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I don't think anyone can be as romantic as me. I love the idea of being in love so much. My favorite movie is "the note book". I wish I could control my feeling a bit more but IDK how. I mean isn't love making better then just ducking? I'm so confused now.
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You're only romantic because you never had a relationship. Once you do and start dealing with the quagmires and emotional minefields of love you'll be less romantic. You'll learn depending on another person is risky.
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>>18610272
>The Notebook
>Not A Walk To Remember
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>>18610299
Me before you is the name of the movie of the pic I posted but I have seed a walk to remember and I have been in a relationship, but I just love , love is that to corny. I guess I just want to know if guys like this in a girl

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>buy iphone 7
>breaks, have insurance
>get new one
>setting it up
>try to do icloud backup
>ok, sending verification code to phone which is literally bricked.com
>no other possible way to receive this verification code (itunes, email, other phone number)
What do?
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>>18610247
Apple certified technician here. You call them and setup Account Recovery. Takes up to 3 days.
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Yeah just call them and follow his directions I work for them.

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financial advice
business entrepreneur advice

ask a white collar criminal anything
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don't end your life over your girlfriend anon, instead seek to develop personal meaningful wealth (REAL CASH)

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Okay so I was trying to explain to sister (a normie) about ironic memes and she said "how are memes ironic, you don't even know what ironic means". And so I said I know what ironic I'm talking about the second definition. Like you know, unironicly listening to vaporwave. Or like those super low quality ear rape videos. You get me? Well so she said "just because a lot of people on the internet call it ironic doesn't mean they're using the word correctly" but she doesn't understand that there's two fucking definitions. Anyways, she thinks nobody even says "ironic memes" and "if they do then they're using it wrong". What do you guys think? Halp.
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>>18610232
Fuck off
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>>18610232
Why do you need to solve this now? What it changes if they are ironic or not? Why do you need to protect your ego?

Don't make your life harder than it needs to be. Have some perspective.

Do a quick search and if you don't find it admit that it might not be so wildly popular as you thought.
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But she's not wrong, ironic has lost all meaning on this shit site and is essentially a buzzword at this point.

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A Friend and I are expecting two girls to come over our apartment tomorrow to smoke some weed and chill. We have work experience with one of the girls, but she is bringing her friend along. WE believe a four some is very possible because these girls are very interested in us and seem to want to be around us a lot. WE have no idea what to expect so we are going with the flow. Just looking for advice on the situation, maybe someone has had similar experience.
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If you have experience hooking up then try for at least that, but tread lightly and watch where it goes.
If you are too forward about it you could lose them both.
If you both hookup separately, try seeing if they would be cool in the same room, and then going from there
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>>18610205
Don't fantasize a foursome. The absolute best you can hope for (and it's unlikely) is pairing off and going to separate rooms.

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I'm in a position that's really difficult for me to gauge how I should proceed with the situation.

I dated a girl for about a month over the summer, but she told me that she thinks we should just be friend. The reasons being:

>She feels we won't work out on a sexual level, as we're both "a little different in that regard"
(She basically means that she's really into kinky shit and being dominated in bed, and I'm sexually inexperienced and currently experiencing a flatline due to nofap, which has basically killed my sex drive for the time being)

>She also feels that the distance will just hinder the relationship, her new job and me starting community college will make it very difficult
(She lives about a 2 hour drive away, so our busy schedules coupled with the difference would hinder things)

I perfectly understand both of these reasons for ending things. She also told me:

>"Maybe in the future at the right time when we're both ready we can try things again (only if you want to, of course). But right now I think that things will go down in a negative way.

I don't know if she's being genuine here or not.
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>>18610178

She told me three times throughout the course of our breakup messages that she wants me in her life as a friend. She said she'd understand if I needed space and time or if I never wanted to talk to her again, although it would make her sad.

So I'm at a weird position right now. Since the breakup, she left across the country for 2 weeks for her job training. About 3 days in, she messaged me on snapchat and apologize for us not talking, and said she was busy. We occasionally would correspond, and she would ask be how things were going.

But since she's back home now, she has only really reached out to me once. Basically just a "What's up?" type message on snapchat. She hasn't messaged me on steam or asked if I wanted to play any games or talk on discord, which is something she usually did every day when we were together and even a bit before we dated. She's still online in the evenings after work, but she usually isn't doing anything.

