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How do I convince my long distance girlfriend to move out of state to be with me? We both love eachother and plan on being together forever but she doesn't want to move too far away from where she is because she doesn't want her kids to not be able to see their dad. He is kind of a piece of shit but I'm not trying to deny them either, but I do believe having a positive male role model (myself) is way more important than being close to their biological father. I haven't brought any of this up to her yet, we've only talked about how she would already be here if it weren't for the kids and I can't move for another year and a half due to being in the military. We both can wait but being apart is so difficult.
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I should add I'm willing to pay to fly the kids or the dad to see eachother occasionally if I have to.
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>>18609326
Step back and analyze if you're really making a good decision to enter a relationship with someone who decided to have kids with a scumbag, or if you actually know the person you're in a "long distance relationship" with.
you might find that your little soldier is doing the thinking and "feelings" for you.
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>>18609337
I've thought about all that and I understand her past and accept it, it's not an issue.>>18609337
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Also we've spent a 4-5 days together 4 different times in the past 3 months so it's not like we never see eachother or I don't know her, and I first met her in real life.
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>>18609326
If you have no plans to end the long distance at some point then being in an LDR is pointless.
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>>18609415
We plan on moving together when my enlistment is up, I would just like it to be sooner than that.
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