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How can I fight for the rightful independence of my homeland? We're about to hold an illegal referendum on the matter soon, as some of you may have heard, yet I feel that's not enough. How can I convince people that the Catalan Countries are NOT the same as Spain? Are a revolution or a civil war needed?
More info here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catalan_Countries
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I don't think you would survive in a civil war, considering you have a way smaller population.
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It's not worth bloodshed you fucking barbarian
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In few decades you will have more people that indentify with islam than people who think they are catalans and want peacefull separation from Spain. So i would say stop with your bullshit on political level (not necessary on cultural level) and try to survive as europeans first.

Long story short, due to my mother's death and other personal shit going on, I failed most of my classes in my second semester and lost my financial aid. It was a free fucking ride and I pissed it away. I can do the SAP appeal but school is in less than two weeks and it'd probably be too late. I can't afford tuition on my own either. I don't even want to go to college, but my whole family expects it of me. I'm more interested in trade work (despite being rather skinny and completely unskilled at any trade) but I don't have the heart to tell my father. They've given me so much in hopes I'll get a good job and a degree but I'm just fuckin sick of living my life for everyone but me. I don't know what to do now that college is pretty much out of the question and I have no clue what to do with my life.
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>>18609028
tell your father that you would rather go to trade school then the regular University. It will just be pissing away money and it will be a waste of time if you do it and you don't like it. You are not shutting away hiher ed completley and there is more of a demand for trade industry than a standard BA or BS degree. Lotta ppl have four yr degrees but no experience. You will have a degree and you will learn some experience too.

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What's the best way for me to exit society and live a minimalist life in which I'm at one with nature?
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>>18609022
That probably isn't as good as you tihnk it is, have you considered the happy medium of camping often?
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>>18609022
Depends on how minimal you wanna go. Sad to say it but at a certain point you'll just be cutting your lifespan down to the next decade tops, especially if you go alone.
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>>18609031
To be fair, living off the grid can be nice for some. If OP really wants there are fully unplugged communities out there, but looking is a bitch since you have to do it by word of mouth and you're essentially a homeless vagabond for the rest of your life.

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Some cunt just opened a paypal case on me because his address wasnt accepted and the item was returned. Should i just ignore this fucked? I dont have money in paypal anyway
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If the item was returned to you, then he's in the right and you should give him back his money.
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>>18609009
THe thing is he was being uppity and demanding a free reship. When i logically said that i should not offer a free reship because he wrote his address wrong in the first place he then asks for a full refund. Discounting the fact that i gave him free shipping.


So fuck this guy
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>>18609014
That still doesn't change the fact that if the item was returned to you, he should get his money back.

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Hey adv, so I have some questions I need answered. So for two months I have been dating this amazing girl. Time goes great, we have a good time, and I enjoy every minute of it.

However, the last few days it seems like she has been responding with longer time in between. I send her a good morning text every day and she used to respond right away or within an hour. Now she responds at 630 at night. When we're together everything is fine and we don't have anything wrong but it seems like she isn't in it while texting. I tell her if everything is okay and she says it's golden and she would tell me if there was a problem.

So am I just over worrying or is my relationship just slowing down?
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Oh btw, she also is on Facebook and Instagram all the damn time, but never responds back and when she does she says she's really busy. I'm confused af
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Don't worry about it.
It is natural for texting to slow down the further you get into a relationship.
Me and my gf used to text good morning every day we are not together but now we are 3 years into the relationship and do not do that anymore.
You should talk to your gf about it.
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If the real time you spend together is fine then don't place any importance upon your texting situation. She's got her own life to live and doesn't owe you 24hr attention - she doesn't have to entertain you or send you cute emojis or tell you how her day's going. Being needy like this is a turnoff and I recommend you chill out before you start becoming a chore for her

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i was asked to take care of 8-9yo female yorkshire terrier for a few days (once every few months), so this dogie was sleeping now and started breathing very heavily and it scared me as fuck, it wasnt normal and it hepened few times during her 4 day stay, she sometimes coughs too (out of nowhere) is she considered normal due to her age?
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Just ask owner. Probably snoring
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She was dreaming. My dog breathes heavy, yips, barks, growls, and moves his feet and tail while sleeping.
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>>18608998
Coughing in dogs can be a sign of heartworms.

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i dont get erections anymore, i dont even experience any lust
im not even 25 yet but i can easily go weeks without masturbating
should i see a doctor over this? also there is wierd stuff on my poop
my parents raised me to not go to the doctor unless im in pain for a couple of days and it doesnt go away so i dont really know what kind of thing is doctor appropiate
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Why is not masturbating a problem and how is related to the poop?
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>>18609021
its not
other than an odd rash in my head once in a while there is nothing else wrong in my body i think
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>>18608993
Are you taking any meds? Are you depressed? Define what weird stuff on poop is. And yes, seeing a doctor would be appropriate.