Keep in mind, in 90% of our interactions, she reached out to me first. I would rarely message her first to see if she wanted to do anything. I just generally have an aversion to doing this, as I feel people might be busy. She has also asked me why I never message her first, and told me that she's sometimes uncertain about doing it first. She generally has history of not reaching out to people or having long hiatuses from talking.

My question is, what could this silence mean? Is she genuinely not interested in being friends? Or could it be her wanting space? Or perhaps being uncertain of messaging me first? Am I reading too far into the situation?

Let me know if there's anything that needs to be clarified.
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>>18610181
bump
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>>18610251
bump

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I don't know if this is the right place to ask this, but I'm in Thailand at the moment and I am considering getting an erotic massage. Do any of you have any experience with this sort of thing? Is it worth the $60?
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>>18610151
Whatever floats your boat.
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don't do it, you'll feel empty inside afterwards, especially if you're a virgin.

you can also catch diseases even with a condom.

that happened to me and i ended up giving a parasite to my gf a year later because i had no symptoms lol.
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>>18610202
Not a virgin, but only had sex a few times. But alright, I won't do it. Thanks.

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Hey adv I wanna try making music but I get stopped up at the writing lyrics part like I know what I want to make the song about but I can't put it to words
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>>18610144
Just write the words as they come to mind and then arrange them later.
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read the book "my shitty first draft"
make the lyrics for your song in a shitty first draft manner

I do it all the time because no one crafts a masterpiece on their first attempt. Do you realize how long it takes most bands to make an album? Making lasting, valuable music takes time and patience.
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>>18610144
Fuck lyrics. If you want to make music, make music. Go full bore instruMental, mah nigga.

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How do you start a convo with a chick you don't know yet. In irl and/or the dm's
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My bro didn't know how to make the first move and I don't know how to help.
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Fuck it up enough times until you figure out how to do it correctly. It's the only way to actually learn anything.
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>>18610168
Thanks bro

Am I wrong for not wanting help from my friends and family for my mental problems? I've lived the typical beta life and have come out damaged. I've tried to move past it but now I feel sick and lost in time while everyone else moves on and loses their relation to me. The memories that plague my mind everyone else sees as miniscule. They tell me they're here to listen, but they all think my problems are stupid. That's the awesome thing about being a beta male.

I don't know what to do. I feel very worn out, physically and mentally. But I don't want to face what my life looks like to others. I don't want people coddling me back to normal. I just wish I could go somewhere and come back a strong person. But I guess that won't be happening
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>>18610126
Not with that attitude it won't, here's the thing about having supportive people around you, yes it's nice and all but nobody will ever understand your problems better than you because you experience them firsthand. As such nobody can solve your problems as effectively as yourself so if you're worried about the impact or lack of thereof that those around you may have on your attempts to better yourself then it's time you stop relying on them and focus more on exploring your own solutions. What people think of your doesn't matter and absolutely should never stall your progressions in life.

It sounds like what you need to do is get back in touch with your own self and try to pinpoint exaclty what you didn't like before. Then try to find A way to preoccupy yourself so you don't focus on or revert back to your former lifestyle. If you ask yourself what's wrong with me by looking through the eyes of others you'll never find out.
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>>18610126
>Got mental/emotional problems
>Can't fix them myself
>Don't want to ask for help.

Does that really sound logical to you?

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I've(31m) known my significant other(28f) for around eight years now. We dated for three years, separated for five years (during the separation she had a kid with someone else who is now three) and have reconnected and been dating since February. We've been getting along great and I've come to tolerate her son. I play with him and we get along, but I feel no connection to him, but I love his mother and have never felt that about anyone else. About a month ago, my girlfriend calls me and tells me she is pregnant. She said she forgot to take her birth control pills. I'm a little freaked out and state all the reasons why I'd be a bad parent and I'm not ready. We live two hours away from each other, I'm heavily in debt, I have a severe sleeping disorder(delayed sleep phase syndrome), and I've never had much interest in having a kid. I've always valued my sleep due to my sleeping issues and I know how terrible it can be with a newborn. At first she said she wanted to keep it and I said I would respect her decision and move to her small town. I also asked her to marry me. She said yes. I've gotten used to the idea of having a child and know this will probably be my only chance at my age, but apparently my complaining at the very beginning got to her and she wants an abortion now. She thinks I will be a bad father due to my sleep issues and the fact we will have to work full time. I've never really wanted a child but I feel I might regret it if she goes ahead with it and I'll never know what it's like. I could probably talk her into it one way or the other. Not sure what to do.
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>>18610103
>she had a kid with someone else who is now three

Wow! That's really young to have a kid.
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>>18610103
>>18610877
Your wife to be is a sick pedophile who will surely burn in hell.

