someone cuts me off I let it go. Yeah, they'll get to wherever they're going quicker than me. But they'll beat me by like a minute. It can be hard at times. Like when someone is clearly being a retard and I want to let them know with my horn. But I let it slide. I'm hoping you can learn to control your road rage. It's amazing how much of an effect it had on my life

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27, male. I've never lived on my own before, but plenty of people have asked me. My best friend, my now ex gf, my friend from work, etc. but I always declined because I haven't felt "ready". No, one of my good friends just broke up with his long-time gf, and might have to move.

Thing is, he started his business recently, and he's got a lot of clients around the area, tons of expensive equipment, etc. He's a hard worker and pays his bills, but he needs someone he can trust around all of his things, and he asked me. Obviously I still don't feel "ready", but do you think it would be a good idea just to throw caution to the wind and just do it, even just for the experience?

I only have about $4k to my name right now and have zero domestic skills. I feel like throwing myself headfirst into it may change my perspective and help me grow.
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>>18605003
It sounds like a golden opportunity to break out of your shell.

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How do I keep a conversation/small talk going and not get an empty head?
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Depends - how far into small-talk do you find yourself running out of stuff to say OP? Is it from the very start, or is it after the general "so what do you do with yourself?" kind of questions.
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Not everyone can small talk easily.
You should let it flow, maybe pray the other person is good at small talking. But don't fall into the "I suck at this why do I even try" abyss when your head gets empty.
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Relax. The other person is also trying to think something to say. Silence is only awkward if you seem bothered by it

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I fell in love with a narcissist, not gonna play his pathetic games anymore. How to piss him off, just start ignoring, right?
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>>18604981
People with narcissism are vengeful. Maybe you are narcissistic? Just distance yourself from this person, because you don't need some egomaniac to get a vendetta against you.
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>>18604981
Ignore, yes. Ignore totally by moving out, disappearing. Narcissist is not a good choice of partner. Get out.
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>>18604987
I was trying to distance myself from him since march but my feelings for his small dick are too strong, I guess I must change my number so he cant reach me lol

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How do I break into the IT field without a degree? I don't have the knowledge either but I'd like to begin working on it.

Should I get an A+ cert and go from there?
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"how do i become a musician? i don't know how to play any instrument but i'd like to begin working on it.

Should I take lessons and go from there?"

no you should fucking do nothing and you will magically become an expert
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IT is kind of shitwork IMO study all this mundane shit so you can fix sticky key issues and reset passwords for ad nausium.
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>>18604966
Get many certs and then work for someone as an entry level person. Also, try to get more specific in your goals than "computerman." The network guys seem pretty pleased with it, and make good money.

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I'm not sure how, but I feel like I only attract crazy people. Recently I tried to get a step into the social life because all this loneliness became too much to me. All the people who want to be my friend start to unreasonable stuff after some time, a girl I hanged out with for example unlocked my door or something while I was on vacation and installed cameras inside. Other people did similiarly crazy shit and it makes my mental state worse. How should I deal with it? Do I maybe appear like a crazy person, which makes no normal person want to interact with me? I keep a good hygiene and other things which are expected.
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>>18604919
Do you use drugs

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Why do girls always ghost me after we sext or do something similar
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>>18604896

shame
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>>18604898
Oh thats um... ouch
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>>18604896
Maybe you stall it too long with it and they want something more ?

This has been something I've had a problem with since 2012 with relationships or family or friends or work. I'm very quick to put myself down unnecessarily and all it does is annoys everyone around me and it helps nothing. For example, after a misunderstanding between the gf and I I'll always spit something like "I'm sorry I'm so hard to be with sometimes." She'll just say "idk why you're putting yourself down desu" and I don't know either, it's just a natural reaction. How do I unlearn this? I've got Avoidant Personality Disorder mixed with low self esteem(despite that i've been moving up and improving with my life) like this just doesn't go away.
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What is the legality or repercussions, if any, of using a "first/given name" and "surname" such as "batman" or other name(s) that I may use such as a household object.

Im from the UK
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>>18604768
Um, what? I guess it depends what the form is for. If it's just some junk shit then it won't matter. If it's some legal shit for the government, police etc then it's probably better to be truthful.
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>>18604805
Its an event held across 3 days

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This probably isn't the place to get advice, but I'm seeing a dominatrix on Friday for the first time and I'm scared shitless. Does anyone on here happen to know if there's some sort of protocol? Am I going to get robbed?
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>>18604725
you're a sad pathetic man, and yes, you're probably going to get robbed.

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I've threw a dog in a lake, i've beat my cat with a shoe, i've somehow managed to make a 13 year old girl to try acid, i almost killed a man with a glass bottle by throwing it from a 12th story window. What the fuck is wrong with me /adv/?
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>>18604688
Your problem is that you keep posting bait threads.
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>>18604688
>I've threw
>I've beat

Past principles. That's what's wrong with you. You don't know your past participles.
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>>18605099
*participles not principles

Fucking swipe

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