So my girlfriend thinks she may have herpes. She thinks she got it from me. I have never had a herpes outbreak. Is it possible I gave it to her without ever having symptoms?
it is possible to carry and be asymptomatic
if your girlfriend has it you should get tested anyway, most cities have free or cheap testing services
>>18655812
We're getting tested tomorrow. How do I stop feeling so guilty. I literally had unprotected sex once for five minutes before her.
>>18655824
in that case its pretty unlikely that she got it from you, hell she might not even have it and might be overreacting to some other kind of rash
but even if she does have it and it came from you, there's no way you could have known, that stuff just happens
also herpes really isnt the end of the world man, sure it's a bit of a pain
i wanna change my current shitty minimum wage job for another shitty minimum wage job with a shorter commute
i dont want to quit my current job unless i have something for sure lined up, but i also dont know if whatever shitty new job i get will be ok with me not starting for 2 weeks after i put in my notice
does anybody know if theyll still take me on if i have that delay or theyll just take the other first person who applies instead?
>>18655808
It of course depends somewhat on the specific person who will be hiring you. Most large companies (fast food, retail chains, etc.) don't have an issue with it. As someone who has hired under those circumstances, it can be a bit troublesome in the moment but does bode well for the prospective employee (it shows they give a shit, which is hard to find).
Give it a try. Worst case scenario you get stuck with the choice between turning down a job offer or leaving your current employer in the lurch. That's more choices than you have now.
>>18655808
if you can't figure out how to transition between shitty minimum wage jobs.... then maybe you are not qualified to get another job
ditto...
if you can't figure out how to transition between shitty minimum wage jobs.... then maybe you are not qualified to get another job
Hey /adv/ I need a little decorating help. I'm moving out in 12 months and getting my own place I have a vague idea of what I want it to look like but I need a little help. I just need someone to steer me in the right direction of what to buy and all that stuff. I'm trying to create a very comfy / classy aesthetic. the bedroom area is my main concern right now. thanks for any help.
>>18655791
Neon Signs
Hidden Lighting
Posters with aesthetic pics
Sound reactive lights would be cool, i've made mine with arduino
It depends on what budget you are on.
>>18655861
And age.
>>18655861
>>18655868
>>18655861
I was thinking neon lights too. I'm 22 and budget isnt really a problem. Do you think getting busts of certain roman figures would look tacky?
So my girlfriend took a bite from a dispensary edible and she was feeling good in the beginning, and started feeling worse and worse and eventually puked, I started to walk her to my car, she puked again in a trash can, we finally got to my car and she puked again outside it. She is currently asleep in shotgun & I don't want to wake her, any advice on what the next step is?
>>18655787
Her body is naturally getting rid of the poisons by puking.
You should make sure she has liquids to drink like water or gatorade for the electrolytes.
Puking hurts so make sure she's got something to drink on hand at all times.
I don't condone drug use but be careful where you get them if you plan to do this again.
>>18655787
She greened out. Super easy to do with newbies and edibles especially. If she's sleeping, let her sleep. When she wakes up, try and get her hydrated and deal with a headache if there is one. She'll bounce back.
>>18655793
>>18655790
Thank both of you a lot I used to smoke weed but I only used to smoke it and the most it could really do is fall asleep or get paranoid. I never messed with edibles because it's hard to know how much is in it. Also from second poster how long do you predict it will be? It's 11:19 pm and my girlfriend lives in the dorms and I don't want the RAs to see her in this state
Why is male lust considered superficial while woman's attraction is considered "deeper"?
Men are simply more sexual and visual than females. You can't really explain to a woman how absurdly strongly men feel when they see a sexually attractive female, just like how men don't understand why woman find certain behaviors so incredibly hot. Yet for some reason the latter is considered more acceptable than the former, even if both are just as strong.
Both sexes can lust for one another- that's usually a shallow love based on superficial things. These things are subject to change over time and objectively aren't the things that make a relationship worthwhile.
Feeling a deeper attraction towards someone implies you're attracted to who they are, their personality, which imo matters more than lust. That's not to say lust isn't important, they both matter.
>>18655811
Forgot to add: both genders feel deeper attraction too. Love isn't gender-exclusive.
>>18655811
Both sexes can but male lust is significantly stronger than female lust.
And at the end of the day both attractions are based on who we think will make a good partner to have good children with. You can't really imply any moral high ground for either. Women want a kind and big man who will be kind to them and children, men want an attractive, caring woman who will rear their children.
so I broke up with my gf of 3 years. I've been single for 2 months. I met this girl. we didn't fuck but we both crashed at a friends and shared a bed. We've messaged each other back and forth a bit. Pretty sure I could fuck this girl. but. I don't really want to jump back into a relationship / that comfort zone of a new girl / relationship.
anyone relate to this or have any advice? I want to have sex. but I kinda want a year of just being single and not even thinking of a relationship. I need sometime outside of my comfort zone.
>>18655779
Talk to her about it. If you don't want to date her in a relationship context you should be up front about it. Maybe she'll like you enough to agree to a FWB type scenario while you do you.
>but what if I tell her and she doesn't want to have sex?
Don't be an asshole. What's worse, telling her you're not interested in anything but sex and her blowing you off, or you banging her a time or three before you drop that shit on her and she goes ape-shit on you for "using" her?
Save yourself the drama dude. If you don't want a relationship, don't get into one.
can any strains of weed increase your empathy with other people?