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what kind of ereader should I get boyos? I am looking to spend about $50 for a new or used decent one.
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I'll try to keep it short and sweet. Ex cheated, was generally terrible gf, convinced my cousin I'm an asshole, and I'm positive she's convincing others too. We have mutual friends, girls I hung out with before they hung out with her, all are acting weird about talking to me now. I think it's no coincidence. One of her old close friends is someone I see regularly, she's sucked my dick etc etc etc and ex knows. Ex has lied to her saying we used to have sex all time to make the close friend feel bad because we haven't had sex yet. Close friend also says one of the people she knows at ex's job says that she talks shit about me all the time (We're about a year removed from this relationship). I HIGHLY suspect she's talking trash to this huge friend group of women ruining my reputation with them, some of them being my good friends, or were. I wouldn't doubt she's saying I raped her or some shit. One of the girls in the group recently unmatched me on tinder (she's matched twice with me now) and didn't match again when I matched her. I suspect it's because of this shit talking from my ex.

The girl has no morals. What do I do? The only friends of hers that like me are her closest, which are also the people who probably know her bullshit the best. How do I combat this? And bonus question, what is the likelihood this "big group of female buddies" will splinter and fail? Something tells me highly likely as I've heard that female friendships don't tend to last, is this correct? I'm sure the fuck hoping so, because my cunt of an ex is ruining shit for me.
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BUMPEROO
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>>18610097
Hey, man, you picked her. Now you have to deal with the consequences of that. You can't stop her from talking, unless she is using slander to cost you money. Also, if your friends and family can be convinced that you were so evil just on her say-so, you obviously aren't that good of a person to begin with, so I would work on changing that.

Shy of that, there's no advice to give.
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>>18610482
I really left out details but I PROMISE I'm not the villain in this situation
>she cheats
>With my best friend who didn't know we were seeing each other
>They both tell me after she lets him know about me
>I get mad
>Understandably
>tell her she's a liar, didn't even call her a slut or anything, just that's she's a liar and what she did was wrong
>My cousin comes to me talking a bunch of shit about how I don't deserve her
>Mind you we weren't close but still

>Also if your friends and family can be convinced I'm evil
No, not evil, just a jerk, possibly a rapist. Note that I said those closest to her have no trouble speaking with me and interacting with me, as they know she's full of shit. Also, I think she's a pretty good liar, if you had read the post you'd probably notice that. She convinced her friend that I'm seeing that we were having sex when we weren't. And she only said that to get under her friend's skin.

The one friend I didn't talk to would sing my praises constantly to my face and we were very close, said I was a great person. This was before they knew each other. Now she doesn't talk to me.

My point is, I'm not perfect but I'm not in the wrong here. Am I a saint? Hardly, but I don't think that being a shitty person is even necessary for a girl like this to convince people I'm one. She's talking a bunch of shit and I hate it.

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Former COO of a decently successful startup. Was let go along with almost everyone for bullshit reasons that don't really matter. Company still exists but has gone to shit. They don't know I have a backdoor into the files if I want. Years worth of personal work and data that I compiled. I want them back. This company betrayed me. I doubt they'd notice anything out of the ordinary. They'd still have everything, I'd just make a copy for myself. Steps to make sure I'm not found out? Use different computer on a proxy from a distant location? At a time when no tech people are likely monitoring? There are only 5 of them, and they aren't always on. Any other advice on how to do this with a clean getaway?
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Open wifi, bonus points if they haven't proxied the cunt and allows the use of Onionweb. Once you have the files, throw them on a USB and micronuke your storage cards but desu if you are using a public network that shouldn't be necessary.

P.S Wear a hat while you do this, no reason to get your face on cams just in case they DO notice.

Help a baller-ina out!
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get some chinese food, yummo

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