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le me a fag who still watches porn and hates life cant get pussy help adv
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>>18608963
That's a rendition of tub girl I never wanted to see

Don't speak to me or my son again
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>>18608963
SFW board. Also, that's fucking gross.
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buy a fleshlight xd, (also thanks for the fapping material)

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Feels thread:
So I drove to west France. Alone. Thought would be a nice idea. Making new friends and shit. But nope: it's basically impossible. Everyone has their peer groups and it's not possible to get into them. I feel sad and lonely and the fact I ask 4Chan for advice is not really making me feel better.

Also I feel like alcohol and weed kinda killed my personality rendering myself impossible to find new friends.

I am thinking about leaving tomorrow and drive all the way back home at once. I am not really missing my family or shit. But it's just kinda less lonely than here.

Also tried asking some girls, if they would like to drink something. They only looked at me like "fuck you, creep".

>inb4 kill yourself
Nope. I am not a suicidal faggot
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>>18608954
Honestly, you should put more serious consideration into killing yourself

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How do I make friends with people I don't know or seem to share common ground with at all? I don't even know how to approach them irl, nor what to say to them in a chat.
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Why would you want to be friends with someone you have no common ground with. I think you are going about this in the wrong way.

I'm terrible with making friends but I've found that if you spend enough time together, at work, in the dorms, whatever, that you will find something to talk about. My current best friend only really became more than an acquaintance because our wives were friends from class.

What is your situation? How old are you? I can give more specific advice only when you give more details
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>>18608952
22 need to get a real job rather than doing the university thing atm, pretty poor

lots of randoms online are open to meeting new people, but I have no idea how to initiate conversation with them. at the bar, I'm a living meme of someone who doesn't actually want to be there.
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When you get a job try there. The more important thing is to have frequent contact.
If you can, try joining a club at school or looking at meet up.com to see if there is a hobby or something interesting you can find.

Start there or try on your own. Maybe you have a neighbor that plays the same computer games or something. Reach out, put out a bulletin or page on your mailbox to see if your neighbors want to hang or drink at your place

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I've always had a minor form of anxiety but I swear over the current year it's gotten way worse, almost becoming a major form with much more frequent panic attacks (relatively,
anyone have any advice for managing it?
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>>18608925
i'm not well educated about panic attacks but as someone with social anxiety what helps the most is being around friends. it just lowers my anxiety levels.
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>>18608925

assuming your problem is situation, and not biological, you need to identify specific and repeatable causes of your anxiety.
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>>18608925
My anxiety is poorly managed now, but when it was better I found the following helped with panic attacks. During an attack close your eyes and focus on nothing but breathing, breath slowly and don't move. Beyobd that you should cut out caffeine from your diet if you consume it. Also avoid benzos unless you absolutely need to take one, taking them too often permanently makes it worse. Above all else see a doctor for it.

t. Diagnosed with a severe case of GAD more than two decades ago.

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so i've been talking to this chick for a while now. we even hung out a few times. she's really cool to talk to and spend time with. but the problem is i'm kinda starting to lose interest in her 'cuz she's friendly rather than flirty and doesn't show any signs of LIKE-liking me.

is there any way to check if she's interested in me or even to approach her sexually, but without risking to make her not wanna talk to me anymore?
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Well kinda. I gave her money through paypal to pay off the second half of a loan I had. We broke up last night. Still has my money. Really don't want to break no contact. Should I message a friend of hers or her parents on facebook or something?
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How much we talkin here?
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>>18608878
your story doesn't make sense.
You gave her money to pay off a loan you have instead of just paying it off yourself?
You "broke up" but have an order of no contact?
you're unable to go to small claims court?

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How do I get a girlfriend without spending months as her friend and getting her to be comfortable around me?
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>>18608871
you don't champ.
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>>18608871
Normal way I suppose??

The way you described is very bad way to go for it and is road that bypasses relationship central straight for the friendzoneville
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If you do not get with a girl within a month of knowing her, your chances of getting with her are lowered.

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I'll try to keep this short and provide more information if needed. Tomorrow I'm bringing a girl over to my house to watch a movie. I think she's interested in me, mostly because she very often tries to get me to do things with her. It goes beyond just inviting me, if I say no she'll try to convince me otherwise and if I say I can't she'll try to accommodate me. As an example, I went camping with her and some of her friends a while ago. I'd never camped in my life and do not own any camping gear, but she scrounged up enough equipment for me to go. Even after I insisted that she not go out of her way for me. Additionally, one of her friends told me that she "likes me a lot".

On the other hand, this girl outclasses me in pretty much every way. I could not understand why she would be interested.

Anyway, how do I not fuck this up? I am interested in her, but she's a good friend, and I don't want to offend her by misreading the situation.

Any advice is greatly appreciated!
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>>18608865
You fuck her and make her cum
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>>18608873
Thanks for the erudite advice anon
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Sit next to her, put your arm around her, and whenever she pauses from watching to interact with you go in for the kill.

It's very easy and straightforward.

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