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>>18604624
Why don't you try a doctor

People love talking about themselves, so let them talk. Try to build up the courage to give some chick a compliment or something, maybe ask her a few questions about herself and see how you feel from there. Just stay relaxed and understand that you're not really going to mesh super well with everyone, so no pressure, who cares?

>>18604593
talk about interests. ask about them. remember their names.

>>18604593
"Great music, huh?"
"Need help putting up that tent?"
"I'm heading for the beer tent. Anybody want anything?"
"What song was that? I like the band but neer heard that one"

If it is thin and water soluble, you could use a sprinkler. I suggest you use food coloring, stains good and is as harmless as you can get.
Get a barrel of water. Add half a gallon of food color. Put a pump in the barrel and a switch under the package. Fasten the sprinkler to the ground and do test, for the pumps ability to deliver pressure after having sat there for half a day and check your aim. You need not use dyed water for this. Do test how well the dyed water stains to find out needed concentration to save money.

>>18604687
Thank you Anon. That is a fantastic idea. I will report back with video footage sometime in the future.

>>18604585
have something interesting to say

>>18604585
2 pieces of advice:
a) People fucking love talking about themselves, so ask people about themselves. Ask follow-up questions. Show that you're interested.

b) When talking about yourself, be enthusiastic. That is the #1 determiner. Talk about things that you find interesting, and your enthusiasm will carry over. Obviously you also have to be able to read a conversation and know when/if the other person is bored, and when it's time to change the subject. But yeah, talk about things that you enjoy.

I dunno, try it. Why are you asking us? You can just get the answer yourself.

>>18604501
I did try but I thought it might have something to do with my bank account.
I just came here because it's harmless and hoped I could get a solid yes or no.

Yes you can , why would an online service not accept debit ?

>>18604460
Unfortunately Twitter is notoriously shit at helping people out with issues like this. Just keep blocking & reporting.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuPSIbABYVU

Idk man who cares it's not like you're hurting anyone

>>18604456
That all sounds like perfectly normal behaviour OP.

As long as you aren't hurting anyone (including yourself) your sexual behaviour is fine.

Sounds pretty normal to me.
I know people who masturbate 3 times as much as you did in your teenagehood. And they are adults.

Don't worry about it, it seems you are just over thinking.

About pervers... They don't keep it to themselves, they actually DO perverted stuff to others, sometimes without consent. Even if it's just flipping the dick around at someone.

>>18604453
usually, give them what they ask for, but throwing in the cover letter wouldn't harm either. Make them both PDFs with properly formatted names like: John_Doe_Cover_Letter.PDF or something like that.

Oh, and better yet would be to show up, ask to see the manager, look him in the eye, give him a firm handshake and ask him when can you start. That'll do it, champ.

I think you dodged a bullet with that breakup. You sound toxic for each other.

Starting to get help from a doctor is the first step. Afterwards start investing yourself into hobbies and things that bring you joy.

>>18604441
take care of yourself, try to eat well. i know its hard. go ahead and only eat the things you like the most. go outside and have some exercise, go for a walk and try to sleep well. try talk to people

Can you talk about this with your family and/or friends? Or even better, with someone who's been through something similar? It's not uncommon to avoid these subjects with some people out of fear of becoming a burden, but that feeling fades when you know the other person knows how you feel, because they've been there.
Going to see a professional is a great step, very important. If for some reason it doesn't seem to work for you, don't think it's the therapy. These professionals are humans, and as allways, not everyone clicks with everyone, you just have to try again. It sucks, but it happens. IF they recommend medication, at the very least give it a try, there's nothing to lose.
I'm telling you all this from my own personal experience. I'm now 24 and I've been to 8+ psychologists, 4 psychiatrists, 1 psychoalalyst (desperate times, wanted a different approach), and an internist over the course of 15 years. I'm now happier than I ever thought I could be, and I can even see myself feeling happier. As you see, it took a long time (truth be told, I'd only recommend 2 of them, the last ones, so my quest was a long and hard one in that sense) but it was so worth it, in every way.
Surround yourself by people who care about you, not people you WANT close, but those you NEED close, learn to differenciate them. If you feel like doing nothing, you can't get in the shower, go out,etc.. for me watching movies, series or even youtube videos was an excellent distraction.

>>18604414
Oh, and for most of the summer, the new GF and I weren't actually exclusive so whenever she'd go out of town, I'd go on a date with someone else. I don't really know how to make friends but I have no trouble finding dates.

So this will be the first time she's out of town while we're exclusive.

>>18604414
Bump?

>>18604414
Idk maybe use the time to find yourself.

>>18604371
Two roads:

1. Say hello to everyone. Gather as large a circle of acquaintances as you can handle. They won't all be friends, just people to say hello to as you pass. But somewhere among them will be some potential friends, and the bigger the larger circle, the bigger the smaller one.

2. Figure out what makes you so different from most people. Whatever it is, it is statistically inevitable that there will be at least a few like you among them. Where would such people be likely to hang out? Clubs, library, coffeehouses, bars, gym? Go there and hang out.

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Is this some kind of bbbbait? Also
>not using a powered onahole with a vr rig
>in 2017

>>18604330
skip that step and blow your genocidal load into the toilet.

>>18604360
But that would require walking to the toilet, a bin can be place right in front of a chair.