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Are e-relationships worth it?
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>>18609498
Yes
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>>18609498
Depends on if you can actually make time to physically see each other in the future. If not, no.
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Depends.
Is she mentally stable?
Is she out of college, or nearing it?
Does she live close?
I'm a college student and I can't concentrate. I can't work on my assignments very long. I can't watch a 50-minute TV show without constantly checking my phone. I almost have 50+ browser tabs open, right now I have 65.
So my question is: 1) could I have something like ADD? 2) Regardless of whether I do or not, I want to get Ritalin because I hear that's great for this stuff. How do I get a prescription? If I was honest with a psych could I get prescribed, or would I have to embellish?
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Do most fat guys have buried penises?
I'm both a grower and overweight and it's just too uncomfortable anymore. I'm motivated to lose weight but is there any comfort in the mean time?
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>>18609422
yes, you just learn to live with a penis that's buried in your pubic mound until you lose weight and discover the length that magically appears when your penis has all of that loose skin available.
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>>18609427
Meanwhile I am starting to gain weight. Now I have another reason stop gaining weight. I can't let my penis to be buried in my future posible pubic mound. I must save my beloved penis!!!!
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Can someone describe for me the sensation of kissing someone in a sexual way? Not just anyone but someone you genuinely love.
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its one of those things you don't want to end
especially if your swallowing eachothers tongues
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Kinda annoying,kissing is fucking trivial, pussy on the other hand isn't
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>>18609405
it's like BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM
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I'm feeling lonely, and wanting a friend, but not a male one, but rather a girl. I think I'm desperate to have a relationship. I'm 18 single and never had a girlfriend or a girl friend during my whole life. I'm feeling so lonely even tho sometimes some online friends message me and talk to me but i still feel so lonely. How can i get through this? I've never met a girl that's interested in me. and girls in my town aren't my type... fml
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>>18609390
Honestly dude you should go out and get a gf
it will be terrible and not work out, but you'll grow from it.
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How to not come off as clingy or needy 2017-08-10 11:58:58 Post No.18609384
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How to not come off as clingy or needy
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I met this girl on tinder known her for 2 weeks now. I've made it to 3rd base with her. She recently went over seas for a holiday. Before she left she gave me her kik user name to keep in contact with her. I told her I didn't want to bother her on her holiday but she kept saying it won't bother her
How should I go about messaging her? and how often should I message her?
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>>18609384
ive found the best way to not come off as clingy is to generally care less about this woman.
Shes disposiable, if she ends up not liking you for something you said who cares, you'll find another
Be honest and just [spoiler]beeurself.[/spoiler]
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>>18609399
Thanks anon
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Girls who have kik are sluts, dump her. Or keep her for a while, what do I know
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>Know if I get a girlfriend she'll probably be like most human beings I encounter in the USA
>Feel like I'm better off never having one understanding this
Has anybody ever felt this way?
Did it ever turn into something good?
I've never had a girlfriend before, so I can have hope that I'm ignorant, but I think I'm probably right about everything as I generally am.
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>>18609374
>I think I'm probably right about everything as I generally am.
What an arrogant attitude.
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>>18609382
It's just the general trend of reality and what I expect.
It always proves me right, and it's always pleasant when I'm wrong, but that generally doesn't happen.
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>>18609374
I feel if I would get a girlfriend, I would instantly become pessimistic in attitude and insecure in perception (not like I already am), but more over.
Understanding that most american women are self-aggrandizing has only deepen my shelter. I don't think I'm a really good person nor a radiant one either. I've seen what women can do to men from the perspective of my friends, and I dread that I don't want to trace their steps, only to end up in the din of personal cataclysm.
>>18609382
>What an arrogant attitude.
What is it with /adv/ and having a shitty attitude towards others? Dude just admitted an insecurity but still remained firm in his beliefs.
This place is reddit I swear
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How do I get over being told that girls I've had feelings for are currently/already had guys run train on them?
More so, how do I deal with accepting the fact that I can't ever see myself having a long, stable relationship because of situations like this? Is it petty? I've never had a relationship last longer than a month. The older I get I feel like I'll never be with a girl that I wouldn't be 'jealous' or suspicious of for having lots of guy friends/etc./having the adolescent relationships I didn't have.
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by "I've had feelings for" I mean I've been in some sort of relationship by the way
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yea that's me too
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>>18609349
How is EVERY girl this big of a whore? Multiple dudes in one night? Really?
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This has littersly been eating away at my brain.