>>18655771
no... they just get you different amounts and slight variations on high, hungry, and sleepy
>>18655777
shut the fuck up you dumb nigger you're so fucking wrong
I thought the same way as you for quite a long time but no. You simply lack the introspective qualities to realize otherwise when you're high
>>18655771
I remember being home high and crying over a Michael Moore documentary about poor healthcare system in the US
Weight: 221.2
Height: 6'1
Looking to drop another 20 - 30 Lbs, Been eating healthier, specifically cut junk food (chocolate and chips and pop) from my diet and been eating more fruit and veggies this has got me down from my original weight of 241 which I was in late July, need to find motivation to workout though. My one friend said he would workout with me but both of us are always busy after and before work, and i lose mptivation if I don't do it with anyone how can i get over this.
I'm pretty bad at staying in the gym, too.
So, I just do what peaks my interest. Biking, parkour, calisthenics, gymnastics, swimming... Things that are a bit more interactive than a big concrete room filled with a bunch of sweaty people with poor hygiene.
>>18655770
20 punds in less than a month is actually not a very good sign. Most of it is probably water weight that you'll gain back just as quickly.
The best rate is no more than 1-2 pounds a week. That's fat that can stay off.
>>18655770
>>>/fit/ sticky, count calories.
https://tdeecalculator.net/
And
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.myfitnesspal.android
How can I maintain a certain state of mind? I've realised most of my negative emotions stem from my own unrealistic expectations and wants of life, which inevitably never get met. The only time anything changes is when I actively make them. I'm able to go short periods in a certain mindset but I eventually forget it. Suggestions?
>>18655766
Everytime you think outside of the mindset you want. Think about the mindset you want to be in.
Life is suffering. 2> suffering is caused by wants and desires.
Look up breathing/ calming exercises on Youtube.
>>18656003
>life is suffering
no it's not
I know this is a first world problem and nothing can be done but I can't get over the fact my penis is 5 inches erect. I am always too shy to do more then kissing and even though I want to have sex again I'm to insecure. The last and first time I had sex the girl said I was small. This really left a dent in my ego.
>>18655756
I have a 5 inch dick and I fucked a girl so hard once she came and squeezed my cock out of her pussy and just kept cumming continuously for 10 seconds or so. She looked like she was getting tased, it was fuckin' sweet.
My point is, size queens exist, and they'll always tell you you're small, but anything more than 4 inches or so is enough to please a woman if you know how to use your hands and mouth as well. You should be doing that anyway even if you're well endowed, there's no excuse for sucking at sex.
skill > size every time.
>>18655761
How do I get better at sex then?
>>18655756
it's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean
Im 6' 220 lbs kinda chub but kinda muscle i want to shed about 25 lbs how would I do so and what would give me motivation. I lose interest if no one does a workout with me how can I change this?
(Pic kinda Related Late when I'm writing this)
>>18655732
>kinda chub
You're literally borderline obese. That's not 'kinda chub'
>>18655734
Your not wrong but muscle ways more than fat, i got a descent chest and arms but gut kills it
I need help settling an old debate on what was creepier: a 17 year old guy making out with a 14 year old girl that's still technically in middle school, or a 19 year old guy getting into a relationship and having sex with a 14 year old girl that's a freshman in high school.
Neither are on the level, but I feel like this answer is clear. This happened 10 years ago, btw, so now all parties involved are adults.
19 year old with high school 14. How the fuck is this even a question? You don't fucking magically become maturer because you're in high school
>>18655730
i don't know where you're from but that second one is statutory in most places so i think that's your answer. more years apart = creepier in almost all cases. use that as a general rule of thumb.
>>18655731
This.
Is this a acceptable amount of pre applied paste, or is it too little?
>>18655721
holy fuck why did you put that much fucking paste on?
>>18655750
Its the pre-applied stuff. Its super thin
>>18655721
That's fucking shiet, mate. I'd clean all that crap off and put your own paste on.
After working at Sams Club and keeping to myself while doing my job correctly at a steady pace yet still get wrote up for dumb shit. Meanwhile the hood monkeys are talking about football/basketball for 20 mins in the back and nothing is done. I just can't find it in me to put 100% into any job after that anymore. I usually start off by doing things by the book but after about a month I start to half-ass literally everything. My current job is easy af but tedious as hell while only being a 12 minute drive from home. However my older job that I am still working at just bumped me up to 12.50 an hour. However that job mostly requires me to drive 20 - 30 mins across the city so I get fucked on gas.
Basically I am never late but never early. I always clock in at the exact time I am scheduled. I never work extra and try to give hours to other associates if I want a day off. I always try and do as least work as possible and take the easiest way out. I've technically been babied my entire life so I have never felt the NEED or that JUST DO IT mentality to work my ass off at a job I hate.
Could I get some advice?
>>18655720
Embrace that mentality, it's better that way. Except when your boss is watching you, work at a normal pace, less stress
>>18655726
I mean don't get me wrong. I am a very hard worker when I feel that it is worth putting in the effort and feel my work is appreciated. Like for example when I worked at Sams Club and broke down the pallets. If I really wanted to I could finish 14 ~ 16 pallets + other random shit in 3.5 hours. And the only reason I ever busted my ass doing that was because I was scheduled to leave at 10am and I hate staying past my scheduled time.
I'm feeling a powerful desire to start a second relationship to the one I've been in for a year and a half. The thought I'd obsessing me. I would hate it if my girlfriend was having the same thoughts behind my back. I love her and want to be with her, but something inside me wants more for myself. I know this is impossible, so how do I get these thoughts out of my mind?
*The thought is obsessing me*
>>18655702
The thought is ID obsessing me ;D