>lost my virginity a few days ago to my girlfriend
>wasnit a planned thing, just happend so there was no condoms
>both of us virgins so no clue what we're doing
>I'm pumping away feeling pretty good but I'm paranoid as fuck because no way I can raise a kid
>she cums and I can feel myslef getting close
>pull out and end up cuming on her stomache
>AND LIKE A FUCKING IDIOT I RUB MY DICK ON HER PUSSY AFTER CUMING
How likely is is that she can get pregnant form this?
We had sex again the next day but I made sure not to repeat the same mistake
Please someon tell me I'm not going to be a father
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Not very likely.
Try visiting planned parenthood's website to learn about how sex works. You should learn about this shit before you have sex.
If you and she are still very worried and it hasn't been that long, there's this thing called Plan B you can look up and try, but really I don't recommend it unless you actually came inside her, and in the future condoms are better in every way if you can help it.
Just give it a few weeks and see if she gets her period.
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>>18609362
I know how I'll informed I was, and I defiantly regret not having a condom.
Sadly we can't use plan B because the time for it has already passed.
But thank you for the advice. Just hearing you say that has made me feel so much better
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Pulling out is not a birth control method. You can cum outside and still get the girl pregnant because of something called "precum". All in all this is a lottery, numbers game, you can have two healthy people having unprotected sex for two years every day and still no pregnancy, and you can have precum pregnancy with two virgins/firsttimers. Get pregnancy test to be sure, you can make it after few days it should be cheap and easy. I know it is scary but it is always better to know for sure. There are drugs that have more "aborting power" than typical Plan B pills, and you can use it later with gynecologist prescription, but time is of the essence.
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So I'm looking to buy another motorcycle and I saw this post on Craigslist for a Yamaha R1 2008. The ad seems too good to be true. I sent her a text and she sent me an email back:
Hello,
My name is Jane doe, and I'm emailing you about 2008 Yamaha YZF R1 with an gasoline engine, manual transmission and only 33,750k miles. Never had or need any paint/body work done, garaged keep always, without any mechanical problems, tires and wheels are in great shape as well, electric is working perfectly. The Engine Size (cc): 1,000, runs very good and the manual transmission shifts perfectly. Has a clean and clear US title in my name and there are no liens or loans on it. This bike was used by my husband who died 4 month ago. The price was reduced at $1.500 because I'm in a hurry to find a buyer. I need to sell it before the 20 of the next month, when I will be leaving on military duty with my medical team out of the country for a year and do not want to store it. Hate to sell it but its not worth keeping insurance and paying storage fees for a year. If you interested i can send you more pics.
Thanks,
Jane Doe
Does this seem like a scam or something fake?
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>>18609332
ask her if you can meet and see the bike first hand. Sometimes the too good to be true deals are real, you'd be surprised. She might try pushing for a bank transfer as a deposit in which case its fake. Just try meeting with her asap. If you dont know stuff about bikes then bring a buddy who does.
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>>18609332
https://www.craigslist.org/about/scams
if she refuses to let you see the bike in person, or meet you in person it's a scam. if she asks you to bring money when you go to meet her it's a scam and you're probably going to get jumped.
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i'm not sure her husband died four months ago and she's going straight back into military duty
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How do I convince my long distance girlfriend to move out of state to be with me? We both love eachother and plan on being together forever but she doesn't want to move too far away from where she is because she doesn't want her kids to not be able to see their dad. He is kind of a piece of shit but I'm not trying to deny them either, but I do believe having a positive male role model (myself) is way more important than being close to their biological father. I haven't brought any of this up to her yet, we've only talked about how she would already be here if it weren't for the kids and I can't move for another year and a half due to being in the military. We both can wait but being apart is so difficult.
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I should add I'm willing to pay to fly the kids or the dad to see eachother occasionally if I have to.
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>>18609326
Step back and analyze if you're really making a good decision to enter a relationship with someone who decided to have kids with a scumbag, or if you actually know the person you're in a "long distance relationship" with.
you might find that your little soldier is doing the thinking and "feelings" for you.
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>>18609337
I've thought about all that and I understand her past and accept it, it's not an issue.>>18609337
Hey I need some /adv/ice
>be chatting with this girl
>she asks me questions, weve been talking for 5 days
>we talk about the secret and the universe and stuff
>she mentions as a joke she is trying to find a partner
>she tells me she wants to see a film, links me trailer
>main characters in movie look alike to us
>continue chatting for a bit more and I stop conversation so I dont seem needy
The girl is really growing on me, but Ive been told she has had trouble in the past with relationships
Should I try and date her or should I continue chatting with her until I see a signal? I cant tell if shes just jolly and fun or if shes interested in me
She is very into the "ask the universe for something and it will provide"
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Why not lol
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>>18609325
I think it would be safe but I dont want to fuck up
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It seems pretty clear that she likes you, Anon. Ask her out, maybe to see that movie. Netflix & Chill, I guess?
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I'm always fixing for a fight /adv/. I always think someone is out to screw me, and every interaction I do is fake nice, because underneath the veneer I'm just waiting, WAITING, for the other party to try to scam me out of money or something. In fact it seems like every few interactions where things could go wrong (somebody made an error that does not fall in my favor) I go nuclear on the other party. I left my last job like this (I was quitting and had another lined up, but something went wrong with a travel expense and I basically told a webex with nearly 200 people how screwed up and scummy I felt the company was), I threatened legal action against my apartment (they double charged me rent, easy enough to take off), and I disowned my brother (he was always using me, and after I tried to visit him and his new wife (eloped) after paying her plane ticket (because I wanted to do something nice for them) he basically told me I wasn't welcome)
anyway, how can I get into a fight with someone without getting too hurt physically, legally, or financially? need ideas because I have 33 years of pent up aggression from abuse and other various bullshit that I need to take out on someone. I prefer not physical fights because I tend to lose those (weak fat female) but is there some way I can find someone to basically cut down verbally, like to really, push them to the brink of suicide? I'm a terrible person but I just don't care anymore, I need this
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>>18609314
8ch dot net slash leftypol
eviscerate all the retards you want there
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Sounds kinky af.
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>>18609480
you think people would pay for that kinda thing? cause I hate my job as a software engineer right now. They don't have me doing software or engineering. I'm paid 7.5K a month plus bonuses for doing NOTHING, I don't understand large companies, don't they want to get their money's worth?
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Any tips/advice on how to better my mood?
I've been very depressed lately, and have been trying to fight it with weightlighting, good food (I cooked myself some bell sprouts & chicken earlier), yoga, etc. I still feel like shit - the only things on my mind are how broke I am, wanting to move out to a new place, or killing myself. It has gotten to a point where I can't even seem to sit down and enjoy a movie/play a videogame anymore.
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You need to remove the reason why you are in this mood in the first place, not trying to avoid your problems.
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>>18609281
Ok, well as valiant as your efforts may be, you need to be fully aware of the fact that weight lifting and good food is not the cure for clinical depression and suicidal ideation. Clinical depression is a chemical imbalance in your brain that requires a lot more than lifestyle changes to address. If you can't enjoy every day activities and constantly think about killing yourself than this issue is much much bigger than just being in a bad mood and you need to start treating it with the severity it warrants. Get professional help, OP. There is no home remedy for psychiatric disorders.
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>>18609281
Anon why the fuck are you eating bell sprouts
I just got out to walk, like every day, thinking I would make a nice afternoon.
On my way I come across that very old friend from high school which who I cut contact with a long time ago(for no particular reason).
I should maybe add that I'm a huge fuck up, not going to say much on this, but basically I'm a typical /r9k/ fellow.
You should have seen the contrast there, I haven't seen or talked to him for about 7 years.
In all this time, he has grown to become a much better man physically and socially, and I have changed only for the worst.
He probably didn't recognize me but I recognized him, it was so overwhelming I couldn't even bring myself to go talk to him, we simply weren't the same anymore and in the state I am now, to be rejected by what used to be my only friend would certainly destroy me.
Deep inside I really wanted to go talk to him but I was so afraid of his reaction.
I could always contact him through facebook, I already did before but he never answered back, but I think it is because he never really used facebook.
So I could still insist by contacting his relatives or other friends we had in HS.
But really I don't know...
What do you think I should do?
Is it a good idea to make contact with highschool friends?
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>>18609270
Associating with good people is a very beneficial step for your own improvement. If he is kind and a good person, he will be patient and understanding with your situation. The worse that can happen is that he says "no". Otherwise I see only benefit for you.
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>>18609270
I wouldn't care if my best friend from 7 years ago would walk past me, that is way too much in the past.
I am even the kind of guy who sees someone from a year ago and thinks that the other person still feels the same way even though most people are acting mad that i did not care much for keeping contact.
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>>18609280
What are you trying to say exactly?
>>18609274
And then how r I rttgo about it?
Is it also good idea to contact his relatives to reach him?